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hi im lauren. im 15 & ive had experience with lots of stuff.. so i can answer pretty much any kind of question =]
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i have 1 random question
when there are 2 people on a date to a movie theater and they are sitting down in chairs, well how are you supposed to 'cuddle' like i know he puts his arm around you but what is the girl supposed to do if she's sitting down?
i'm confused??
you can..
hold his hand.
put your head on his shoulder/chest.
put your hand on his leg.
lately i've been gaining weight.
last year i was 108 pounds. this year i'm 117. did i gain too much weight? (i play soccer all year long)
also if im 13 and 5`3 and weigh 117 pounds, would you consider me chubby? just tell me the truth and dont judge it on BMI. i don't look chubby but damn, i used to be soo skinny.
what can i do besides running/jogging to lose weight? I want to have a flatter stomach if possible. and what are good foods to eat?
yeah thats completely normal. it happened to me around that time too. you usually gain a lot of weight the year that you get your period. so you probably got it this year or youre going to get it. just try really hard to eat healthy. do lots of crunches to keep your stomach flat.
I forget what the flavors were.. but their colors are YELLOW, ORANGE, PINK, OR RED. pick any one of those 4 colors. please dont say something else like "green" because that wont help me at all.. its for this project i have to do in school. thanks for helping! ♥
PINK. definetly.
then orange is good too.
yellow is okay.
i hate red.
I hooked up with this kid(joe) who likes me last friday. On saturday, I hooked up with this other kid, (tom). Well now, Joe's friend keeps telling me Joe is going to ask me out and he really likes me. I don't like him though and I don't want to go out with him, especcially since summer is soon. Should I tell Joe I don't want to go out with him cause it's almost summer or because I hooked up with someone else and I don't want to hurt him cause of it? (that is really the truth)
it sounds like you just wanna be free and single in the summer. and thats understandable. just tell him hes a great guy, but you just dont want a boyfriend right now.
Ok well I've been dating this kid for a couple weeks now and heres the problem. When I'm around him I love being with him and when I talk to him I never want to stop. But then we're apart I start having doubts and I question how much I really like him. This is my first real boyfriend and I don't know if doubts like these are normal or what. Please help!
dont listen to the person below me. youre not getting too clingy. you are just having doubts. that is completely normal. ive been going out with my boyfriend for almost a year.. and i know i have doubts sometimes. and ive talked to him about it too and he said he feels the same way sometimes when he hasnt seen me for awhile. and thats OKAY. if you love him when youre around him and you love talking to him then try talking to him on the phone more at night or something. or text him. you definetly like him.
I recently heard antiperspirants can cause cancer, is this true? I NEED to wear antiperspirant or I have really, really bad sweat stains under my arms, which also smells. I don't want cancer, but I don't want to stop using antiperspirant.
okay yes most deoderants cause cancer except the organic ones.. which mostly dont work so i wouldnt even bother trying that. so theres nothing you can really do about that. theres probably a few kinds that dont have the aluminum stuff in it. check the labels.
what if you made out with a guy in party and when you were drunk is that slutty or what? this is your second or third time
whatever its not that big of a deal.
I'm working at under a doctor this summer for an internship..Dr. Ana Johnson (I changed her name). Anyway, when I email her, I refer to her as "Dr. Johnson," but she emails me back and ends the email with "Thanks, Ana." Also, I've only met her once (I finally start working with her Wednesday)...The first time I met her, she introduced herself as "Ana." Would it be disrespectful to call her Ana since she refers to herself as that..? Does this mean she wants me to call her by her first name..should I ask her what she prefers me to call her or would that be rude?
i would just call her Dr. Johnson just to show respect. if she tells you to call her Ana then do that.
Well,.. kissing sucks.
Really, why wasn't I warned? I have waited my whole life for that moment, I have been nervous and excited and spent so many classes ignoring the teacher and dreaming about it - and it sucks. Not because he was a bad kisser, just cause.. well its nothing special. It's SO OVERRATED! Like, really, am I the only one who feels this way? In movies it looks amazing - time stands still, sparks fly, it's impossible to breathe - but noooo. Not at all.
Why'd I waste so long waiting for that kiss? I turned down lots of great guys cause I wanted my first kiss to be REALLY SPECIAL. But itwasn't. I'm so dissapointed.
Does it get better? Or is it really not that great and people just make it sound great cause they're in love?
ok well. your first time probably wasnt that good because you were a beginner and the guy might have been to. you might have been nervous and not relaxed enough to really enjoy it. basically its way better if you are really in love with the person because you just want to be close to them. maybe you just need to find a special person to do it with.
would you go out with a guy whos hot, nice and cool but he has a F or D in his classes?
im not saying grades dont matter, but they shouldnt be the deciding factor for if you should go out with this guy or not. if hes nice and you like him then go for it!
okay i met this guy 2 or 3 weeks ago when i was waiting for my friend ouside in class me and his eyes met and he started saying hi to me and introduce himself and ever since we started talking and hanging out and stuff, i kinda like him and we pretty much flirt with each other and we always do a hand shake for like 5-10 minutes and stuff we also hold hands while we're doing our "handshake" we also hug a lot and when im with my friends he tells me to stay with him. also he alwats borrows my wristband i always wear. my friend says we seem like a couple do you think he likes me or what?
yeah he probably does like you. if you like him back make sure he knows it. otherwise you might miss out on a great relationship. its happened to me a bunch of times before.. and believe me it sucks. so make it clear that you like him.
My ex got a summer job at the same camp I'm working at. Last week was our first week working together and he kept flirting and said to me "you know you want me back" right in front of other counselors. He's been calling me at night but I've been avoiding his calls until I figure out what to do. I like him so much. We were together eight months and we broke up in March. We met at this camp last summer. He knows I go out with someone else now and he keeps asking me what he can do to make me like him as much as I like my current boyfriend. So far I've just smiled and gone on about my work. The guy I go out with now is great!!!! Almost too good to be true. We don't argue and he treats me like a princess. Life with my ex was drama filled. My current boyfriend knows we are working together and he has no problem with it. Should I stay with this guy that is wonderful? or should I follow my heart because my heart is telling me to get back with my ex? Either way the rest of the summer is going to be hard...seeing him everyday. Yesterday he started flirting with some other girl but made sure I was around to see it. It hurt so bad but I didn't let on like I cared. What should I do? How do I sort this out?
well it sounds like your boyfriend is definetly a nicer guy and it sounds like he really likes you. it is true that you shouldnt be going out with him if you have feelings for someone else, but you really have to think about this. if you broke up with him do you think your ex would take you back? or is he just leading you on to prove to himself that you really do want him back? this could be the case.. especially if you were the one that broke up with him. guys hate it when girls break up with them b.c it embarrasses them soo much. you have to think about who is the better guy for you. just make sure if you break up with your boyfriend, that he doesnt know that youre breaking up with him for your ex. maybe you should take a little break with your boyfriend (make sure your ex. knows about it) and see what happens.
is oral sex on a female dangerous?
no, not if they dont have stds or anything.
im ready to give my boyfriend oral sex but im not sure of how to START it
not really initiate it because well get heated in the moment and like laying on the couch but i dont know where to go from there....like move down and unbutton the pants...etc
ive went inside his pants while we were just making out and just grabbed it a LITTLE and sorta rubbed it up and down but even when i did that...it seemed sort of....not smooth to do it...like it wasnt easy to glide and slide my hand up and down....
sort of stiff with the skin on his penis...
i just need a little quick [not all detailey and specific] way of doing it...you dont need to give me the process of doing it cause i know that..just how to start it all off...
thanks!
maybe you should give him a handjob first so you can like get used to touching it and the motion of doing it and everything. then from there its pretty easy.. just have him like lay on his back. then just unzip his pants and do it. you dont have to be nervous. i doubt he will stop you. guys like that stuff. if youre nervous about if youre doing it right then ask him if it feels good.
Tonight i had sex for the second time.
We used a condom and i saw the sperm in the condom after we finished and there were no holes, then we did it again with a new condom but he didn't finish off because we didnt have enough time.My cherry popped this time but it barely bled at all and im just wondering , the chances of me being pregnant are really low right?
Thank you !
theres like a less than 1% chance that you are pregnant. but maybe you should use birth control just to be safe.
Can anyone give me good ideas to do instead of sex? Like foreplay sort of.. I don’t want to have sex with my boyfriend for a long time, and until then I want to fool around. I just don’t want to have intercourse. So, any ideas would be great.
- make out.
- feel up.
- handjob.
- blowjob.
- he can finger you.
idk just experiment with that stuff. theres lots of fun ways to make out. and you can make out while doing other stuff.
have fun.
xoxo
okay so i was wiv my boyf the other day and we had just finished watchin a film and we were in his bed and we started making out and i hadnt ever given him one before but i wanted to gie him a handjob..and so we were makng out and I just didnt know how to start it off...I put my hand down there..but like on top of his pants...cause I didnt really know what I was doing ad was really nervous and lol i could feel that he was hard...but i didnt really know what to do..i tried taking his hand and putting it on top of mine in attemp to have him show me what to do but he just put his arm back around me...i dont know what to do!!I know the basics of lke how to give him a handjob but i just dont know how to build up the courage to actually do it!!I mean i was rubbing him down there and i knew he was hard but it was all on top of his trackie pants!!help!!
haha youre doing fine. just keep doing it over his pants for a little while. then maybe do it over just his boxers next time.. then maybe stick your hand down his pants and just touch like around it.. then eventually touch it.. and by then he will probably be asking you to do it. or if not because hes too shy/doesnt want to pressure you/whatever then you can just do it on your own. dont worry about it so much. either way he will like it. and dont be nervous about doing something wrong if it doesnt feel right to him then he will probably guide your hand or something. or while youre doing it ask him if it feels good.
xoxo good luck
any ways to get rid of a hickey...!!! that works!
its not like a really bad hickey..its not black..just dots
just use cover up.. it will go away in a few days
ok um when im giving my boyf a handjob do i just slip my hand down his pants and do it there or do i actually have to take it out?..hehe i know this s a weird question im sorry:P
it doesnt really matter but its easier to take it out
everytime i go to dance, everyone comes up and tells me my hair is soaking wet and frizzy beyond belief....
how do i avoid this or what are simple remedies i can do when this happens?
maybe you could wear your hair up and that way it wont be very noticable if it gets frizzy or wet.