Hey, I'm Megan and THIS is my advice column. I'm here to help. I will always give you the best advice possible and I will always be real with you.
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i keep going for a wee the last few days, i've been at least 8-10 times just today i did have unprotected sex just over 2 week ago but he did pull out before he came i know people do get pregnant from the "pull out" method also im 10 days late for a period it isn't unsual for me tho but could i be pregnant? (link)
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Yes, you could be pregnant. Since you're more than a week late, you need to take a pregnancy test to find out if you are or if you aren't. Frequent urniating can be a sign of pregnancy as well as a sign of PMS, so you might just have that.
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my (powder, i guess) makeup just fell and broke in a million pieces. is there any way to fix it? (link)
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There's really no way to make it go back to being in one piece again. You can still use the powder that stayed in the compact, but it might be harder to get some on your applicator than it was before. Don't pick up the powder from off the floor and use it. You'll just be rubbing the dirt from the floor onto your face, which may lead to excess breakouts. You might just want to buy a new compact. The ones where the powder gets broken tend to be a lot more messy than before.
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There is this one guy I REALLY like and he likes me too. Part of me wants to just ask him out cause I KNOW i like him. But, Part of me wants him to ask me. We are BEST friends and right now I feel like I can tell him ANYTHING. So I'm kind of confused on if I want him to be more than we are? Or if I should just ask him out? Or how can I get him to ask me out? Or what do you guys think?
Thanx in advance (link)
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Sit down with yourself and think about where you want this relationship to go. If you feel like you're unable to rest until you know if you can be a couple, just go ahead and ask him out. If you want to keep the friendship MORE than you want a romantic relationship, don't make a move. It sounds like you need more time to sort out your feelings. What I advise you to do is to wiegh each decision carefully and think about what the possible consequences of each decision are. This is one of those "lesser of two evils" kind of deals... once you figure out what it is you really want, do it.
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i was wondering if anyone had any good ideas for a sweet 16 party. i have a little bit of money to spend but not to to much. i want something for a small group of girls thats not to expensive and is fun for everyone ( i have some non girly girl) friends. also its going to be in the evening/night if that rules anything out and i dont really want a sleep over (link)
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You should try window shopping at a party store to see what kind of things they have for sale. A lot of things they have for sale, you could make for cheaper than you could buy them for, if you're willing to do that. You could have a hawaiian theme party and buy some cheap plastic leis.. they usually cost about 25 cents each. A Mardi Gras theme would be another fairly cheap thing.. strands of beads aren't usually too much money, and you could even decorate some paper masks with paint pens.... Depending on how much money you have to spend, you could get a camera and take pictures of the party. If you don't have a digital camera or photo paper, a few disposable cameras might be kind of fun. That way each person could take pictures of stuff at the party...
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alot of people that ive seen have such cute, original looking layouts ..
i want something of a plain , pretty layout.. so i could fill it with pics. to make it prettyer
does any one know of any really good myspace layout sites ?
thanks so much!! (link)
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Use Thomas's Myspace Editor. There's a link to it on my profile... (myspace.com/Megan_69) This is a really helpful site for the HTML-ignorant among us. It lets you choose the colors, backgrounds, text, and everything else you could possible want on your myspace page. The best feature is the "Preview" button that allows you to see what your page will look like before you copy and paste.
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hey im a new student and i just moved from CA to ND its horrible i got you guys sn from a friend any way i am a new student and im really upset because nobody knows me and they all have there own little cliks and nobody wqants me in theirs
PLEASE HELP
signed,
no friends (link)
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Instead of looking for a new clique to join, you should try being friendly towards everyone. It's difficult re-locating to an unfamiliar location, and making new friends is even harder than that. People will start warming up to you once they realize that you're a nice person. Join some clubs or sports at your school. That gets you acquainted with people who have similar intrests to your own. Having something to do with people your own age in your spare time is a good thing too. You might find some new friends in a club or sport that you might not have met otherwise. Another quick bit of advice before I wrap it up... don't be afraid to talk to people. Quiet people can sometimes be mistaken for arrogant people, and that's not the impression you want people to get. Be a little more talkative, but don't reveal every detail of your personal business... small talk will suffice. (music, movies, tv, dances... etc)
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OK see
Like I watch tv and I see all these ppl
having sex ! I mean I really want to !( I don wanna do it just because everyone else is doing it but I just really want to !) I really want to but I am scared
because I am a virgin ! I am really scared it will hurt like F****** Crazy ! \
I really want to have sex but .. not only do
I not have a bf but I am scared and..
I won be on Birth control until like later in next month ! ( I wanna be 100 percent protected ..
so I wanna use a condom and Birthcontrol!) Someone please help ! (link)
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The whole.. virginity... issue can be a tricky one to deal with. I can see why you're apprehensive about it, but you shouldn't do it if you're scared. You should wait until it feels 100% right to you. Getting on birth control and using a condom is the best way of protection if you are going to have sex. Abstinance is the only 100% effective method of birth control, mind you, but if you are on birth control and use a condom, your chances of an unwanted pregnancy are smaller. You shouldn't commit yourself to such a life altering event until you're certain you can make a responsible choice about it. It didn't hurt me at all my first time, but some people say the exact opposite. Each person has a unique body, and therefore everyone's body is just a little different.
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my *area* down there is constantly ITCHY!!!!!!! i don't know why! *female* i can't have crabs because i shaved the hair off it. i'm not sure if that was a good idea but once again, i really don't want to ask anybody in my family because they might make fun of me or embaress me etc. its REALLY itchy please help! (link)
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I doubt it's a medical condition... The first time you shave there, it itches like crazy. After the first few times, it doesn't itch at all unless you let the hair grow out longer. Try using some lotion... the type for sensitive skin doesn't burn...
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ok well its been like to weeks sense ive had ex an we didnt use a condum an im afraid that im pregnnet im not going to get a pregnecie test because i have reasons why, but i know the syptoms but , could you not know your pregnat for like 3 weeks i mean when i go to the bath room i have white stuff on my underware an idk my friend told me thats because im pregnat an idk i just need help .. i know i shouldnt have had sex im a really goodi girl so dont judge my parents are into polotics , an if they found out that i was they would shio me off to bording school or somthing even worse so please help me?? (link)
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You need to just stop being ridiculous and take a pregnancy test. If you've missed your period by more than a week, you really need to do this. Your parents WILL NOT ship you off somewhere if they found out you were pregnant. If you're not old enough to realize this, you're not old enough to be having sex in the first place. Your parents love you and would want to do everything they could to help you out if you were pregnant. Take a home pregnancy test and find out if you are or not. You need to see a doctor immediatly if you find out that you are. It's important to start prenatal care asap if you decide to continue with the pregnancy.
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alrighty this might be kinda of confusing but i need help now!sorry its goin to be long. okay first off im a 13/f and never hooked up with anyone yet! so i went out with this kid "ronnie" for abouit a week and i found out he never really liked me (long story) so that was back in may now i like a new kid named "jonnie" but "ronnie" likes me and today he told me he wanted me to sleep over his house ( im friends w/ his sister) to hook up...but no strings attached..what do i do? i kinda wanna just to get it over with and i kinda like him..do i hook up with him or not?
ILL rate 5 no matter what (unless its a smartass answer) (link)
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You shouldn't hook up with him. I don't want to be the one to throw out the "you're too young" card, but in this case I think it might be necessary. Judging by what you wrote, you seem to be confused about what you really want. You said you liked one guy, but the other guy wanted to sleep with you, and you kinda liked him too. That indicates that you're not really ready for a serious sexual relationship or for the emotions that are genrally attached with a one night stand. Don't hook up with this guy at such an early age. You'll just end up regretting it later on. And spending the night at your friends house in order to hook up with the friend's brother probably isn't going to set very well with your friend. "Ronnie" is asking you to use his sister as a pawn in his game, and that's not something a good friend would do. If you have any doubts at all, don't have sex with this guy. It's not worth the heartache that comes along afterwards.
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My cousin (I AM NOT MAKING THIS UP I SWEAR!) is always wanting to make out. She is only 12 and has never made out but is always having the urge to do it. How can she stop? (link)
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Her urge won't totally go away until she actually does kiss someone for the first time. Every girl gets those kind of feelings about her first kiss, it's not abnormal. She shouldn't have to stop feeling the way she does about it just because someone else thinks it's wierd or disgusting. Once she figures out it's not any big thing, she'll stop wanting to do it so badly.
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Over the summer I lost a few pounds. I wasn't big before or anything I just kind of toned down. Well, a few guys have noticed and commented to me. My boyfriend gets really jealous when anyone (by one I mean guys. I don't know what to do about it. It isn't that big of a problem to where we need to break up but it upsets me when I see him like this. Today, I saw one of my really good guy friends that I didn't have a chance to see during the summer. We talked for a few min. and he asked me if I lost weight and I said yes and he told me that I looked great. My bf was standing with us and when my friend said what he said, my bf walked away. Does anyone have any idea what I can do/say to him? I'm 17 and he's 18 if that helps. (link)
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I think your boyfriend's just afraid that you'll leave him for some other guy now that all these other guys are noticing you. Make sure you tell him that you're not letting these comments go to your head and that you want to stay with him. (Don't tell him that unless you really do)He's probably just jelous that someone else was looking at his girl... Guys can be stupid and over react when they think someone's going to invade upon "their territory". (I know that sounds really bad, but I couldn't think of any way to put it.)
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wats cow tipping??? (link)
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Cow tipping is exactly what it sounds like. The tipping of cows. What you do is you go out into the field when all the cows are sleeping, and push them over. They sleep standing up, so I assume they wake up once they realize they've hit the ground. Run like hell once you tip one, though. They're pretty quick, contrary to popular belief.
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how much does a used bmw convertable cost (link)
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Like I always say, if you have to ask for the price, you probably can't afford it.
You should try looking for the exact make and model of the car you want and the features that you want on it. That determines the price. Go to one of those Kelly blue book sites and enter this information into the correct boxes. This website will tell you how much the car you want is worth. Don't pay much more than Kelly Blue Book Value because if you do, the dealer is screwing you over.
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I just got back from the Six Flags in my area. I've been going A LOT lately, since I have a pass (8 times in these past 2 weeks, lol) and today was the first day my inner thighs have been soar. I've been doing the same amount of walking (we'll only be there for a couple of hours before it closes) everyday and its not that much... but now they're soar from rubbing up against eachother. I have to walk funny to avoid my thighs from touching. Why are they sore all of a sudden (they're all red and burn) and is this because my thighs are touching (I've noticed naturally skinny peoples' thighs don't touch...) (link)
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Your inner thighs are only sore because they've been rubbing against one another more than you're used to. It happens all the time when you're walking a lot. Just put some moisturizing cream on them and it should help stop the soreness.
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My mom doesn't want me to have suade sneakers. She thinks they'll get ruined in the rain. Do they? If they do does they water proofing spray really work? Is there anyway I can convince my mom to let me get them? Thank you. (link)
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Suede shoes won't get ruined in the rain unless you go around totally submersing your shoes in giant puddles on a regular basis. Since I don't think you plan on doing that, there's no reason why you shouldn't be allowed to have them. I've had a pair of Vans for about a year and a half and they've held up better than any pair of shoes I've ever had. They're dark blue suede and they still look almost as good as when I first bought them. Try getting some skateboarding shoes. They're made really well to be able to put up with the abuse that skaters ususally inflict on them, so therefore these brands are really great shoes. You might have to pay a little more for them, but it's definatly worth the money.
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hey i'm 13/f and i really want to start bmxing, surfing and skateboarding. i have no idea why but i feel like those are really interesting slash fun sports. how can i get started? (link)
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You could start by reading more about those sports on the internet. I'm sure there are tons of sites that are are designed to help beginners decide if this is the sport for them. There are some places that let you rent equiptment for those sports. You could always see about taking some lessons and maybe renting some equiptment before you buy your own. You probably find them interesting and exciting because you see people on television doing difficult surf/skateboard/bmx stunts and they make it look incredibly easy. They're all exciting and fun, but it takes a lot of hard work to be good at any of them.
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ok i just got a myspace and i was wondering where i can get kool layouts for it. and also where do you put the layout code??
i rate (link)
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There's a thing called Thomas's myspace editor which is a lot of help when it comes to making your layout. There's a link to it on my page. (myspace.com/Megan_69) A good place to put it is in the "About Me" section of your profile because you've got unlimited charachters to use.
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OK, my problem is a bit weird. I'm 16, and that's normal, at least I hope. Anyways, I relised on my vacation last week that I never want to get married. And this isn't one of those "Oh, you're still too young to decide" things. It is one of those impulses that I know I'll have for the rest of my life.
Yet, I still want a child when I'm older. A few years back, I had another one of these impulses which told me that I do not want a child of my own, but I want to adopt.
I really don't know. Is this normal? Or is something wrong with me? (link)
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Nothing's wrong with you at all. You're 16, which means you'll be an adult in just two short years. The fact that you've started making decisons about what you want with your life means that you're growing up. You're starting to make your own set of values and standards for yourself, which is perfectly normal.
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Hi. I'm a 16 year old girl and I have a huge problem. I often times wonder about God. I'm sure that I believe in him but at times I have doubts...is that normal? And also, is it true that God has a plan for everyone and some people are bound to go to hell? (link)
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Everyone has doubts about faith at some point or another. That's completely normal. As for your questions about God and Hell, I'm afraid that only you can interpret the answers to those questions. No one else can tell you what to believe when it comes to God and religion. I've been an atheist for 8 of my 16 years, so I doubt you'd even be interested in my opinon.
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