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I'm 18 and about to enter my sophomore year of college. Feel free to ask me questions about anything- I'll try to help in the best way possible! :)
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does anyone know how many calories the new orange+creme frappacino has? and also the ice coffee from mcdonalds? are they bad for you in any way? thanks
A Grande packs in 430 calories. A Grande without creme has 320 calories. A LIGHT Orange+Creme grande has 140 calories - best bet (plus it's fat free).
And Iced Vanilla Cream has 140 calories.
hi im 13 and i have masturbated about 10 time with back of pens cucumbers and random things in the house which you shouldnt masturebate with im scared about my period i turn 14 in 3 weeks will this affect my period coming im scared about if i damaged something i have stopped masturebating now please help im really scared thank you
You can keep on masturbating, don't worry. It shouldn't affect your period, unless you're using extremely dirty object, then maybe there's something that can mess it up. I don't think that there is, though. When you use random things, it's okay, just as long as they're CLEAN & STERILE. As for using a condom on some objects such as cucumbers, that's alright. It's better to be safe then sorry. Cucumbers are perfectly smooth. There's some nooks, that will have dirt and other germs on it & aren't easy to wash. Sometimes condoms are a good idea, but if they're unavailable, just make sure you're being sanitary!
alrighgt so me and my boyfriend have had sex many time before and we have used a condom everytime exet yesterday we had sex 3 times in one day without a condom.. we ran out of condoms and so wejust did it without a condom he pulled out before he ejaculated each time but im worried if like it could be possiable that he missed some when wiping the sperm off his dick because we went again right after he ejaculated so im just worried about that.. should i be?
You should be worried. Pulling out is NOT an effective way of contraception. There's pre-cum, and you can still get pregnant off of that. Even if there wasn't a such thing as pre-cum, sperm is TINY, and if he just wiped it off with a tissue, he might have not been able to wipe it all off. Be careful, because you're at risk.
so basically, this sounds weird and all, but whats the order of sex? Like in most situations it starts by like making out on the bed. Do you have to go in order by the bases or what? i'm a little confused on what comes after the feeling up part.
haha ok thanks.
People just do whatever they feel like doing. Some like to make out, and ease into other things to get them in the mood/foreplay. Other people just like to make out and get going. Hahaha. But there's really no order. It's up to you.
this is kind of awkward but how can you tell if you're guy is "hard" or not? Like it should be pretty obvious but just so i dont try anything while he's soft.
thanks.
If you're not too sure, but you're ready to do something, you can kind of ease your hand and maybe brush it by his pants to see if it's hard. It might sound weird, but if you don't really want to start to make a move when he's soft, this is probably the best way to go at it. Haha.
uh..... how come sometimes you feel like a heartbeat "down there"? btw im a girl.
It means that you're aroused/turned on. Blood rushes, and it causing it to 'thump' like a heartbeat. It's okay, it happens to everybody, you're fine. =)
Hi I need advice! Can my gyno tell if i masterbate?
No. Plus they wouldn't/shouldn't care anyway. So many people do it, and it probably doesn't even phase them. Don't worry. =)
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ok so im not sure if im pregnent or not. i took two pregnancy tests which both came out negative but im a week late on my period. should i be worried or not?
Probably not. Sometimes periods are delayed because of stress, and you're probably just extremely stressed out because you think that you're pregnant. If you still don't get your period within the next week, try another test. If you're really worried, go to the clinic.
well what does it mean when people say they are into bonding now...or bondaging? i know it means something sexual..it it like going down on someone and all that good stuff?? lol
Bondage is basically like, kinky sex. People use whips, handcuffs, leather outfits lol, etc.
Ok I feel stupid for asking this but are girl boxers worn like instead of an underwear or do you wear underwear underneath? Can you wear it as shorts?
If I'm thinking the same kind of boxers as you're thinking, then no I don't wear them as underwear. They're too loose and if you like just sit down and barely open your legs they have pretty much no coverage. I wear underwear under them, and just wear them as pajama shorts.
can i hear your story? do you regret it? thoughts/feeling now? still in a relationship with that guy? or was it a one night stand? I'm just curiouss pleasee && thank you for readingg and respondingg =]
I'm 15, and I'm still a virgin. I have a boyfriend, but I know that I'm not ready yet. Even though I like him, I don't love him. I know I don't, and I don't like him enough to have sex with him. I want my first to be somebody I'm head over heals over, and I want it to be special. I think I'm ready, but I'm waiting for the right time & the right person. My friend lost her virginity when she was 15. She doesn't regret it. She's been going out with her boyfriend for a year and a half, and they first had sex after about 10 months. Even though she's young, I think that they truley love eachother. She doesn't regret it, because she loves him and she knows that he was the one.
how do i make out? i can't just "go with the flow." please help meeee! im so nervous. 29/m
Seriously, when people say 'go with the flow', that's truely the best advice they can give you when you're making out. You have to be RELAXED. Don't think about it, that's why you need to 'go with the flow'. If you're thinking about which direction to move your tongue, where to put your hands, when you should stop, etc., you're not going to enjoy it, and you're not going to be any good at it. Just focus on the kiss, and go with it. That's honestly all you have to do. I thought that it would be so hard to make out with somebody, but you just have to not think and worry about it. Don't plan out anything, because it's probably not going to turn out. RELAX!; & that's the best advice I can give.
Hey, i pretty much just started having bulimia.. but i'm stopping now.. trying a different direction in loosing weight.. i read all these things that can happen if you have bulimia.. about how long does it take to get those affects!? Because i definatly donnntt want them; and i reallyyy hope i don't!! ANSWER THIS ASAP!! pleaseee
You should stop doing whatever you're doing that you're calling bulimia. I'm assuming that you're eating and purging. If you think that will make you lose weight, it really doesn't. I've gone through it before. Bulimics are actually usually average weight or overweight. It usually doesn't make you skinnier, even if you think it does. If it's not even bad enough that you know that you can stop yourself, then stop. Some of the affects, like teeth decay, happen after long periods of time. I've read that it takes 3 days for the mucus in your throat to totally repair or whatever after you've purged, so if you've been doing it more than once every 3 days, then your throat is probably already getting irritated. Just stop now if you know you can, because things will just spiral out of control before you know it. I know what you're going through right now, so if you need some more help with this issue, just send it to my inbox.
Whats the difference between bi and bi-curious?
Bi (Bisexual) is in you're attracted to males and females. BiCurious is if you're not quite sute if you're Bi or Straight, and you might want to experiment a bit.
what are the bases? like a guy going to 1st, 2nd, 3rd, or 4th with a girl? I don't know what each one is. thanks
1st: Kissing/Making Out
2nd: Fingering/Hangjob
3rd: Oral Sex
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wahts sexual tension
"the tension felt between two people who want to do something sexual together but hold back."
(www.urbandictionary.com)
Does a guy's virginity mean as much as it does to a girl?
Of course. But basically it's based on the guy's morals and beliefs. Some girls don't really believe that not being a virgin is a big deal, and so do some guys. While some girls want to stay a virgin & it's important to them, that's the same for the guys. In our society, it kind of seems like it's more important to the girl, but really it depends on your beliefs.
yep. i need myspace codes. ok here they are:
1. a code to hide the things under headline [like the age city etc..]
2. hide comments.. i mean like.. still showing but then you need a scrollbar 4 that .. you know what i mean? like scroll bar comments so my myspace isnt that long]
3. put my top friends visible but then theyre altogether lik sticked together [cuz when they are not it makes my page wide wich i hate]
4. the code for not making BIIG comments [like the images] Big! i hate those they kill up my page! like this: when someone guves me a big image in my comments it turns to like really small when ppl view my profile...
lol i hope you get it... thanks please help me.. im begging you im so despearte!
1.- Paste into your HEADLINE. NOT your about me.
& put your caption infront of the code (quotion mark.)
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2.- I think you wanted a scrollbar for your comments?
Paste into ABOUT ME.
3.- I can't find this code anywhere, either. I've been looking for it for a long time myself!
4.- Paste into your ABOUT ME.
body table tr table tr td.text table tr td.text table tr td table tr td a img {width:auto;}
body table tr table tr td.text table tr td.text table tr td table tr td a > img {width:400px;}
body table tr table tr td.text table tr td.text table tr td table tr td img {width:400px;}
body table tr table tr td.text table tr td.text table tr td table tr td:first-child a img {width:auto;}
body table tr table tr td.text table tr td.text table tr td table tr td div img {width:80px; height:20px;}
Ahh I hope you enjoy, they took me forever to find. :)
well, i'm 15 and i'm definitely not having sex before marriage. me and bf are sure of that and are strong with our beliefs.
but for me, i'm little lost on some things. i would just like to be a little bit smarter with the subject.
1st - is ejaculation (for both guys and girls)good or bad? is it gross? does it get on anything?
2nd - what are orgasms for? what do they do? why do people always ask about them?
3rd - what is "popping the cherry"? is it bad? is it something to watch out for? does it hurt?
4th - and when i am married i'm a little afraid to have sex because a lot of people say it can and can't hurt and girls can always can get pregnant. is there anything to really be afraid of? what is there to really watch out for?
5th - how well do condoms work? would condoms work everytime we would have sex?
thanx for answering...
1.- Ejaculation isn't really good/bad. When a boy ejaculates, that's when he's had an orgasm (refer to next number lol). Girls do it ocassionaly, but not every time they orgasm. Yes, it can get on things. A girl gets pregnant from a boy ejaculating in her. Ejactulation can also get on basically anything. Ex. other body parts, the bed, the couch, clothes, etc. haha
2.- Orgasm are basically when you're messing around/masturbating, the release of sexual tension. They provide sexual pleasure and they feel good. People probably ask about them all the time because they like the feeling of them.
3.- Popping your cherry is the breaking of the hymen. It's a thin layer of "skin" that's I think in the vagina. It's not bad that you break it, because every girl does it at one point or another. Sometime you don't even know when you break it. You can break it while you're running, biking, using a tampon, or engaging in sexual activities. Just because you popped your cherry doesn't label you as a slut. It doesn't have to be related to anything sexual at all. I don't even know when I broke mine but I know that it's broken because I use tampons. So personally, it didn't hurt for me.
4.- Even if there is a form of birth control, there's always the tiny tiny percent chance of pregnancy. Condoms guarentee to work 99.9% of the time, because sometimes people don't use them correctly or they break/slip off, and companies don't want to be held accountable for guaranteeing no risks of pregnancy. Same with birth control and other contraceptives. If you're afraid to have sex, that means that you're not quite ready. There's a lot of things to watch out for, such as pregnancy and STDs. You just have to be careful. Yes, it can hurt for some girls, and for other girls no. It really depends & varies from person to person.
5.- Condoms work 99.9% of the time, if used correctly. If you use them correctly, then they should work well.
Hope I helped. :)
i really don't know what an orgasm is, or how you get it, can someone please tell me what it is.
"It is accompanied by quick cycles of muscle contraction in the lower pelvic muscles, which surround the primary sexual organs and the anus. Orgasms are often associated with other involuntary actions, including vocalizations and muscular spasms in other areas of the body, and a generally euphoric sensation."
from: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Orgasm
You can tell when you get one.