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I think I mislead him...
I really like this guy and he doesn't know it. Im 13/f btw. He is a friend of mine and I used to trust him with alot. Then today I find out one of my friends like him, cause he's hot. He kept telling me how he doesnt like her and stuff. I (being a friend) tried to tell him good things about her and this was his reply:
ok so say hypathetically that you like greg (his bff), then you would want him to like you back right?? well imagine if i liked you? then you would want me to stop liking you cuz were just friends and ur not ever gunna like me that way. so yeah im never gunna like caitlynn (my friend) again.
I think I accidently mislead him into thinking Id never want him to like me, but honestly I want him to soo bad. People used to say we looked like a couiple and I liked him and I always denyed it. I want to tell him I like him but then people might think im copying my friend, or he might avoid me. What do I do?
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hey, well i personally think that in situations like this one that you should always tell the guy how you feel. that way youll get all that off your shoulders and he will know exactly how you feel. you should ask him what the message that he got out of what you said was. tell him to be honest with his answer because its important to you. if he got the message that you didnt like him tell him that it isnt true and in reality that your actually crazy about him. explain to him that you just kept talking about how good your friend was to be a good friend to her because you thought that he was interested in her and that she might have had a chance with you. dont get disapointed if he doesnt like you like that back. the whole point of telling him was to get it off your shoulders and to have a possibility of being with him, it was never definate. also dont write him off as a friend because he doesnt want a relationship with you. i mean being friends with him is the next best thing to the whole boyfriend/girlfriend situation, right?
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