ok so my parents are getting divorced and for about a year now my mom has been in her room a lot speaking spanish all the time. my mom has 2 cell phones, one for her regular calls and the other for her secret bf. she told me that the cell phone that i found out she talks to her bf w/ is what she uses to call her friends with. now one day i pretended to be asleep when i was resting and i she came next to me and started talk to her phone service and she said that she need a new cell phone so she could talk to her "boyfriend" and thats when i found out that i knew who she was calking to all of the time. she gave my little sister a new cell phone and i called it one day and the voice mail came up and it was someone talking in spanish they were saying like hey babay and something in spanish and ily at the end and then i knew it was my mom since she must have used that phone and it was scratched up. also i looked at the contacts list in my moms phone that she uses to call her bf and there was only one person and it was someone named babo. then she was talking to my sister and i and she meant to say baby for some reason and she accidentaly said babo. she is still married to my dad and i think my mom will get mad at me if i told her that i knew about her secret "boyfriend." plz help♥!!!
Cux answered Monday April 16 2007, 7:58 pm: I know you might not want to hear this- but the best thing to do is not get involved. If your parents are getting divorced anyway- it would just cause problems within your family. So- just stay clear of the situation and hope for the best!
--Jack [ Cux's advice column | Ask Cux A Question ]
runawayxlove answered Monday April 16 2007, 7:56 pm: hey, well i think that her new "friend" is something that you need to talk to her about as soon as possible. my reason being is that it is your business about her love life because if she was ever serious about having a relationship with him, you should get to know him and his life background. my mom got into the same situation, except i was clueless. when she finally did tell me about it, she told me that she was holding back from telling me about it because she didnt want to introduce me to him if he wasnt going to stick around. maybe thats why your mother is hiding him from you. if i had knew about her talking to this guy, i would have questioned her about him and made sure that he was an overall nice guy and most importantly, a good guy for her. you should just tell her that you want the best for her and that you want some information about him. also that you want to meet him to make sure he is a pretty normal guy with qualities that you feel are good for her. picture you as basicaly being the mother and her being your daughter. [ runawayxlove's advice column | Ask runawayxlove A Question ]
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