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me n mi friend letz call him bob r a little extra friendly. and everyone says we have sex at school. n i asked him out n he said yea but then we broke up...me n bob r like best friendz n we like talk about stuff n sometimes when were extra friendly i like it...iz there something wrong with me?
just the other day this kid said in front of me that i was going out with bob and bob came and he said i dont see u with a gurlfriend so did he say we were going out or what?
Humm, I don't think there is anything wrong with being 'extra friendly', as long as you are over the age of consent [in case it turns to somthing more]. Maybe you are just not ready to commit to a relationship, but still like having a mate 'with benifits'.
As for the school situation, even the most innocent comment can start a fully fledges rumor, be it malicios or not.
Im a guy...whats a good way to masturbate....
please use details!
Thanks
Most guys I know think about being with a partner or engaging in intercourse whilst they jack off. Some guys look at pr0n. Maybe you have some fetish you could think off.
Most of the guys I know use a sock, or do it in the loo, so as to collect the sperm when they climax.
As for how, I would have though just a normal up and down motion, adjusting to suit your specific needs.
Umm, good luck?
does it hurt when u have sex?
It depends on you. Assuming you are a girl, your hymen might be harder to break, or your vaginal muscles might contract because you are scared. However you might have already broken your hymen in sport, and you may be able to relax you muscles.
If you are a boy, I don't think it hurts as much as it can hrut a girl, but I wouldn't really know, being a woman myself.
Tell your partner your concerns before hand, making sure they will be gental, and if at any time you are hurting, don't be afraid to speak, and ask them to stop.
As always, don't forget to have protection, and you shouldn't do it untill you are over the age requierment for your contry/ state, and you are sure you are ready.
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i like this guy and i had a boifriend at the time and i liked him also n i asked out the one guy and he said no bcause of all of these rumers about me and this other guy and me having sex with all of these different guys but i never had sex with anyone and i found out mi boifriend told tons of people that i gave him head and that we have done it alot of times and one of mi guy friendz told me guyz alwayz talk about me in the locker room...a few other guys that barley know me saw me after skool n came up 2 me and they kept talking 2 me and kept saying stuff like o i am feeling horny and stuff and i would try 2 bak away and the other guy pinched mi ass and yelled no pantie line bcause of mi thong and whenever i talk 2 a guy they keep touching mi arm and stuff...........is there something wrong with me? if it matters i am a 6th grader
There is nothing wrong with you, your b/f was wrong to lie about that sort of stuff, especialy since it was only to make him to big infront of his mates.
What they are doing is sexual harassment, and you need to tell a teacher, or other adult that can help, before this gets out of controll and something happens. Unfortunaltly I don't know what age 6th grade is, but I'm going to guess its somthing like 14. These dweebs should be even considering propersitioning you if my guess is correct. Like I said, tell someone before you get hurt!
Good luck *hug*
Does anyone know of a reliable, free file host? I need it to host mainly animated gifs, mp3s, and jpeg files. If anyone knows a good one, please reply. Thanks!
http://www.mpadc.com - Muslim Programmer and Developer Comunity. You have to join the forums first, but there is no pop-ups/unders, and all the wish is for you to put a link to them on your main page. I don't know if they do MP3s though.
Good luck in your quest.
In the place where I work there are 9 employees.
A is a gay guy (with a boot fetish).28
B is a bi guy(who is going out with the Bi girl).17
C is a bi girl(that's me by the way).16
D is a bi/gay guy (we're not sure which).17
E is a transvestite.18
F is a woman who is a little TOO close to her mother (this one is a rumour).40+
G has no idea of how to interact with human beings.17
H is crazy (in a good way) but she has no sexual perversions that I know about.16
I is new, only been here a week but she could be weird as well.40+
NB I have dated or am dating B,E and G.
I was just wondering if any of you had any ideas why sexual perversions were so concentrated in such a small group of people. Or why I've been involved with such a high percentage of them.
And no, I do not work in a sex shop/gay bar.
It's probably just some odd coincidence. Also, becuse of todays more relaxed attitude, more and more prople are experimenting with their sexuality, or 'comming out of the closet', so they are, for want of a better term, more noticable. As to why you are involved in this, well you said yourself you are bi and I would have though you would be naturaly drawn to other bi/gay persons as they make you feel more comfortable with yourself.
My boss is young, quite cool and gay. All of these things are fine by me. However then I found out about his boot fetish. I'm finding it really hard not to mention it or burst out laughing or something equally insensitive.
Any suggestions?
_^ boot fetish? Okay... Right well I think the best thing to do would be to talk to your boss, explain that you know about it and find it mildly amusing, and tell him you wish to apologise in advance if you say/ do somthing regarding it that offends him. As for not mentioning it, maybe try to avoid situations where you would be tempted to make a remark.
Good luck :)
NB: don't read this if you are young/innocent/easily offended.
My boyfriend is 17, I'm 16. We spend large amounts of time indulging in 'heavy petting'. But when I give him a hand job (such a horrible way of putting it) he doesn't come unless he gives a hand as well. And when we were trying to sleep together he couldn't maintain an erection. My fault, his fault,nobodies fault?
What should I/we do?
See a doctor about his trying to maintain an errection. There is a condition called, I think, penile errection disfunctuion, that means that a man either cannot get an errection or cannot maintain one.
As for the hand job, maybe your hands are to little or your writst to weak? This has happened to me, when my wrist has just died and he has had to carry on himself.
As for who's fault it is, its probably 50/50 cuz, as they say, it takes two to tango...
Good luck :)
anybody noe how to get a music url for my xanga?
If you mean as in music to play in the back ground, I don't personaly know but I'm sure you can Google it. If you mean as in for people to download music from your Xanga, then you will have to see if Xanga supports MP3 up/down loading.
i have been talking to guy online for like a year now. we started off as friends... We weren't looking for anyone because we were both getting over long term relationships. Mine wasn't as long as his but the pain was simular. Well guess its best to just explain. I the guy I was dating wasn't making me happy i found i was more miserable than happy. but I have a child by him and we were still in the same household as roommates.....And the guy knew this that I started talking to and said he understood it and was cool with it.....Well, he had just got out of a 13 year relationship with his high school sweetheart. The have two kids which he has custody of and she left him....Well i was okay with this fact because we were just talking as friends. So as time went by we decided that we were both wanting to be more than friends so we started a relationship..We are not in the same state i might add. Well we have always said we would make sure the relationship wouldn't have a negative relationship on the kids. Well, anyways him and my ex aren't the best of friends.... and since my ex was here with me he decided to give me time to see if me and my ex would get back together. After 2 months that didn't happen. it was hard not talking to him. I found myself really unhappy and alone. but it was left up to God when I would talk to him next. Well one day I called after the 2 months and he answered. we realize that time hadn't changed our feelings towards one another and we continued our relationship. well here we are 4 months later and he tells me he is unsure of his feelings. He can't understand how he can love me and still have feelings towards his ex wife. he feels that they should go away completely....I told him i don't think that will ever happen. He just has to figure which feel is stronger. Well he said he thinks he has to get up and walk way from his relationship to me until he figures it. Or until his feelings for her dies. Because he is afraid that our relationship will end like theirs did. and it doesn't help that I told him i loved him 4 days ago. after he made a statement saying that when your in love that you shouldn't have any worries and asked if i thought he had any and i said no. well then he told me when i said that i loved him that we was afraid of letting himself love me because he's afraid of getting hurt. I am like was you trying to tell me something he is like i don't know maybe.....So now i am like am i suppose to wait on him if i love him for him to figure out if he's going to listen to his heart(me) or his mind(her and me)....He says he torn between to women he feels like. Am I at a lost and should I give up on love or let this love find its way aback to me again it did once should I think it will again? please help me understand this....
lostamongsttheroses
You don't actually say how long you have been waiting for him to make up his mind. I would leave it for a fourtnight and ask him again. You have to think of your future and your child's future, and the practical implications of having a relationship with this man, especially if it is online at the moment and he lives in another state. If he asks for more time after the fourtnight then I would move on with your life. Maybe not give up completly, but don't let your life lie unattended waiting for him.
Good luck :)
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ok i wanna redo my bedroom into a cool 80s style i cant find any 80s room style online and i dont have time or money to go somewhere far away to find stuff i need to find it now ... i really need help on how to find great 80s style rooms i really want this done to my bedroom ... so help me and tell me where to find pictures or info on 80s room i mainly need pictures.. help me ASAP!!!
I would reccomend your local newsagent for home styling magazines [be aware, they can cost quite a bit, so look through them before you buy] or the libary. There should be loads books relating to 80's styles and fasions. You may not find anything directly pertaining to room styles but you can always draw insparation from what you do find.
Good luck :)
I want a career in fashion but i dont know how to go about it. please help if you know anything xxx thanx xxx
I would have said you best course of action is to do some reserch on the web about fasion houses, what qualifications they might ask for etc. Then look for univerisitys that offer those kind of qualifications. I think it really depends on what you want to *do* in fasion: be a model, a desiner, photographer. I would also suggest visting a proper career advisor. Your school will probably have one.
My friend thinks that she is addicted to smoking, but she has only been smoking for about a week. Could she really be addicted or is she being stupid!!?
The chemicals [especialy niccoteen] in ciggarets and cigars are very addictive. If you are worried about your friend then I suggest to find a clinic or pharmacy where you can pick up some leeflets that contain more information on ciggaret addiction and ways of getting over it.
Good luck :)
My boyfriend has intamacy issues, we have been dating for almost two years and have not had sex yet. I am getting sick of waiting. I am 23(female) and he is 25. We are both virgins, but I have finally found someone I want to be with. Why won't he respond????
It sounds as though you are very impacient, but the key here is pacience. Have you tried talking to your partner about why he might have these issues? Maybe you could suggest going to a relationsip counceler. Other than that I suggest you try reading up on sex to assure your partner you will take the best possible care of him if/ when you do make love.
Good luck :)
what can i do if i payed on a account with a zero balnce and i had closed twice this card excepted my monie and then called me and made me make 2 payments again so when i researched my paperwork found that i payed on the wrong account and when i brought it to there attention they said it was my fault for sending the wrong bill in for my payment what happeened its the same company but a new account that i reopened but the thing is they ecepted thee money that was not owed and sent me the bill saying thanks for the apyment on that account so i closed the account for good this time because of there remarks that they didnt do anything wrong is there any thing legally i can do to prove to them they took money that wasnt theres
thanks,sandra stachowski
It sounds like you might have to get in contact with a lawyer/ soliciter. There probably is some way you can prove it's their fault, but I'm not sure how.
Good luck though.
I have a boyfriend whom I love very much. We have been together for over two and a half years. This spring I graduate from college, and this summer I'm going to move several hours away and get started on landing my dream job. There's no telling what my work schedule will be like, so I probably won't get to see him very often. But that's not even the real problem.
My boyfriend has never been in college, even though he has always wanted to go, due to poor grades in high school and lack of financial resources. He works the graveyard shift at a local grocery store. He used to complain that he hated his job, now he says it's not that bad, and that eventually he'll do something better. He talks about all his plans for the future, but he doesn't do much to put the plans in action. He did buy a few SAT guides and has studied them a bit, but has yet to take the SAT even once, as he says "It costs money" and "I don't know where it is." (Two problems that are easily solved if you ask me -- if he didn't buy video games so often, he'd easily have enough money to take them, and finding out where to take the SAT is as easy as looking it up.) He doesn't have his license or a car, and I don't have a car quite yet either, so it's difficult for him to get around to places, and he refuses to ask people for rides or just take the bus or a taxi, for some reason. He's talked numerous times about saving money in order to get into school or get a car (to make life easier) or whatever, but something always comes up. Once he spent several hundred dollars on a computer, saying he "needed" it to look up schools, but all he's done with it is play games and surf the Internet and download songs. Another time he spent 150 bucks on a PS2, when he had been saving that money up for school. Other times, he's told me that he is waiting to see where I wind up career-wise, then he'll move there and go to school wherever I am! He originally planned to move in with me this summer, but something in my gut told me that was not a good idea just yet, so I told him I'd like to wait on that.
I have held several discussions with him about this before. Every time, I let him know that if he didn't really want to go to school, or was having trouble trying to figure out where to get started with it all, I would help him out as best I could. I mean, I'm very lucky to come from a family that could afford to send me to school, and to have had a lot of guidance early on about colleges and things of that sort. He's doing this all on his own, and I've always been very eager to try and help him out as much as I could. But he's put off all offers of my help, and sometimes, it's like he's just waiting on me to tell him what he needs to do. I have my own job and schoolwork and life to worry about at the moment, and he's got to meet me halfway. I can tell him where to go to register for the SAT or who to talk to at my own college about career and college guidance, but he always insists that I go with him. One time I told him about a minorities program that would help him out a lot financially (he's Puerto Rican), but he put off going to see the advisor and well, he just never did it. Another time I was telling him about how a friend of mine pays for school by being a resident advisor, and he instantly turned down that idea flat without even looking into it, saying "Nah, that's just not for me."
He often says things like, "You've got to have faith in me, because if you don't trust me, how can we have a relationship?" Well, I do trust him, but how can I have faith in him when he doesn't do anything?
We've been friends for 8 years and I love him with my whole heart, and I want him to be there in the future when I'm ready to get married and buy a house and settle down. He knows this, and he's always said he wants the same things, and I believe he does. But the last thing I want is to marry someone who can't even pay his share of the bills! Let me make it clear that I pay for plenty of things myself in this relationship. I'm not the kind of girl who wants a guy based on how much money he has. If I see something nice that I want, I buy it for myself, most of the time. So I'm not asking for the world here. I can make my own dreams come true! But I would like to see him live out all his dreams, and I'd like to see him live the nice comfortable life he says he wants to live. These are all things he's brought up on his own, not words I put in his mouth. It's not as if I'm trying to force him to want the same things I want.
These days, he spends most of his time (when he's not sleeping or working) playing video or computer games or watching basketball games, or hanging out with me. When I encourage him to do stuff or make suggestions or offer some help, he tells me he's working on it and seems eager to change the subject. So, I take that to mean that I've nagged too much in the past and he's grown tired of hearing it, and so in the past few months I haven't really brought it up at all. The last thing I want is to be a huge nag and drive him crazy.
I've been in lots of relationships and this is easily the best one. He is extremely kind, generous, fun, very talented and creative, and best of all, he loves ME exactly the way I am! He has never tried to change a single thing about me (well, except the fact that I am a big slob, haha). So I feel bad that I'm being a hypocrite of sorts by trying to change him. But it's not so much that, as that he says he's going to do things with his life, and then he doesn't do them. Even my family and friends have noticed that he's not really going anywhere. I hate when my family asks me questions about the progress he's making with school (because they're excited for him wanting to get into school, not because they're trying to be snotty or nosy), because I have nothing new to share with them. If he would just be upfront and honest and say "I don't want to go to school" that would be fine. But he says he does want to go, he's always said that, before we ever got romantic.
I feel I also have to mention that this is not the only thing he has been slow about. He hasn't seen his family, who live in Texas, in close to three years. My mother looked up some discount plane tickets for him several times that he could have easily afforded, but he wouldn't go, even though he is always talking about how much he misses them, and emailing them and calling them! My mother was very confused about that. I was, too! Other times he'll say he's going to go see his fam in a few months, but a few months later, it's obvious it's not going to happen!
I don't want to let him go, but I wonder. Am I justified in worrying that I'm going to be hanging on forever waiting for him to DO something? Am I doing something wrong in the way I try to talk to him, since I wind up hitting a brick wall every single time? Am I being a huge bitchy snob who needs to stop trying to make her boyfriend be just like her? Everything's perfect in our relationship, to a tee, except this. Maybe I should let him find someone who is better than me.
First off, there is *nothing* wrong one your side of the fence. You are completly justified in feeling like you will be hanging around waiting for him forever. I'm tempted to tell you to ditch him and go find someone who is worthy of you, but you have made it clear that you do care about him, and want to stay.
I think you need to make it clear to him that this state of affairs cannot continue; either he bucks up his ideas or you are going to go solo. Its no good just talking about the future, if he wants to do these things he has to start NOW. You say it seems like he is just waiting for you to tell him what to do, but he's an adult. Its not up to you to run a round after him like he's a little kid.
I'm really not sure what to tell you other than you need to make it clear to him that this can't continue. I wish you good luck, and rember; none of this is *your* fault. *hug*
I'm five feet six inches tall and I weigh nearly 180 pounds. I want to weigh 118 pounds again, maybe less. I have been eating a lot less but it seems like the weight just doesn't want to come off. I don't have a whole lot of time to exercise, but I try to squeeze in a walk around my neighborhood when I can!
I have 3 bottles of those Stacker 2 pills but I haven't started taking them yet. They're the kind without ephedra. Does anyone know if they work and if so how should I use them? Also I am on the antidepressant Lexapro and I heard this can cause you to lose some weight. Does that work?
Any other "miracle" cures you can come up with, well hey I'm willing to try. Just please do NOT tell me to go on the Atkins or South Beach diets!
As always, there are no 'mircal' weight loss soulutions, and any one who thinks there are need there head sorted. I'm not sure about these pills you have, but I would consult a doctor about them as they sound like a gimick to me. Weight loss due to anti-depressants I think is just a side effect and may not happen with everyone.
The key to weight loss is as always excersise [well done you for trying], balanced meals, and less food. But to make weightloss stick you have to carry on with your diet. There is no point in going on one simply to loose a few extra lbs then to stop, as that will mean you will put it all back on. Also don't crash diet; wean yourself off the excess foods gradually.
http://health.howstuffworks.com/diet.htm
I like this boy who we where boyfriends and then we broke up then we got back to gether then he ceated on me so we broke up but know I like him but I dont know what to do cuse I dont know if he likes me but the bad part is that my bbfs dont like him and they alwas tell me to brake up with him what should I do?someone help me!!!
Let me get this right: you broke up with him several times, then got back together. Then he cheated on you and you still want to go back to him? At first glance I would say you were crazy, but if this was a one time thing, and you think he won't do it again, then maybe you should try talking to him. Bbfs are best best friends right? Humm, I think you need to find out why they don't like him. If its becues he treats you badly then maybe you should listen to them. If its becuse they just don't like him or whatever, then I think you shouldn't listen to themis the latter case, you could try to work out a compromise between the two parties, or maybe just keep them seperate.
good luck :)