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i know what i want... sort of...
okay so i've liked this guy for a really long time and we've been friends... friends with benifits... we tried to start a relationship... and that's where the confusion started in. so he was really into me.. but he was really moody... and i'm not sure why but he stood me up... so i've been mad at him for like a week and i haven't said a word to him... but today i just... went up to him and hugged him... but it wasn't a pelvic hug like usual... it was a hug... and just that. i'm still kinda mad that he stood me up with no explanaintion and no call... but i want to be around him sooo bad *sigh* so i'm not sure what to do cuz our relationship was the best when we were "just friends" but i really want more then that... what should i do? please help! o 16/f and he's 17/m by the way. and thankyou in advance!
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well the best thing to do would be perhaps talk to him and see what he wants to. i mean it would probably work out better if both of you new what eachother wanted. because if you want him but he dosnt want you it wont make you happy at all i promis. and wait it out i mean if you guys both want the same thing tahst great just make sure you want it at the same time dont push it, if it were ment to happen it would :)
tell me how it goes
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I get so mad when I see questions that include the words "friends with benefits" just because the smart, average person would know that they don't work.
They can go on for a while, but then one of the people falls for the other, and the other doesn't feel the same. Things get complicated, people get hurt, it just doesn't work. I wanna know when the hell people are going to learn this. FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS DOES NOT WORK. IT NEVER WILL.
With that said, talk to him about it. Just be like "Did you uh, forget that we had plans?" And see what he has to say. I'm gonna ask -- are you his official girlfriend? If not, don't get pissy with him because he's not your man, & he'd probably be like "wtf." If you are, then you can get a little upset, but don't let it completely piss you off because it'll just bring an argument up.
Talk to him about it calmly, ask him what happened, and never have friends with benefits again.
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im in this exact situation right now. it sucks really bad. i've just been giving him space, letting him think, letting him make up his mind. i've tried talking to him just like nothing happened. like we were best friends/friends with benefits again. it helps a little. so try that and eventually it'll go back to normal for the both of us.
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give him time and don't rush into things..
he will probably tell you when hes ready :]
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