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You see my best friend has this boy bofreind right. And to me she is spending way more time with him then me. Thats the only person she talks about to. I have been her best friend since the 4th grade he just been her bf for a couple of months. What should I do?

try talking to her, if she doesnt notice what she is doing is wrong and she keeps it up, shell regret it later on when she doesnt have a best friend nor does she have a boy friend

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Ok...so you know how you get a little alert after you've asked a question and someone has answered it (that little number by 'your questions')? I keep getting that, and half the time no new answers are on my question. What's up with that?
I also saw my question on the question pages and it says I have nine answers, but when I click on it and count the answers it, I only have 4.

I just asked the same thing...I've noticed it as well..someone said that there is something wrong it the code of some sort and they will fix it A.S.A.P. or whatever.

hey i had my period and i dont wanna tell my mom. but how do i get the pads and tampons and stuff? and how do i explain it when i get cramps and stuff

help meeeee

ummmm i have a question..why wont u want your mom to know? every mother loves to hear how their litte girl is growin up and all.

So my best friend was having a panic attack today because her mom found out she was homosexual and liked a teacher. Her mom supposedly called her teacher and told her everything. I have done all I can to help, but the thing is that her mother didn't want her to stay at home and so she went to her grandma's, but her mother didn't want her there either. Am I supposed to let her sleep over at my house?

as a good friend u would know/do what u think is best for her

hey i have my periuod but i dont know how to use a tampon... im afraid im going to get it this weekend and im going to this club for teens. I need to wear a thong so i have to wear a tampon. But how do you use it... is it hard?? Does it hurt? what should i do..

ummm...read the box?..the directions on the side..and why do u need to wear a thong??

i have to memorize a sonnet for my english class and i am having a horrible time. i've tried making flash cards, recording it and listening to it, but nothing i'm doing seems to work. do y'all have any advice on how to memorize (if you need to see it, it's shakespeare's sonnet #148). thanks so much!!

stay after the class and ask the teacher for help on memorizing it..they may have some suggestions

Ok so i recently signed up for myspace and have been going through old yearbooks and i ran into this girl i knew in junior high (im 18/m now) so i sent her a message saying she probably doesnt remember me but i went to school with her and just wanted to say whats up. she responded saying she doesnt remember me and im at a loss for how to respond. i was thinking of saying soemthing like "ok well i cant say im not disappointed but i didnt really expect you to remember me, if you ever wana talk about how much the school sucked or anything like that feel free to message me" but i was wondering if soemthing else maybe better. should i try to job her memory? should i reply with "oh well no big deal" or is there a even better response i have yet to think off? responses asap would be best. oh and not saying that romance is the last thing on my mind in this situation but it really isnt the reason, we were fairly good friends back then and i just wanted to get back in touch with her. thanks all for your help.

i say maybe say one of the above and maybe say u were the kid in what ever class....who was -and what ever made u stand out in that class-

i know it wasnt a big help but that was my best shot, sry

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my friend and i found pictures on the floor of the 7th graders... so we drew on two of the pictures saying fat lard... but they told the principal ((being 7th graders and soo gay))... what should we do bc they have cameras in the class.....

um...not do it anymore...and confessed up that u did it?

13/f. OH MY GAWD. K so like I just have a 5 person orgy. (we usd condums) but the guy I was doing at the time has an std and he wore a condom but it broke and he spermed in me. And then I had sex with 2 other guys and rubbed my vagina on a chick. We all might be in danger. Today my vagina was bleeding! What do I do? I might be pregnant and have an std, and Im apposed to have sex again today with a different guy! Wut do I do?!?!?! help me!!

xoxo

P.S. Dont call me a slut cause im not!

1- get tested
2- a 5 person orgy??!
3- and again the next day???

wtf no offense but ur a slut

quit being a whore

(sry but its true)

this is my first time to put a tampon in and i was just wondering if i can pee while having a tampon in. please help!

I believe you can I mean there are 2 diffrent holes. One that your pee comes out and the other for your period. Just don't forget to hold the string out of the way!!

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I have been sick since last night...I ate left overs and about 3 V-day Chocolates. Well I feel as if I want to throw up and yet and I can't and I occaisionaly get some pains on my side and of stomach. My mother said I could have Appendicitas. (Spelling?) In my family Appendix, is a big deal. (My family has a history)
I have tried to google info but perhaps some of you could tell me some main things that go along with appendixcitas.

Thanks

if your able to walk i suggest goin to the doctor or havin ur mom call the doctor on a house call if the pains get worse...sorry i know not much help

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ok im really selfconsious about my boobs but recently i had mark onmy boobs and they look like strech marks and i dunno y i would have them i mean my boobs aint even that big and im not fat of anything.. wut could it b from?

ahhh..
shaiina

the marks are because ur slowly still growing though your skin isnt fully ahead of ur growing. most girls get them i think its just part of life. =P

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ive been back and forth with my mom and dad. I seem to only cause problems. im 13 and im tired of hurting people in dec i tried to commit suicide by cutting 3 of my veins and i jumped off a 3 story building i hate putting people through misery so my next idea is to run away, but are there any other options, and i have tried talking i just did but its not workin so pleaze dont say talk to your mom cuz it aint happinin and no rude comments either

go to a guidance consuler or put in in an annymous thing on your teachers desk and have her ask the class not knowing who the student is.
those are my 2 best ideas for this kinda situation.

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Happy Valentines Everyone!!
OK...well here is my question...i like this boy ok...and he is my ex but i fell for him again and all of my friends say that he flirts with me every day. I dont know what to think and what does a guy do if he likes someone? thanks a bunch...I RATE HIGH!!
__ME__

well im not quite sure every guy is different. but i found this on a site.

Flirting signs-

~*~Girls~*~

1. His snow ball hits you, (but not in the face).

2. He threw away his laser pointer after you told him
you think they promote random acts of violence.

3. After asking you to sign his year book, he wrote,
"How come we never hang out?" in yours.

4. He yelled, "Hi!, to your mom that day she
picked you up from school.

5. He blew off his buds to go see "Run Away Bride"
with you cuz you couldn't get another girl pal to
go and didn't want to go alone.

6. Forgot your gloves? You can wear his.

7. His voice gets softer (Hey, you) when ever you two talk.

8. You hung up on him. He called you back.

9. You where invited by him to a group outing.

10. He called you to talk about nothing at all.

11. He imitates your laugh. OK, you do snort sometimes.
Which makes you laugh even harder.

12. He remembers little things you mention in casual conversation.

13. He sometimes stares straight into your eyes.

okay on wensday im getting my wisdom teeth pulled!! Im getting I think 4 pulled... im so scared too.. most of the people ive talked to says it hurts alot, which im sure it does, but Im more scared about waking up and like not know where I am or something because of all the medicine they are going to give me, etc.. if anyone has ever gotten their wisdom teeth pulled, comments on it would be great.. thanks =]

ehh im agreeing with everyone here who answers any question I just say I agree with who ever and add on to there answer well here I go again. I recently just got oral surgery done on the 4th. I thought it was gonna be bad and I gotta amitt it was really scary, I didn't feel a thing I didn't even knew he was at the surgery yet I didn't feel one thing, only the needle that's it.

- they just ether give you a shot or have you breath in gas that makes you fall asleep or feel really sleep. when I got the sweet air I almost feel asleep. you dont feel a thing.
- its over in 5-10 minutes
- when you wake up, you still dont feel anything because your mouth'll be numb! you will still be sleepy, and when you try to stand, you will have wobbly legs. The doctor will help you go to the office or a little room with your parent or whoever brought you then you lay down and rest in the office. it feels like 5 minutes.
- then you go home and stuff. when the numb-ness starts to go away, it will feel really weird drinking stuff.
- make sure to get some gauze (though the saliva makes it look like it bleeds a lot when it really isnt anything)
- soon you'll be able to eat solids again (im still working my way threw the solids so far all I really had was chicken as real food.

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Can you skip your period and not be pregnant? In other words, if you miss a period, is the only explanation pregnancy?

Yeah..I think if you play a physical activity it comes less often. Talk to your mom/ sister/ aunt or an older female and ask them. Such maybe your gym teacher if she is a women or something? Get what I'm saying?

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okay in school every one calls me a slut and im not one i never had sex,or gave anyone head!! what should i do when they call me it? please help!!
i rate high

Well I say inorge that but I see MFS already told you that. People have no lives so they decided to pick on one pictular person. Such as you! They must be jealous of you of something reason or just have no lives. Just inorge them and eventually they will back away from you.

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I dont get good grades at all! I suk at skool! No kiddin bout it! Does n e one no good study habit's?

if you know u have a test in 2 weeks or so or u know ahead of time study for 30 minutes or so each night then the night before do it for about an hour.

quiet place and bright lights should also do it!

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I have a problem finding jeans that fit me. I am 5'3", and 85 lbs. I have tried many stores, but most of them don't even have any size 0's that fit me. I have to wear juniors b/c my legs are long, but most jeans are too baggy. The only place that I have occasional luck is Kohl's, but most of the time they don't even fit me. Does anyone know a good store for people with skinny, long legs? Or could I get custom made jeans cheaply (i'm guessing not). Please help me, I rate 5's!!!

if u can fit into a size thats long but fits in the waist..u can go and get them hem down at the tailer.

Okay. I dont know what I am going to do about this and I really need help. I was out in cali for christmas break and I was with my aunt and uncle, whom i lived with for a year... and when i was out there i wrote in my livejournal... And when I came back to NY i got a call form them 2 days later saying that they read the whole thing,, even the parts of when i was living with them! And i said that i hated them and everything... but it wasnt true.. iw as just mad... anyways i wrote a sofisticated e mail to them apologizing and when i got a responce back from them it said for me to never in my life contact their family ever again and that they want nothing to do with me... and I didnt mean ANYTHING i said in there... I feel violated and betrayed and hated... and I cant stand this... I love them with all of ym heart and now im not even allowed to talk to them... what do i do and how do i feel? Was i wrong?
I rate! if u help me... please do

**Lost

I agree with feverdancer03. Maybe you should explain to your parents first what all happened. People have journals to right thoughts and throw out your anger and etc. Your aunt and uncle had no right to read what you were saying. Try explaining to your parents and maybe they can help you get them back. Good Luck

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