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hi im lauren. im 15 & ive had experience with lots of stuff.. so i can answer pretty much any kind of question =]
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when im talking with my boyfriend sometimes he says hes so ugly. and i think hes adorable so i tell him hes not hes really good looking. then he will say something like "you are the only one who thinks that" and occaisonally he will say "it doesnt matter what anyone but you thinks anyway but im still ugly" is he implying something? i get worried. or is he just really self conscious? i try to tell him hes not but he wont agree.
he just wants to hear you tell him that hes hot.
you probably dont tell him that enough so he feels like he needs to be reassured all the time.
just make sure he knows that you think hes adorable/cute/hot/whatever. when you see him tell him he looks cute. when you say hi to him say hey cutie or hey hottie instead of just hey or hi (like on aim or texting or the phone)
If i jack my boyfriend off and he cums , wipes it off and everything, then fingers me, can i get pregnant ???
please help.
k thank you
yeah theres a chance..
have him wash his hands first
or have him finger you and then
jack him off after
well my school's having a bbq for all the graduates/ seniors. it's going to be a lot of fun , a dj, games and all of that. my question is....what do i wear?!?
i was thinking of scrunching my hair, but i have no idea what to wear, it's going to be around 80 degrees tomorrow.
help pleasse =]
maybe jean shorts/skirt
and a cute top/tank top
can you pop your cherry from masterbating ??
yes
i just got my belly button pierced!
it is summer time and i got the cutest bathing suit.
i want to go swimming but my mom doesn't know about the piercing.
what do i do?
i would like to wear the bathing suit but my mom will see it. if i wear a tank top in the pool, the belly ring will show when i get wet.
what do i do?
go swimming with your friends.. when your mom isnt there. or just tell her. how did you get it pierced without your mom knowing!?!? just curious
Is a 13-14 year olds sperm as effective as a 18+ sperm?
Or is one weaker than the other?
no, its the same exact thing.
my bf had sex with me and he didnt wear a condom and it was so good
could i be pregnant?
umm duh you can be pregnant..
you didnt wear a condom or anything
it doesnt matter if it was good or not..
if youre not gonna wear a condom
then at least take birth control or SOMETHING
i'm on verizon wireless and i'm not able to send pix or flix messages. when ever i try to a message comes up saying service is not availible in your area. Even when i hav full bars and can call people and send texts.
maybe theres something wrong with your phone
or
maybe the package you have doesnt offer that
13/f.
alright, so tomorrow we're going on a field trip to metro beach and we HAVE to pack a lunch. i don't pack lunches (i buy them from the cafeteria) so i really don't know what to do. we have to have them in a paper bag and so far i have:
-Blue powerade
-Sunchips
that's all i can think of. what else should i pack? please no sandwiches or anything that requires a container. thanks!
maybe bring some fruit or something - like an apple, banana, whatever.
and you can make a sandwich or bagel.. just put it in a plastic bag so you can throw it away
Well my dad freakin took my autn to pick out my grad dress so it's freakin horrible.
My dad wont' take me to the salon to do ym hair which is as long as the girl from The Ring and needs the haircut. He's doing my hair! ARG
I thoguth it would be perfect..now it's jsut terrible.
I dont' know what I'm asking for..just..help me.
I don't wanan burst out crying at the grad
yeah maybe try telling him youre gonna get ready at your friends house.. and then change into a different dress there. if you have a different one that you like then wear that. or borrow one from a friend. or try to make some money and buy a new one. you could probably even wear a skirt and a top. if your dad wont let you go to a salon.. then just cut it yourself, have a friend cut it, or wear it up.
or
you could explain all of this to your dad. tell him this is YOUR night, not his.
my bff is ashamed of his dick he says its to big. i say because i wasnt streched. i love my bestfriend hes mad about haveing a big dick wtf! how do i make him feel better.
tell him girls like big dicks.. idk
he should be proud of it instead of embarrassed
my boyfriend wants to finger me, but im nervous because i don't completely shave down there, i think its uncomfortable. do guys really find it that repulsive if a girl isnt shaved? guy responses appreciated!
you dont have to shave.. but most guys like it when you shave. if you really dont want to shave then just trim it or something.
maybe you should ask him what he likes. and if youre too uncomfortable to ask him that.. then you probably shouldnt be letting him do that yet.
well, i'm 15 and i'm definitely not having sex before marriage. me and bf are sure of that and are strong with our beliefs.
but for me, i'm little lost on some things. i would just like to be a little bit smarter with the subject.
1st - is ejaculation (for both guys and girls)good or bad? is it gross? does it get on anything?
2nd - what are orgasms for? what do they do? why do people always ask about them?
3rd - what is "popping the cherry"? is it bad? is it something to watch out for? does it hurt?
4th - and when i am married i'm a little afraid to have sex because a lot of people say it can and can't hurt and girls can always can get pregnant. is there anything to really be afraid of? what is there to really watch out for?
5th - how well do condoms work? would condoms work everytime we would have sex?
thanx for answering...
1) its not bad or good.. it just means they had an orgasm.
2) um its kinda hard to explain but it basically just feels really good and it means that someone did something to you or you did something to yourself that felt really good
3) "popping your cherry" is when a skin in your vagina breaks.. its really called your hymen. people say that because it happens a lot during the girls first time having sex. but a lot of times girls pop it with a tampon or by doing sports. it sometimes hurts and sometimes doesnt. it really just depends on the girl.
4) sometimes it hurts the first time/ first few times. just take it slow and eventually it wont hurt anymore. just have the guy wear a condom and take birth control and theres basically no chance youre gonna get pregnant.
5)condoms work really well. theres a really really small chance that you will get pregnant. yeah they would work everytime. as long as they dont break.
do guys care if you have sex with a bra on cause i will most likely want to because im not 100% comftorable with my booobs since i feel they are too small/too pointy and not like some girls who have these amazing boobs.. theyre not like huge points but idk do you know aht i meen theyre not like the super models who have these huge rounds ones that just stay there.. even tho most of those are fake i know some girls have those naturally .. im a 34B idk not so big..
its fine if you leave your bra on. it would probably just make it better if you took it off though. if you turn off the lights its kinda hard for him to see them anyways. he would just be able to feel them. which im guessing he probably already has anyways if youre gonna have sex with him...
heyy how do you give guys head or a hand job like i want detailed beacuse i dont really like know it that well... obviosuly i know you move your hand for a handjob and stuff like that but theres gotta be more too it right?? and for head is there a way you can deep through without gagging cause like what if you have easy gag reflexs
hj: yea basically you just move your hand up and down. start off kinda slow and then get faster.
bj: if you put your hand on the bottom of it while you do it, it will feel to him like the whole thing is in your mouth.
My boyfriend has fingered me nearly 15 times now and I've not once reached an orgasm yet. I get to the point where my heart is beating very fast, I have some small muscle spasms, and little things like that. However, I've never had a full out orgasm and I was wondering why I'm having a hard time reaching it?
- maybe hes not doing it right
- maybe hes not doing it fast enough
- maybe hes not hitting the right spot
tell him what to do and what feels good while hes doing it. try to relax.
to get to the point i wanna have sex with this dude, itll be my first time im ready and all. i've thought it through but the only thing thats holding me back is i got these ugly stretch marks on my stomach and i guess im embarrassed by them i dont want him to see them. what can i do to get over this?
if youre not comfortable with him then you probably arent ready to have sex. i understand what youre saying though. a lot of people would be embarrassed about that and if you still want to go through with it then you can..
- use cocoa butter.
- turn the lights off.. he probably wont see them then.
- theres nothing wrong with keeping a shirt on while youre having sex
Okayy Okayy,
So i have this boyfriend.
We are thinking about sex.
I want to && everything but I herd that you bleed during it ..
I dont want to bc i think thats embarssing !!
What shuld i do ? Do you always bleed?
no.. only sometimes
it depends on the girls
most girls bleed after
okay well one of my best friends has a gf that he likes a ton.they have been tgr since september,they are perfect together.but he knows i like him,and he asked me to hook up and do stuff with him.i really really really want to,ive liked him for so long!does this make me a slut?
not a good idea. that means he will be cheating on his girlfriend. and it will be YOUR fault. if you can live with that then go ahead..
I want to describe 3 boys, and someone tell me what kind of girls each one of them would like. But I don't want to describe it on here incase they read it. So someone just answer and tell me if you're willing to help. [15/f]
i'll help.
put it in my inbox =]