My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months and I'm afraid we are moving to fast. Sometimes I think I will be comfortable with doing something and then while its happening I don't feel comfortable with it any more. I'm not sure if it is okay to say "No" once you have already said "Yes" I mean am I allowed to change my mind? I would get really frustrated if I was the other person...and what should I say to him?
coolru answered Tuesday July 4 2006, 1:12 pm: ok dont do any thing you dont wanna do whts best for you and if hes the one then hell understand your reasons. [ coolru's advice column | Ask coolru A Question ]
Jaime answered Tuesday July 4 2006, 1:18 am: okay first of all you should be able to change your mind if you feel that you are unsure of you disicion. Its perfectly fine if you say no if he gets mad at the fact that you said no and is trying to pressure you then he does not really care about you. If he cares about you then he will respect the desicion that you have made.So ihpor that you have took my advice and thought it was good because it the best i can give.
good luck! [ Jaime's advice column | Ask Jaime A Question ]
holahayley56 answered Tuesday July 4 2006, 12:47 am: Of course your allowed to change your mind. Think before you speak. Like.. before you say yes, to doing something.. try to think if you're going to be happy with it later on. Tell him that you are not really sure at the moment what you want to do. & your not ready to like rush into things just yet. Thats what I would say! I hope I helped =) byeee [ holahayley56's advice column | Ask holahayley56 A Question ]
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