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hey im a 14 year old male and i need some help.see me and my family went on a camping trip well we camped next to this one family who had a 14 year old gurl. We kind of hung out and then it turned into a kinda love thing. She started getting up on me and we kissed. i dont no why but i like her alot. Well ne way they moved and we keep in touch by aim. but the thing is she is 3000 miles away and i cant strand being with out her. So one night i asked her outand she said yes
Is that fair to her to be so far away and go out wit her?
WAt do i do? (link)
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well, technically speaking you cant go out with her if shes 3000 miles away. normally long distance relationships dont work, but ive seen some exceptions. it would probably be easier if you were just really close friends in my opinion.
good luck though.
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I got one of those magnets that you stick to your car, you know, instead of a bumper sticker or whatever. Anyway, it rained and I noticed that the rainwater under the magnet doesn't dry out. Is my paint going to get screwed up in the spot where that magnet is? (link)
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no, it shouldnt unless your paint cant stand water, then you need a new paint job. if your worried just take off the magnet and wipe it.
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Ok, here's my first question.
Sometimes I notice when someone asks a question, someone will reply with "I don't know and I can't help you." Well if you don't know, why did you reply? Skip it and go on.
The second is more of a philosophical question...if you clone yourself, and then have sex with your clone, are you gay, or just masturbating? Cause, you are having sex with someone of the same sex, but it IS yourself. (link)
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i dont know and i cant help you.
kidding, ive never done that til now. i would say you were gay to a degree, but it definetly isnt masturbating
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Hi wat are some good ways to get to start talking to someone if they are one grade younger than you, and you hardly ever see them. And, what could you talk about? tnx a bunch (link)
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music is a good subject that everybody can talk about, maybe sports if you like them. tv shows, movies, stuff like that is easy to talk about. best way to start talking to them is to just go up to them and ask a question, instant messaging, or use the telephone.
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ok guyZ* I like this guy but I dont really know if he is like into me. He is always like sayin funny things and he is always around me. My friends think he likes me and at the football games he always tells me that I look "cute". and at homecomming he said I was really hott. Some think it's weird that we are going out some times because we are always givin each other piggy back rides and jumping on each other. Mostly I am just askin how do I find out if he likes me or what you think, and if he does what do I do to show him I like him but not obvious or n e thing. I really need help on this one so please just answer me and I rate high. Thanks a Ton!
*Me* (link)
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i would say he likes you. the only way to find out is to ask him. if you want to go out with him sooner or later though, make sure its before you become really close friends, because then its kinda weird in my opinion
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You like Pink Floyd? (link)
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its a crime not to...
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Hello. I am Kaylee. I really like a guy in my class and i'm very very very shy. And i'm really afraid of being rejected. Please help me. (link)
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if youre scared of being rejected, go to some place with complete strangers and ask people if they want to go out with you. most will say no because they dont know you. if they say yes, haul ass. ive done it before, and it made me feel less nervous about rejection. if somebody rejects you just think to yourself that they werent worth it anyway
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ok my friend is having a Hallow's Eve(halloween for those of you non-believers) and i wanna dress up as something dark(black and evil) or like a punk or goth or sumthin, but my mom wont let me be a goth 4 sum reason(no offense to goths, i luv u) so any ideas wut i should be besides the old fashioned witch crap(im already one anyways) (link)
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well you could
a. dress up like a goth anyway, its halloween, freak out your parents too
or
b. try not to get any sun and look as pale as possible and make it look like you have a lot of cuts and bruises
personally i dont think you can dress up as "punk", because its a lifestyle and not what you wear.
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I wasn't sure what category to put this under by recently my girlfriend / best friend and I just lost our virginity to each other. It was amazing. But then the next night, I get a phone call from her brother saying to go the hospital because my girlfriend's just been raped...by her father. I didn't know what to do, so i just froze and went after her father. I beat the crap out of him and broke my hand. I know that wasn't smart but what he did to her was less smart. He's been abusing her since about the age of 4, I was one of the few people who knew this. She didn't want ANYONE telling the police because her father threatened her. And she didn't want to run away and leave her little sister with her father for fear he might hurt her too.
Well anyway, back on topic, her father went to jail and everyone testified against him. So he'll be in there for a LONG time. My problem is, my girlfriend is still in shock over this. We tried to have sex a few weeks later but she was so scared and still thinks about the rape. I'm not frustrated about the no-sex part AT ALL believe me. But what I'm wondering is if there's anything I can do for her to make her get over this. I want her to be happy again. I love her with all my heart and hate seeing her like this.
Any girls who have been raped, you could probably help me most on this. How did you get over it? Thanks SO much! (link)
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you totally did the right thing, i would to the same. i guess i would just wait until she says shes ready, so you dont seem like you're pressuring her.
dont feel responsible, it isnt your fault.
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what do i need to do to prepare for sex-physically, not mentally bc im ready with that :-D thanx (link)
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buy condoms
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Hey everyone! It's fabolouzxkay8! Ok I need help finding subliminal messages in songs. If you don't know what a subliminal message is, well its a message in songs, tv, and media that make you wanna buy or get something. Does anyone know any songs that have subliminal messages? I don't want songs from Britney Spears or Slipknot. If you do find a song that has a subliminal message in it, can you tell me where it is in the song when I play it? Thanks (link)
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think what you like, but i personally do not belive all of the following. there are several there, including stairway to heaven backwards, pink floyd, the beatles etc.
http://www3.telus.net/jefmil/stairwaybackwards.htm
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I HATE MY DAD! hes such an idiot... hes not in my life at all. hes a co dependant jerk. when i was little he didnt make me lunch and he makes me do everything for him... he can b OK sometimes but yeah its not enough i still hate him... hes not in my life at all but he'll pick random times to step in and ruin it. like something that my moms been letting me do for 7 months all of the sudden i cant do bcuz of him. I HATE HIM SOOOOO MUCH. my mom wont even stick up for me or what she knows is right... what should i do?
thnx (link)
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heh, i hate both of my parents, so i dont really know what to do. i guess if you wanted to have a better relationship with him ask him why he always ruins stuff for you, or why he wont let you do anything. make sure to do it when your mom is not around because that might make him change his answer. if you have siblings that might be the reason though, thats how it is with me atleast.
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ok like all my friends ave done something wit a guy like sexual n i really havent lke sometimes i really want to do something more wit a guy but my longest relationship was like a month so i ddint do anyuhting like i odnt like this kid too much but hes really sexually active and i wanna like do something wit him but i dunno how to do anhting and i dont wanna embarress myself im only 15 but time is running out and im still here wihtout sex lol (link)
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just do it when the time is right, some people dont feel comfortable doing things if theyve only been dating somebody for a month or less, but you shouldnt feel left out, 15 is a pretty young age.
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Hey, Im 13 and Im in 8th grade, and I have a crush on Travis my friend hes also 13 and in 8th grade. We have alot in common, but Ive always been kinda shy and not telling people that I like them. But i wrote travis a note one day that i thought he was hott i didnt get a bad responce:) or a good one :(, and nothing is different between us and we are still good friends, i talk to him all the time. I wanna go out with him, but Im afraid of rejection so I dont know if I should ask him out. I feel that he might like me but I can never be positive. One of my bestfriends, Brittany thinks I should ask him out cuz if i dont i might miss a chance to go out with him if he likes me, and he might get over me and go out with someone else:( SO... my question is should i ask him out, i would really appreaciate your advice! THANKS!
im very scared and confused!! (link)
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yeah sure, ask him out, if youre good friends he will either say yes, or that he just wants to be good friends, and that should be ok with you. if he rejects you though, and says he doesnt want to be friends anymore (highly doubtful), then he wasnt a good friend to begin with.
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I clicked to answer a question, but it keeps telling me I've already answered the question, and showing me someone elses answer to edit. So far it's only happened for one question, but what is going on? (link)
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i think you have to click View Answers first, then click Answer Question. i just did it on another post and it worked.
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There is this guy in my class and everyday he like stares at me for the whole period...but when i look over at him he looks right away...what do u think that means!thankx
alexa (link)
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it means he really likes you, and hes shy. talk to him and see what happens.
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This is my sophomore year in highschool and i hate it. I dont lyk alotta my classes and i dread getting up every morning to go there. I'v been alot more depressed this school year and im usually crushin on people all the time, but now i juss think people r cute or hott or w/e and i wont lyk them cuz then there's no way you can get hurt. I kno i'd never commite suicide or nething and i dont really start seeing a counsler about being depressed and stuff but i always go into things with such a negative attitude because everything always turns out negative. Thats a reason y im not going to homecoming and winterball this school year because i kno im gunna feel unconfortable and its gunna suck. I juss dont kno what to do anymore. I'm pretty sure theres nothing i can do tomake me wanna go to school but does anyone have any advice on my selfesteem issues...make overs and stuff lyk that isnt gunna help me feel better abiut myself cuz im not very much a girly girl...but is there sumthin else that can help?Thanks (link)
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well i feel the same way at my school, so dont feel bad. try and find people like you and talk to them so you can have friends to cheer you up, that always works if you find the right crowd. or, you could be dramatic and harsh and take anti-depresant pills if it gets really bad.
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Ok, This may be long but it is really important and i need some other opinions and ideas ::::
Ok, at school this past thursday, i lost my phone during 4th period. I found out this boy had taken it and after school he had put it on top of the lockers. Do you have ANY ideas for finding a stolen phone, because I checked where he said he had put it and it wasn't there so obviously someone has it. Here are a few of my ideas ::;
1) Put the description with a reward on the announcements
2) Turn my service back on (i turned it off when i lost it) and wait for a day or two, and then see where the calls were made.
I would appreciate any ideas or opinions on what i should do. thanks bunches! (link)
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well if somebody else took it, they would probably turn it on to see whose it was and stuff, so try calling it every once in a while. otherwise just to what you said. i lost my phone, and bought insurance on it for 4 dollars after that, and i got brand new phone a month later, so try that if you cant find it.
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okay so i smoked pot once and then i did it again for the second time. I told my friend and my friend said i broke a promise saying that i wouldnt do it again but i never promised anything, now i think my friends mad at me. what should i do? (link)
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well you might have promised when you were high, and thats never good, because bad stuff happens. i guess just apoligize and see what they do. if theyre one of the caring friends that doesnt want you to get hurt or whatever, then i would listen to them, friends are the most important thing to have.
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what should you use to ease the itching/stinging/swelling of a bee sting? (link)
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Aveeno, Benadryl, and Cortozone are a few, try your local pharmacy or drug store and ask there too.
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