My name is Jessica a.k.a. Gessyka
I love to talk on AIM online, and I love to hang out with friends. I teach myself how to play the keyboard and on it I can play "Fur Elise", "Heart and Soul" with both hands, and a few other songs. My birthday is March 31 1990.
I love to write, draw, play video games. Im not MUCH a tom boy but I like a lot of things that boys like (like skateboarding, video games, hockey, etc.)
I like to help people out very much and I'll help you out as much as I can if you need advice.
I've been through a lot of things, and I'm only 14. Some people think I have the perfect life but in reality, I DO have a lot of problems...
I've had people who passed away, crying all the time, people have told me to kill myself (sluts), I have seen people talk about suicide...I know some people who tried killing themselves, so many things that I'd rather not discuss that are pretty horrible, and a lot of other things now that are on my mind...good and bad and...*cough* puberty too...=(
Oh and I also believe in psychics, spirits (only good) and I'm a Christian Catholic.
MY BFF/Cousin IS RACHAEL! Button Rachael (lol)
Oh and I have a goofy sense of humor but if it's time to get serious, I get right down to it.
E-mail: truevalue53@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: USA, CT
Occupation: School, babysit (once in a while)
Age: 14
AIM: Infinityo0o (or) Met3oralp
Member Since: November 10, 2003
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so I got a little drunk at last weekend's halloween party (okay, more than a little, but that's another issue) and did some stupid funny stuff (okay, more stupid than funny but whatever). The problem now is that everyone in my office knows and keeps coming around... "feelin' alright, steph?" and all that. It is so not cool. Is there anything I can do to stop the gossip, or do I never get to live this down? Got any witty comebacks for me for when everyone's making fun of my oh-so-exciting performance? (link)
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Next party, just don't drink much. Show your mature side and still have fun, but don't go drinking a lot. There's not much you can do about the gossip...people are going to talk, even if you don't want them to.
Halloween was a while ago, and if they are still talking about this incident then they are the ones who are immature...and tell them that if it doesn't stop. They are the ones who can't let loose and have fun every once in while, so just ignore it.
Next party, act a little different as far as drinking goes...it will make you seem much more mature.
~GL~
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Ok, everyone thinks that I have the perfect life. people are always telling me that i am a dumb blonde who never has any problems. They think that i have always been rich and always have been perky and all that stuff. That is not my life storym there is so much more than that. How do i get them to understand without telling them that i had a bad life?
Blondie (link)
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I know what you mean...I'm not blonde but I know how people act when they're around blondes...they think that some are ditzes (no offense to people who are blonde...because I don't mean everyone is a ditz)
Well, you certainly don't have to tell someone about your life unless you choose to. If they say your life is perfect, just simply say "Nothing's perfect." and move on. Or say something like "I'm far from perfect." But say it like you mean it but with a SMILE on your face. Because then people won't think your conceited, and they also won't think you lack confidence if you say it with a smile...do you understand?
Also, if people think you are just a "dumb blonde"...prove them wrong. How? Help people out, be nice, don't hold grudges, don't always follow the crowd...it's good to be different to a certain extent.
Just have fun and help people because that really does make you feel a whole lot better.
~GL~
Hope I helped
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I am 14 turning 15 soon and I am an actress, and I went to a world tour audition called The Lion King On Broadway. Well, at the audition my mom and I were in line, and in front of us was this one mother and her son. And the mother showed my mom and I pictures of her son because he did modeling. I remember he kept on starring at me and flirted with me and I thought he was cute as well. But this was 2 years ago. Well this year 2004 I saw the movie Peter Pan. And after the movie my mom and I said to each other, that boy (Jeremy Sumpter, the boy who played Peter Pan) looks vagely familiar...so later I looked him up and it turns out that he was a model. Do you think I really did meet him??? My other question is...well later in the week I kept on dreaming about him and thinking about him, so, I have four of the Sixth Sences so I can communicate to the angels and I made a bet with myself..."if the light goes on then that means I will someday date Jeremy Sumpter if not..." then the light turned on before I finished my sentence which was (if not the light will not turn on). What do you think that ment? Do you think I did met him, and will someday date him??
Sincerely,
Peter Pan Fan of the Man (link)
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Maybe you did meet him. But the odds of you ever seeing this boy again are slim. He's famous now so it's not like he's just going to call you up and ask you out. I'm not saying this JUST because he's famous, but he also has to be more careful now because more people know of him.
Maybe you did meet him, you can't be positive though unless you have pictures of him from that day. And yes, you were dreaming about him, but that's probably just because it's been on your mind...not because it meant you met him, but then again, I could be wrong. Nobody can be sure that you met him, but maybe you did. I'm sorry but I don't think you're going to end up dating him...this was two years ago and I'm sure if you hadn't seen Jeremy Sumpter in Peter Pan, then you wouldn't of even been thinking about this boy or if you were going to date him...so why think of it now...I really think he's long gone from you seeing him again...its a slim to nill chance...many girls are after him, my cousin for one...and he is so gorgeous but I really don't think you will see him again unless you by any chance lived on the same street as him...
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I am a quiter how can i prevent it. (link)
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There's really not a correct way to answer that question except for quit quitting....work harder at it and jsut go back to it a few times...and if you find you really dont enjoy it...or its not your thing (if this is the case) then maybe it wasnt meant to be your thing...
Don't quit unless you tried a few times....and even then, try try again!
Don't quit the first time unless its smoking or drugs or something (dont even start those things)
~GL!~
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okay so here's the thing. I've been with jeremy for 3 years, and he's in jail right now. well he sent me a letter and said that he ran into this guy named travis who apparantly knows me, and this guy is claiming that I'm his girlfriend too. The thing is, I have NO IDEA who this guy is. I've never cheated on Jeremy in my life, and he thinks that I am really with this guy. I dont know what to do. We're supposed to be getting married, but I dont know how to prove to him that I really don't know who this guy is. What should I do???? (link)
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Take a lie detector test as long as you know you're telling the truth. I'm serious...it could really help so look into it
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ok i was having sex with this one guy tony and i couldnt stop. but finnaly it was time u know to take off my thong and put on a condom (on him of course) and so my thong wouldnt come off (it was one of the ones that u r supose to tie) and so he ripped it off and when i was putting the condom on him the door bell rang so i had to get up u know and i was like oh damn we have to stop but he was like oh let it ring we need to do it anyways i hope i am going to do it all night and i was like oh u bet ur luckie ass on that and i couldnt stop and we were burning rubber (when u go really fast and it starts to burn) then i had to go pee so i told him i had to stop so i did then when i came back i saw his friends looking and they have been looking since we started! so i told them they can come in in 10 mins so they were still looking and i was yelling oh tony oh tony and he was like oh jenny oh jenny and then i told his friends to come in. then i got drunk then i was having a three sum and then another guy came in and so in was like a 4 sum. and then they had to go home but i told tony to stay and we were doing it all night. then the next day was school and everyone was staring at me and i was asking the guys i did it with wut wuz going on and they told the whole school and i turned around and 3 guys were humping me so i told them to come to my house so when we went to my house i grabed a whip and everything so i was doing it all night with them! but i took a pregnantcy test and it said i was pregnant but i didnt know whos baby!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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??? Well ya think? The chances of you getting pregnant are pretty high and that's disgusting. I'd keep the baby if I were you, but you obviously don't really love one of the guys if you pretty much cheated on him a lot...even if he was there when all of this was happening. That's a really slutty thing to do and do what you think is right. But I'd keep the baby and raise it alone...because I don't think you really love all of those guys and by the way you were describing how fast everything was, those guys don't seem to respect you enough to raise a baby with you.
Good Luck and don't do anything like that again unledd you love the boy or you don't cheat on him either because that's just disgusting okay?
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...I have my very *first* job interview coming up! And since it's my first one, I am very nervous. :) I want the job mostly because I need to raise some money- but I know that's not the answer that the manager will want to hear. Any suggestions about what to do for the interview, other than dressing up? ;)
Much Love!
-Turc (link)
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First of all, Don't wear black, it's too powerful and the interviewer is the one who should be in control. just relax. i've been to enough interviews to know that confidence is key. like dogs sense fear, people sense lack of confidence. don't be nervous because if this one doesn't work out there are many other jobs out there. if they ask you why you want this job, tell them that it will be your first job and you want to start earning your own money and you are ready to start taking on some responsibility. Sell yourself. If it's a job where you will have to serve people, say that you are a people person and that you couldn't see yourself not working with the public. Let them know you are very excited to start working. Put on a happy but mature face. You'll do fine.
good luck!
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i hate my mom so much she is so mean all she cares about is my sister and borthere whci r 10 months and 2 months she doesnt ever do anythign with me i feel like killing myself or running away im 13 andi hate my mom so much i cant even explain it she is a real big bitch and she calls me a bitch sometimes to and when im not even doing anythign she beats me and threatens to all the time but i hate it and i need help i try to ignore her for days but that doesnt work wut should i do about my horrible mother? (link)
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you really need to tell somebody what is going on. trust me, things will get better. they may get worse at first, but THEY WILL GET BETTER!! anyway, it's not your fault that she hits you but its also not worth taking your own life. you need to win this battle. be strong and put an end to it before any more damage is done. please email me and let me know how things are going. i am here to listen. good luck!!!
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Not to be rude or anything, but I'm not trying to follow the trend, I just like it, and If i like it, then I should do it right? Im not trying to be cool, or popular. . I just wanna be what suits me best. I happen to liek the clothing gothic people wear, and I sometimes act as if i were gothic. So I guess you misunderstood. . well bye (link)
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Do what you want to. But it's also okay to try out your own style or add a twist to the trends today.
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I told my friends and family that I was thinking of becoming a lesbian and they just laughed. What do i do to make them believe me? (link)
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Seriously? It doesn't matter if they believe you. It's your choice and you chose to tell them something that intimate. Good for you that you let them know...but it doesnt matter what they think. I know everyone says things like that, but if you really believe that you are a lesbian, then be that...there's nothing wrong with this...and if your family and friends do not believe you then just let them think that you want because even if they admit to believing you just to make you happy...it doesn't mean they are really feeling that in their heart. Just get to know soem people and if you have a girlfriend, bring her home if you want to introduce her to your family.
~GL~
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OK i have nothin to do and my head hurts and i dont feel good wut should i do
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take an asprin and go to sleep and then when you wake up take a bath and then get a snack. Then watch your favorite shows then put a movie in and watch it. Once thats over...go on advicenators and look at my brilliant answer!
But...you know...It's yoru choice.
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how do you do corn rolls lol (link)
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corn rows? hehe
I'm not to sure...but I know you take a strand of hair and keep it close to your scalp by combining it with the hair closest to yoru scalp. I have no clue if that made ANY sense at all...I think i may have an idea on how to do them i just cannot explain it.
Search the web! That should help...
only...search under corn ROWS not rolls...hehe
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Why am I black? (link)
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Why am I white?
There's nothing wrong with being how we are...
They're just pigments of color in our skin...nothing more...
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I work for a junior high school and there are plenty of good looking kids in the school. I am only 23 so I don't think it is wrong to like these students, not that any physical atraction would take place. But, there was one time, last week, were the most popular person in my Language arts third period class fingered and physically touched me! I was actually turned on! So, I told him to meet me at my house TOMOROW! I feel like I owe him either an appology... or a thanks. (if you know what I mean!)
What should I do
Master Bater
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No way...put a stop to this now...unless you actually want to go to jail for some messed up reason. You crossed the line by not disciplining that kid by bringing him to the office right away. Now maybe he's going to tell his friends and then other teachers will hear and wonder why you haven't mentioned it. This isn't a good idea...and you do owe him an apology in a way...but you also have to bring him to the office right away...or see if it happens again and then tell as soon as it happens. This is serious.
That's disgusting...you shouldn't be turned on by someone that much yonger than you...If he shows up at your house tell him to leave.
Seriously...GAHHH!
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Okay, I have a boyfriend who goes to my church (on wednesday nights) but i never see him because he never goes anymore and he doesn't go to my school. i want to dump him because i have this other boyfriend who i want to dump because he never sees me or calls me and i don't have his number and he doesn't go to my school. Okay, I want to dump both of them because I like this other boy who DOES go to my school and i know he likes me. If i ask him out though then ill have 3 boyfriends. i consider myself as if i don't have a boyfriend but i know i have to and soon will have 3. What to do? (link)
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Jeez...you're a player. You better dump one of them or else tell the others the truth. Do not ask this boy out until you break it off with the other two boys. That's wrong. If this guy you likes ends up wanting to go out with you make sure you're honest with him from the start...and if you guys don't end up talking much, make that your job to call him up and keep in touch.
Dump the other two if you want to ask this guy out...
Or if you're not going to ask this guy out...dump at least one of your boyfriends that you have now...but then again...it's your decision, just don't break their hearts. :/
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i want to do it on prom night but what if my boyfriend forgets a condum i mean should i wait till he gets one or shouldi go make him buy one? (link)
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you should buy one just in case...don't go through this without one.
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well I am having trouble in my 7th grade math class and my grandma wants me to get a touter.She has been buging me for ever and to me if I get a totour I will feel stupid so.. Should I or should I not get a totour. (link)
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I'm not trying to be harsh...but from the way your spelling it seems like you at least need a reading and english tutor.
This DOES NOT mean you're stupid. People learn different ways.
Get a tutor if you feel you have to.
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Ok. I'm going to go to a murder mystery dinner party thing, and I have no idea how to play. Could someone briefly explain how you play? I'm worried I'll make a complete fool of myself and ruin the game... (link)
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How can you be nervous with this kind of thing? hehe
I would love to attend one of these parties...
Just ask somebody in charge if you don't know how to play. You will figure out what you do once you get there. It's one of those things you have to go along with.
~GL~
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P.S. Scarf down your dinner before the person gets murdered...heck, it's FREE FOOD!
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I listen to Simple Plan everynight, Im obsessed iwth them! GOSH! PIERRE IS SOOO HOTTT! but Shawn is hotter, 4 a younger eprson lol. .but honsetly Am I going crazy. . is my whole liek all about Sp!!!!!!!!!??????!!!!!!!!! I luv them, my desktop is sp, I used ot have an aim exspression of sp! my icon was sp, I listen to them i love their hwole cd, and I wanna be just like david, I wanna play a bass!!! lol I DONT KNOW!!!!!!!!!!!! I dont know but just tell me if im crazy. . . Dont asnwer this if u dont like sp. . just dont cuz u will say i am crazy!
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I like Simple Plan...but I'm not obsessed.
But then again I like pretty much any music...except for country.
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Who's better?
Britney or Christina (link)
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Better how? Singing?...
Christina definitely.
But if your talking about whose prettier:
Britney is very pretty and so is Christina...but I think Britney is prettier. (if she didn't wear so much make-up).
And if your talking about anything after that:
I'm not going to answer whose got the better body because I'm not interested in girls...guys are where I am :p
As for clothes:
Both sluts when it comes to that.
But then again...I don't know how they dress when they aren't performing.
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