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hey im a 14 year old male and i need some help.see me and my family went on a camping trip well we camped next to this one family who had a 14 year old gurl. We kind of hung out and then it turned into a kinda love thing. She started getting up on me and we kissed. i dont no why but i like her alot. Well ne way they moved and we keep in touch by aim. but the thing is she is 3000 miles away and i cant strand being with out her. So one night i asked her outand she said yes
Is that fair to her to be so far away and go out wit her?
WAt do i do?
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Personally, i dont think its very fair. Theres 3000 miles betweent the two of you. And the only way you share emotion is over AIM. Both of you will easily get bored with this relationship. Soon, you'll find someone at your school who you can see and talk to face to face. And I'm sure she will too. You should definately be friends, but nothing more. Good Luck!
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if u can handle tha long distance thing and she can too...than itz fine...4 a while. it probly wont last as long as a regular relationship unless yaw rilly like e/o
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basically, ur havin a long distance relationship. the best thing to do is maybe make another campin trip or sumtin.or plan to visit her...if it's possible.good luk and i hope it'll work out...
flirty:)
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Long distance relationships only work if you have a plan. A timeline of when you plan on actually being together. Seeing that you are so young, I think you should just let her go. You don't want to spend you teen years commited to a girl you never see. This is your time to experiance life.
Also how do you plan on paying the long distance bill, and the plane tickets to go visit one another? As much as you like eachother, I think the realtionship is doomed.
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No, it's probably not fair to you or her. Long distance relationships at this age will dissolve into one or both of you feeling guilty when you find someone else, resentment that you are tied down to someone you never see, or just growing apart. It's probably best to just be friends.
It'll be painful, but dating someone who lives 3000 miles away is not realistic. Let her know you care about her, but that you don't think 'dating' like this is the best option. Who knows?
Maybe you'll keep in touch and go to colleges which are near each other.
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well if i was you i would have done the same.. if you really like someone or love that person nothin should get in the way
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Hey! Well, long distance relationships are hard. But, if you feel like you can do it, then no one can stop you from doing it. I mean it might be hard, but if you guys really like each other, then maybe you guys can keep it going. You just have to have trust and love in one another to keep it going. If you don't want to have this relationship, then maybe you two will be better off as just really good friends until you two can see each other more often. I hope this helps and good luck hun. If you need anything else, just post a message in my inbox.
xoxo Kourtney
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well, technically speaking you cant go out with her if shes 3000 miles away. normally long distance relationships dont work, but ive seen some exceptions. it would probably be easier if you were just really close friends in my opinion.
good luck though.
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