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OK so i really hate it when girls flirt with my boyfriend. But who doesn't. There is this girl who always seems to flirt with my boyfriend when im not around of course. She even tried holding my boyfriends hand!!! He was like what are you doing and pulled away. She just doesn't get the picture you know. She bothers me she tells me all the time that she doesn't like him only as a friend etc. But we haven't talked in about a week and then she started with all this. Then there is another girl who just flirts with him constantly. I hate it when other people flirt with my boyfriend when they know that he's going out with me!!! What do i do? Someone please help!!! ps. im not really good at telling people off either haha so please help!
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your going to have to break that habit and tell those girls off!you cant just go through life letting people walk all over you like a doormat and letting people try to steal what you have!dont be a timid little bunny,be a strong ,badass lion! let those girls know you will stomp on their damn faces if they dont leave your man alone! sorry about my cursing.when i am trying to make a point,i go a little overboard. i really hope this helped.if you or any one else needs some guy advice,email me at clchattom@sbcglobal.net l8r
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If you don't want to tell people off, then they're going to continue to go after him. You gotta stake your territory. The way you describe him makes it seem like he wants to be with you so maybe you shouldn't worry about it so much, but if it does, you should be prepared to get your hands a little dirty.
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ok well just try and talk to them and tell them how you feel about it and let them know that there is nothing that they can do to stop you to from being to gather and at least you know that you can trust your boy friend to be around them girls
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Well, be glad: Your boyfriend doesn't seem to be giving in to the advances that these girls are making. He seems pretty faithful to you. :o)
You don't need to tell these girls off. Yelling, making accusations, and calling them names won't solve anything. That kind of stuff is immature. Not only that, it will make the girls defensive ("I AM NOT FLIRTING WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND, SO SHUT UP!"), and won't solve anything.
You do, however, need to show them who's boss, but not in a violent way (no catfights!). Don't talk to them both at the same time, talk to them individually. Also, make sure they aren't in a bad mood when you talk to them. Talk when you're alone, also.
Make you voice firm, not loud.
Say something like: "Hey, ______(name), I've noticed that you've been flirting with my boyfriend, and I don't appreciate it. I can tell you like him, and not just as a friend. Stop." It may sound like it won't work, but it should. If it doesn't, you should get your boyfriend to talk to her.
I hope I helped, and if you have any more questions, feel free to leave one in my inbox!
-Manders
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I agree with the answer before me; Fighting will make the girl want to get him even more. It's great that your boyfriend pulled away from that girl, now you know his commited to you. You're going to have to remain in his trust and just know if he really likes you he won't flirt back. Trust is the key.
You must feel lucky however, all these girls want your guy so obviously you picked a great choice! =D
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Well, really i would not suggest fighting with them, because that just causes more problems, and I think you just are going to have to ignore it..I know it is hard and it sucks, but really there is nothing you can do. Just trust that your boyfriend doesnt like them,and only cares about you. Hopefully you can just ignore it. I'm sorry that ignoring is the only advice i can give, but really there is not much left you can do..
good luck
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