E-mail:
southerngirl49@houston.rr.comGender:
FemaleLocation:
Texas baby!!!Occupation:
I don't have to workAge:
17AIM:
southerngirl4953Member Since:
June 26, 2004Answers:
445Last Update:
December 17, 2005Visitors:
27352Favorite Columnists
aDoRkAbLe_Co0kIe_
aleshia
Main Categories:
Love Life
Fashion and Styles
Pets
View All
about
Feel free to ask me anything
advice
does ne one know a song that's like
"I can see you"
...
"Summer of.."
that's all i really know of it. it's a guy rock band.
its called "The Boys Of Summer" by The Ataris
What is the best way to visually tease a guy? I don't mean like taking off your clothes... I mean like seduce.(I know this is a weird question, but I want to see what people say.)
umm eat a popcycle....like your lips...put ligloss on..bat your eyes alot...if you have a necklce that kind of drops low just play with that alot....flip your hair...if you wear a skirt...run your hands over your bumbum and act like your smoothing out the back of your skirt when you stand up(in front of him)just stuff like that!!
ok my boyfriens thinks that i am pregant because i have been complaing about my stomach hirting. and i tryed to tell him that its not that because i havent fucked in like 3 mouths. so what should i tell him....?most importantly how am i gonna get a test with out my parents seeing it.....? they still think that i am a virgin!!!!
help me please becasue i cant lose him!!!!!
well if you have had your period since you have had sex then your not pregnant!!!! and you dont need a test but if you want one....have one of your friends drive you to go get one..and then just take it when your parents arent around or when your taking a shower or something....then just wrap it up in tissue and put it in the bottom of the trash can in your bathroom....make that trash can realy full and then go put it in your big trash can the night before garbage day!!!
Ok i am 5'9" tall got brown hair and brown eyes and i aint fat but i aint like realli skinny. anyways i am 13 yrs old (almost 14) and i get alot of attention from guys when i am in a confident mood. but even when i look realli cute sometimes but i am not confident it seems like they dont pay attention to me. Do guys like when girls are confident in themselfs? Are guys more attracted to girls when they are confident? PLEASE HELP!
YESSS!!! guys dont want a girl who had low self esteem and thinks that she is ugly or a no good person or something like that! when a girl is confident, that tells a guy that hey this girl has it together, she knows who she is and what she wnats to do and she doesnt care what other people think of her! and that is a great attitude to have and just about any guy would like that!
ok im almost 13 and im going into the 8th grade. Ive never had a boyfriend in my life. But ive liked guys and i was always afraid if i asked em out theyd reject me and it would go around i would be a bigger loser that i am now because 'i tried to ask out someone more popular than me' or something. because im not a geek or anything but im not popular either. Im like the in-between-kinda person. I know you'll say "just ask em out, who cares what they think" but its easier said than done. I dont know what to do...PLease help me! thanks
well when the guy comes along that you like start feeling him out. After you have known him for a while, see if he could ever see you two dating and if he ever thinks you guys could have a civil relationship that would be more then friends. and talks like these are usually ALOT easier on the internet if you cant talk like this to a guy in person(which not alot of girls can). So just start kind of seeing where he sees yall going and who knows!!! he might ask you out first!!!!
how far should you go with a guy at age 13...and don't say "however far you wanna go"--thanks
nobody can really tell you how far you should go...its different for everybody and whatever feels right
ok i have a job interview on monday...its my first job (im 15)...does anyone have any advice?! im so nervous!
DONT BE NERVOUS!!!!! walk into that interview like you own the place!!!! dress nice, sit straight in the chair, use th words sir and ma'am after every question they ask you(if its appropriate to use)and just relax and take whatever comes at ya!
O.K. my family members and all sometimes say that I'm annoying, I have also heard it from some friends, I am 13 years old but I act like I am 5, I try not to but I guess its a habit and I can't help it! Have any tips? How can I not be 'annoying'?
*I RATE*
just be calm around people and dont be hyper. find out whatever it is that your doing that makes people think you annoying and dont do that. Also just try ro fit in with the people around you and dont feel like you have to be the ice breaker or the center of attention
how do you add columnist to you page??
go to add to my favorites or something like that!
There's this guy Anthony that I went out with this past January. Our whole relationship was kind of stupid and didn't last that long. He's 18 and graduated this year with my boyfriend. (they hate each other) My boyfriend went on a trip for a little while and since he's gone I figured I would spend some time with old friends. I just happened to start talking with Anthony again and we started hanging out. We talked everything over before we hung out and he knows my relationship situation and seemed to show respect for it. When I hung out with him last night though, we were just joking around and stuff. We watched a movie and we were laying on his bed. (No problems there) But soon after he started caressing my legs and stomach, and I got totally pissed. He said he respected that I was in a serious relationship with my boyfriend. What the hell is his problem? I need a way to tell him that that's not cool and to back the hell off in a nicer way then I probably would. I want us to still be cool, but for him to know that that's not exceptable.
ask him if he respects the relationship that you were in then why did he try and make moves on you!!! but then again he might have a small thing for you! its actually kind of hard for any guy to lay on his bed with a girl and not do anything!!! just tell him that if he cant handle just you to hangin out in a friends sort of way then maybe yall shouldnt hang out as much
i just moved to newton, MA, and i found out that a girl my age lives next door(im a guy). i havent seen her or met, and how could i go about doing so?
just go up anf introduce yourself!!!! remember that confidence is a BIG turn-on for a girl!!! So dont be scared to make the first move ad start up a convo!!! or you could just wait until you see her outside or something and then go outside and take it from there! or have your parents go over and introduce themselves to her parents and then you 2 could get to know each other better!!!
well i like this guya nd i thought he liked me and everyone thought he liked me and we were flirtyin like all night and the next day but now i cant ell cuz we havent hanged out and stuff.............what do i do how can i find out if he likes me ((with out havein to like ask him cuz that might make him feellike he has to like meor something))
PlEasE hElp?!?!?
Sara
well start hangin out again and then just kind of bring up the subject of you two...ask him where he sees you two going in the fufture or if he ever thinks you 2 could be together!!
15 female
thers this guy that i dated for bout 2 months but we still talked to each other...and everytime he tells me bout him and some girl i get pissed and evey time i tell him and some guy i get pissed...sometimes it pisses me off so much that i wanna cry and 1/2 the time i do...
do i still have feelings for him?
its not that you might still have feelings for him...its just that you know you used to be the girl in your life and now that your not, hearing him talk about another girl just kind of makes you jealous
hey, well i've had my period for almost 2 years and i still get that discharge is that weird?? what should i do
no thats not weird....every girl is different and there is really nothing you can do
I had sex with my boyfriend 2 nights ago (4 times)and yesterday afternoon i started bleeding in that area. I'm not supposed to get my period for another week .. and im still bleeding..
can sex cause u to start your period early?
or is it because i was having sex for only the second time and i got my cherry popped?
why am i still bleeding?
you could have just gotten your cherry poped! thats a for sure possibility. Sex can either have you start your period early or late the first few times..but you should know if the way your bleeding is your period or not
well, my horse is being trained, and i want her to trust me more. although, as a girl, she has a bitchy attitude. i know i should do groundwork, but whatelse could i do?? i can almost ride her, maybe in a few weeks.
will rate well!!
get her used to having a saddle put on her back...and when she tries to pull crap on you give her a little pop with a crop and let her know that she just cant push you around and make YOU do what SHE wants to do!!!! Be real bossy at first(sounds kind of cruel but mares and very stubborn and they just need to be controlled a little more different then a gelding!!!) put her on a longe line for about 30 minutes each day in full tack and get her used to being worked! And when she does what you ask her to..give her a treat!! (Applez N' Oats are the best treats ever!!!)And when your not working her, just love on her and groom her and let her know that you want to be her friend and not some body on her back that whips her with a stick!!! lol....just be patient and she will be an awesome horse in no time!
ok so there is this guy that 15 and im only 13. I really like him alot and he said he liked me also. Thats not the problem. He is really experinced in doing stuff like kissing and he knows how to be sexy and romantic. i have nver kissed a guy and he thinks i have. he wants to do "stuff" with me like get a blow job an make out and stuff like. I want to but i dont know if its right i mean b/c im soo young. Do you think i should just like make out with him and not have sex or anything? what should i do??
you do what you feels right and what you feel comfortable doing! If he wanst you to do stuff that your not comfortable doing then just say your not read!! If he is a good bf then he will understand!
does ne riders have some good tips on riding?? Like... good ways to stay calm and in control
one thing is that you can't be scared of the horse!!! he will knwo if your scared and then he will think "well if she is scared of me then maybe i should be scared of her" and start acting all jittery!!! Always keep your fingers closed tight on the reins!!! if you let a horse have to loose of a grip they will take off!! Always sit up straight and and keep your shoulders back with your heels down!!!! Just relax and enjoy the ride!!! And also know that yout trainers arent going to make you do anythign that would put you in danger so just do what they say and have fun!!!
hey i was wondering, does hem on pants look rele bad? i'll rate!
depends on what kind of pants...but like on jeans and stuff...no not really
*15, Female*
my parents want let me ride around w/ my friends that are like 16 17 18...and it makes me mad...i mean when i go to my friends house i ride around w/ them...and my mom doesn't know...and then i feel like a dork when my friends call and ask if i can go and i have to be like *my mom want let me ride w/ ppl* and it jst pisses me off! ahh!
idk...wat can i do to get my mom to let me ride w/ my friends??
tell your parents that your not a little kid and that your plenty old enough to go ride around with friends. And tell her that your friends are good drivers and have never been in any wrekcs or anything like that(if thats whats shes worried about)