my dad keeps yelling at me and pretty much says that he wants my older sister and my baby brother,but he wants nothing to do with me. he yells at me and i have had enough. i am only a girl and my b-day is on friday and he doesn't even care, when ever something needs done he always has me do it, it feels like i have my baby brother more than my mom does. i would really like some advice to keep him of my back
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? Teen2TeenHelp answered Tuesday July 6 2010, 2:41 am: Does he directly tell you that he prefers your older sister and baby brother? You seem like the stuck in the middle child and I can see how that is hard for you to deal with. Sometimes, it can just be a misunderstanding between you and your dad. Try to talk to you mom and ask her why she thinks your dad is treating you that way. I know you want more than anything to be close to him and you're not going to get it unless you step up to the plate and ask questions. You should also talk to a counselor as one of your choices as well, if it it's bugging you that much. [ Teen2TeenHelp's advice column | Ask Teen2TeenHelp A Question ]
trueadvice3 answered Monday July 5 2010, 2:22 pm: hey your dad seems to have some sort of internal issue he needs to be taking care of soon... have you talked to your mom about how he treats you? does she treat you the same? and does she listen/do anything about it?
If she does not... you need to go to a counselor perhaps your school counselor and tell them what's going on because if this is effecting you in a negative way, you CANNOT continue living like this. The counselor or a therapist can work with both you and your dad/mom on what it is exactly that's happening to make your relationship a more healthier one.
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