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he's my best friend


Question Posted Monday April 16 2007, 7:40 pm

so theres this guy and he's like my best friend. i realizied i really like him, we've talked and hung out alot lately, and he's single. the prob is when we look at each other in the hall im not sure if h feels the same. also i have never been kissed and ive decided i really want him to be my first. im 15/female. any suggestions on how to get him to like me and or how can i tell if he likes me for sure? thanks!

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iwantthetruth answered Monday April 16 2007, 8:11 pm:
well ur situation is very similar to my own so maybe i can help. if you think that by the way he looks at you in the hallway that he is not interested then maybe he isnt. but if you think he might be then have someone talk to him for you. or maybe you can somehow bring it up and ask him if he likes anyone. as for the kiss, i myself have never been kissed. there is this guy i like, my best friend. he and i are really close. but im not sure if he likes me. i dream of having my first kiss with him. i know its a very awkward situation. hmmm hard to tell if he likes you...has he ever touched you? as in like hugging or putting his arm around you? even if he has or hasnt that doesnt really always give it away. so hey id really like to help you out. if you have A I M then maybe we can talk sometime. if not leave me a meesage in my inbox and tell me more about the situation. anyways hope to hear from you soon!

SAM 14/f

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runawayxlove answered Monday April 16 2007, 8:08 pm:
hey, well somewhere between all the jokes and laughs, you fell in love with this guy. you wont know if he really likes you for sure unless you ask him. you should also tell him how you feel about it. who knows -- maybe hes always secretly liked you. also by letting your feelings out by telling him how you feel about him, your getting a lot off your chest. there is just so many different possbilities of good things that could happen if you tell him. i would just say go for it. if he reacts well to it, flirt with him a little. if you need flirting tips i would say go to [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) but the tips that i would say would be the most effective is eye contact and laughing at his jokes. its actually a good thing that you guys were just friends before you started to like him because all good relationships need trust and comfort in them. im sure that when you were friends you trusted him with certain things and secrets, and also that you were comfortable with him to a point. good luck : ].

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Cux answered Monday April 16 2007, 8:05 pm:
As I've said time and time again- trust me- I've answered this question many times and seen it many times. The only sure-fire way I see fit to find out if he likes you is to ask him. Don't play silly mind games to try to figure it out- Just ask him- plain and simple. Who knows? He may like you and you could just end up going out =]

--Jack

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