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Hi, My name is Bailey. I am 15, and I know that is young, but I think I can offer good advice, or at least try my hardest.


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ok im 15/f. me and my bf broke up and are talking about going back out. but all of a sudden he has not been their everytime i called like i called 3 time friday.his niece was on the phone the first time so i told her i would call back so the second time the same thing happened then the 3 time she said he just left. when i write him emils and stuff he writes back and says that he wants me back and eveything but he just dont act like it. so can you guys please help me out and tell me what i should do?

It sounds like he is just really confused...Maybe you should just give him time to think.. and then sit him down, and just ask him what he really wants...It just sounds like he is confused..So give it time..
Good Luck!

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There is this guy that i like but i dont know if he likes me. We talk like evryday for at least like two hours. We are either talking on the phone, texting, or talkin on MSN. But he is always asking me if i like him. But these past like two days i have been trying to talk to him but he wont pick up his phone or text me back or e-mail me back. What is going on? Does he like me or is he just mad at me for the moment? What should i do?

Well, first think back to your last conversation, did he seem mad or angry at all? Did you say something that might have upset him? Yes, it does sound like he likes you, if he is spending two hours a day talking to you. But i am sure just like the other person said, that he is buys...
Well Good Luck with him!

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I'm trying to go running or do some sorta of exercise for atleast 30 minutes a day. However, I'm TERRIBLE with commitment. How can I keep myself on track so my plan doesn't just become something I tried and Failed at.

If you really, really want this, then you will just have to be determined and willing to do this. I mean if you go into this hating it and not wanting to do it, then yes you probably will fail at it, but if you go into it really wanting it and determined then really that is all that will help you..
Just stay Determined!!
Good Luck!

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OK so i really hate it when girls flirt with my boyfriend. But who doesn't. There is this girl who always seems to flirt with my boyfriend when im not around of course. She even tried holding my boyfriends hand!!! He was like what are you doing and pulled away. She just doesn't get the picture you know. She bothers me she tells me all the time that she doesn't like him only as a friend etc. But we haven't talked in about a week and then she started with all this. Then there is another girl who just flirts with him constantly. I hate it when other people flirt with my boyfriend when they know that he's going out with me!!! What do i do? Someone please help!!! ps. im not really good at telling people off either haha so please help!

Well, really i would not suggest fighting with them, because that just causes more problems, and I think you just are going to have to ignore it..I know it is hard and it sucks, but really there is nothing you can do. Just trust that your boyfriend doesnt like them,and only cares about you. Hopefully you can just ignore it. I'm sorry that ignoring is the only advice i can give, but really there is not much left you can do..
good luck
if you need any help just feel free to drop something in my inbox.

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OK, I would like a guy to answer this question but ill take any advice. I have been dating this guy, lets call him BOB, for like 4 days now. he asked me out at the end of school, and then we talked when we got home. Then, we talked at school the next day a lot. But we didnt talk on the pohne that day, and we havent all weekend, and as its sunday, im like ARGHH! lol. Well hes great, sticks up for me, and is really caring, and is always scraed if he does something wrong whether im mad at him. He is different from any guy ive dated, and ive dated a lot. My friend says im in love, and i think so to. But he hates phones!! how am i supposed to talk to him? hes always busy and stuff, but last night i called him, and he said he was playing a game and maybe he will call me tomorrow. whats up with that? i mean i know you hate phones but geez. any advice on what i should say to him without coming off as clingy, i mean we have only been going out a little while, so, yeah, advice please???!!!

Well, first since you have been going out for four days now, i hate to say this to you, but you are probably not in true love, just puppy love.. But in answer to your question, he may just be shy, or nervous...So just tell him that the key to a relationship is communication. And that you would like to be able to talk to him, but he is busy so you never really have time to talk face-to-face so just say you would like to talk on the phone, and if he really likes you then he will do it for you.

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What do you do if a guy that you've never met before asks you out?

Well first of all I think you need to put a little more information in here like are you talking about meeting him online, or did he just randomly come up and ask you out? hmmm..well I will try and answer this...It is probably not the best thing to just go out with him..my advice would be to try and get to know him more and then go out with him..but if you met him online that is completely differnt...lots of people have online relationships and they never end up meeting and it is silly...so that is my opinion on that...

If you want you can add more to the question in my inbox and i will gladly answer it!

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has any one else noticed that most of the things asked on this site are not people seeking actual advice, it is just a bunch of people who are too um i guess "lazy" to type in google.com and search for the lyrics to a song, or where they can find a good website etc.,so they have to ask a bunch of people who want to give them advice and who may not even be right...hmm...
yes, i know i may be being a little hypocritical right now by asking a question, but i am just um.."upset" that young people these days just cant simply go to the lovely site of google..o well does anyone agree with me on this one?

hellls ya!!!

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this sounds really really silly..but i hate my boobs. they are huge, and it makes me feel out of shape. they`ve always bothered me, but just recently they`ve seemed a lot bigger than normal. does anybody know if theres an way to "decrease" the size of them? like does exercise work? or what you eat or w/e?

i know how you feel..i have huge boobs too...and it sucks...i mean they are just a problem...but really there is nothing you can do..i have asked and the only option is to just get breast reduction...which sucks..so i mean i am going to probably do it...but really that is the only option...

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I NEED HELP!!!!!!! WHOEVER ANSWERS THIS ILL RATE 5!!!!!!!!

okay...well i recently found out that im a lesbian...and the other day my friend (shes a girl and didnit kno i was gay) came over. we were working on our homework and then...it happened ...i koodnt control myself...i just jumped on her and we started making out and stuff....we went rlly far if u know what i meen and she said she had a great time but didnt want this to happen again,....i love her sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much and dont know what to do...any advice out there????????????????????

well i think you should deffinately talk to her about it..but i am sure she was just experimenting..i mean i have done that a lot..and if she doesnt want to do it again then you should respect her decision..though it may be hard...but if you dont want to lose her friendship then dont do anything with her unless she tells you she wants to...
hope this helped..good luck

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does anyone know how to get white teeth and fast if its somethign liek baking soda or white strips whats the best kind of product you can buy that will make them super white

you can use toothpastes that are made specially for whitening teeth, and there are a lot of products out there i like crest whitening strips...but you might want to ask your dentist...they might be able to give you something that will work really good

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hi my dear friends iwant to know that is she loves me or not.i dont have any friend except her we study in same class.how can i know her feelings and her love for me e-g how she talk with me how she behave with me.in what situation i can figure out about her love for me .please.

well..i didnt really understand the question...but i think what your asking is how can you tell if she loves you or not..well first of all does she even like you? because love and like are very different words...so i mean i think you mean like but i will just answer the question with you meaning both words...but does she flirt with you? that is a deffinate sign...does she like give you hugs, or like touchy with you? does she tell you a lot of things? if so all of those are signs that she likes...possibly loves you..so you just have to look out for signs like that...
i hope i helped somewhat..if you tell me a bit more i might be able to help so you can just drop something in my inbox..
good luck with her...

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This is the story..(in short)

Sinds I have had problems with my mother in law(mother of my bf)She thinks I'm not ideal for her son ...(She is extremely jealous about her sons)We don't talk to each other anymore (I feel like I hate her )She went around gossiping about me and lie things about me just to keep his son away from me....I left all this behind and I'm really trying to get over this but sometimes i feel really quilty that the relationship between my bf and his mother has took a strange turn just because of me although my bf tells me that she did this types off things with his ex too.But now everytime he goes to see his mother I get like worried becuase I think maybe his mom would lie worse thiings about me or critize me to let my bf dissapoint in me..
This is not all beside this his ex is trying to get back with him...And I'm really worried about this too.., because I really want to be with him ...We have 1 year and 5 months togheter(realtionship is great)

I have a constant fight in my mind ..I feel like I am constant fighting for him...I supossed it is great to fight for someone but.....to be in a constant fight (this is what I feel)It's not good neither

Palese help me .....I don't want to feel this way anymore

I will rate high

your boyfriend's mother is NOT your mother-in-law..just thought i should inform you of that

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My boyfriend and I can rarely hang out because my parents are so strict. I almost never see him outside of school. But he loves me alot and will do practically anything for me. But lately he has been hanging out with this girl, we'll call her Liz. And Liz obviously likes him. Liz has been using me to get closer to him but he swears that he doesn't like her. He always also talks crap about Liz behind her back. but they continue to hang out. But he doesn't want to break up with me.

Since me and him dont hang out alot, is he maybe trying to create a substitute of me that he can hang out with? What do you think?

if he truely loves you and would do anything for you..then he will not want to ever hurt you..so he is not going to do anything with her..so you just need to get used to that

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how do you dump a guy without hurting his feelings?

you cant dump a guy without hurting his feelings, sorry hunn, unless he wants to then realy it is not possible, so just do it but dont be mean about it, just be as nice as possible.

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Is there any experienced voilinists' that can transcribe music? I'm having trouble.. Can anyone help me out here?

go to a music store, or some place where they know that cus you konw what? i am sure they can help you more than anyone over a website...just telling you

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Does Sue Mills make uniforms for public schools, too? I need to know because I'm preparing for a debate against school uniforms at public schools.

go to google.com...you type google.com in the address bar on you computer...cus i dont think a lot of people know that off the top of their heads...just letting you know

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where and how do i make my own xanga backgrounds? and how do i put them in! everytime i try the picture only goes in the center and its little and ugly! everyone always has these cute backgrounds and i need to make one and know how to put it on my xanga!

i rate 5's for good answers
anything will help this problem

...how is that true trouble..i mean come on..that is not true trouble...if it was then i cant imagine what rape is..

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I was wondering if there is a website to keep a ten year old occupied on. I would like it to have no pictures or videos or music and the most obvious one no porn. Also no viruses and adware/spyware. Oh and no games.

umm..u can rate me low for this...but seriously no ten year old is going to be occupied by a site with no pictures or music or games or videos...i mean you might as well have them go read a text book...

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My boyfriend is way too clingy! he is driving me and my family crazy! Every night he calls me at least 30 times and if I don't pick up he keeps calling and leaving me annoying messages! All he thinks about is me, and I'm not even sure he actually has any friends. I tell him NOT to call sometimes and he does anyways, so I have to unplug the phone because it bothers my family alot. I like him, but man, he needs to stop being so clingy.

What can I do? // How can I set him straight? He never listens to me, so what should I say? Should I break up with him?

ok...you need to get out of that relationship immediately....dating a clingy guy wil do nothing but make you depressed and sad...and just annoyed you will lose all your social life...so hun just get out of it while you can...trust me...the phone calls are only the beginng..i went through the same exact thing...only for a year and a half...
good luck

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Why do teenage girls with boyfriends feel to need to refer to their boyfriends' mothers as "mother-in-law"? ...Is that just the new "thing to do" now? Last time I checked, someone isn't your mother-in-law unless you were married to her son or daughter, not merely dating them in high school. To me it sounds really funny, "15/f like omg my mother-in-law blah blah blah"...ummm... no. So can someone explain this to me? It's really hard to take questions like that seriously. haha

ok i am 15/f and from my perspective..it is pretty stupid sounding..i mean if i were to refer to my boyfriend's mother as my mother-in-law that would be sorta stupid sounding considering we arent married...but i agree with the other people..it is just how teenagers think they are in love and are going to get married...yes, i am a teenager, but i know about how every teenager thinks they are going to be together with their boyfriend or girlfriend forever..when really in reality probably not...so i think yes, it is more of a thing to convince them that they will be together forever..

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