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ok so i really like this guy.We dont talk or anything its been actcually a long time since we've talked. So today [feb.26] he couldnt really keep his eyes off of me. i mean i think he likes me & all & even once in a while he'll smile really quick and if i catch him he'll turn around quick to the other side.

i thinks he confused and debating if he likes me or not.
So, do you think he likes me?

well if he looks at you and you catch him, then he looks away quickly, that is a really good sign he likes you. Maybe he is just shy. Hey it happens, believe it or not ha ha. And if he checks you out, even if its just quickly, then thats a good sign as well..
I think you should make the first move. He could be scared too...ask for his number or email or something...or a group date..
-hayley

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so my boyfriend fingered me for the first time the other day and it felt great and i wanted to know what else we could do sexually wise without having sex.

there is the type of sex like fingering and handjobs, or the oral type, which would be eating out for a girl and blow jobs for a boy...
-hayley

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How do i get girls to love me?!?

wow. Im going to assume your a guy..ha ha..What way do you mean darling? Like love love you? like boyfriend girlfriend love?? I hate to tell you but you cant on that one. But girls do like when guys are sensitive and arent afraid to share there feelings. They like guys who will protect them and kiss them on the forehead (instead of just the mouth or other areas) and who will just hold them against them. We don't like guys who are afraid to hold there hand in public or to stick up for them or to be afraid to throw their arm around them and say "i love you" in front of their friends.
Now if you mean like friends wise then just be yourself...although some girls are kinda iffy on the be yourself thing, like if you were a "geek" and a really "popular" girl then i doubt she would be greatest to you. I know total stereotyping but what can you do??
-hayley

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I'm curious to know that if you cry for the boy you like does that really mean you love him enough to even cry for him?

Good question. I dont know if it would mean you loved him, I would just think it would mean that you cared for him and he broke your heart in someway. Like even if he didnt know he was doing it. Like maybe if he were to have a girlfriend then you would be heartbroken because you know he wouldnt be yours. Or if he was to think he was doing innocent flirtin but really you had feelings...or if he just rejected you....But i think maybe it could mean something along those lines.

But if you love someone, it isnt about jealousy or bragging, its patient and kind. You could cry over love yes, but I guess it would really depend on whats going on in your heart and soul.

-hayley

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I came across the movie, '17 Again' on google starring Zac Efron and Matthew Perry and I really want to see this movie. But it confused me because I don't know if it's coming out or already came out? Does anybody know this? xD

oh i seen the advertisement for that on a movie like in the previews...I think it comes out either august or september...somewhere around there...its about a man who turns seventeen again and gets to redo his life..!! should be great :)
-hayley

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i have a teal dress for a formal at my school and i was wondering what color shoes to buy? i'm not really a fan of the silver shoes they have for prom but i really can't think of any colors that would look good with teal

you could try white....i had a teal dress once and i wore white with it...it was for my eighth grade dance and it was formal...it looked good, sometimes they have teal colored shoes so maybe you could find some like that too, but i would go for white
-hayley

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So i had a sleep over with some friends and we got to the subject of where we want to have sex with our husbands when we're older. a couple of us named off in a hot tub, but a couple other friends said that it's bad. they heard a girls ovaries got busted doing it because of the water pressure.

i was wondering if that's true. is it even possible or risky?

I wouldnt reccomend it because of infections and stuff, And i side with the person below me. i do believe they are exaggerating it a lot, but dont risk it. I have never had the experience of sex at all, but i still wouldnt reccomend it.
-hayley

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Well, my friend admitted that she was bulimic. I researched what that meant, and it says that it is forcing yourself to vomit. I don't even understand how that would work. I really want to relate to what my friend is going through and how I can help her stop, since it's so obviously a bad thing.

So, what is she doing that I have to prevent?

How does one make themselves puke?

Really you should tell someone...your heart is in the right place but this is very serious and can really hurt her. It can tear her asophagus up and her stomach lining too. And obviously underweight. Tell a parent, a cop, a principal, a doctor, etc.

All one has to do is shove a finger or a toothbrush down their throat and be persistent with it, and the vomit will come up.
good luck!
-hayley

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ok when a guy hold your hand and your like sitting there and he rubs his thumb over your hand what are you supposed to do? do rub his hand too? or just do nothing at all?

well i guess it really depends...i mean you could do something if you wanted to...as for the hands deal i would probably just sit there... but i would probably lay my head on his shoulder :)
-hayley

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you know how there are age limits for different movies? well, if a kid is in a movie, and they are either under the rated R limit or under the PG-13 limit, do they still get to go into the theatre to see it at the premiere?

They only get in with a parent or gaurdian, or with their approval i think

-hayley

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£6.00 ?
$16.00 or $6.00? i know it has to do with the UK.

it is a brittish pound

its their type of money...you can use a currency calculator such as this one to see what this would be in other countries:

http://www.x-rates.com/calculator.html

-hayley

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okay so for some reason my tampons hurt when i pull them out...is this normal. and this is the first period that i've actually used a tampon

yeah its totally normal. Maybe it could be hurting because it isnt quite full yet also. I would say wait till you start cramping up or look at the string (like in a mirror or something) and if you see blood on the string then its full. But it will just take time to get used to.
-hayley

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16/f. Hi I'm a junior in high school and I like this guy, let's call him Nate. He's also a junior, but he's dating this girl, lets call her Jen. She is a senior though. Nate and I met at the beginning of this year but have actually known of eachother for a while. We've had Chemistry class toghether all year and have always worked in the same lab groups. There has always been flirting and playfulness between us. We have hung out 3 times out of school. The last time, Jen was there. A week later they started going out. It has been like two weeks since then. I seem them in the halls together before and after 2nd period. Then during 6th period(chem), we flirt a lot. I've had so many people tell me he and I need to get together and that we'd be so cute. I really like him, what should I do? Thanks.

I say wait for him. I know its lame but what can you do. Dont be the kinda girl that breaks them up; it causes drama and hate. And dont be the girl that sits by the phone waiting for his call either. Just wait for him to come to you.
-hayley

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Ok, I donno if you know the site ''www.funnyjunk.com''
But when it's layout was still yellow and shitty (couple of years ago) they used to have this vid on the side called ''coconuts''
It's to the song ''I've got a lovely bunch of coconuts! Here they are standing in a rroowww! Big ones, small ones, some as big as your head! You give them a twist, a flick of the wrist...etc''
And the video was like coconuts and some other fruit, and a woman on her car with an animated face...and just loads of animated pics.
If you know what I'm talking about, drop a link to it please?! :D

Thanks!

i found one:

http://youtube.com/watch?v=MR_3c5rejrE&feature=related

-hayley

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when someone says skeet skeet.
? what is it. i think i know but i wanna make sure.

pretty much it is just a guy putting his sperm into a girl during intercourse....i guess its kinda a sound effect..ha ha :)
-hayley

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I recently found a small, brown mole on my stomach. It's not yellowish or weird-looking, it looks like a regular mole and it's very tiny, however i've never had it before or seen it before so I was just wondering if I should go check it out or if I'm just paranoid. Thanks!

Unless it has odd shape, or weird color, or gets really sore, then you should be fine!

You probably have had it, just didnt notice it.

-hayley

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Hey this is Celinas friend Chelsea...
I was wondering if i could get a little help myself...see theres this guy, i LOVE him, but he has no idea...lots of people say we're a cute couple and everything, but of course one of my best friends (not celina

I say that you just tell him, he might like you more, (but your friend might get mad) and with that i cannot help. And Remember that there will be lots of guys but not many good friends..

I would reccomend you say how you feel but in a calm manner girl! :) ha ha and you cant make him love him back. So if he dont like you, you got to let it go, let him go.

-hayley

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So i really like this guy. We are reallly close and as a joke he always says hes in love with my mom. I know its a joke but my friend told me that he told her that my mom gave him head. Its starting to get weird. Like whenever hes over my house he goes to my mom and says hi and gives her a hug and hes always talking about my mom. Is this something i should be worried abot? thanks

That is odd, i understand a little bit of statement but sugar it must be getting very weird. Just tell him you dont like it and what not. I think he has a crush like on that song staceys mom?? have you heard it? its real funny but it seems as though thats whats going on here.
-hayley

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okay this may be confusing. one of my good friends.. we'll call him T.. liked me, apparently a lot. but he also wasnt over my good friend Alysa. i liked him too but i didnt say anything to him cause i was hearing this from other people, and i didnt want it to be false. now, i liked this other boy too. we'll cal him A. A apparently liked me for awhile, but then when i started to like him back he said he didnt really like me. then when he found out i liked him he apparently likes me again, weird? so, he asked me out on the 12th and i figured the T thing was just a rumor so i went out with him. big mistake. the second we were going out i liked T so much more. A didnt flirt with me anymore andhe always asked me to hang out. then when i ask him to hang out hes just like "i guess" and then he was sick. so we havent really spoken except for texting during our entire relationship. THEN last night i was at my friends house with Alysa, and some other people. one of the boys brought up the suject of T and was like i heard he likes Alysa a lot and she was like i like him too and they were texting. i had alraedy told her the previous day i liked him about 4 different times. then i was talking to my other friend, and she was like yeah Alysa said her and T probably wont go out because seh THINKS you like him. so she basically "forgot?" about my feelings, and she did this before with this other boy i liked. so when i got home i talked to T. and he said he did like me but now he likes Alysa because i went out with A [ who i dont even really like anymore ] i told him i liked him and he started talking like "k." "ok." "yup." and that made me feel even worse. and A doesnt even know about this. what should i do? break up with A? stay with him? any advice is greatly appreciated!!!!!! sorrythat this was so long.!!!!

quite frankly they both sound like jerks to me. I would get rid of both of them. They arent worth your time. Do you want A to always talk to you like that? Do you want T to always act like that? I dont think so...i say just try to forget about both of them because you can do better! :)
-hayley

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Hi, i was wondering, when you kiss someone is there supposed to be feeling?
I mean i kinda get a feeling in my stomach.and kinda get excited somewhere else.But i wanted to know if theres supposed to be a feeling with your lips or anything.

Also..is it possible for a girl to get wet just from kissing, not all to much like making out, just kissing alot.

well really the whole thing with lips, i guess it just depends on the person or the person your kissing at the moment. i think that if you were to really like the person you would get feeling everywhere...

and yeah lots of girls do that...
-hayley

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