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Okay, so I've got Mono. and my doctor said I can't go to school for at least the rest of the week, and I can't do gym or sports for the next TWO MONTHS! but does that include sex? Like is it safe to have sex with Mono or no?
All answers would be greatly appreciated, but please let me know if its a guess or if you know for sure.
Thank you SO much!
Ok im guessing here, but you should be able to do whatever you want, like as in sexual things, except kiss because mono is very contaigous. so no kissing but im thinking that sex would be ok. Ask your doctor just to be sure though. hope i helped =]
Alright, im 15/f, and my boyrfiend still hasnt talked to me. He and i got in a very big fight, but later on that night he called ne and said he was sorrry , and that he felt bad. I just dont know what to do anymore. We have been together for so long, but he lives across thee freaking country!! I never see him, and idk if he is cheating on me!! help
Im really sorry. Well have you tried to call him?? call him and tell him that your sorry. If you have suspisions that he is cheating on you, talk to him about it. I dated this kid that was just at a different school like 10 minutes away and he cheated on me. Im sorry to say but its just how a lot of guys are. But if you guys have been together for a while and you care about him and he cares about you then talk to him and just be honest with him. Hope i helped =] Good luck!
I have these two friends one wants me to stay the night with them and the other wants to spend the night with me and thay don't really like each other. I don't seen either of them much and ones been my best friend forever and the other only a year I don't know what tod o! HELP!
Well you could either ask both of them if they would mind just hanging out with each other, or you could hang out with one this weekend and make plans with the other another weekend. Talk to them and tell them what happened. Im sure they will understand. just make sure to spend time with both of them! Hope i helped =]
I like my guy friend and a bit over 2 weeks ago I told him that I did in sortof a risky way, he was freaked out about it but we briefly discussed that before vacation started, and thankfully we're still friends even though it's still a bit awkward. We didn't talk over the vacation though, and I feel like either he's trying to forget about it and assuming I'll take it as a "i just want to be friends" or he's still not sure how to respond to it or how he feels. I want to believe the second thing because it is somewhat likely but still I can't get my hopes up to high. But either way he never really responded to it, like he never said whether or not he feels the same way, and it's understandable since it's not everyday this guy in particular has a girl tell them they like him and he's not one to talk about his feelings or what he's thinking that simply. But I kindof want to know what he's thinking and maybe see if I still have a chance with him, and I don't want to do it myself because I really don't want to be pushy. We both have a friend (who's a girl) who he's pretty close to and before I told him I liked him I told her about it and asked her what she thought. But anyway since we just got back from vacation I was curious if he told her about what I did. I asked her today and she was surprised, which I figured since I didn't think he told anyone. I kindof want to ask her to bring it up with him and see what he says. I definitely know she's the right person to do it over other people and I know she'd respect what i would/and wouldn't want her to say but i don't if i should have her say anything at all. I mean if he didn't tell anyone about me telling wouldn't he have a good reason? And I'm lucky that he's been nice to me and that we're still friends, what if he gets annoyed that I told her about it in the first place, or that she's saying anything about it? And I'm absolutely sure that whatever she'd say would be logical and wouldn't make a mess of everything (i can't explain why here, you'd just have to know her) but I don't know if I should do it or not. I just want a response you know? Telling him was really hard and I hate the idea of it just going to waste. What should I do?
Ok well if he is a shy guy (it sounds like he is) then it probably shocked him. He might think that you were joking around and trying to mess with his feelings or he may even feel like it never really happened. Dont bring it up with him just go talk to him or text him like you normally would. and just have a normal conversation. If he brings it up first then that is ok, but dont be the one to bring it up, he may get weirded out. But you dont want something like you telling him how you feel, to affect your friendship or whatever you guys had before.
Also i wouldnt have your friend say anything either, especially if he knows that she is friends with you, he will probably think that she will just go and tell you (which she will) and so he wont really talk about it, or he wont say what he really feels.
Good luck & hope i helped =]
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I use Jergens Natural Glow, Moisurizer. It works really well. You just put it on everyday just like you would a regular lotion, and it adds a natural looking color to your skin. You can buy different colors in it too like light/ fair/ medium and dark. I got it at target for about 16-17 dollars. Hope i helped. Oh and it comes with 2 bottles =]
We have been dating for 7 months, we are true and strong. We don't fight about stupid little things, we don't do drugs or drink or party like a normal teenager. We truly want to grow old together. We talk every chance we get, we never grow annoyed of each other, and we never get sick of hanging out. We have a promise to never break up and truly try and solve the problem. But since I'm a teenager, I feel immature, but I'm not. And I can sense that people think we wont last (adults).
Is it possible that we will one day be married, and have a happy ever after?
There is a big possiblity you could and there is a big possibiltity that you couldnt. It just depends. In high school peple change and find out who they really are, and you may change too. Then if you guys plan on going to college your probably not going to the same one. And other people will try to mess up your relationship. Your just going to have to deal with this.
So there are a lot of things against you here, but if you guys are truly in love and seriously mean what you say then you will find out in the end.
Its hard to tell now a lot of different things can happen. It sounds like you guys are really good though! So good luck and i hope you guys make it! =]
This is more a question for the ladies, but men are perfectly welcome to answer it too.
I'm a guy (obviously) and I've had long hair since I was about 17 or so (I'm 23 now). From a personal standpoint I like having long hair but I'm beginning to wonder if people see something different than what I really am when they look at me. This is especially true of the women I've dated. I seem to attract the type of women who are the complete opposite of me. Myself I'm fairly deep into the conservative side of things, I'm religious, etc... But my exes, who were attracted to guys with long hair, were almost my complete opposites on many views which eventually resulted in break-ups. I've been called a "hippie" and a few other things when I'm actually a very conservative soul.
So I guess my questions are... Do some women (possibly the ones that I would like to be with) take guys with long hair seriously? What is your first impression about the personality of a long haired guy? Do we all seem like flippant elf-boys on first glance?
I'm looking for honest opinions, not what you "THINK you'd think" but rather what you really do think if that makes any sense. And if you find this topic funny, feel free to laugh, as I am laughing right now when writing it. Also, sorry if this is in the wrong category, but I couldn't think of a better one, even the relationship category.
Well its really sad but a lot of people stereotype really easily, and it depends on how you dress on my opinion of you but it i see a guy with long hair right jeans band t's and everything im like "oh hes a hard rocker, lazy smoker kind of a guy." If that makes any sense. But i would not expect a guy with long hair to be religious and conservative, its just not how we look at long haired people. We meet one person with long hair and expect you to all be the same. It really sad but its what everyone does. It is harder to take longer haired people seriously becuase they mostly like i described in the beginning, not someone that is looking for a serious relationship or someone that is conservative. Hope i helped =] Good luck!
okay so i knew my bf did a little weed, but i really didnt think he did alot right. So at a movie he took me to, he was like what do you think of drugs? and i was like noo and hes like do you do them? i said no and hes like do you want to? and i was like no and hes like why? and i was like because i dont want to ! and hes like oh
so you know how today is 420 . national pot day right .. well my was talking to his friend in art and i am right beside them and so the friends like are you doing any pot today ? and my bf's like yea some tonight with a bunch of people you ? and his friend was like hell yea.. and i tried to make it look like i wasnt listening but i totaly was . and every lunch he goes to his other friends house and im pretty sure he does it there too
and i really dont want a bf thats a pot head. like if i text him one night i dont wanna wonder if he is high and he will remember what were talking about .. and i really dont wanna worry about him over dosing.. sso i really have no idea what to do! please help!
thanks love boys
Ok i was in the same situation. Ive seen a lot of bad things happen to close people becuse of drugs and im not into them at all. Well i asked my boyfriend if he would quit for me, i said im not telling you to quit. and he said he would for me and has been clean ever since. But if you ask this to your bf becareful because he may tell you that he isnt when he really is and if he is look at his eyes and you can smell it on him too. So just talk to him and tell him how it makes you uncomfortable and if he cares about you he will understand. And i know that a lot of people say that weed isnt that bad and its honestly not but i dont care for it and i know how you feel. Hope i helped =] If you have any other questions feel free to go to my column and ask me personally.
this guy and i have been texting for the past few days but we always say whats up and we say what we're doing and there's nothing to talk about...
how do i get an actual conversation going??
i'm trying to get this guy to like me by the way so what should i say and talk about??
I would ask him simple flirty question just so you can get to know each other. Like his favorite food, movies, music, etc. Ask him how long his longest relationship was, what he's doing this weekend and by then hopefully he says "maybe hanging out with you" or something like that but put some flirt in to your text too! And hopefully you guys have a lot in common. Hope i helped =]
I go to high school, and I've known this guy that i like for about a year. (sorry for another 'about a guy question'). He had been going out with his girlfriend for about a year and a half, but during the last half a year they barely even spoke to each other. Anyway, he and i are really close- people always assume we're going out (even his girlfriend got mad at us for spending so much time together). But, he's also a really big flirt, so sometimes i cant really tell if hes into me- some days he'll talk to me constantly, and others he'll just talk to me once shortly, even though im there (for the whole day).
I cant tell what's going on and if im honest, im not really prepared to just go up to him and ask him if he likes me (or tell him that i like him)
any advice?
Well it sounds like you like him and he likes you. (especially if he spends that much time with you, that his gf noticed). So one day when your talking just be like "hey so how are you and your gf??" and then he will tell you and as the convo goes on just flirt with him a little bit, if he flirts back he most likely likes you. and he will be able to tell if you like him. And on those days that he doesnt talk to you a lot, talk to him, dont make him do everything, (most guys are lazy) haha and then if something happens with him and his gf move in =] Hope i helped & good luck!
Hi I'm 16/f and I really like a guy who let's call Darren. He and I are recent friends, and one of my close friends (a guy) told Darren that I like him last weekend on Facebook (in a private chat). Darren responded with an "oh...:)" and stuff, and said that he thinks I'm cute. I worried that it might be awkward sitting next to him in class on Monday, especially since my friend had said that I asked him to tell him...but it was actually fine. The past few days, he's been smiling and we've been talking and laughing together in video class. Tomorrow (last day before April break), we don't have video class but we have chemistry together. In chem, though, we have assigned seats so I'm never able to talk to Darren. Tomorrow, however, we're going to be going outside to chemically create ice cream, so perhaps I'll get to say something to him? But I don't really know what to say, especially since he's with his buddies, and in video, it's just me and him (we don't know anybody else; we met each other because neither of us had any friends there!)
So my question to you is how do you think I could stay in touch with him over the break? I don't have his cell, and I don't (and am not allowed to) have a Facebook. Off of a friend's, I found out his AIM, but do you think it would be weird if I randomly IM'd him? And if I want his cell, how could I ask that? I don't want to creep him out, because I'd totally rather be just friends than to have him think I'm an obsessive stalker or something. Like I said, tomorrow we're doing something kind of fun in chem, so any ideas on how to tie that into "so, can I have your number?" (or hopefully some more flirty-and-not-so-awkward way to ask that)? I just don't want to come off too strong or obsessive. Thank you for reading this, and I hope for some helpful responses. :)
Ok well Tomorrow in Class go talk to him and say something like so what are you doing for spring break?? and he will tell you then be like well we really have to hang out sometime! and then hopefully he will say yeah we do! =] and be like wow im really going to miss someone over the break or something like that in a flirty way, and then if he says something like oh yeah who?? be like well if i had your number i would tell you, but i dont so i guess its just a secret. And he will most likely get the hint unless hes completly stupid and give you his number. Hope i helped =] Good luck!
I'm so sorry if this is in the wrong category. picked the best I could... ANYWAY!!
My graduation is coming up. no, not the big old highschool graduation where the tears really SHOULD be shed, just junior high graduation... but I've been at the school as long as I can remember--leaving something so close to me is GONNA cause tears!! Haha..
So, how can I hold BACK those tears? I'm worried that I'm gonna be crying during the practice even, so please help!
A lot of people cry at what we call "promotion" or whatever you call it. Its perfectly normal. jr. High is what you've known for 3-4 years now and its a big change. So its ok to cry but if you dont want to cry think about something else while your up there like how fun summer will be or just anything else. But im promising you that other people are going to cry too. So you wont be the only one if you do. Hope i helped =]
It seems every one is richer than me.,
and everyone has the "it" look but me,
and I want that look.
the tan skin with blonde blonde hair, and pretty makeup with the cute clothes (always!)
Help..
Dont worry about your appearance. Honestly it doesnt matter as much as you think it does. Be who you are, dress how you like, and be happy with it. if you are happy with what you wear and how you look other people will be too! Many people are going through hard times right now and dont have the money to spend it on things they want. Its really hard for everyone so dont worry hunny it will be ok i promeis =] Also you could take some of your old clothes and make them look brand new. Take a pair of your older jeans and but a few holes in them or make bleach spots on them and no one will ever know! It may seem that everyone is richer than you but its not true, yes you may not have as much money as some people but that doesnt make you any less of a person. Hope i helped =] and if you need anymore advice feel free to go to my column and ask me personally =]
Okay so i've been dating this guy for about 2 months now. But we've been really good friends before that too...
We were talking and hanging out about 4 or 5 months before we actually became boyfriend and girlfriend. We're both extremely happy with the relationship we have, we hang out about once or twice a week and even in the morning before school starts. We're crazy for eachother and we both know that....
I think i'm in love with him. But i don't know what his reaction will be if i tell him. I don't know if he'll be creeped out, or say he loves me back.
Basically my question is, should i go for it or not?
Ok i would say if you feel it go ahead and tell him. But bring it up slowly dont just rush it. Ask him what he thinks about your relationship, and what he wants out of it. You will be able to tell by his face if he is really into this or not and if you dont think he is maybe wait a while. But if you think its right then tell him, A lot of people are scared to say I love you but if you wait too long that could mess things up too. So good luck and hope i helped =]
alright so ive been dating this guy adam* for about a year.. and i reallly like him still alot. we are both freshman but he goes to a different school. everything was going good until i met this kid named josh*. hes a junior and he goes to my school. he likes me and is really growing on me. he makes me extremely happy and has no flaws. we have soo much chemistry and we just click on everything. i would be miserable without adam* but i really want to try josh* out. i just dont know what to do. i mean josh* is leaving in 2 years for college and adam* goes to a different school so i never see him either. theres so many things i can go bck and forth with. but i like them both alot. and im stuck. i dont want to write an essay so ill just get to the point. in my situation, what would you choose? my boyfriend adam* or my "soul mate" where everything just seems right..? thanks so much.
Well really this depends on how you really feel. it is really hard o date someone that goes to a different school. But it all depends on how close you guys are. but not being able to see eachother a lot isnt a healthy relationship either. =/ But if you like Josh dont worry that he is a junior, most likely you guys wont make it 2 years and if you do then you will work it out and everything will be fine. So if you want ot be with josh tell Adam that you love him but you hate not being able to see him and maybe when you both can drive maybe you could try it again. And try josh out but if you truly love adam then stay with him this is really your decision here and no one can tell you what to do. hope i helped =]
can anyone tell me when you know when you're in love...like the feelings that you feel, as opposed to DEEP infatuation and lust?
im 16 years old and i really think that im in love but i also have strong feelings on that word, and i just want to know when id know that im truly in love.
what kind of feelings am i supposed to feel if i am?
Ok well in my opinion no one can ever tell you when your in love. Many people have tried to describe it but no one really knows how. You will know when you are in love and no one will be able to tell you whether you are or not. All i can say is all you want to do is be with that person and everytime you see them you get butterflies. Especially if you have been with each other for a long time and you still get butterflies that really means something. Lust is when you need someone or when you are sexually attached to someone. A lot of people get love and lust mixed up. If you think your in love then you probably are. But if your not you will sooner or later find out. Hope i helped =]
What does the expression "I'm wearing my heart on my sleeve" even mean?
This usually means that you are really emotional and things get to you really easily. like if your on your period and someone says sometihing and you just start to cry for no reason that is concidered "wearing you heart on your sleeve" or if your just a really emotional person. Hope i helped =]
I saw this on Facebook: http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=2qwezp1&s=5
and I need to buy it! I know it is Marc Jacobs. I think it's in the line Marc by Marc Jacobs. It looks similar to this bag: http://piperlime.gap.com/browse/product.do?cid=40148&pid=662171&scid=662171002
But I want the one with pink straps! HELP ME!
Okay well this bag may be just specially made for whomever that picture was taken with. But i found the Wharehouse info and you could probably contact them with the bag that you want and they may be able to find one or even specailly make you one. That is what i had to do for my Kathy Van Zeeland bag because they didnt make it anymore.I hope i helped =] Here is the info:
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Kim West
K.WEST@MARCJACOBS.COM
Marc by Marc Jacobs Hand Bags Wholesale
Kelly Kreuz
K.KREUZ@MARCJACOBS.COM
what does it really mean to "open up" to someone? is it just telling them your secret? why does some people someone open up to someone even though they havent known eachother for long?
My opinion of opening up to someone is telling them thinks that you wouldnt just tell anyone. Or if you have a problem, talking to them about it. Sometimes if they have no one else to talk to and that person that they havent known for that long is there then they will just open up to them without even really thinking about it. Hope i helped =]
What makes you want to open up to someone?
Well for me to open up to someone i have to trust them. But sometimes if i have no one to open up to i just open up to the person who is there for me. Also it has to be someone that i think will help, If i think the person will jsut be like oh im sorry ot dumb answers like that then its really hard for me to open up to them because its pointless. Hope i helped =]