...Im shay, I love giving advice. I've learned a lot of lessons from myself and my four other siblings. If I havent been through it, my friends have, or my family has, I can pretty much solve peoples problems. I do it all the time, thats why I love giving advice. I'm a sucker for music, ask me questions about it, Im sure I can help you. I play guitar, I play tennis, I'm pretty atheletic.
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You need to answer this really quick because Its almost time to go to school!! Alright well I am thinking of asking this kid out, but Im not sure if he likes me. . and well I just want to get over w/ it so I wont be obsessing over somone who doesnt even like me so I wanna find out and I rlly like him so much I need to do thi I am afraid of gettin my heart broken, but if he doesnt like me o well. . Do oyu think Im making the right decision? I mean I want to, but I've known him for like 4 mounths anyways, but I dont know alot alot about him. . I know hes a nice person, very funny, and hes a total hottie. . Well hurry and answer! PLEASE PLEASE PLEAsE!!
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Well if you really like him that is your decision, but usually girls dont ask guys out. He'll probably laugh about it. Maybe be his friend and flirt etc. He'll eventually ask you out!
-shay :-)
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Why can't he see all the signs I try to make whenever he looks at me I try to look back and make eye contact but he always turns away too quickly. . i really love him! I cantt ake my eyes off of him. . and soemtimes I think he gets annoyed because I stare at him so much. . I just melt wheneerI try to go talk to him I cant do it. . im too nervous I dont have anything to say I men we could talka bout his football. . ugh and well I dont think hed like me. . and Im so negative. . Are his looks of anger? or for love? I dont understand if he likes me or not. . I rlly like him and I wish I could have a chance with him. . we never get to talk anyways except 4 lunch but he is with all his friends. . and so I just want to atleast be his friend! My life is so horrible MAKE IT STOP! HELP ME! Iw ant to ask him out. . should I I mean I have known him 4 4 or 5 months already. . but I only know that hes funny, sweet & really cute. .HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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I think you should go for it and talk to him. There really is nothing you can lose. If a guy came up to me randomley I'd definetley talk to him. Go for it!
-shay :-)
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I want to make my best friend a care package to cheer her up because that's just the sort of thing we do for each other. I guess I should put candy in it and maybe some fun little toys but I want unique little fun things, not stupid redundant little things that aren't really that fun. Anything you can think of that's surprisingly entertaining yet fits in a lunch bag? (link)
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Go to the $.99 store or dollar tree. They have really cool stuff there that are surprisingley neat. They're not cheap stuff either. They last a long time. Like those small glass bears, candles etc.
-shay :-)
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If you're still stuck on an ex who has a new g/f, are you as pathetic as you feel? (which is very pathetic) (link)
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No your not pathetic. Your just getting over a strong relationship.
-shay :-)
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I haven't had a boy friend yet but I feel like I could just pick any boy and have sex with them but i'm afriad to ask to hook up with the guy.
I just REALLY REALLY REALLY!!!!!!!! need sex do you think i'm desperate HELP ME (link)
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Okay I think you should calm down. You cant just pick somebody. You have to have strong feelings for that person. Unless you want to be labeled as a hore. I think you stay a virgin.
-shay :-)
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I'm studying up on telepathy and telekinesis. I know this is highly doubtful, but does anybody know anything about these subjects? I know what they are and they ARENT psyhic situations. They are simply part pf physical reality, although you don't touch while performing telekinesis. I just want to know...has anybody ever witnessed these phenomenons or do any of you know of...or experienced anything such as this. I want to learn how to do this myself...somebody please help if you can. Even if you don't have advice for me, please just let me know whether you believe this stuff can happen or not...I want more opinions. Thank You. (link)
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Telepathic is the only one Ive heard of. Only expierienced on like movies and shows though. It seems cool to communicate from one mind to another. You mean your studying this for school? Or is this just is for fun?
-shay :-)
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What do you do when you've been dissed by the one guy you really really like? You tell him something and your happy and he wants you to stop being happy because he's annoyed. Is that being dissed or is he just stating his mind?
Need to know,
Rose Masaki (link)
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Thats being dissed and that reakky sucks. If I was dissed by the guy I liked I'd diss him back. Go ehead and diss him!
-shay :-)
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I have a boyfriend, David. His ex-girlfriend is my best friend. I made the mistake of allowing him to come over while she was over. I know that he has no feelings for her what-so-ever, but she likes him. She was hanging all over him. I couldn't get her to stop.Now she is saying how she wants him back, she won't get him, but how do I get her to leave us alone without being mean? (link)
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You could try to get her, her own boyfriend. Or you could tell her that threes a crowd and you will have time for each of one of the two. Aslo tell her how he doesnt want her back. If this will ruine one of the relationships. You're going to have to choose.
-shay :-)
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My ex boyfriend dumped me over about 2 months ago and im still hung up on him. Even though he's moved on. I really want to get back together with him and I can't stop thinking of him, and he doesn't even notice me anymore. What do I do?
SL (link)
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There really is nothing you can do, but move on too. There are plenty of fish in the sea!
-shay :-)
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Does anyone else ever get an itchy spot on their hand that, even when you scratch, doesn't go away?
HOW CAN I MAKE THE ITCHING STOP!?! Its brutal. (link)
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lol! I hate that, but you know what? It means your gonna get money soon! Well I think you should try washing your hand with a lot of soap. That works!
-shay :-)
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I was only flipping out at some person because he/she was being wicked rude and Its over anyways that was posted awhile ago. . sry you thought I was crazy or something.. (link)
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lol! Another unknown question! So I think this was a rejected question or accedentaly made to public. Better luck next time!
-shay :-)
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well i used to live with my step mom. she was very abusive in many ways (ie) telling me i was worthless, throwing things at me, forgeting about me all kinds of thing she once made me stand in a corner from sunrise to sunset for 6 days straight but im getting off topic...im now no longer living there i was able to move in with my father who i realized that i wanted to live with after i could see through all the brainwashing done by my mother.... now its been a few months since i last saw her let alone talk to her...yet after all of the pains she has caused me i keep trying to reachout and make contact with her. i called her to wish her a happy new year and merry christmas and she never called me back to even say hi. yet im still filled with a conpulsion to call her once more and try all over agian. each time i do this im thrown into a depression that is hard to get out of. should i keep trying to reach out or should i go about it another way. please help
lost in fl. (link)
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If youve noticed your mother doesnt respond to your calls maybe she doesnt want to talk to you. So this is your step mother right? If so there is no need to keep in contact. You and her have no blood relation. If this is your mother your talking about definetley try back a coupple more times.
-shay :-)
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ok so this is the problem a month ago tommorow i started dating this guy. he treats me like a saint. he says he loves me and his brother and father tell me how good i am for him.in fact that after his life went downhill, im the only thing to make him happy, but im unhappy. im not physically attracted to him. and i kno thats shallow, but he likes to be very physical. today this guy i really like asked me out, i said yes w/o thinking. i really dont want ot hurt the guy im with now. and i refuse to cheat. im so confused and hurting inside like u would not believe. he did nothing to deserve this, its just i felt like i was smothering. maybe im wrong. i kno i am, that i should be able to make myself love him the way he does me, but i cant... i just cant. god please help me, and tell me what to do. im soo confused (link)
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Like you said cheating is never good. First of all you should tell your boyfriend how you feel. Just like you told your story. Secondley tell the guy who asked you out if you can wait a wile for a relationship because of a recent break up. Also tell both of them that you will still remain friends.
-shay :-)
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please can anyone tell me things to avoid on a dates ( mention whether it's for the girl or the boy) because i am starting a caution notebook on dates. (link)
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Avoid a dead silence conversation. If it gets like that the guy wont want to go on another date with the girl. Also avoid bad habits those are never good. Hope I helped!
-shay :-)
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There is this guy..I like him a LOT...He is funny and nice and everything...but this other guy asked me out..And i like him too..You see...
The first guy is...Funny...Nice..Cute..Sweet..etc..
The Other guy is...Nice..Cute..And obssesive..and Funny...
I like them both..But i dont know which one to go with...What do you think? (link)
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Get to know each one of the guys. See which one you like most between the two. It also dapends on which one you like most. I cant pick him for you.
-shay :-)
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I like a guy(GUY 1), I don't know if he likes me. I think he does but I'm not sure. I'm 16 he's 18. We work together. We're friends.
So far it's relatively bog standard dilemma.
However...
I just had a mess up with one of the other guys(GUY 2) at work (he liked me, I don't like him but he thought I did). Guy 1 suggested that we pretend to be dating to basically piss of GUY 2( what the hell is that suggesting). Without thinking, I agreed.
What the hell am I supposed to do? (link)
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Im thinking guy1 wants to piss off guy2 because he wants him to know your all his. Hes expecting guy2 to let go and give up on you. So what Im saying is guy1 like you.
-shay :-)
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WHEN TALKING TO UR CRUSH WHAT THINGS SHOULD U AVOID WETHER U R A GIRL OR A BOY. (link)
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Avoid bad habbits like cracking your knuckles, blowing your nose, etc. Dont talk so much and dont be mean to them like you are to your family. Act normal.
-shay :-)
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ok i am home all alone for like the next 9hrs (today is the 2 and its 9:30 in florida) any suggestions on wut i should do besides learn how to type rite?
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Watch a movie with a friend or search the web. Oh I know a good website! www.emode.com! It has a bunch of personality quizes and stuff. Its a lot of fun!
-shay :-)
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WHAT SIGNS CAN U GET FROM A GUY TO KNOW HE WANTS TO BE MORE THAN JUST FRIENDS. ALSO SIGNS FROM A GIRL. (link)
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Girl:
*She stares at the guy until he stares back at her and then she smiles
*she anxiosley asks the guy who he likes and then critizes that girl
*laughs at his dumb jokes
*Does anything she can to talk to him or run into him
*Tells him "I wont tell you who I like" with a big smile
Boy:
*Touches her (hair, legs, arm, hand) as much as he can
* Smiles at her when she smiles at him
*Asks her who she likes constantly
*Makes up weird names of people like "oh you like Joe!"
*He hits her all the time by playing around
*He calls her to talk about nothing at all
Where there you go! All the stuff that people do when they like someone! I sure hope I helped!
-shay :-)
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I have come to a conclusion.
My conclusion is: I am physically incapable of paying attention in algebra. I'm dead serious. I look DIRECTLY at the teacher, follow along in the book EXACTLY, and block out the sounds of Rick and Betsy ENTIRELY but I just CANNOT take in a word she says! When I was in regular math, I got all C's. Then I was moved to PreAlgebra and got 98's for a whole year. Now I'm in stinking algebra and starting to get C's again.
Have you ever been in a room with two people speaking a completely forigen language? You can listen and hear everyword, but it doesn't process in your brain. Welcome to math class. Another reason may be because I have it first class (8:00-9:45am) and the 13-year-old brain doesn't start fully functioning untill about 10. I'm just ALWAYS thinking about something else, usually my boyfriend, but sometime's I'll just read through class and then fail all the tests and homework. How can I get this into my brain??(sorry this was long)
~Non-Compliant with Algebra I (link)
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Okay I used to have the same problem and occasionaly I still drift off into my own little world. No matter what you need to stay focused all throughout your class period. When you find yourself drifting imediatley close that subject in your mind and listen to the teacher. If you still dont get it you can always ask questions afterwards!
-shay :-)
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