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Will Love Drive Him Away?
Okay so i've been dating this guy for about 2 months now. But we've been really good friends before that too...
We were talking and hanging out about 4 or 5 months before we actually became boyfriend and girlfriend. We're both extremely happy with the relationship we have, we hang out about once or twice a week and even in the morning before school starts. We're crazy for eachother and we both know that....
I think i'm in love with him. But i don't know what his reaction will be if i tell him. I don't know if he'll be creeped out, or say he loves me back.
Basically my question is, should i go for it or not?
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I'm in the EXACT same situation. Two months, absolutely crazy about each other. He's always the one who brings up the subject of our future together and how he's planning to move out of state with me when I go to college and living together and all of this but we haven't said I love you yet. The first time I ever told a guy I loved him we had been dating for about a month and I said it and he got freaked out because he wasn't prepared for it and didn't say it back until a week or so later, but that was only a month of dating and I didn't have the same connection with that guy that I do with my current boyfriend.
I know guys often aren't the first one to say it because they're just as afraid as we are. So here's my plan for you, find a song that you both like that says 'i love you' in it somewhere. Start singing along to it and when it gets to that part casually look at him and sing the words..but then keep singing so you're not pressuring him for a reaction.
I did this with my boyfriend with the song Yellow by Coldplay. We were in the car and it came to the part where it says 'and I love you so' and I was singing it and made sure I looked at him when it came to that part because I wanted to watch his facial expression...and he smiled and kissed me...which is always a good sign. So I'm thinking I'll tell him I love him within the next week or so. You have to give up on the idea that he'll say it first...they don't..they just don't. I say do the song thing first, if that goes well then wait another week or two then say it.
If it doesn't go well..well then obviously wait.
Let me know how it goes!
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Ok well I think you should go with it one day at a time, if you like the way you guys are now, then takin that chance will probly ruin that!! What you guys have now, if your not sure he feels the way you do, then put him to the test, look at the small things like the way he looks at you, or the little things he does, really tells you how he really feels, but if you really like this guy, then don't rush jus enjoy it as it comes one day at a time!! Good luck!! Ps... This is your baby so ill jus say follow your heart and the rest will fall into place!!
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Ok i would say if you feel it go ahead and tell him. But bring it up slowly dont just rush it. Ask him what he thinks about your relationship, and what he wants out of it. You will be able to tell by his face if he is really into this or not and if you dont think he is maybe wait a while. But if you think its right then tell him, A lot of people are scared to say I love you but if you wait too long that could mess things up too. So good luck and hope i helped =]
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