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hiya I'm shelly, I'm 20 and from England. I have the best boyfriend in the world and he means so much to me. I love to help people and I've just started using Advicenators again. I hope i can help you all with your problems feel free to email me x


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I have muscular legs.. but not like huge but like nice and i'm working on my arms but they are fine.. the only thing i don't like is my tummy fat and my fat cheeks... everyone in my family has chubby cheeks... but is there anyway for me to slim down around my waist and loose some fat in my cheeks

~I rate high

Go running or join a gym your face will get slimmer
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Do guys prefer girls to make the first move? Say a girl sees a real cute guy for the first time. Would he want her to approach him first, or would he approach her if he wanted to? I'd really like to meet new guys to get over this one that I've liked forever, and I want to get some pointers on meeting new guys. Any help, thank you. I rate 5's.

Some guys like girls who make the first move so yuo can tbe too sure. if a guy ALWAYS stares at you and smiles then you should make the first move i think. To meet new guys join a club or asctivity. go out with your friends e.g. to a park, movies, parties (dont gatecrash though lol)
they are some good way of meeting boys
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is it weird if someone ((a guy)) rights a song for you ((he likes me ALOT)) and sings it to you on the phone? it seems weird to me

I dont think its weird i think ti is really sweet. Girls usually like that!
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HOw do you guyz straighten the back. I've tried pinning half up, but its hard. Plus, my dad is the only one home, so getting help is not an option. Can you give me some tips??

Thanks in advance!

Try straightening it in sections. or halves. do one half first starting from the front working your way backwards each time you straighten a pisece tie it in a lose bobble. then do the other half its quite easy
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I have been dancing for 11 years. I am 13 years old. I want to maybe go further with my dancing ... like be in shows or something. Also, How do you get to be in a music video or something like that? LoVe, Tina

Join a dance agency they should put on shows. Look on internet sites or if there are any school plays coming up
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Hi everyone so the problem is i have this friend and shes really nice but i cant STAND her, shes soooo clingy, but i cant tell her that because she will be all mad and bitchy. WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?! thanks bye -krodehtyllek

Try and tell her gently or in a jokey way. or just try and distance yourself from her. If ou are going out at the weekend and she wants to come say something liek i kinda jsut want to do this on my own but we do things another time. hoep i've helped a little
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ok. I previoulsy asked a question about how do i get up in the morning. now i have the worst time falling asleep! help!

there is some room spray that you can buy to help you go to sleep but its not so you cant wake up in a morning it just works through the night. its really well my mum uses it.
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just got out of a bad relationship, verbally and sorta physically abused. known him all my life, devestated that hes ruining his life with drugs, going threw bad depression, being forced to see doctors... all the advice is the same from everyone, theres not much else i can do, was hoping to hear some different views... ?
-one sad girl

Sorry to hear all this. i dont know whether this is the same advice as everyone else is giving you but, go to a doctor and he can give you some anti-depressents. They may work. hope your ok soon xxx
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I have this friend, and i really like him more than a friend. But i dont know if he feels the same way about me. He talks to me sometimes, but out of school like at sport he usually talks to me. He is kind of rude, he calls me dumass (lol) and tells me to shutup. But he only said that once.

Try and get a friend to find out for you. Or simply sk him to go to the movies. he may like you back lads are mean when they like you
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Hmm, okey..
I was just wondering which one of these is best:
WinMx
Bearshare
Kazzaa
Imesh
e.t.c
I've heard some of them give you viruses?
So which one is cheap and doesnt give your computer any viruses?
I appreciate any answers =D
Sorry about the spelling mistakes, just that im in a hurry :P
Have a nice day ;)

WinMx it doesnt cost anything and doesnt send viruses.
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Could someone please help me? I know it's been long since the last time I'v seen this guy i like so much and I ought to forget this guy. There's no day that I can't think even once about him and the reason why it's because memories will just suddenly crash through after thinking of something that is related but i didn't intentionally think about him. I don't like anymore to think about him even once. I'm tired of hoping and hoping that one day I'll see him but there's nothing left for me to hope. Please tell me ways on how to forget someone. Those that won't cost much. And also another problem of mine is I don't want to date others. It's just him or no one. It's just different if it's him.

Focus more on you! try not to think about him i know it wil be hard! Do more things with your friends the more you have fun WITHOUT him the less you'll want to be with him! Go shopping or to the movies with your friends, have a girlie night in and pamper yourselves, Take up an activity. the more things you do without him then you'll need him less!! u can do it!
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im looking for some help/advice as to why i always have to buy things in large amounts. for example i cant buy just one pen i have to get 4 or 5 at a time its the same with everything. if i go to a store to buy one thing i buy at least 5-6 things that i dont really need but buy anyway. any help or ideas would be appreciated.

Take someone with you and tell them what you need and you ONLY want to buy that. if you chose something you dont actually need they can stp you!
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Ok so I usually get my period around the 12th or 13th. In April I got it the 23rd. What time of the month should I expect to get it in May? The time I usually do or the time I had it last?

te time you had it last seems to be more likely but you never know so make sure your prepaired for the time you usually have it just incase
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Whats wrong with me? I always fantasize to be with a certain guy that i kno. Or sometimes ill cry becasue I know i cant have him. He is poor and spanish pluss hes ghetto and he stayed back twice for getting into a lot of fights. That not my type at all. but theirs so,ething about him. Hes funny and makes me laugh all the time. Out going and hes hot. Tons of guys are funny outgoing and hot but i dont know what it is about him. I dont know about him though i would never go out with him. i guess its just a little crush. I cant see him my mom doesnt want me to go to my grandmothers house and he lives across from her. I never reall ytalk to him he doesnt have aim and i dont know his number. what is it about him?

Maybe its just him, you cant help who you fall for. GO FOR IT!!!
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I am a 15 year old dating an almost 16 year old. Ive heard the term once you've loved someone you'll always love them. and its not the guy Im dating now. With the guy Im dating now I dont really feel comfortable with him like I act differently around him and I try my hardest to be myself. It doesnt even seem like were dating because this is how it was before we started dating. I dont feel a connection with him. Should I wait for a month and if I not feel anything break it off? HELP!

Yeah i think you should, you need to be with a guy you feel comfortable around and feel like you can be yourself and not worry about trying to impress him.
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me and my friend want to do a duet for solo tryouts. but we dont hav a song. can you plz give me a few ideas????. thx

~natalie and hannah~

this was my question. how do i do a duet with songs from brittany or the other ones you listed??

sorry i got confused with another question. sing Britney and Madonna- me against the music its a fast song and 2 singers!Robbie williams and Kylie Minoge- do it for the kids. sorry once again hope i have helped more this time lol
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me and my friend want to do a duet for solo tryouts. but we dont hav a song. can you plz give me a few ideas????. thx

~natalie and hannah~

how about Avril Lavigne, Ashlee Simpson, Britney Spears, Christina Agularia just a few ideas
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i really want a graphic that says Lisa in glow letter they are like bubble shaped..im know it sounds wierd but if anyone knows what i'm talking about could you please find me one.It can be any color just make sure it says Lisa.I'm searching hometown.aol.com but there are so many pages!!!Someone please if you find one send me a link to the page! xO!

go to www.carrielynnesworl.com and go to glow names and there is a lisa in glitter and glowing. hope i've helped
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i cant stop bitting my nails and my mom wont let me get acurlic is there anthing that will make them grow ffaster or make me stop bitting thx bunches!

put false nails on that way you cant bite your real fingernails and also they will grow if they are on becuase you are biting them less
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Ok I have this very disgusting habit of chewing on things. It started out innocently by chewing on my hair, pencils but now it has progressed to almost everthing. I chew on the strings on my clothes. Drinking straws, Ive chewed through a few pencils and exploded a few pens. I'm not a druggie or anything but idk why i do it. Its like a nervous habit but it is really gross..any ideas on how to stop?

Dont use drinking straws. put something like perfume on the end of your pens because it will taste disgusting when you put it in your mouth
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