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alright. well. me and my boyfriend have done the whole makeout thing for a while and i think were ready to move on... if you know what i mean. to "next base" i guess.
he has already gone up the shirt so im not talking about that. how do i let him know im ready without actually telling him??
thanks!
hey, well next time when your making out, put his hand down your pants to show him that you want him to finger you. show him that your ready that way. you could also just put your hand down his pants and give him a handjob.
ok so ima 16/f and i got an email from myspace admin. saying that someone hacked into my account and it said in tht email it said that email address but i deleted it.. how do i get that email back?
hey, i think that was pretty much just junkmail. it wasnt an admin from myspace at all. it was some loser trying to get all your account information. just ignore it. make sure all your stuff and information on myspace is normal and just change your password.
what does BIFF stand for?!
hey, "biff" is basically a way of saying best friends. along with the other sayings "bffe", "bffl", "sisters", etc.
On wensday i got a text from my friend telling me that she'll have her drivng test that afternoon. I reply back saying "hope you fail, just kiddin". it was a joke like saying "break a leg".
so the next 3 hours or more my phone rang, and it was my friend sam. she told me that danielle fail her drving test, i ask sam why and how did she fail, but sam told me that danielle didnt explan.i ask sam why you called me and told me and why not danielle. she didnt know why danielle told sam to call me.
anyways the next day i send her a question on myspace if she was going camping with me and my famliy next month. she didnt reply. i called and she didnt pick up. its been almost two weeks. (it even read on her myspace her last login, and it read 4/6/07 that day after i sent her that message of asking her a qeastion.)
well i began to wonder if she was mad at me for her to lose on her test. so i ask Sam about it and she said it'll be stupid and childish if she was. cause Sam knew i was joking around.
so i wrote her a message on her myspace saying. "whatever i said or did I'm sorry okay."
the next day she sent me a reply on my myspace "the reson why i didnt reply is cause i have famliy over i was bussy" that didnt make no sents at all. she been logining on her myspace often the whole time of this week.
I called her and she fineally pick up. i ask her what was up with her and are you mad at me. she didnt even said a word. i sighed and said forget it.
so what is the deal. was she mad? why was she acting like a kid? i told her it was a joke. why was she mad at me?
hey, well does she generally have a good sense of humor? if she doesnt, then she probably took it seriously and thought that you were really routing for her to fail. you probably got her even more nervous than she already was, therefore she failed because of her nervous issues. she probably blamed her failing on you because she was so nervous and then your text sent her over the edge. if she usually does have a good sense of humor, maybe she doesnt under pressure. she was obviosuly under pressure before her driving test. your apology sounded so rude and fake. it wasnt sincere at all. you need to call her and apologize to her again and mean it this time. i do however think that she is over reacting a bit, but you still could have been nicer about it and the way that you said sorry.
Well I was born from Canada but my parents were originated from somewhere else. I didn't know how to speak english when I was born but as soon as I learned it in kindergarden I could talk english fluently but my brain just somehow forgot how to speak the language I was born with.
There was a school for people of my lanuage to learn how to write it but I couldn't learn it even though I really tried. Like everything the teacher said, I'll raise my hand up and say what does that mean? Like as if I wasn't even originated as that race. I'm 15 years old now and for 11 years I kept trying but I couldn't. It's like when I learned english I can't soeak anything else or get it in my head now.
It was pretty sad and akward at school sometimes throughout the whole year from grade 1 to grade 8 because people would be like OH COOL YOU'RE _____ HOW DO YOU SAY THIS IN ____? And I'd go "I dunno.." And some people would think something's wrong because I'm that race yet I can't speak the language.
My family and relatives go really hard on me. I can speak better english then they'll ever can and my marks are so academically high but they treat me really bad because I can't speak my language.
Up til now, my dad treats me very hard. My mom and I don't get along well but it has nothing to do with my disability but she doesnt' really care about it. My dad always went high about me and have so many high expectations and it hurts me so bad because I just work so hard with almost straight A's and everything just to please him but it just isn't enough. And a lot of times he won't talk to me because he's like I'M SORRY, I DON'T UNDERSTAND YOU!
I knwo people who answer this will probaby be like, don't think about it or dont' take it seriously into heart but I do because it's such a big deal in my family for some reason and I guess it makes my family look bad. I have two younger siblings and because of me probably that's why they have the same problem as me.
Like right now my siblings are so young yet they're gonna go through the same trouble as me. Like if noone can help me, then atleast let a miracle come for my two siblings because I don't want them to go through the same thing as me because I'm almost pathetic to die right now: I'm ugly, othe rthen ym brain I have nothing really cuz I sacrificed the will to have friends for school to please my dad, bad hair, at my age half my hair is already filled with white hair, and more. But those tow have a good life ahead and they're happy and have friends.
I just don't know what to do anymore..and where we live there's no places really so no counciling and I can't drive and I dont' go outside so counciling isn't an option
hey, thats not a healthy lifestyle at all. i wish i could help you more, but theres nothing really that you can do except call DSS. the problem with that is that youll get taken away and put into a foster home. im not sure if your ready for that or if you want that at all, but thats my only idea that would help you.
ive only had sex three times but its really sore afterward and stays sore for a couple days. is that normal? and how many times do i have to have sex before it stops hurting?
ohh, and what makes a guy cum faster?
hey, well your still a beginner in the whole sex area. its only been three times and your body is still not fully used to you being sexually active. your vagina will expand and make it easier for the penis to get into it and wont put so much tension on the vagina after sex. guys cum when there turned on and have a boner. just turn your guy on to make him cum faster.
I was walking to class, and my cousin went up to me and asks me a question. "Dose your friend Sara have a boyfriend?" I told her "no why?" "Cause I saw her with some guy and they were hugging" so me and my cousin Lily were talking about it till the bell rang and I head to class. My friend Becky is in my class and I ask her "Sara has a boyfriend?" she said "yeah why? Didn’t she tell you?" I told her no. 2 days later, i got a chance to talk to her, (but sha all ready broken up with him because he was annoying her and she never did like him.)
So after school when I was walking home, Sara walked with me because we both live near the school. I ask her "why didn’t you tell me you had a boy friend?" she replied "what!? Oh I thought Becky will tell you" she said in an annoying tone. "Well isn’t supposed to be you saying you do have a bf?" then she got all defensive "I forgot to tell you okay sorry!" I told her to clam down.
Why was she so defensive? Was she embarrassed that I might make fun of her?(because i would'nt)or what was her deal?
hey, well i doubt that most of us advicenators could tell you what her deal is. after all, shes your friend and you should know her better than any of us on here. it depends on what the guy looked like and how his personality was. if he was a guy that she wouldnt have normally gone for, she was probably embarrassed of him and thought that you might judge her because of him. the same thing goes if he was an "unpopular" guy. maybe she thought that becky would be more understanding about the whole situation. you should ask her about it again. tell her not to get defensive because your not mad at her for not telling you, your just wondering why she didnt. also another reason is, maybe she thought that you would be jealous? there is tons of different possibilities and its hard just to pinpoint one because i dont know this girl personally.
okay guys... how do guys feel about shy girls? like are they willing to get to know them and wait until the girl opens up or do they get totally turned off? help is needed>
hey, well i think that if a guy really likes you and has an interest in you and your shy, they wait to get to know you. guys like girls that are outgoing much better tho.
well, i completly blew all my chances with her
she was a friend, then a really close friend, then we were almost going out, now she's pissed at me. we both keep acting like dicks to eachother and it sucks. i havnt spoken to her all day and she is pissed, i wanna call her. and just talk on good terms with her...and i still of course wouldnt mind going out with her :-P but hehe idk about taht cause i can view this tension as, a strong building experiance, or how i think she sees it: as somthing she definitly wants to get the hell away from..
so i plan to call in 15min, what should i say.
pretend if you would, your this girl, who liked me at one point, but now your over me (i think) i still have feelings for you, and we're both angry at eachother, you more at me. can't we just end this stupidity and be on good terms again. bbbuuuutt! i wanted to go out with you the whole time :\
sry if its stupid
hey, well girls love when guys act all sweet and sensitive. dont completely bullshit it. you need to really mean what you say and make it cute. apologize to her for everything. she might hangup on you and if she does, call her back. if she doesnt answer, leave an extremely cute message. that always works for me and thats usually how i end up forgiving guys.
hey my hair isnt that bad. it used to be but its gettin better. but whenever i take a shower like rite after i do and it dries it gits realllllllllly frizzy. like for most people whenever they wash their hair it gets nice and soft and everything but mine gets worse then before i wash it. what should i do
hey, i would say talk to a hair dresser about it. they went to school especially for hair care and needs, so they should be able to help you there. i know of anti-frizz shampoos, conditioners, and products put out by many namebrands. try some of those.
so theres this guy and he's like my best friend. i realizied i really like him, we've talked and hung out alot lately, and he's single. the prob is when we look at each other in the hall im not sure if h feels the same. also i have never been kissed and ive decided i really want him to be my first. im 15/female. any suggestions on how to get him to like me and or how can i tell if he likes me for sure? thanks!
hey, well somewhere between all the jokes and laughs, you fell in love with this guy. you wont know if he really likes you for sure unless you ask him. you should also tell him how you feel about it. who knows -- maybe hes always secretly liked you. also by letting your feelings out by telling him how you feel about him, your getting a lot off your chest. there is just so many different possbilities of good things that could happen if you tell him. i would just say go for it. if he reacts well to it, flirt with him a little. if you need flirting tips i would say go to http://www.links2love.com but the tips that i would say would be the most effective is eye contact and laughing at his jokes. its actually a good thing that you guys were just friends before you started to like him because all good relationships need trust and comfort in them. im sure that when you were friends you trusted him with certain things and secrets, and also that you were comfortable with him to a point. good luck : ].
OKay im moving in like 2 months and i want a new bedroom set matching sheets quilt picture frames rugs picture frames and all. Does anyone know a good site? Or a good theme idea for my room all will help thanksss
hey, do you like love pink by victorias secret? they have some awesome bedding.
http://www2.victoriassecret.com/collection/?cgname=OSPNKBEDZZZ&cgnbr=OSPNKBEDZZZ&rfnbr=3526
ok so my parents are getting divorced and for about a year now my mom has been in her room a lot speaking spanish all the time. my mom has 2 cell phones, one for her regular calls and the other for her secret bf. she told me that the cell phone that i found out she talks to her bf w/ is what she uses to call her friends with. now one day i pretended to be asleep when i was resting and i she came next to me and started talk to her phone service and she said that she need a new cell phone so she could talk to her "boyfriend" and thats when i found out that i knew who she was calking to all of the time. she gave my little sister a new cell phone and i called it one day and the voice mail came up and it was someone talking in spanish they were saying like hey babay and something in spanish and ily at the end and then i knew it was my mom since she must have used that phone and it was scratched up. also i looked at the contacts list in my moms phone that she uses to call her bf and there was only one person and it was someone named babo. then she was talking to my sister and i and she meant to say baby for some reason and she accidentaly said babo. she is still married to my dad and i think my mom will get mad at me if i told her that i knew about her secret "boyfriend." plz help♥!!!
hey, well i think that her new "friend" is something that you need to talk to her about as soon as possible. my reason being is that it is your business about her love life because if she was ever serious about having a relationship with him, you should get to know him and his life background. my mom got into the same situation, except i was clueless. when she finally did tell me about it, she told me that she was holding back from telling me about it because she didnt want to introduce me to him if he wasnt going to stick around. maybe thats why your mother is hiding him from you. if i had knew about her talking to this guy, i would have questioned her about him and made sure that he was an overall nice guy and most importantly, a good guy for her. you should just tell her that you want the best for her and that you want some information about him. also that you want to meet him to make sure he is a pretty normal guy with qualities that you feel are good for her. picture you as basicaly being the mother and her being your daughter.
I really like this guy and he doesn't know it. Im 13/f btw. He is a friend of mine and I used to trust him with alot. Then today I find out one of my friends like him, cause he's hot. He kept telling me how he doesnt like her and stuff. I (being a friend) tried to tell him good things about her and this was his reply:
ok so say hypathetically that you like greg (his bff), then you would want him to like you back right?? well imagine if i liked you? then you would want me to stop liking you cuz were just friends and ur not ever gunna like me that way. so yeah im never gunna like caitlynn (my friend) again.
I think I accidently mislead him into thinking Id never want him to like me, but honestly I want him to soo bad. People used to say we looked like a couiple and I liked him and I always denyed it. I want to tell him I like him but then people might think im copying my friend, or he might avoid me. What do I do?
hey, well i personally think that in situations like this one that you should always tell the guy how you feel. that way youll get all that off your shoulders and he will know exactly how you feel. you should ask him what the message that he got out of what you said was. tell him to be honest with his answer because its important to you. if he got the message that you didnt like him tell him that it isnt true and in reality that your actually crazy about him. explain to him that you just kept talking about how good your friend was to be a good friend to her because you thought that he was interested in her and that she might have had a chance with you. dont get disapointed if he doesnt like you like that back. the whole point of telling him was to get it off your shoulders and to have a possibility of being with him, it was never definate. also dont write him off as a friend because he doesnt want a relationship with you. i mean being friends with him is the next best thing to the whole boyfriend/girlfriend situation, right?
Yeah so the 8th grade dance is next month
and i really need a cute place to get a dress and shoes and everything
everyone talks about jessica McClintok
or however you spell it but i dont like those
p.s. i live in chicago
thanks
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hey, well it depends what your into. if your sort of a fasionista, i would suggest forever21. they have way cute dresses and awesome asscesories to go with them.
http://www.forever21.com/category.asp?catalog_name=FOREVER21&category_name=Dresses&Page=1
check out all jewelry and accesories.
ok my rele good friends now has a girlfriend i was happy for him because he has been rejected so many times but ney way i rele dont no the girl i think she is cool because she asked him out so anyway this happened during spring break so i just found out a while ago because i was away so now i found myself checkin his myspace like sum jealous gf but i would never go wit him i dunno if im like protecting him or sumfin i dunno
and when me and him saw her in the hallway he just lefted and dint even introduce her to me im not sure whether he should but it is weird when she is there so i just walk off i feel like i have to compete for him i fell rele pathetic i could say more but i need help.
hey, in my opinion you definately like him. it seems like youve been friends with this guy and somewhere between all the jokes and laughs, you feel in love with him. you wouldnt want to ruin the relationship for him, so dont mention to him that you like him. if you still have the same feelings and he is single, you should tell him how you feel. who knows -- maybe something will spark.
whats the best kind of tanning lotion that won't make my skin blotchy and orange? thank you!
hey, well ive heard that neutrogena works great. try those products. stay away from jergens. that makes you wicked orange.
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the thing is i get horney (randomly though) and i need to masturbate. so i do. it just doesnt satisfy me though. like idk nothing works. and i just want more than i can give my self. i want sex when i masturbate. and dont tell me how sex is bad for you i know! but how can i satisfy myself without having sex
ps. also i invision myself with a girl eating me out. is that normal? i mean ive made out with a girl and kindaa had sex with her. (clothes on) but does this make me bi?
hey, well just because you play around and kiss girls doesnt mean your bisexual. it just means that your curious, which is perfectly fine and normal. also having dreams or invisioning yourself doing sexual things with a girl is normal too. the only time that you might be considered a lesbian is if you have no sexual feelings towards guys. as for satisfying yourself, fingering yourself is all that you can do. try using toys or stuff around the house rather than your fingers. examples: the handle of a brush or an electric toothbrush. make sure that they are clean before you use them.
Okay well today i got my braces tightened/ajusted.... and they gave me the elastic (rubberband) things.... and i have no clue what they are supposed to do to your teeth... Can someone explain to me what they are supposed to do...??
Thanks!
hey, there for overbites. they adjust your teeth to a normal bite.
My grade will be testing ALL week and we can't bring a backpack to school. I'm going to get my period soon but i'm not sure what day. Ware could I keep a pad ware it won't be noticable since I can't bring a backpack? I don't want to waiste them on days I wont have my period.
hey, can you bring a purse? are you allowed to go to your locker? those are two options. also im sure your allowed to wear a jacket. if you have one with those inside pockets, but one in there.