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What's up? Well, I'm sure like each and every other advice columnist is that, we all enjoy giving advice . I like to keep things real and you'll find out how real when you ask me a question . I absolutely love helping people . Hollah at me sometimes !!! Oh, and yahoo me . Goodness sakes knows that I could do with the mail.
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Ok... this is gonna be long and im sry! im 15/f... and i like this guy... but this morning my best friend called me and told me that she had sex with the guy i liked (she liked him too)... i mean they had done stuff before but i just let it go because she's my best friend... but i mean idk what to do... they didnt use protection... and so im worried about my best friend but im also kinda pissed... i mean just giving him a handjob and stuff is one thing but having sex... i mean they're not even going out... its just too much to handle and its really starting to get to me... if u have any tips on helping her find out if she's pregnant... or how early you can take a pregnancy test i would appreciate it... i wanna help her all i can... and if you have any other advice about our friendship and stuff... well thanx!
Too early to take a pregnancy test. When's your next friends period? If it doesn't come on, then she needs to take it. She probably needs to wait till a month just to be sure. Half of the 1st trimester , I think, but I do know for a fact that that will surely do . Maybe even two weeks. These things can be very weird.
i play softball and slid into third base. i got this really bad scrape. i kept picking at it. so now it is a really big pink scar. i cant shave over it because it make cut the scar and icant use nair because its going to affect the scar. what should i dowith the hair that is on my scar?
Get some tweezers and yank them out. Yes , it's going to hurt (tweezers are the eye brow pluckers) , but that sort of hair will hurt worser the longer you keep it in their. Good luck and I hope I was some help.
my moms best friends son is 14/m (hes going into 9th grade) and we went to dinner with them tonight and he was really quiet and while all the adults were talking and all the kids were running around he picked up his knife and started kinda sawing at the back of his hand and the second he saw that i saw what he was doing, he stopped. and later that night he asked if he could walk home to practice his guitar before they all got home (we are neighbors and we all live close to where we were having dinner but not close enough that most people would walk home right before a big thunderstorm) and when his dad said that they were all going home anyway he looked kind of mad. so i guess i have two questions, can you cut the back of your hand (like cutting suicide wise) and should i be worried about him like what should i do
please answer me really soon because if something happened we would all be heartbroken
and p.s. his mom said that he was never upfront snotty, but he never likes going places with his family and stuff and that he was doing well that night. does that mean anything?
sorry, this is a stupid question but i'm just worried about him!
i rate!!!
I think you should tell his parents just in case because this kid could seriously be calling out for help. I know it could be the possibility of him wanting to freak you out, but don't put that over his life. He may need help and of course he's going to deny it. It may be that too, of what your mother said, but I truly think that you need to tell his parents about what you observed last night. It might just save him you know. Hope I was some sort of help and have a good day. GOODLUCK TOO: YOU'RE GOING TO NEED IT.
I am so worried, I ruined the relationship with the woman of my dreams over 3 years ago. We haven't spoken a word to each other since then. Last week I called her parents house and left a brief message and , suprisingly, she called and left me a message telling me that she will be at home for fathers day weekend. How do I stop myself from telling her that I still think about her everyday and that she is still the center of my dreams, or do I just tell her and risk the chance of her telling me to buzz off? I need to tell her but I don't want to risk gaining back the friendship that we once had, even if thats all it will be. Someone help me please!
You need to tell her. You also need to mention the fact that you're considering her feelings. These feelings would probably be that it's her life and you want a relationship now. Acknowledge it verbally to her and let her know that you care and that you are considering her feelings and then hopefully , once you tell her how you truly feel, then she'll give you another chance. If she doesn't , then unfortunately you'll have to come, respect, and accept her decision . And the fact that it truly may just wasn't meant to be .
i was wondering what the difference is between a graduate and an undergraduate is. could someone please explain or give me a link to go to. also, when i want to apply for a college, can i do it online or do i have to go to that college. by the way im 14 and i was wondering bcuz college is right around the corner!
You can apply to colleges online at www.collegeboard.com and they give you excellent tips on everything that you need help with and information on everything that you need from the college that you're choosing. Sorry I wasn't any help about the other stuff but I think you'll find that answer too on the site . Hope I was some sort of help and good luck .
well i went to a concer like 2 days ago and i was in the mosh pit and i got thrown on stage...
i stood up and the band had stopped playing and everyone was staring at me...i feld so embarassed. but then i saw my bf in the front row and i started singing the song that they were playing... so they started playing the song again and i was up their the whole show..
the band called me the next day and asked me and my band to come with them on tour... my band is called the audio switch.
should i go on tour with them and miss the whole summer hangin wid my friends or play punk rock music with mental riot on tour?!?!?!
help!!!!
they both sound so awesome but bieng on tour with metal riot is a chance of a lifetime..
Oh my god, this is a once in a lifetime experience you should definitely go there with the tour. Your friends should understand that this is a once in a lifetime opportunity to do this. Consider it a test of true friendships and true friends wouldn't want you to miss out on this. Just make sure, that is if you go, that you'll be safe. And contact them always. Go because you won't be able to do it when you begin school. This is good that it happened around then too. It was meant to be. Go for it. Goodluck.
I really really like this guy and he is like everythink i ever wanted(cute, can talk to him, and actually has friends...lol)well, he recently broke up with his girlfriend and she was really not "loving" and never was by him when he wanted her to be. well, he knows i like him and when we hang out sometimes he flirts and i think he likes me, but when we r talking online, i have to be the one to say, "hi, whats up," and doesnt seem interrested at all, he only really talks to me when i bring up a good subject, but when i dont have a good conversation starter, words are minimal...and sometimes doesnt resopond to my little questions like, "how r you doing?" I dont wanna sound desperate and be like,"why arent you talking to me? or do you not like me? should i leave you alone?"...things like that...so im asking...should i keep going(if so what should i do)...or let him go and find someone else?
I know that this is going to be very hard for you but the best thing would probably be to ask him out. It would be less of your time to waste with trying to decipher his feelings and then you wouldn't have to worry about signals if he were to say yes. IF. If he says no then , you know that it wasn't meant to be and that's not your fault. You'll have to let him go with someone else who may be the one for him. IF HE DOESN'T REJECT YOU. I know it seems terribly forward, but that's the only way b/c you're not getting anywhere right. Well, bust the move and goodluck. Hope I was some help and have a nice day.
Hi im a 17/f. Im not that out going but my best friend is a very social person. She introduced me to her Older brother who is in collage. My best friend invited me to stay the night at her house. while i was there it turned out that her older brother was throwing a crazy frat party at there house whle there parents were away. Later that night after partying for awhile my friends older borther came up to me and asked if i wanted to dance. after a while he said he needed to talk to me in private. Wwe went up to his room and started talking for a while. he said how he really liked me and how he didnt care how i was 17 and he is 21. by that point i could tell he was drunk. i said "i'll be right bak" not meaning to return. i walked out of the room and went down stairs and started dancng again. about 15 minutes later he came down and said we needed to talk again. so i went along with it. when i walked in first he locked the door pushed me down on the bed and started rapeing me. now im 5 months pregnant and im supposed to be heading off to collage ona full scholorship. i really want to keep my child but it will be hard to go to school and keep a child. my parents dont want anything to do ith me so they wont help out. what should i do. keep my baby and skip out on Yale or give the baby up for adoption and go to Yale? im so confused please help!!!!!!!!
If he's a great man and he's willing to help you with the baby, then let him do it. Don't give the baby up for adoption though. Children are so precious and they don't ask to be brought into this world, and there's no true love like a mother's love. You'll regret it and think about it for the rest of your life. You'll have to make it work. I know that Yale is a once and a lifetime opportunity, but you could try day care centers during the day or other family members that would help support and keep the baby while you attend school during day or night. And as for the rape, I'm truly sorry for that and I think you should report it. Just try your absolute best to offer the child something. I know right now it seems as if you have nothing to offer this child but you do. You have life, love, a bond. And this is far more greater than money or etc. You just have to follow your heart. Your dreams and your child, your dreams and not your child, or your child and not your dreams. Try to achieve both. There are centers and clinics who help mother's in this same position. That's what they're their for. You - you're really nice to have not reported him. You might need to do it for another girls sake though.
well this might be long so sorry in advance.. well me and my bf have been together since feb. of 2004 and things seem to have been goin perfect until.. this summer.. see hes involved in so many things with basketball camps and helping out.. and im involved in cheerleading.. and then there are vacations and stuff like that so what im gettin to is there is a long gap of bein able to see each other. this is wierd bc we r used to seeing each other everyday [durin school] and doin things on the weekends. last summer wasnt the best for us either.. and i dont want this summer to end like that did.. so wut im tryin to say is there any advice anyone could give me on ways to see him more. what to do when i see him to make it u know "special" since there is that long gap between seein each other. i just dont want this relationship to be over bc the lack of seeing each other. I love him so much and i will do anything to be able to see him more... someone please help
[[ this weekend im busy all weekend and he is leavin for vacation for 12 days on the 19th ]]
Just try to lessen some activities if you can. Any un-necessary things . Just try to spend any time that you have left with him.
Alright well my friend gave me this stuff to try because I really want a tan but im really pale. Well she kinda didnt tell me the full directions.. she told me to rub it in and stuff.. and then wait 5 mins.. and that the tan would show up in 5 mins.. well she was so wrong and she didnt tell me it takes a few hours for it to start showin up.. so i got home na dim putten some on.. and i dont look tanner.. so i wait like 15 mins still dont.. so i put some on and more and more ect. well i wake up and my legs are really dark and sorta orange!! how do I get it off!?
You might want to bathe and stay out of the sun to get it off. To me that stuff is useless but if you love it then do it. Just be careful with it. Not all of it's healthy. If it doesn't come off then, use a bit of some strong soap with a cleansing product you have and scrub really hard. Hope that was some help. Good luck .
I wrote last time how my ex wants to hook back up with me the advice was great. i talk to him and i told him how i felt and told him i was tryed of him leaving me to talk to some other gurl, and how he never sends any times with me. I seeing change in him he comes every moring to see me where it's mostly all of my girls. come to my one study hall some days to one of my class and we write notes to each other. we spend time after school with each other when we can. The thing is couple of my girls and one of my teacher friends are telling me not to get back with him. that all he want is bootie. i don't think that what should i do?
PLZ HELP ME OUT
Well, forgive me for I am not trying to be blunt, but every man or guy wants bootie from the woman or girl that he covets. It's your responsibility to keep sexual emotions in check and it's your responsibility to stay true to your virtue. Once it's lost, it can't be regained. To ensure that you can keep your emotions in check, chose an environment that's comfortable for you. A controlled one. Unless you're sure about yourself and your safety and well being around him. If you're sure about that and if you're sure about the fact that he wouldn't harm you(rape or anything like that) then I see no harm in continuing the relationship any further. Unless, of course, you are looking for something more out of him and the relaionship and that's up to you to decide. I hope I was some sort of help and have a nice day.
hey okay i had this real good friend until she meet olivia me and olivia were good friends but now she is just a bitch she always turns people against me and now she has turnd my best friend against me like one night she IMs me saying i hate your guts but she does this when she is only around olivia ........i have to be nice and i cant say nething to her because she is hooking me and her cousin up.....but like she usualy talks to me on the internet but last night she was curseing me out and stuff but hey olivia was at her house right next her ........i dont kno what to do like should i talk to her about this or just leave it alone and let time take its tol?
This girl absolutely has a serious attitude problem and I have had a friend like her before. She used to be all friends with me, trying to get me to hook up with someone she knew, and then when she got around my other friend she began to front. And she used to insult me and call me names. Yeah, I think we all have went through it. She did the same to me one day and then we just got in a fight at school. I'm not suggesting for you to fight her, I'm just saying that you need to teach her how to respect you. Thus afterwards comes the respect from others. Cause once I taught her respect, she left me the hell alone. Me and her talk but you have to show them that enough's enough and that you're not taking it any longer. It makes you seem weak if you do nothing and it also makes you seem as if you need them when you really don't probably. So what you have to do is teach her how to respect you. The question is, how. I hope I was some help and have a nice day.
I want to take up a babysitting job for extra cash but, i dont know the neighbors that just moved in and thats the ones whos baby i want to sit, and my dad doesnt get home from work till 5:00 and i want to babysit!
should i meet the neighbors and babysit till my dad comes home or should i ask my dad and risk not being able to do it?
please hurry
ill rate high
First of all, you need to meet the neighbors and ask if it would be an inconvenience for them if they were to allow you to babysit their child. If their alright with it, then you could use their permission to persuade your father. But it all really comes down to him. Just try it out and see where you get from there, but you better have a good defense .
im thirteen and not fat but bigger than i want to be im not over wieght and im not under its just that i would like to lose a few pound do you know any diets or exercises that have fast results
thanx so much
not so slim
Try doing some sit-ups and crunches. The crunches aren't necessary. Try to stay away from bread and starchy food such as rice. Limit the use of sweets. If you could get your hands on some salad, then that would do you some good too. And if you know some yoga things, then try them. Just have fun and do whatever you consider that is fun and this something should be able to help you achieve your goal.
I got really mad and wrote this e-mail to my study skills teacher. In the e-mail I wrote stuff like how much I hate her, and how I'm so glad i'm not taking her class next year! But by accident I pressed the forward key and it was in my mom's name so like she already had the address up. At first I didnt know what happend. But then I checked the Out Box and it was in there! Which means that it got sent!!!!! And now i'm freaking out!!! WHAT DO I DO! IS THERE ANYWAY TO GET THE LETTER BACK!???
All I can say is that you need to find a time and place to intercept the letter and perhaps delete it off the computer just to be sure. Perhaps at night or a time before she checks email. Good luck 'cause you are going to need all the luck you can get.
i get bored sometimes cause ive answered all the qustions and no new questions come up for like an hour. Why is this?
ps.. if you give me a good answer ill rate high
Maybe it's because you're so eager to help other people that you just can't wait to answer another question. And when that happens, eagerness to do something, things unfortunately tend to slow down. So, I suggest that after you have finished answering all the questions, that you go and look up things on another site to help you not be bored. Then come back and answer more questions. I hope I was some help.
what is the differance between sit ups and crunches?
Sit ups get your stomach flat and cool too ,but if you want abs and more tension in a work out, use crunches for the abs and tension of the workout.
my brother just got kicked out of my house, and I really dont know how to feel. at first I was sad and I cried a little, but now I don't really care because I remembered this friend i have that has a brother that's the same age as my bro but he lives in a different house 3 houses away from my friend. i dont know if he got kicked out, but they dont seem to mind.
How would you feel?
Well, we advice columnists can't exactly tell you how you should be feeling, we can only try to come up with different scenarios for why you feel this way. It's known that you'll cry if your brother gets kicked out the house. Some people do that and it's perfectly fine that you did do what you did. And it's probably okay with you now because your subconscious probably knows that he'll be fine and that you don't have much to worry about. You probably are feeling guilty about feeling alright about your brother's departure from the house. You'll have to search deep to find out what your feelings are. You're confused and that's a bit understandable because you don't know exactly how you're supposed to feel. And that's alright. Now, it'll take time. But you'll figure it out.
Do you know any good Country songs or any hip/rap or pop songs! any suggestions welcome
"Hollah Back Girl" Guin Stefanni
"Behind these Hazel Eyes" by Kelly Clarkson.
"Sugar." Trick Daddy feat. Ludacris
" Beverly Hills." Weezer
"Holiday." Green Day
"Back Then They Didn't Want Me, Now..." Mike Jones.
"Chariot." Davin Degraw.
"Let Me Go." Three doors Grace.
These are some hit songs that I thought you might like. Hope I was some help and have a nice day.
Does anybody have fun summer ideas for sleepover parties...
Im 14/girl
i have a trampoline
Movies, mall trips, shopping spree's, pools that you can go and pay a fee to swim, perhaps if you have a beach near your house. Whatever way that seems fun for you and your friends. Perhaps a night on the town in the best car that someone has that you know. It shouldn't take much. Just have fun and goodluck. I hope I was some help.