My name is Jessica a.k.a. Gessyka
I love to talk on AIM online, and I love to hang out with friends. I teach myself how to play the keyboard and on it I can play "Fur Elise", "Heart and Soul" with both hands, and a few other songs. My birthday is March 31 1990.
I love to write, draw, play video games. Im not MUCH a tom boy but I like a lot of things that boys like (like skateboarding, video games, hockey, etc.)
I like to help people out very much and I'll help you out as much as I can if you need advice.
I've been through a lot of things, and I'm only 14. Some people think I have the perfect life but in reality, I DO have a lot of problems...
I've had people who passed away, crying all the time, people have told me to kill myself (sluts), I have seen people talk about suicide...I know some people who tried killing themselves, so many things that I'd rather not discuss that are pretty horrible, and a lot of other things now that are on my mind...good and bad and...*cough* puberty too...=(
Oh and I also believe in psychics, spirits (only good) and I'm a Christian Catholic.
MY BFF/Cousin IS RACHAEL! Button Rachael (lol)
Oh and I have a goofy sense of humor but if it's time to get serious, I get right down to it.
E-mail: truevalue53@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: USA, CT
Occupation: School, babysit (once in a while)
Age: 14
AIM: Infinityo0o (or) Met3oralp
Member Since: November 10, 2003
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Last Update: February 27, 2005
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We haven't had sex for a couple months and quiet frankly im horny. Last time i asked him for some he told me i wasnt gunna get layed anymore unless i got a gigilo (male prostitute).hes my husband and i want his body?! i wonder if he finds me
do u think i should leave him or ask him to treat me better.
Mrs. iwanttogetlayed (link)
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Dress in something sexy if you feel like you need to appeal to him more. There's nothing wrong with that. Plus, if you dress in something sexy and start you know..."putting the moves" on him, then you will go too far that he just can't say no.
~GL~
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P.S. Why would you leave him? If anything you get a divorce...and you shouldn't even do that without discussing him about this situation.
Do you have any kids? If you have any kids then DON'T leave your husband just because he won't do things like that to you...talk to him about it. You will never know what is up with him if you don't ask, and part of a marriage is getting to know eachother even better...and if you don't ask you will NEVER know.
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Does anyone else ever get an itchy spot on their hand that, even when you scratch, doesn't go away?
HOW CAN I MAKE THE ITCHING STOP!?! Its brutal. (link)
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Maybe it's a rash...like poison ivy, poison sumac, poison oak.
Or maybe it's exema.
But I know what you are talking about...there's probably no rash, it's probably just a radiation itch. That's one of those itches you feel deep down in your skin and it's SO SO SO annoying. I know, I get those all the time. Sometimes I get thoe on the palm of my hand and the back of my neck and it's so irritating.
If there's no rash mark, then that's probably what you have, If it hasn't gone away by now put some lotion on and see if it feels better. Or wask your hands with soap and warn water. I don't know if this will work for a radiation itch...but it's worth a try.
If you see bumps or a rash you should go to your doctor because it could be exema or one of the poison plants.
It could also be because you're allergic to something you have bveen eating lately. So, if it gets worse, start keeping track of what you have been eating.
Go to your doctor if it doesn't clear up...because it could get worse but my bet is that it's just a radiation itch.
Keep an eye on it! :/
~GL~ :p
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Ok, I don't wanna sound brutal or anything, but my BFF (let's call her Emma) is so freakin' boring. I'm getting into going to parties, dances, and other fun stuff. Emma is the total opposite. She'll sit at home, watching TV, or sitting on her computer for 5 hours. I really feel like she's holding me back. What should I do? (link)
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I know you probably don't want to hurt your friends feelings...but you are both probably at an age where you need to discover certain things about yourself, and you may realize the differences between you and your friends.
Whenever "Emma" calls and wants to do something,just say you're up to something else...if you really are. Or instead of going to your house, you should suggest "maybe you can come over here and I'll have one of my parents drive us to the movies". (or something like that) Get her into all the fun things you do because maybe after, she will want to do more of what you like to do.
If you haven't been wanting to hang out with her lately, then either just tell her the truth, or go off and do your own thing. Don't let her hold you back. But just because you're off doing your own thing...don't forget that she is your best friend and that she will always be there for you. So just because you're off going to parties, and maybe somewhat avoiding your friend, doesn't mean that she's still not important to you, and you should always be there for her.
I've been ditched by someone before who I thought was one of my best friends, and it hurt a lot, especially since I was a shy person and there wasn't many opportunities for me to meet other decent people.
So just do what you want, and if she asked if you want to come over...you can say that I was just going to ask you if you wanted to go to the movies with me ( even if you werent going to ask her...but that way if she says no you can say) "Well, I can't come over because I was planning on going to the movies today." But don't lie. Just plan right then to go to the movies ( if there really is a possibility that you can go.
If you start going off and doing your own things with another group of people, make sure to invite her and if she doesn't want to go, then that's her problem...and inviting people to go somewhere can make them feel very happy and she may want to end up going.
Hope this helped (sorry, I know it's long)
~GL~
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I really don't like this teacher at my school. She is mean to everyone and nobody likes her. I really want to pull a prank on her because I'm so angry but what should i do? Should I prank her, or just live with it the rest of the year? (link)
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Live with it...unless you are prepared for the CONSEQUENCES of getting caught. Don't trust the people in your school not to tell the teachers...I'm sure they will if they know it's you! ( if you end up playing a prank.
So...I'd live with it.
Plus, playing a prank will just make her more more mean.
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I have come to a conclusion.
My conclusion is: I am physically incapable of paying attention in algebra. I'm dead serious. I look DIRECTLY at the teacher, follow along in the book EXACTLY, and block out the sounds of Rick and Betsy ENTIRELY but I just CANNOT take in a word she says! When I was in regular math, I got all C's. Then I was moved to PreAlgebra and got 98's for a whole year. Now I'm in stinking algebra and starting to get C's again.
Have you ever been in a room with two people speaking a completely forigen language? You can listen and hear everyword, but it doesn't process in your brain. Welcome to math class. Another reason may be because I have it first class (8:00-9:45am) and the 13-year-old brain doesn't start fully functioning untill about 10. I'm just ALWAYS thinking about something else, usually my boyfriend, but sometime's I'll just read through class and then fail all the tests and homework. How can I get this into my brain??(sorry this was long)
~Non-Compliant with Algebra I (link)
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That sounds exactly like me. I cannot pay attention in AP Algebra Class and when I get home I'm pretty much screwed when it comes to homework. I ask my sister and my mom to help but then sometimes they get confused because it's been so long since they have learned this stuff, and they just confuse me even more about it.
Make sure you have a special notebook just for math...with a folder to put all of your worksheets in there so you can look back at the math problems for references.
I tell my parents that I cannot understand my teacher and I get so frustrated and I can't understand what the problems mean. Ask your teacher for help and if you don't want to do that, or if it doesn't work out well...then ask your teacher if you can bring a tape recorder to class. I'm sure he/she wouldnt mind. If you are put in the back of the class, like me, then ask if you could maybe be moved up closer so you could pay attention more. This would definitly help you to focus more, and it's not like all the noise from your classmates is right there between your teacher when he/she is explaining the problem, and you. That way, if you are put in front of the class, all the noise is behind you, and if anyone tries talking to you and distracts you, you will be closer to the teacher so maybe for once the teacher will witness it and ask them to be quiet.
Also, before a quiz/test, bring your book home. That way you can look at the examples they have because even though OUR books are most-likely different, that doesn't mean that not every book has examples in the back. It's really helpful, trust me.
Hope this helped. Don't forget about the tape recorder, asking your teacher for help or asking to be moved up to the front of the room. Also, remember to bring your book home between tests...and take notes only when you have time....because heres a tip: taking notes doesn't always help because if you miss something...then you'll totally get off track and you don't end up understanding anyway.
Also...bring your book home before tests because as much as its a pain, it will really help you in the long-run...
Hope I helped.
And sorry I put you and all the other readers through this long letter.
Good Luck!
P.S. TELL YOU CLASSMATES TO SHUT THE HECK UP! (hehe...even if they are your friends...they won't hate you for it)
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ok so im 17 and i was wondering i have read that guys prefer the girls to swallow there cum after oral sex is this true or would they rather us to spit everytime i ask guys they say either way but i want to know seriously what they prefer i know it would be different for different guys but what would most of them seriously want (link)
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I'm not trying to control your life or anything...but if you think you should be doing this at 17, you're wrong. I know you're probably just curious about it, and it doesn't mean you plan on doing this, but if you don't even know what kinds of things to expect, then you ought not be doing this. (I'm not saying that you said you are going to, but I just want to make my opinion clear). But then again, it's your body and your choices.
Ask a close guy friend, ask your boyfriend if you have one and if you feel comfortable, or just search the web because that can be very useful.
Make the right choices :)
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i just picked a random category because i dont have any ?'s that have to do with any of those. ANY WHO. I have friends down in portage michigan and i live an hour away. we talk over the internet and they are my cool people. and sometimes me and (ill call him j) j get in bed together and sing. songs like say my name and bootyliscious. thats pretty, cool. i love them much and i just wanted everyone to know (link)
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It's good to have friends like that.
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Right. Er... hi. I have a problem, and I was hoping you could solve it. Okay... there's these two guys that I like. One is over the internet, and the other in in real life. You see, the boy over the internet, Will, is a real sweetheart. I like him a lot, and we kinda blanace eachother's emotions. I'm hyperactive, and he can calm me down, and he's deressed, and I can cheer him up. I really like Will a lot. But then there's this boy named Colin. I just met him this year, but we have a lot in common. And he lets me hug him and stuff, and we're good friends. But lately he's been kinda distant from me. Normally, everyone says that I should just stick with Colin, but I keep getting these feelings that he doesn't want to be more than just friends, while with Will, he's kinda let on that he at least likes me in that way a little bit. But I need help trying to figure out what to do! Please help!!! (link)
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I totally agree with shay*shay.
He could be an old man and rape you and you could be killed. I'm really not trying to scare you...but I'm just looking out for you. If you're over 18 and you feel it's okay, maybe you could be on to something. But if you're under 18...I wouldn't even think about it. I'm not saying be scared of him...just please look out for yourself.
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P.S. No matter how many pictures he sends you...don't be convinced that he is who he says he is because he could've just found an old picture lying around. Stick with Colin. He's right there and just because he's distant right now doesn't mean he's not right for you if you think he is.
If Will if to clingy and tries to apologize to you a lot if you guys get into arguements online, then I's really watch out because if he keeps apologizing that means he may not want to loose what you guys have because your a young girl whose a target.
Be careful.
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Can you buy birth control pills over the counter or do I need a doctor's prescription before I can get it? (link)
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wait until your married :p
The truth? I dunno. (hehe)
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My daughter is currently 13 years old. She's fairly mature and doesn't dress slutty. Now, she has liked this guy for about half a year. Today, he asked her out. They want to go see a movie with another couple their age on monday. I don't know if I should let her go. What is your stance on this? Is 13 too young to be dating? (link)
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Nom but know where she is at all times. You never know what could happen...but it's definitly not young to go out on a date. Like you said, she's fairly mature and dating will just open another mature side to her. You don't have to be worried because it's perfectly normal.
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I know it's not really polite to pick your teeth at the dinner table with toothpicks (well, better those than your finger I guess, but that's not the point). So if you keep toothpicks on your table all the time as just part of the centerpiece art or whatever, does that make you trashy or what? (link)
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NO, as long as you don't do it unpolitely but flicking it everywhere. Rather, use the tooth pick with whatever hand you write with and then cover it with the other hand.
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What's the worst that could happen if I dont see a doctor about an ingrown toenail? (link)
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INFECTION.....my cousin has an ingrown toenail and its starting to get INFECTED. Sorry, I have to emphasize the word INFECTED so you go see a doctor before it gets really bad.
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okay so me and my boyfriend just met a month ago and we're already having sex. I really enjoy it but i think it s too soon! what should I do?
Love,
Horny Baby (link)
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yes, too soon...a month isnt a long time and you hardly know the guy as a boyrfriend.
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My boyfriend will not be getting me a chritmas gift this Christmas. I have already purchased his gift and given it to him because he needed it early (an expensive snowboarding coat). I am trying not to be upset. Times are tough, money's tight, the problem is he spent $200 on his mom's CD player, and bought his dad a forutne in hunting gear and we went out all weekend and he had no money problems then. Sunday we went shopping and he mentioned that he looked at his account and he's going to have to write a bad check so that he get his sister a gift. I told him not to worry about me, he says he's really sorry (he's really beating himself up over it) and that he'll get me something great the next paycheck, which won't be until January 5th. Am I being stupid and girly because my feelings are hurt? (link)
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It's normal to feel awkward and upset about this. I understand how you're feeling...that's happened to me before with some of my family members. I'm not upset AT THEM, just upset. Like your boyfriend said, he's really sorry and next paycheck he'll buy you something. If he doesnt buy you something within two weeks after that, then I would be upset only because he said it, and it was all a lie. But if he didn't say anything in the first place, then I would feel a little more content about the whole thing. Do you get what I'm saying?
I hope I helped, I know I didn't say much about what you should do, but there's really nothing you can do except wait. It's okay to be upset....just don't be mad at your boyfriend
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This guy at my school has a big crush on me. He's the type who goofs off and tries to get laughs from everybody, so of course he makes it nice and obvious to every single person in my school that he likes me. Don't get me wrong, he's a good guy. But I really don't like him back. I can understand, I've been in his situation, but when I was told the guy didn't like me, I shut up. And I hadn't said anything before that. But it's real torture, and you should have heard the whole class laughing at me when the teacher unwittingly picked us for partners on a long project. It's awful. I've presented this to him, and I can tell he's trying, but he can't stop, even though I kind of swallowed my crush when this happened to me. This might even be something that would relate to us not getting along as an item, plus I'm not ready for a b/f. But nevermind. Anybody have some advice about how to make him hold off? or something??? (link)
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Just give him a chance. Invite him to your house or see if you can go over his house sometimes. Or go to the movies or something sometime. Just because you guys have a date doesn't mean your a couple. Just give the guy a chance...it wouldn't hurt, and it would make him probably the happiest guy alive.
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My 10 year old daughter is invited to a birthday party sleepover this weekend. Is ten year old too young for sleepovers or is it okay for this age to go on sleepovers? (link)
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As long as its not co-ed. But 10 is a perfect age. It's not too young or too old. Make sure the parents are there though.
Hope this helped.
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Last week for some reason I'm still trying to find I kissed my best friend. First kiss evar. My best friend is female. As am I. I have a boyfriend. Last night I told him about the kiss. He said he had to leave and hung up. I don't want to lose him and the kiss with *Sarah meant nothing. Has anyone been in my situation? How do I tell my boyfriend I want him over *Sarah and the kiss meant nothing and have him believe me? (link)
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oh my god...is your name Kitty?
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Im not so perfect at spelling, and puncuation! WOW! Who cares. .atleast im nto an ass and making people feel bad for asking a damn question!
Loser. . . And I am going to be what ever the fuck I want! So shut up and you might wnat to stop giving advice, cuz u suck at it. Im being serious! Punk is a lifestyle, and music. . Punk is being yourself and not trying to be noticed. . . You arnt born punk, so obvoiously people ahd to say I want to eb a punk. . and they became punk .. ok u cnat be born punk its not like punk is like japaneese or mexicna or english u know wut im trying to say!? Well I mean I dont know everything about punk, but I know its not just clothes. . So have fun and bye (link)
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...If whoever it is your yelling at gives bad advice...then why did you come to advicenators if you're that ticked off about it....obviously they're just going to give you more advice.
P.S. Swearing is Bad :)
and if you don't think you're punk...then your not, it's as simple as that. so shove it is there face:p
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Ok, so I'm still hung up on my ex boyfriend. And he has a new girlfriend. But, everyone tells me not to give up on him. (There's a lot of reasons why they say this.) And it would be so easy to make him jealous, but I don't really want to do that...and I don't want to use and hurt another person in the process. Does anyone have any ideas on what I should do? Thanks. (link)
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Okay, I know it hurts but...forget about the guy. If he really cares about you he'll come to you. That's all the help I can give you.
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how do u give oral to a guy????
~> confuses! (link)
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You're obviously not ready for this...
Go ask your mom if you feel that grown up right now.
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