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♥ My name is Kelly. I`m 17 years old. I live in a small town in Arizona. I`m a born and raised Christian. I love God, my family, and my friends. I have been through alot throughout my teenage years like from boyfriends, girl drama, loosing mediate family members, moving all the way across the country, starting new schools - making new friends! You can ask me ANYTHING and I will try my hardest to answer your questions. Please, don`t ask stupid questions because i will give you a stupid answer back. You can also email me at xstarbrightbabix@yahoo.com, IM me at xostarbrightbaby, Or my quote site. link is on the right module. =]

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im 14 years old and f. im going into 9th grade, ive been going out w/ my bf for almost 10 months and we have dry sex is that slutty?

You will get alot of opinions on this one. I don`t think it`s slutty because you are being safe and careful. I guess it`s a way to express your feelings for him (physically). ♥

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What is the difference between love and lust? and how do you really know if a guy loves you?

Love is really undefineable. And lust is really a craving for sex/having sex. You know if a guys loves you for sure if he says it. ♥.

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I want to whiten my teeth because they are a little dull. I heard that some whitening products can ruin and damage you teeth or your teeth enamel. My question is what brands or whitening strips or toothpastes do you reccomend? thanks. :]]

Actually one of my friends used teeth whiteners and she bought the CVS brand and her dad bought CREST. They compared the results, and CVS worked just the same or even better. So I recommend CVS brand, if you have that store near you & it`s cheap. Oh and I use Colgate Luminous toothpaste and it helps whiten your teeth and it works for me. :D ♥

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How do you know if ur breast get bigger? because my breast hurt right now and i do not know what it is..

is it a lucky chance when your boobs grow it hurts?

Why do my boobs hurt?

god, im so confused.

If your breast are tender then your going to get your period soon. If you feel pain then they're growing. Hope this helps. ♥

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Can I get pregnant 1 week before my period? If so, does that mean I will have a misscarrage?

There is a higher change of getting pregnant because it was around the time of your period. It doesn`t mean your going to have a misscarrage. If your still curious buy a pregnancy test. ♥

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I saw on the news that there was a missle launched or something and that one is planned to hit the United States. I think it was from Japan? Im really scared right now. Does anyone know what this is? Also, if it ever does hit, what would happen to us?

I just read an artical, North Korea launced a long-range missle towards US (planning to hit the white house). After they launched it, it failed.

"None of the missiles made it as far as Japan. The Japanese government said all landed in the Sea of Japan between Japan and the Korean Peninsula."

I think it was just a plain bomb to explode. So it`s not like it was a nuclear one. Don`t worry, we`re going to be safe and protected. =] ♥

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Are men put off by stretchmarks?

Some men have different opinions about it. Almost everyone has strechmarks. =] ♥

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Ok. For around two weeks EVERY night I've been having bad dreams. And it sucks.
It'll either be a new dream, a dream I've had before, or a combination of a couple dreams.
I've had this one for 3 nights in a row, seriously. I walk into a room, and look in this mirror. And there is this half-dead ten-ish year old girl with a bloody KNIFE standing behind me. But when I look behind me she's not there, she's only in the mirror. Then there is this other one where I get put into a coffin and I'm buried alive.

So...
Would there be a reason that this is happening ??
What can I do ? I HATE it....

See I get dreams like that, where i see caskets and dead people. If i watch a scary movie before I go to bed I get nightmares, or think about scary things. If you have alot of bad things on your mind you`ll get them. Try calming yourself, listen to relaxing music (country or christian works good), watch funny movies before you go to bed, take baths or walks, and try other things that you find relaxing. You can look in a bookstore for a dreamers book, they tell you what you`re dreams mean and what can be causing them. Oh and i`ve heard sleeping in a cold room or eating before you go to bed will cause bad dreams, so try to prevent that. I don`t know if your religious, but try praying before you go to bed and you`ll feel safe. Hope this helps. ♥

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read please its not a hard question im just dumb!!! alright well i dont know what i was doing but i hit a button on limewire and now my "play" "pause" and all those buttons are gone even my enqueue button which is a big problem because now i cant put songs on my ipod, so if you could please help and tell me how to get it back to normal or something! muchappreciated

You might have to just redownload limewire. you`ll lose all of your music tho. But sometimes i`d have to redownload limewire cause of little things but my music would still be there. ♥

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I am 18 years old and i have known my boyfreind for about 3 years now and he has always had a crush on me and we just started dating 3 months ago .. we dont fight much but sometimes we get aggrivated with eachother. A few days ago I went to Connecticut for the summer and i used to live here, i am having a wonderful time but it seems like everytime i talk to him i get in a bad mood and we are always finding things to argue about. He dosent call me as much as i would like him to and when i am sad or confused about something he always says he has to go but he is the one in the relationship who "loves me more" and all in all he is a very good boyfreind. He was supposed to graduate with me but he didnt and he has a month to get his work done so he can get his diploma. He needs to get his priorities straight and frankly, i dont understand him. When we talk on the phone ALL we do is fight. Thats it and when i get back home i dont want things to be bitter between us. I do everything i can to try and help him but he dosent seem to get it and he keeps telling me that i dont care, when all i want to do is talk to him. When we fight on the phone he always "has to go" or do something else and i want to make up with him then and there, but i cant seem to, ever, so when he calls back a few hours later, im STILL mad and cant have a normal conversation with him. I really dont know what to do. Please help.

First, next time he calls or you call him tell him you really don`t want to argue, your having a fun time and that when you get back you want to have a serious talk about things. He might be bored, lonely, and depressed your gone and the only way he can deal with it, is arguing. I think that you being gone would probally be better for the relationship because you guys are up eachothers butts and getting annoyed of eachothers. See if he can maybe come visit for like a week or so. I hope things get better. ♥

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hey everyone. i asked a question awhile ago about my best friend who's dad had lung cancer. well his dad died. and im just wondering like what are appropriate things to say. not just "i'll be there for you" can someone actually help me with what to say? also me and my friends want to do something for him. big or small no matter what it is. does anyone anyone anyone have any suggestions? im begging you, because this kid is so devastated. thank you.

I`ve been there loosing my dad. I hated when people would say sorry about your loss or i`ll be there for you. Hearing those words, won`t help - his dad won`t come back and never will. It will take him a really long time to get used to his new life. The most you should say, is if you ever need anyone to talk to, I`ll be here for you. Invite him to the movies, theme park, or something fun. You can also make a collage of his dad or get a really cute picture frame for him, with a picture of him and his dad. ♥

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My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months and I'm afraid we are moving to fast. Sometimes I think I will be comfortable with doing something and then while its happening I don't feel comfortable with it any more. I'm not sure if it is okay to say "No" once you have already said "Yes" I mean am I allowed to change my mind? I would get really frustrated if I was the other person...and what should I say to him?

You need to be really honest with him and tell him your just not ready, and want to take things slow. He should understand. ♥

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does anyone know this song.. the begining goes girl, girl, girl, girl ..its like a recent song and its like r&b

U and Dat by: E-40 ?
I don`t know if that`s the song. But you can find some more lyrics for it then leave a message in my inbox and i`ll try to find it. ♥

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i was recently out with a few of my friends when the topic of another friend (who wasnt there) and her boyfriend came up. Then someone said the have been going out for 4 months and they have only made out. we are going to be sophmores in high school (we are 15) and to me that seems far enough. How far shouldd they be going?? am i just been wierd?

Everyone has their own opinions about this. I think it`s far enough. I don`t think your being wierd, i think it`s good you think that. People just tend to go as comfortable as they can be with that. Some go all the way, some just go to making out. ♥

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I know it's long but i really need help
please please help me

I was double dating at the movies me my bestfriend my boyfriend and his bestfriend who happens to be my ex boyfriend and my friends boyfriend(confusing i know but stay with me).when i leaned on my boyfriend he moved (i was so pissed)and switched seats with his friend A.K.A my ex (which at the time my boyfriend new was my ex)Then he leaned over and ask me out (now I was really pissed)all that went through my head was what does my boyfriend take me for his ho now my boyfriend clearly notices I'm mad and switches back then he says are you happy now I just rolled my eyes and sat back (still to this day I don't know what the movie was about)I called all my friends and I told my friend who's boyfriend just asked me out (i just need to remind to you who these people are in reference to each other).I thought my boyfriend new about it (why else would he have voluntarily moved),but the next day he asked me about it and I told him he said he moved cause he thought his friend wanted advice about my friend .lucky for his friend we didn't see him in school for the rest of the year(this was the weekend before the last week of school).Then about a week later we call him on three way and he said that he loved me since the day he laid eyes on me . I use to love him untill he broke my heart and cheated and I might still love him.Is he mad because I found true happiness and may love his friend (my boyfriend) and just wants me cause he can't have me or did he truly learn his lesson.Should I stick with my current boyfriend who treats me like I'm the world or should I go back to my first love?

It sounds like your ex boyfriend still loves you and is really jealous. Everyone still has feelings for their first love, it`s really nothing you can control. Because you had felt first everything with someone and shared alot you will have some feelings still. If you love your boyfriend more than stay with him. Your ex cheated on you, "once a cheater always a cheater." He probally did learn his lesson seeing you happy and better without him. You really just have to follow your heart. I wish you luck and hope things work out. ♥

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ok so i saved a conversation on aim and then let my brother ont he computer and he read it then deleted it cause he 'assumed' i didnt need it. i really need it and i cant find it anywhere i look in the recycle bin and everything!!

my question is: is there any way i could get it back ?????

plz help thanks:)

I`m sorry if it`s the regular aim then no. But if you have AIM + and history set on it then you probally can find it. Or I think DeadAim has history. ♥

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My boyfriend and i for the first time got close to having intercourse. He had an erection and he had the head of his penis moving up and down of my vagina,but his penis was not inserted. Should I be worried about pre-cum? I dont think he ejaculated. Could he feel it the pre-cum?

If he didn`t cum then no. ♥

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i was looking through questions and i came across one with hackers.. well my question is how do hackers get into computers and do stuff to the system? and how can you get rid of hackers

Hackers can easily get into your computer if you download things and open the folder. They also have programs that can hide in your computer folders. They can put virus' in your computer. & The only way you can really get them out if report them if you know who it is or do aton of virus scans and you might be able to get them out, by deleting them? Hope this helps. ♥

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Everytime my boyfriend fingers me I bleed. I heard that sometimes you bleed a little the first time so I really didn't think anything of it. But now whenever he does it I bleed..sometimes its just a few drops of blood like he might have sratched me but other times its thick and heavy flow like a period and soaks my underwear. I'm not sure what to do. He couldn't possibly sratch me that hard that I would bleed like that so there must be something else wrong. Advice please?

You might still bleeding from your hymen (it can happen for awhile even after the first time), or he could also be scratching you. If he`s not doing it right either maybe. I don`t really know what else. If it still continues, maybe go to the gyno?

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Hi, i'm gonan tlak about my bff she's really starting to scare me.. she all suicidel but yet she tell s me she's happy lots.. she has a really good boyfriend.. she was an abused child just like me.. but she was raped when she was 10.. she's 13 now.. and she is talking about doing it with her boyfriend she seams not to care but i dont know what to tell her.. like she lost her virginty and she is also trying to convinse me to do the same. she's my best friend and really suportave so i dont want to lose her as a friend.
This is alot of questions but just some ideas would really help me out here.

She should get help if she`s suicidel. She`s only saying she`s happy because she may look it on the outside. You should talk to her about it and things that bother her. She is wayyy too young to be having sex at 13! In my opinion. I hope she`s not feeling like she should have sex because she was raped and it will be the same effect as that. You have to be really honest with her. Tell her you don`t think she should be cause she`s still too young and not ready. She may not be aware of the consequences of having sex, and should info her all the percentages of getting pregnant using both condoms and birth control (if she uses it), also sexual diseases. Just try to talk to her. I hope things work out. ♥

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