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how can i get him to ask me out
There is this one guy I REALLY like and he likes me too. Part of me wants to just ask him out cause I KNOW i like him. But, Part of me wants him to ask me. We are BEST friends and right now I feel like I can tell him ANYTHING. So I'm kind of confused on if I want him to be more than we are? Or if I should just ask him out? Or how can I get him to ask me out? Or what do you guys think?
Thanx in advance
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Oh man, I've done this b4. It didn't work out so good..it kinda ruined our friendship. Now we arent as good of friends. But you should wait.
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Why not just go out somewhere together, as friends, maybe a little more romantic than somewhere you'd usually go, and see what happens? You can be a little flirty to encourage him, but I think that sort of thing works best when it's not pushed too hard into formal askings-out.
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Hey Hun! Ok, I was in the same situation about 4 years ago. I really really really liked my best friend and he asked me out but I said no because I thought it might ruin our relationship and after that we didnt speak for 2 years. Then just 4 months ago we started talking again and now were dating it will be 4 months monday... and i love him so very much. You could take a chance on it or wait around for 2 years like I did this is the best relationship I have ever had. Just get up enough courage and try it. I wish I would have 2 years ago.
Hope I helped!
~*-Britt-*~
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Hi!! Well if you really like him then go for it and make the first move. Usually guys tend to like chicks who go for what they want and don't play silly games. Also, since you guys ARE friends and you can tell him anything it would be really cute if you did ask him out. Also try getting creative with it... maybe request his favorite song on a radio station he's really into and have the radio person ask him out for you... just a thought. OR write him a letter in which you tell him you like him and. Give it to him at the end of class and tell him to read it when he gets home and write in the letter "call me and tell me what you think or if you feel the same way". Whenhe calls you and tells you he likes you back ask him why he's never asked you out before and if then he'll tell you that because he was afraid of rejection or afraid of ruining your friendship and then you say something like "well, this is your chance" and technically he'll ask YOU out. Good luck!!
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Ask him out! You know he feels the same and your just wasting time alone that you could be spending together. He is your best friend and I bet he is probably thinking the exact same thing you are. Just ask him out and laugh about how you were both nervous later. I think you really need to ask him out, just let it happen. Go with your feelings.
I hope I helped and you ask him out (or he asks you)!
-Ryan
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Sit down with yourself and think about where you want this relationship to go. If you feel like you're unable to rest until you know if you can be a couple, just go ahead and ask him out. If you want to keep the friendship MORE than you want a romantic relationship, don't make a move. It sounds like you need more time to sort out your feelings. What I advise you to do is to wiegh each decision carefully and think about what the possible consequences of each decision are. This is one of those "lesser of two evils" kind of deals... once you figure out what it is you really want, do it.
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If you both really like each other I still think he should ask you out. Yes you can hint him along, but if he doesn't have the balls to ask you out what kind of a man is he? If you feel like you can tell him anything you can tell him that you like him as more than a friend and want to see where it could go (or you could just flirt lots because thats always fun :P). If he truly likes you that should give him the confidence to ask you out(cuz most guys don't like to be rejected and won't ask if they're unsure). I'm all for girl power, but I still think the guy should make the first move. Hope I helped ~ MUAH! ~ Nina
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