f/17. Sorry if this is long. Me and my kindasorta boyfriend- lets call him cody-have been together for two years. This past month or so ijust havent felt the same. I feel like were just growing apart and idk what to do. We took a break and during this break i went and got a milkshake with a guy named caleb. this really upset cody and he got really mad. I understand why hes upset i just dont think he should be as mad as he is. I dont feel like i did anything wrong we didnt do anything sexual we didnt even kiss. me and cody are together now just not really on good terms. I do like caleb, hes a sweet guy and hes more my type then cody is. but i love cody(i think) and i just cant leave him. i dont know if i want to leave him or try and make it work and i just really dont know what to do. How can I fix my relationship with him or get us both to move on?
I see you're in a bit of a dilema because even though you're with a someone, there's someone else that you find attractive. Honestly, you have to follow your heart and decide who you think you would be better off with. You have to try to relate your experiences with each one and see who makes you more happy. For now, if you feel your relationship can be stable after you and Cody get past this argument, then I think you should stay with him and let Cody understand why you did what you did. He cannot be so stubborn about it but clearly if he's mad, it shows that he has a lot of feelings for you because not caring would have been worse. Getting a milkshake with a friend is one thing but when you do it because you think you might have feelings for someone else is inviting trouble. If you know you you have true feelings for Cody, then you should remain with him.
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how do i get over my crush that i see everyday? he said he doesn't like me but we're still friends. i think it's going to be awkward though. help! thanks.
it will be hard to get over him if he's still in your life a lot. Try to distance yourself and maybe if you like someone else, you can get over him.
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So this guy wants to finger me and it'd be my first time that someone else has done it to me, and what do i do when he does?
its pretty enjoyable although if its your first time it might hurt but as he keeps doing it, the pain will lessen.
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I told my best friend I like this guy and that he likes me and the next day she starts flirting with him. She asked him who he liked and he said her and me. She keeps flirting with him right in front of my face.. She doesn't like him but she just keeps leading him on! What should I do?
lose the boy and your friend. your friend wants attention because she's jealous of you and the boy is useless. :) sorry for sounding so blunt
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okay. so i have really hairy arms. i am a girl and its embarrassing. everyone always makes fun of me and tells me to shave it. i really want to but i dont want to make it seem like im "bieng bullied" and "giving in" and listening to them. or even making it seem like i care so much. (im trtying to make it seem like i dont care". the answer is probly going to be "hey. u should just be confident in yourself..blah blah blah" but i would like a rlly answer. is putting alittle bit of nair on my arms going to take off only a little bit of hair so its not like "naked"? also i have a crush and i think he likes me too but i know for a fact he doesnt like my arm hair. okay thanx for listening bye.
Arm hair is normal and if you want to take it off, try waxing it. Don't shave it because when you get little hair bumps, it's not attractive at all for someone to rub their hands across. :/ You won't seem like giving in because you know its something that will make yourself feel better.
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Hey so I was at a b~day party and I was dared to ask Seth {my crush at the time} out on a date. So I texted him and he didn't respond. So now I've moved on to like another guy that is my bestie and I love him more. How can I tell him that I don't like him anymore?
I'm sure if he texted you back he would have been interested. Clearly, he's not and you don't need to tell him anything. Just worry about you and your friend.
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Ok well during sex my bf kept calling me his whore and he slapped me accross the face pretty hard so hard it left me a bruce and I had to lie to my dad when he asked me what happened... but I mean he's never acted violent towards me before until now I mean... any advice would be appreciated.
Let him know what he did to you and that he doesn't like it. You guys need to talk about this before doing it again. He should not be calling you his whore, that is disrespectful on his part.
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I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.
I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?
Sorry if this is too long!
What exactly did me make about your relationship? because im confused. But, I can understand that you feel that he's hiding stuff from you. You should have confronted him right away when you read what you read.
I wouldn't be so trusting of him, knowing that he did that. He needs to believe you when you say you actually saw what was there and until he gives you an answer..u guys should take a little break and give him some time to figure some things out for yourselves, espeically him.
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Ok if you havnt already guess it im a bi 14 male and i want to know how i can find the perfect man or women can you guys help me out?
Being 14 doesn't mean that you have to find the right person right away. The one thing you want is experince because experience means you have learned about yourself in relationships with others. Now I'm not saying to hook up with the world but don't try to find the perfect person yet. Try to find someone you are compatible with and take it one step at a time. Relationships with different people teach you things about yourself and about other people. You learn what qualities you want in a person and what you don't want. There is also no such thing as a perfect man or woman because everyone has flaws but it is up to you to make that a problem for you or to embrace it :) Hope I helped.
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17/f
I have a friend that asked me out once, but due to certain things that were occurring in my life, I refused. So we decided to remain as friends and I had told him I wanted to get to know him a bit better, since at the time he was practically, almost a stranger. So yes, we talked alot, on the phone mostly. At times, he would bring up like a relationship talk. It was weird cuz we seemed there but hesistant. Anyway, nothing went on, aside from me trying to sorta of push him into feeling comfortable talking to me face-to-face.
Later he went on hookin up with various girls but his relationships wouldn't last long. I somehow became his counselor trying to convince him to give himself time before entering a new relationship. I started gaining feelings for him but again he was in another relationship, so I respected that. After a while he broke up with that girl and he's been single for some time but we hardly talk to each other anymore.
If we do have a conversation again, should I confess to him that I was going to ask him out before I found out he was currently in a relationship with his last girlfriend or should I just leave things the way thery are?
First when u start talking again, just bring up the past and friendly topics you guys shared together. Don't jump right into asking him or confessing to him about your feelings. That way, if he's kinda interested you would be able to tell from the reaction he's giving you. Bring up another conversation again and then confess to him. You should let him know how you felt and tell him why you didn't like him right away. At least he will know, whether he's in a relationship or not.
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17/f. So, I've known this guy since November. We were just acquaintances at first, but then we started talking more and had a really great connection, became friends, I didn't think anything more of it. Around April/May it started getting flirty, and then it was getting increasingly flirty.
I realised I liked him, and by the beginning of July we had established we liked each other as more than friends. We've got together (not as far as sex) twice since, but it's always been really loving. I can tell he's not just after sex, because he doesn't rush me or push me into anything, and both times, we spent a lot of the time just talking and laughing. I can tell he's interested in my life and my past and my family and my interests etc. I've been involved with players before and he is definitely not one.
Anyway, we don't really see each other except at parties. We text frequently but so far we've only met up at parties. Bearing in mind we have only brought our relationship our of the friend zone in the past month.
I'd like to hang out with him more, because I'd like to move the relationship forward, I really like this guy. I never have connections with people the way I do with him. I've hinted at it, and so has he, but we've never straight out said anything.
I don't know what to do, because I don't want to scare him away. What should I do to bring it forward?
the best thing to do is to come out and tell him how you feel. i mean, just be honest with him completely. He probably feels the same for you but you might have to bring it up because he's probably more afraid to lose you. I'm sure if you can sense that he feels the same way for you, you can just bring it up with him.
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My boyfriend and I got back together, the night we did though he was explaining something personal to me, how he had been hurt really bad by his ex... and I know he loves me unconditionally... but the way he looked when he said her name... it makes me wonder if i'm his second choice.. that if she moved back that maybe i wouldn't even exist anymore.. and it scares me more than anything because i would go to the ends of the earth for him and only him.. and i'm scared that he feels the same way i do about her but he thinks he feels that way about me... i'm willing to be patient... i know he loves me and cares for me... i just wonder if he cares and loves her more.. but doesn't let anyone know...he gave something to me he said he'd give to only one girl in the world... but that fear is still there.. am i just paranoid?
It's normal to be paranoid. I'm in the same situations as well but I look at it this way, if he's with you and he tells you he loves you then don't worry about the other girl. It's okay to be a little jealous, I know I am :/ But, other than that, unless he gives u a reason to suspect him while he's with you, then don't stress too much over his ex. :)
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i have like a bump on the outside of my vagina sitting right near the whole i had this for a bit now went to the gyno she said it was nothing dont pop it cuz its in a dark area so it wont heal proper. but if it hurts or gets bigger tell her and i think it has gotten a slight bigger and when i had my period this week i wore pads the whole time and like got a rash cuz somethings hurt and when i wipe that bump hurts... now she said it was nothing but its kinda sore now. i have a boyfriend of 2 years and only ever had sex with him and him only me as well. so i dont know what it is how to get rid of it like wtf>
its probably nothing to worry about. its probably inflamation from sweat and dirt because of the pads.
try using medicated wipes
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Always been wondering this...I'm 17 an my boyfriend an I have been playing ^^'...he's never put himself inside of me only touched the top area of my private once but told him to stop after that...X-x (not uset to talking about this stuff) so sorry if I'm being a lil blunt with information...O_o... just was wondering if only letting him rub it lightly gets you pregnant =O
You're 17 and you don't know how women get pregnant?
Well today you're gonna find out.
For one, touching can do nothing. Actually having sex with him "inside" of you can get u pregnant.
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I've had my boy cat for 2 years now. He's great but I got this new job where I'm away from the house like all day long. I don't want him to get lonely because he's a really social cat and so I thought of getting him a friend at the shelter here.
I went to the shelter but they only have male cats right now because it isn't a very big place. They were encouraging me to get one so that they could open up a spot for another animal but I just don't know because they're males too.
I heard that if you put two males together that they will fight and end up hurt or one will even kill the other one. I don't know if that's true because I don't know much about cats, to be honest. I couldn't take my cat right now getting hurt because he's been with me for so long it feels like.
Can you have two male cats together though? I mean, did I get wrong information about it? I'm hoping so because I really want to get a second cat. Two cats at the shelter were SO sweet and I'd love to take one of them home if he could get along with my boy cat. What do you think?
It'll be hard to get a male cat for your cat, especially if he's already 2 years because he's already used to the territory being only his. Do not get a kitten, get a cat around the same size as your cat because if for some reason they do get into a fight, they have a pretty good chance of surviving. You should talk to your vet about it.
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i'm inlove with this girl named sarah.
but she has a boyfriend his name is able.
I don't like anybody else but her!
i'm like obsessed she's all i think about, she's all I dream about, she's everything to me.
I told her I was inlove with her many of times.
I talk to her on the phone everynight, and she even comes over on special occasions like birthdays and stuff like that! I want her to like me too, I want to be her boyfriend What do you think I should do?
I don't wanna date anyone else except her.
she's a year older then me!
i'm 18 she 19.
You should tell her how you feel about her. One thing you have to do is take into consideration how her relationship is with her boyfriend. I mean, if she seems completely happy then maybe you shouldn't outright tell her but if you feel that she deserves better, as in you, then by all means, tell her. The last thing you want to be thinking is "what if i told her?" "what would she have said?" etc. :) Good luck. On the plus side, since she talks to you every night and comes to visit on special occasions, chances are she's already interested.
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my dad keeps yelling at me and pretty much says that he wants my older sister and my baby brother,but he wants nothing to do with me. he yells at me and i have had enough. i am only a girl and my b-day is on friday and he doesn't even care, when ever something needs done he always has me do it, it feels like i have my baby brother more than my mom does. i would really like some advice to keep him of my back
Does he directly tell you that he prefers your older sister and baby brother? You seem like the stuck in the middle child and I can see how that is hard for you to deal with. Sometimes, it can just be a misunderstanding between you and your dad. Try to talk to you mom and ask her why she thinks your dad is treating you that way. I know you want more than anything to be close to him and you're not going to get it unless you step up to the plate and ask questions. You should also talk to a counselor as one of your choices as well, if it it's bugging you that much.
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i slept with my ex a day after my boyfriend and i went through this huge break up. but then we got back together and now he feels like i cheated on him. it's 7 months later and he still has a hard time trusting me. how can i regain his trust? i dont wanna lose him.
I think you should try to figure out why you would sleep with your ex the day after you and your boyfriend broke up. Maybe you felt really vulnerable due to the situation of losing him. Explain to him why you did what you did and from there you should be able to work it out. Tell him that you promise for it to not happen again and make sure you keep by your word.
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okay i like my ex and so does one of my close mates. he likes both of us. she always used to say "hes ugly" "hes annoying" "dump him" "why would you go out with that" ect and always wanted us appart. but now shes flirting with him texting and so on, im no competition with her. should i just back off and let them be together or tell him how i feel?
what should i say to her, i know she will dissagree ( although she told my best mate hes comfortable and that she likes flirting with him?)
thankyou any advice will help
15/f
Well, if you truly want to be with your ex again, I think you should tell him. I mean, you guys did go out before, and he should know how to handle the situation coming from you. I mean, technically, since you are his ex, you know him better than your friend, I'm hoping. So maybe, you can tell him how you feel. You should also tell your friend that you still have feelings for him, but I think you should talk to the guy first before you end up fighting about the guy for no reason.
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I feel...Lonely. It's not like I don't have SOME friends. I do, it's just that, I never want to be with them until I am on the verge of tears.
Recently, I have been rather taken with my best friend and I'm close with him and his family, but then on Facebook, I see that he went to a nearby beach with his family and a girl(who I'm also friends with).
Now, this girl is close friends with his older brother and maybe that's why she was there. I know I'm being clingy and paranoid but I just feel that I need to move on.
How do I do that? This boy has taken 5 years of my life with him. I want to make other friends, closer friends, and maybe be with someone. But, how do I go about it? Especially in the summer?
If you want to make friends during the summer, you have to involve yourself in activities that involve people of your age group. Since you didn't specify your ag range, it's not clear on what type of activity you can do. If you're a kid, then maybe you can do a summer camp or so.
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