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Question Posted Monday June 11 2007, 11:03 am

alrighgt so me and my boyfriend have had sex many time before and we have used a condom everytime exet yesterday we had sex 3 times in one day without a condom.. we ran out of condoms and so wejust did it without a condom he pulled out before he ejaculated each time but im worried if like it could be possiable that he missed some when wiping the sperm off his dick because we went again right after he ejaculated so im just worried about that.. should i be?

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leLovely answered Thursday June 14 2007, 1:14 am:
You should be worried. Pulling out is NOT an effective way of contraception. There's pre-cum, and you can still get pregnant off of that. Even if there wasn't a such thing as pre-cum, sperm is TINY, and if he just wiped it off with a tissue, he might have not been able to wipe it all off. Be careful, because you're at risk.

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Brandi_S answered Monday June 11 2007, 3:25 pm:
Of course you should be worried. Like YG said, there is sperm in his pre-cum, so you can get pregnant weather he wipes off the sperm or not.

The pull-out method is not an effective way to avoid pregnancy. I have an infant son that proves that fact. Luckily, though he was unplanned, he was far be it from unwelcome, considering my husband and I are perfectly capable of taking on the responsibility of children without having to rely on our parents for help. That, and we were both ready to start a family.

If you become 2 weeks late for your next due period, you need to get tested. If you can't afford a test, your county Health Department will test you free of charge, assuming you live in the U.S.

They will also provide you with condoms free of charge, so if you are nearing the end of your supply and find you have empty pockets, swing by and pick up a few.

It's much better to be a little embarrassed by asking for condoms than it is to go without and risk an unplanned pregnancy, especially if you have no means to care for the child independently.

You don't mention your age, but do you feel you could confidently raise a child on your own? If you don't, and you end up being pregnant, be sure to attend unplanned parenting classes. You will learn a wealth of information that can help you be the best parent you hope to be.

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christina answered Monday June 11 2007, 3:12 pm:
Yeah.


I don't know how many times to say it, but; PULLING OUT DOES NOT WORK. IT'LL NEVER WORK. STOP...PULLING...OUT. Use a condom, EVERYTIME.


Pulling out is NOT effective & there's always a chance of pregnancy from having unprotected sex whether you pull out or not. It's also NOT effective against preventing STDs/AIDS.


Keep wearing a condom, stop pulling out & get on birth control. In the meantime, if you don't get your period -- get a pregnancy test.

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karenR answered Monday June 11 2007, 11:48 am:
Yes you should be. Unless he washed it off and not simply "wiped" it off there could easily have been some remaining.

Not using a condom is never wise if you want to avoid pregnancy. Before a man ejaculates, there is pre-ejaculate which also contains sperm. It can also make you pregnant too.

If you develop symptoms get a home test at walmart or any drug store and check it out.

Here are some sites that may help you.

Explanation of pre-ejaculate:

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Pregnancy symptoms and other things you should know:

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