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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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well lets see im 14/f and i like this kid and i dont know if he likes me... i mean ive known him forever.. and i dont no how to comfront him and tell him how i feel and that ive felt this forever.. i really need help with this. i mean hes hott and nice and sweet and everything and i think hes the one.. when i talk to him i get butterflies help me please!!!!
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brittany*

You have to tell him hun. Start dropping hints that your interested in him, flirt and start hanging out with him more often. You have to tell him though, no matter what the outcome. You'll feel so much better just knowing he likes you. So tell him, then take it from there.
♥ Krissy

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ok i have a b/f and mii best friend is a boy .. lately im so caught up in my b/f tht i havent made time for my best friend .. and im scared of losin our friendship what should i do ?
signed, confused

You can't lose your friendship with your best friend, gain it back. I'm sure you can spend sometime with your boyfriend, then sometime with your best friend. Try being with your boyfriend on certin days and your best friend on other days. I'm 100% sure you can space them both out. Try not being so caught up in your boyfriend. If your best friend starts realizeing your just ditching him for your boyfriend, you'll lose him. Believe me, you don't want that at all. Because boyfriends don't last forever hun, best friends do!
♥ Krissy

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Hey...ok i like this guy in 10th grade sooo much and he is my neighbor...and i dont know if he likes me should i ask him myself?? and do you think it would be weird for neiogbors?? ir eally need help someone! please!!! and i dont know what to ask him and stuff i wana no so bad and i dono if he has a gf!!
PLEASE

love
rach

You should drop him hints that you like him. Start flirting and hanging out with him more often. Then maybe he'll realize you like him. I think you should tell him though. Just come out and say it. Most guys like it when a girl makes the first move. It's not weird because you live next door to eachother at all. If everything works out between you guys, it would be awesome, because you could see eachother whenever you wanted.
♥ Krissy

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How exactly do you hook up? And what is it?

This could really have two meanings to it. Hooking-up could be, you just hooking up with a girl/guy for a night. Or it could be you hooking up with someone you like and you start going out.
♥ Krissy

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How do you know when your in love? When i see this guy i get the butterflies and my heart starts racing. I get all excited and hyper. I can never take my mind off him and i get depressed when i don't see him. He's my boyfriend now, but i just wanted to know if i am really in love.

Only you can tell if you truly love this guy. You get butterflies and your heart starts racing, that sounds like love sweetie. Congrat's. It's hard to find "true" love like that. You're boyfriends really lucky and he better realize that!
♥ Krissy

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ok well im a white female and i was thinking about getting my hair relaxed. my hair a a little wavy but not that bad its just some what thick if i dont straighten it. i was wondering 1 if anyone would or wouldnt recoment it and 2 wat to expect like how straight it would be/stay and wat i would have to do to get it straight. the lady at the hair salon told me my hair should be permanently straight

It stays for at least 6 months. I got it done and my hair was super straight, it looked really pretty. Another thing that works good (if you don't want to pay so much to get your hair permanently straight at a salon), you could try buying a perm, in the box. They work just as well. You do the samething as you were to do putting in a perm, you just don't put in the curlers.
♥ Krissy

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well me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year, and i dont know what to get him for vday i already got him a chain braclet and cologn..nd he got me a necklace ring and braclet..well what should I get him cause I already had the idea of giving him my diary/journal i write in every nite i no he'll lyk that but hes talken 50$ hes getting me something that much so what else can i get him?(14, likes football ; not preppy..his own stlye lykes nike ; doesnt really like hats)

That diary/journal thing sounds like a cute idea. I'm sure he'll love it. Maybe you could try getting him something from his favorite football team; poster, tickets to go see a game, a football, etc. Then just get him some little things; a card, chocolate, candy, etc.
♥ Krissy

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I have been dating this kid for 2 months now. He is 17 and i am 15. Before i started dating him he was dating this other girl that was 20 years old and they were engaged. Well a few months after i met this kid he broke up with his girlfriend and started dating me. Well you see hes always going out with his friends and most of the time if he goes to his friends house he doesnt come home for 2-3 days. People that he is friends with and people who i am friends with are telling me hes cheating on me and im dumb for not seeing it. Do you think hes cheating on me? What should i do?
-Please help me!!

He probably is cheating on you, since he's always gone for 2-3 days with his "friends". You really have to leave this boy before he hurts you even more then he's doing. Dump him, that's what you have to do. It might be hard but believe me, you'll be better off without him. You'll find some other guy that wont break your heart or cheat on you, I promise!
♥ Krissy

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does anyone no a good brand of eyeliner that you can like take off cuz all the ones i have wont come off even after i shower

NYC and Wet 'N Wild come off great. I use Wet 'N Wild and I have no problem taking it off. If you feel like it's still not coming off, wet a q-tip and take it off that way.
♥ Krissy

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I like a boy but he already has a girlfriend. I still told him I like him though. He told me he likes me but he doesnt want to break up with his girlfriend even though she is a snob. What should I do?

Get him to like you more then his girlfriend. He likes you already, so why not flirt with him a little and start hanging out with him! Maybe he'll realize that you're the one he wants to be with and not his snobby girlfriend.
♥ Krissy

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hi. well im like 5'6 and like 105. all the sites i go to like am-i-fat.com and stuff are like "omg ur emaciated" and crap like that. im not anorexic and i eat so why do these sites have a nervous breakdown when i tell them my height and weight? what do you think? i think they just expect that people aren't skinny? i dono

Some people are just made like that. They shouldn't be saying your anorexic just because you're 5'6 and only 105 pounds. There's nothing wrong with that at all. As long as you eat, you're perfectly fine. Don't worry about people calling you down and such, their just jealous ;)
♥ Krissy

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2 and a half weeks ago, my boyfriend broke up with me. I'm finding it really hard to get over him and today I found out that he has a new girlfriend. She's a girl who went to his primary school and he hasn't seen her for over two years. He says he likes her and all but I don't know if he's telling the truth or not. I spoke to her on MSN (I've never met her) and she seems nice, she said that if it was really bothering me then she would break up with my ex. I told her not to ruin things with him just because of me but I can't help feeling jealous. I love my ex and if his new girlfriend makes him happy then I hope they're happy together but it's still tearing me up inside. How do I deal with this?

The best thing to do is start dating other guys hun. Since you'll be on the "dating market" again, maybe you'll find the perfect guy for you that will make you forget about your ex. That's the only way you could deal with it. Keep in the back of your mind, you need to get your heart broken a couple of times before you find the one that wont break your heart. You'll find the perfect guy, don't you worry. Just give it sometime!
♥ Krissy

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hi i have a slight problem.. i cant stop sleeping with guys 15 years older than me. My last boyfriend had 3 kids with me. How can i stop sleeping with all these guys? what should i do?

Please help me... I need help..
MOLARRY CURLLLY

If your not on the pill, get on it. If you don't use condoms, your going to have to start. You can't afford to have anymore children. It sounds like your addicted to sex. Try laying off for alittle while. You're only young and you already have 5 kids, wow! Maybe when you feel like you need sex, try to please yourself, instead of going out to find a guy to do it for you.
♥ Krissy

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whenever i blow dry my hair.. it usually turns out poofy and not that straight. any one know how to blowdry ur hair straight or unpoofy? thanks!

Blow dry your hair in sections and use a round brush. While your moving your brush down, bring your blow dryer along with it. Spray a little bit of hair gel in it after your done a section (the kind that helps un frizz your hair). Then keep going through all the sections until your done your hair.
♥ Krissy

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Ok, yesterday I was on the phone with my boyfriend and he asked me what I want to do on Valentines Day. I'm 13 and he's 14. What should I do on V-Day with him and also------what is something that i should get as a gift 4 him????? Thanx---I rate high!!!!!!

You could make it a day, just for both of you guys. Hangout with eachother a home, rent a bunch of both your favorite movies and spend the hole day together. You could get him a bunch of candy and chocolate, then make him a card telling him just how much he means to you!
♥ Krissy

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Thank you so much for everything you helped me with.. =) i was the one with the problem about living in all kinds of foster homes & cutting.. thanks SO much for everything, i also come to you when i have problems, you made me realize a bunch of things.. and my friends are great friend, i just wanted to say thank you =D keep up the awsum work hunny!!!

You're welcome hun. That's so sweet, your such a sweetheart. I'm glad I can help you with your problems. There's nothing better then helping people out and actually making a change in their life.
♥ Krissy

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youre really pretty..what color is ur hair??

Thanks so much! Right now my hair is black with a copperish color in it.
♥ Krissy

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can you plz go on aol?

Okay!
♥ Krissy

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campbellton misses you!

I miss you guys up there too. I'm going to see everyone really soon. I might be going up there this weekend.
♥ Krissy

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What is a good brand of makeup remover that is under $3?? and not NYC

You can get a lot of great brands of makeup remover for cheap prices. You could go to, Zellers, Wal-Mart, K-Mart or Ardens. Everything is under $3!
♥ Krissy

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