I have a boyfriend and we have been going out for 4 weeks. He's really nice and cute but he can be weird sometimes. But I have been just talking to this other guy lately and texting him. I know it's not fair to my boyfriend but I can't help it. I need advice pleaseeeeeee also I'm 13
You're 13 and probably can't get used to the idea that you should try to be committed to someone especially at this age when its all about how many guys you have after you.
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My boyfriend and I were supposed to hang out tonight, but he decided to go out with his friends instead. This is not the first time that hes decided his friends are more important than I am, nor will it be the last.
I called him after he told me we wouldn't be hanging out, and told him that I felt like i wasn't as important as his friends. He proceeded to tell me that he didn't want to deal with it right now and that he would talk to me later and hung up.
What did i do wrong?? There have been times where hes told me hes coming to pick me up and then decided he was to tired and i've walked the hour home from work at midnight. I just am so upset right now i feel like i put all the effort in the relationship and as soon as i get my hopes up about something, he changes plans and i'm just not in the picture anymore.
I'm afraid to approach him because i don't want him to blow up and just call our relationship off. But i'm afraid to leave it alone because i know its bad for me to be stewing about it and not letting it out.
What should i do?
Im 20 hes 28. We've been together for a year and a half.
Um. Well, first because you decided to mention the age factor, it shows that you might think its a problem subconsciously. Your boyfriend is 28, he really shouldn't have a problem with commitment. I mean, he's 28 and he's not getting any younger. You're gonna have to talk to him firmly if you want an answer because the last thing you want is for the anger and confusion to build up in your mind. Letting your mind come to false conclusions can also be detrimental to a relationship. Something is obviously wrong and you cannot have this miscommuication with each other if you want things to last.
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So my boyfriend and i have been dating for about 3 years and we go to the same college. We were thinking about livin together in a townhouse this semester (we are sophomores) but it didn't work out. Do you think it is too young to live with a significant other in college, like maybe next year in an apartment off campus?
There's nothing wrong with living together and it will give you an opportunity to learn about each other in a new way. This can either get you closer or make you realize that this might not be the best situation.
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Do guys care what pussy looks like?
Um, not necessarily. Besides, there's no such thing as an ugly one anyways. Once you accept yours, then guys should have no problem accepting you as long as you are confident about it and show your confidence. Especially, if he's your boyfriend, then you shouldn't have to worry because he shouldn't like you for that reason. :)
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Okay, well I found out today by my teacher that we have new Zodiac signs, and my boyfriend is upset because his birthday is July, 30th which he was a Leo, and he doesn't want to be a Cancer like me.(July, 22) haha So, is all this true? I believe in the zodiac completly, but I've dated a cancer and he cheated on me and he wasn't a good boyfriend. :/ Well, and leo's and cancers are a perfect match because I study this stuff..so will anything change because I don't want my boyfriend to change. Will these new signs change there personality?
even if its true, its for children born in 2010. you're still your original sign :)
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I know I need to get an answer and he said he didnt want a girlfriend right now but its been a couple months since he said that and all of his other friends have girlfriends, so I just don't knkow what to do we've had so many good times together!
He's probably afraid of commitment. Just ask him.
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Do guys like girls with pierced nipples?
If you're doing it for attention of a guy, chances are, you're gonna get a manwhore. Good guys like decent girls and nipple piercings don't give off that aura. So, if you're up for attracting the wrong crowd, go for it!
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My husband and I are from another country.We have a 2 year old daughter.He is very good to her.When she was 4 months old ,we went to his house for a week long stay.His parents,especially his mom tried to harm her physically.As I was extremely vigilant,she could'nt do anything,but still was vocal about her wishes.She said that she wanted to burn her fingers,put hard solid foods like pickles,guavas and insert them into her throat with her fingers,took her to an angry dog of a neighbor and asked the neighbor to free the dog from its leash.I kept my baby in my arms and told the neighbors not to do it.She wanted to scare her in a variety of other forms.Also when baby rolled up her legs, she put her legs down saying that she was immodest ,though baby was wearing diaper and shorts.She suggested tying up baby with a rope.Also,she told mu husband that the baby is very ugly though many people in the USA call her pretty.After that we did not go there for a stay.We did visit her and she was the same.Now my husband wants to stay there for a night with our 2 year old.He gets angry when I try to reason out with him.WHAT SHOULD I DO?should I go with the stay or not?
PLEASE ADVICE
Your baby's care comes first before anything. If your husband is okay with his mother telling you she wants to physically harm your child then that's just nuts. Clearly, she's taking out her anger with you on your child who is completely innocent. Why don't you try talking to his parents and see what the problem they have with you is. They're using your child as a way to getting to you. If things don't reason out, just tell your husband that you're not going. Don't try to stop him from seeing his parents, after all, those are the people that rasied him. But you need to do what's best for your child.
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Ok so I am in love with this boy and I am only 13 but hear me out, I love him so much I litteraly cry at nights some times, I have liked him since last May, we were best friends he let we would hang out together do stuff together he would let me wear his hat it was perfect and in August I finaly told him I liked him! and he said he liked me too! it was the greatest thing ever I told my friends and then I asked so are we going out and he said I don't know. I was like ok I will give him time to think that can't be so bad, then it is December now and he never talks to me anymore, never answers texts but sometimes i still feel like I have hope and into this year he has been hanging out with alot of preps and not me. What do I do? Please help me I have been waiting forever ThAnKs(:
He's young and probably doesn't want commitment. If he's not showing an interest in talking to you then you need to ask him and get an answer. This way, you'll know if your tears were worthwhile.
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So my boyfriend and I have sex a couple of weeks ago. He put it in two or three times with out a condom and then I made him stop and put a condom on and then we had sex again. So my question is could I get pregnant from pre cum?
Yeah it is because there is sperm in pre-cum.
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I am a senior in high school located in NY. I applied to 12 colleges, them being.
1. Agnes Scott (mistake, sorta).
2. Arizona State U
3. College of Charleston
4. Coastal Carolina
5. East Carolina
6. Fisher College
7. Greensboro College
8. Johnson & Wales - Charlotte
9. Mitchell College
10. UNC Charlotte
11. SUNY Plattsburgh
12. Washington college
So far. i've gotten denied by 5 of them.... I have a average of a 80 in my school, which isn't to great, i know.
And only accepted by 1..that being fisher with a 5k scholarship.
My ACT i scored a 14 composite.... again, i know i'm a failure.
I was wondering if anyone knew of any fairly simple colleges that could accept me, preferably along the east coast with warm weather.
any help given is greatly appreciated!
Thank you
yeah go to a comminuty college. they arent the best but they will accept you
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I want you to listen and I want you to read this thouroughly please.
I am 19 years old and I am in college. I have always been the good girl. Yeah I've kissed a few guys here and there maybe a makeout session or two. But I never did anything sexual. It wasn't until I got to college. I started seeing all the pretty girls get attention and not me. I consider myself to look okay. I am african american, tall and skinny. But I guess it's not enough for boys.
My freshmen year of college, I didn't do much. Around two boys gave me oral and that was it. Around the summer time before sophmore year, is when the mahem began. There was a boy I would say used me because I really liked him and he claimed he liked me. This is where my insecurity came in and basically I gave him head and he returned it. That was that. When I got to school I became a lil more sexual than my freshmen year. On a serious count since that summer I gave four boys head including that one from summer. I feel disgusting. Even though I'm a virgin, I still feel dirty. I read up online and I fit the characteristics of someone who holds onto her virginity so she thinks its okay to do other sexual things. What made it worse is I really regret one boy I gave head to. This boy was a good friend of the one in the summer. I did that when I cam back to school sophmore year.
I just need to know your opinions. I won't get offensive at all I just need some reassurance..thankyou.
Hey, you're not a slut. Holding your virginity is what you're doing. I mean, some of the things that you did are considered slutty because you did it for fun and not for your significant other. Personally, I don't think you're a slut but you shouldn't be acting that way. I'm sure you're a pretty girl who deserves a great guy that you wouldn't feel ashamed to do anything with.
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I dnt want my period I just feel so uncomfortable so if I don't eat at ALL that will stop it. And how long do I need to go without eating??
you can't stop eating. you're just going to get sick. try taking some medication for the pain. i use midol, the strongest one.
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I am so nervous. A couple of days weeks ago this cute guy started to like me and then we started to go out. So far we have only kissed on the lips, and that was very easy. However the other day he started to try and kiss with his tongue. I had no clue what to do so I acted like I had to go. But I know the next time I see him hes going to want to do the same thing again. And I wasn't to! I just don't know how to. Can you help?
Kissing is a very natural technique. I was nervous kissing my boyfriend too, especially when he wanted to mix it up with some tongue action. Honestly, to tell you the truth, I can't tell you what moves to make, you have to go with the flow. If he knows that you're not used to this, he should be careful with you. Try not to back away from it because once you get comfortable, you'll enjoy it. You have to practice anyhow if you want to be good at it and running away won't really get you anywhere. Guys like it when you kiss with confidence but confidence doesn't come out of nowhere. Kissing with one's toungue is basically rubbing the tip against each other's.
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I know everyone is just going to say "eat!" but that's not what I need people to be telling me. I think I need serious help. I haven't been "starving" myself yet but I have begun to try to limit myself to only eating once a day to lose weight. I know that starving yourself is bad for u obviously but I'm so desperate at this point that I don't even care anymore. I'm not overweight I dontthink but I hate the way I look. I'm 5'8 and 120lbs. I can't look at myself in the mirror without wanting to cry and have found myself browsing through pro anorexia websites and pictures. I have nobody to talk to about this! What do I do?
Okay, if you want to lose weight, you might want to consider exercising and eating healthy. People burn fat, not energy. By eating small portions, you burn the fat easier. If you don't eat, you'll become sick and you might either lose too much weight or not be able to lose at all.
Eating small portions of healthy food, and maintaining a good exercise routine will keep your body in shape and of course, you will throw off excess weight.
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Okay I made it official with this guy june 18th 2009, last year which in fact was the eptimone of my naiveness, and I was blind to everything as a girl I was easily manipulated etc.. I said yes I'll be your gf on that day, and ever since then weve been really tight like best friends and talk to eachother about pretty much anything including what's considered cheating in a relationship and what guys want from girls .
He says that every guy just want to have sex as first intention and then theyll get to know you
I disagree example: someone hit me up that I knew in elementry on fb I said how are you doing etc .. MY BOYFRIEND GETS MAD saying theres no reason to write to him unless you really want to see how he is.. the guy prob. thinks he can get you etc....
another example: my ex hits me up on fb and this is an old old ex and says whats going on and i write whats up with you . Boyfriend says: why are you writing back to him theres no reason to write back to him, etc.. * BUT this was strictly mutual I will never cheat on my boyfriend ever, I love him to much and its morally wrong a huge downfall .
I just don't think I can take him thinking that I will cheat on him , idk if its because he's envious or overprotective but it need's to stop
also Ever since Ive been with my boyfriend my whole personality changed as in im not naive anymore i demand more as a woman etc.. maybe he still thinks Im the girl he first asked out ?
idk:/ its killing me I dont want us to breakup over absolutely NOTHING . over what I might do , or what might happen .
I guess it's a little overbearing to have your boyfriend constantly think that you're going to cheat on him or something when clearly that is not your intention. It's okay to make a comment about writing back to your ex's but making an excessive point about it isn't right. My boyfriend doesn't say much about it because I guess he trusts me. There has to be a reason why he's like that. Maybe one of his ex's cheated on him so maybe he's a little worried that you might do the same to him. Hopefully, you haven't done anything either. In any case, you have to talk to him and tell him how you feel. I'm sure if he's still with you then he still loves you for who you are. People change when they're in a relationship each time so it's natural.
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My boyfriend said he didn't trust me when I got my phone taken away.. He thought I didn't get it taken away because I texted my guy best friend right when I got it back.. But I also texted him...He said he didn't get the message.. And now my guy best friend is trying to make my byfriend jealous by sending me messages like your hot and stuff.. Now their both fighting and I don't know what to do!!!! Can you help?
Your guy friend needs to know his position. He's not your boyfriend. Your boyfriend does have a right to be mad at him. Being mad over who you texted first is a bit immature. Your guy friend should not be telling you that you're hot knowing that you have a boyfriend. He clearly has something for you, if he's doing it. Hopefully, you have a stable relationship with your boyfriend. Just tell your guyfriend that he's only your friend and that he shouldn't be telling you that stuff.
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ok so the thing is i'm 14 yrs old and i dont have my perriod yet. but i do get the white stuff in my underwear i have since i was 12 . but yestersay i had a really bad head ache and cramps i have gotten cramps b4 but not this bad and it contiuned till the morning i still have them now. everyone is telling me i'm gunna get my period. but no blood?! HELP!
There's nothing you can really do. If you're getting cramps, try taking a pain reliever for them. This just means that your period is definitely coming and cramps are a warning to be on the lookout.
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My wife had her minstreal cycle last week and 2 days after her cycle had ended it started again .but this time she is bleeding realy bad her pads are drenced with blood and she goes through 3 pads every 2 hours .ther are other things two like we haven't had sex in almost 2 years because she said it hurts too bad but when we did have sex in the past she would bleed afterwards .she is 33 years old so I don't think it menopause she's too young for that .so I don't know what it is .should she go to see a doctor .I think she does and I told her she needs to go and I would be by her side but I thinks she's afraid .how do I convince her to go .or does anyone out here have any clue as to what is going on with her .
I think my mom also had something simliar to this. She might need a hysterectomy. The last thing you need is to hear that this problem cannot be fixed and that she'll have it for the rest of her young life. Your wife is young and it's understandable that it's scary and she's probably afraid that something's wrong with her. To be on the safe side, and to possibly cure her problem, she should visit the doctor. Maybe you could try calling a doctor and tell them about the symptoms and see what they suggest if she doesn't want to go in for a visit. There could definitely be a problem in her uterus so my advice is to get that fixed asap before it turns cancerous.
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I love my boyfriend very much, we've been dating for a little over a year now. Recently, I've been going to some legal programs as punishment for a small wreck a few months ago. While there, I've met a guy that is really nice. When we first started going, he was really cool and I could tell he was flirting with me but I didn't flirt back because I have a boyfriend and I'd never dream of cheating on him. Anyways, tonight was our last court date and he lives about an hour away so there isn't really a reason for us to see each other anymore. The thing is, I like him a lot as a friend and I'd like to be better friends with him but I don't want anyone to get the wrong impression, especially my boyfriend. After we left the court house, this other guy asked me out to dinner and I politely declined (he didn't know I had a boyfriend at the time). Later, I added him on facebook and he apologized for asking me out because he didn't know I had a boyfriend at the time and I decided not to tell my boyfriend about this guy asking me out because I didn't want to cause unnecessary jealousy...so I guess what I'm asking is, would it be wrong of me to pursue a friendship with this guy? I feel like it would be selfish of me to do so because it might hurt my boyfriend and lead this other guy on...but could I still text this guy some times?? I just don't know where to draw the line! Thanks for any help!
I do not think you should stop your simple friendship with the guy just because you have a boyfriend. If you did, that would mean that a girl and a guy cannot be just friends. If you know your intentions are pure then I believe you have nothing to worry about. The only thing is, I feel you should spend more time with your boyfriend than your friend because that way your boyfriend wouldn't get the impression that you're cheating on him. You should let your boyfriend know about your friend and just make it clear that you're just friends. Don't try to over emphasize that you're only friends as well because this will put ideas in his head, just make it simple. I'm not sure if you should tell your boyfriend about the dinner part. You know your guy's personality better than any1 else so you have to judge what his reaction would be. As long as your intentions are pure, you have nothing to worry about, but just make sure that your friend knows you have a boyfriend and that you have no interest in him other than just being a simple friend.
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