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Why was she mad at me?
On wensday i got a text from my friend telling me that she'll have her drivng test that afternoon. I reply back saying "hope you fail, just kiddin". it was a joke like saying "break a leg".
so the next 3 hours or more my phone rang, and it was my friend sam. she told me that danielle fail her drving test, i ask sam why and how did she fail, but sam told me that danielle didnt explan.i ask sam why you called me and told me and why not danielle. she didnt know why danielle told sam to call me.
anyways the next day i send her a question on myspace if she was going camping with me and my famliy next month. she didnt reply. i called and she didnt pick up. its been almost two weeks. (it even read on her myspace her last login, and it read 4/6/07 that day after i sent her that message of asking her a qeastion.)
well i began to wonder if she was mad at me for her to lose on her test. so i ask Sam about it and she said it'll be stupid and childish if she was. cause Sam knew i was joking around.
so i wrote her a message on her myspace saying. "whatever i said or did I'm sorry okay."
the next day she sent me a reply on my myspace "the reson why i didnt reply is cause i have famliy over i was bussy" that didnt make no sents at all. she been logining on her myspace often the whole time of this week.
I called her and she fineally pick up. i ask her what was up with her and are you mad at me. she didnt even said a word. i sighed and said forget it.
so what is the deal. was she mad? why was she acting like a kid? i told her it was a joke. why was she mad at me?
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i don't think she's mad at you... i do that to sometimes, i just get caught up in stuff and forget about my friends. and tyou shouldn't worry about the myspace thing because sometimes i log on and then relize i don't have enough time to reply to all my mail. just don't worry, if she says she's not mad just assume that till she gives you a damn good reason not to belive her
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hey, well does she generally have a good sense of humor? if she doesnt, then she probably took it seriously and thought that you were really routing for her to fail. you probably got her even more nervous than she already was, therefore she failed because of her nervous issues. she probably blamed her failing on you because she was so nervous and then your text sent her over the edge. if she usually does have a good sense of humor, maybe she doesnt under pressure. she was obviosuly under pressure before her driving test. your apology sounded so rude and fake. it wasnt sincere at all. you need to call her and apologize to her again and mean it this time. i do however think that she is over reacting a bit, but you still could have been nicer about it and the way that you said sorry.
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She was obviously nervous before her driving test. Yout text probably just sent her over the egde. I know you've said I'm sorry- but the way you said it sounded rude. Please appologize to her again- meaningfully- and explain to her that it was just a joke. Don't be upset at her because she may feel upset. If you two are good friends- this will mend in no time. Just remember not to be so pushy with trying to appologize.
Hope I helped!
--Jack
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