Hello. I don't claim to be a specialist and I don't claim to know what I'm talking about--unless I do. I'm not going to fill your head with a bunch of bull just becuase I don't know what I'm talking about, I will refer you to someone else. Feel free to contact me by messenger, i'm usually logged onto them via cell phone but will hop on a computer if possible. Anything else, ask
E-mail: jeanine0408@yahoo.com
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What do dreams mean? What about those that keep repeating themselves? Is there some kind of connection between dreams and real life? (link)
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Well.. Yes... there is a connection..
Your dreams can represent something thats bothering you, or sometimes its what u fantasize about! Most likely.. its something thats bothering you! Dreams are there to relieve stress from the day.. and for you to relax to. Dont get all worked up over this dream.. some day u will figure it out! No one knows for sure what they mean!
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My friend does drugs.... i don't know if i should help her or not? What if she doesn't listen to me? help me please with my problem! (link)
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Well.. i dont know how old your friend is.. but if they are a teen (which my guess is they are) then u need to help them or get them help. If she gets too deeply involved in one drug, it will most likely lead to another. Just try to talk to her, and if she doesnt listen, have someone else talk to her. Try an adult you trust or someone that has gone through it.!! Just try to help her before you completely lose her!!
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my friends are drinking and taking drugs! i have tried to avoid them because i am uncomfortable being around them. My friend just called and told me that one of my friends just had drugs while she was driving her attitude and mood is changing and it's not a good change! my other friend i'm not mad at him but i think he thinks i am!! What should i do? (link)
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Well.. these "friends" seem to be a bad influence.. It was a lil hard to follow.. but here goes what i think!
Your friends attitude-- you shouldnt have to deal with that. IF they get an attitude with you, just walk away. Its the best thing to do. They wont be mad at you .. and u dont have to put up with it!
The friend thats "mad"-- Talk to him! Theres isnt any other way to settle this. If you wont talk to him, then u most likely wont be friends. I'm pretty sure he cant read ur mind. If he thinks ur mad, let him know your not. There really isnt any other way to let him know ur not!!
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Hey I have natrually thick wavy hair a few inches past my shoulders..and I try and scrunch it all the time...but I always have a few problems. I have a lot of hair products ( Scrunch spray, curl revial spray, moose, scrunching gell, regular gell..a lot more ) and I don't know which one is the best to use. Also it's really poofy when I scrunch it..any tips? Thanks so muchhh! (link)
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Well.. before u do anything to ur hair.. mist it with a lil hair spray.. that usually keeps hair from frizzin up and gettin too poofy.. as for which product to use.. i really dont know.. my hair wont scrunch..
hope i helped
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One of my guy friends embarresed me a lot by accident . He made something different sound like i think about sex 24/7 . What should i do when pple ask me about it / tease me ?
Thanks ... (link)
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The best thing to do in those situations.. accept it. If they tease u like.. HAHA! Ur a sex addict.. or something like that.. be like.. yah.. at least im gettin some.. or something like that.. it almost always shuts them up!!
Hope I helped!!
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i LUV cuttin up big shirts n makin them tight n cute like bows down the side but i almost always do the same thing with the bows n im soo tired of it.does nyone kno anythin else thatll b cute to do to shirts? ill rate u a fvive if u answer! thnx (link)
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well.. i like to shred the ends of my shirts.. u cant wear them to skool like that.. but is really cute!! just like.. cut about 2-3 inches of the bottom of a shirt into like.. strips.. but let them hang like that.. it looks really cute!!
hope i helped!
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i have to write a 2 page essay, and it has to be double spaced. i have Microsoft Works Word Processor, and i cant figure out how to make it double spaced! (and i cant just press enter after every line because it will get screwed up when i print it) so if anyone knows how to do it tell me, thanks! (link)
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ctrl 2.. i think it works on all programs..
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hey evry1
well i have A big spanish test coming up and i have to study over 200 words
any study tips??
please help!
i rate high (link)
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make flash cards like on the computer or something.. or find a good spanish website that does vocab and stuff. its the easiest way.. and dont try to cram at the last minute.. it never works.. ive tried it!!
good luck on ur test!!
jeanine~~~
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how do you kno when u need the next bra size up?
[wheneva a bend down i "fall" out, does that mean i needa new size?] (link)
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Yah.. u prolly need a new bra. ur bra is prolly too small.. just go get measured.. thats how to tell for sure
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when im making out with a boy..i wanna just do more then kissing..like i wanna make him want me..cause once a boy knows he has advantage of you and he wants you..your gunna go pretty far..but like what should i do to make him wanna? like where should i touch him? (link)
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Hand Job.. Just give him a hand job.. and move his hands where u want them. trust me.. it works!!
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I've just discovered Good Charlotte when i heard "Predictalbe". It's like my favorited song EVER! But i'm wondering if the ther songs on the cd are as good, or better. If anyone has the cd, tell me if it was good. Thanks! (link)
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I love the whole CD.. i borrowed it from my sis.. and all the songs are good.. theres 15 total tracks.. and only 2 i dont really care for..
I reccomend gettin it if ur a GC fan!
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okay i just started my period. I have a few questions.
a)if when you put a tampon in, and in 6 hours later when you take it out. and theres blood on it.but when you wear a pad and you take it off, and theres no blood. is this a period?
b) can you bathe with tampons in?
c)is mastrubation with your period a bad idea
d)it acually hurts when i insert a tampon, could it be that i forgot to take a previous tampon out?
e)what exactly are cramps?
f)is it healthier to wear a pad or insert a tampon?
g) can you get pregnent if you are having your period?
h)is having sex with your menstrual flow an unhealthy idea?
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a: i really can't help you with that.. it might be your not active enough to get any in the pad.. im like that sometimes. If im sitting for a few hours.. and then go to change.. theres nothing.. but it may not be like that for you.. sorry.. i dont know that one..
b:yes.. they are pretty much for comfort and so u can go swimming and stuff.. its perfectly fine to bathe with them in
c: personally.. i wouldnt do it.. its pretty messy.. but i dont think it really matters.. i dont like the feel of it when im on my p.. so i dont do it
d: well ya.. always remember to take ur tampon out! and change them often enough so u dont leak.. and so u dont get sick.. its unsanitary not to
e: cramps are exactly what it says. Its just cramps in ur lower back or lower stomach area.. it just .. hurts.. its pretty hard to describe.. u'll know if u have them.. trust me!
f:well.. pads are sort of healthier.. theres a slight chance of getting TSS with using a tampon.. and that can be fatal.. but really RARE.. TSS is Toxic Shock Syndrome.. u can read about it at http://tampax.com/en_us/pages/tss_main.shtml?pageid=zn0004
g: no! your period is the release of the egg and all that stuff needed to get preg.. so no u cant.. u can still have sex..but its gross..
h: its really gross.. blood gets everywhere.. and on u.. and him.. its just gross.. and it looks even worse afterwards.. its just a HUGE mess!
to answer any other questions u may have go to http://tampax.com/en_us/pages/ques_main.shtml?pageid=tp0001&=1
it will be a big help!
hope i helped!!
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when u go to the gyno i know that they can tell if your a virgin but can they tell if you masturbate too? (link)
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I dont think so.. cuz when u loose ur virginity and ur "cherry" is popped.. all it is is a tissue has been torn.. same with masterbating.. and that same tissue can be torn while horseback riding.. or anything like that.. and plus.. all girls have different amounts of holes in that tissue.. so i highly doubt they can tell if u r or not
hope i helped!
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I was thinking...do any of you agree with the saying, the right guy will come when you stop looking? (link)
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Most Definitly NOT! How do you expect to find a guy if you aren't at least trying a little. If you don't try, you'll NEVER meet anyone.
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I am a major in French Spanish and English in my high school. I want to take that farther. What kind of jobs are offered that pay well to people who speak languages really well? What colleges offer such a thing? (link)
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I don't know about the colleges.. but to for jobs.. i know a translator pays REALLY good..(not sure if thats actually what they're called)
All they do.. is sit in on like meetings.. or something like that..and they translate the English into Spanish/French and then the Spanish/French back into English.. as its spoken...
I think thats all they do.. U might look it up.. thats always a good idea..
Hope I helped
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I dont have my drivers license yet so what do I do to get one? (link)
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Take Drivers ed.. either at school.. or at the local DMV office.. Then u have to take ur written test.. and then the actual driving test..
**ive heard its not very hard**
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ok i have an appointment to get my license in december. for the test, is it a written test and a drving test or just driving and if there is a written test do i just study the same DMV booklet that i studied before i got my permit. Thanks!
BTW i live in georgia if that info is needed... (link)
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Well.. If we take it at school.. then we take the written test in class.. but if u take it somewhere else.. i dont really know how it works..
im not exactly sure how your school/program works.. but I'm pretty sure u just study the DMV booklet u already have.. thats all my friend had to do before she took her tests..
Hope I helped
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ok well lately ive really had the urge to have sex. im a female and gonna be 15 soon and i know its too early but i dont know what to do. i dont even know how to have sex but ive been having dreams about it and everything. i dont want to be a slut! please help (link)
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First of all.. Having sex does NOT make u a slut.. only if u sleep around a lot.
Materbation.. it will relieve you of your sexual urges.. safely!! Other than that.. there isnt too much to do about them..
Hope I helped!! Need anything else.. drop 1 in the box!
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aight there's this guy i've liked ever since summer. we were going out but then we stopped talking for a long time.. like 2 months? so i figured he forgot about me and didn't care, and i moved on. but then i found out why we hadn't talked, he had to go away for an emergency, and he wants to be still together with me, but i dunno if thats a good idea because we'll never get to see each other and we go to different schools. any advice? (link)
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From my experience with Long distance.. its really hard... If you really love each other.. then u can probably make it work.. but its hard and takes A LOT of sacrifice.. my bf and I hardly ever see each other... but we try to make it work..
If u do go for it.. Call each other alot.. and try to see each other when theres an opportunity.. It makes it a little easier just talkin to them.. but its still hard!!
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k me and my [ex] bf broke up ALONG LONG LONG time ago..i think he even has another gf now, but neway its been like a year or something that we havent been together and we havent even talkd in almost that long..it would be our 2 yr anniversary comin up in like a month...we broke up in tha rainy season and it was SUCH heartbreak for me..i cried every night for like 3 months straight....but the thing is, not even like 2 hrs will go by that i dont think of him...and since its the rainy season im thinkin about him so much more and im really sad..this isnt normal to STILL not be over some1 by now is it? (link)
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No.. Its normal to miss someone u once loved. I still love my ex.. and I only dated him for 2 months.. but he was my first love...
Don't worry about it if your not over him.. I would say its totally normal..
Hope I helped!!
P.S. To get your mind off of him... find a hobby that keeps your mind busy.. like a sport.. or a craft.. thats how I kept my mind off of Jason (my ex) most of the time.. Just keep yourself busy!! It helps.. a little!!
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