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i've been getting my period since april 04 and i got it on the 24th for april may june july and august. i didnt get it september but octor 2nd. now its november 5th and i still didnt get it. this is really messed up! what do i do because i dont know when to expect it and i'm sick of wearing dark jeans all the time. thx-very self conscious

the first two years your period is irregular, beinggirl.com is good

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is it okay 2 have an online relationship? he said he is breaking up with his gf! and that he wants to go out with me because we have a conncetion! should i tell my friends and family about this relationship? i am scared 2!




no way!!! They could be a rapist, molestor, murderer, etc DONT HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH THIS GUY!

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ok im 13 and have always been energic. Ever since this school school year started ive been exusted every day after school. Its so bad that i acually want to take naps (ive never done that). i don't do after school programs so those can't wear me out. plus for the last 3 days ive done nothing but want to eat (also never done this before). i have no idea wats wrong and i can't go on like this. plz help i'll rate.

p.s. i can't take naps after school i have no time!

Nothing is happening to you those symptoms mean your growing. its a good thing if your really short

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who is gonna win? kerry or bush? tell me ur opinions

i made a bet with my dad that if bush wins then i get $20 i think bush will win

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my boyfriend always calls me sayin how some girl kissed him today at school but if i just say my friend likes my butt he freaks out and i dont care about him flirting cz we dont go to the same school so im not there to do something..anyways i wanna tell him on halloween i was holdin this guy i just met hands but i dont want him to freak out..how can i tell him and ask why he freaks out about me doin the smallest things with my friends and me not doin nothin about him and his???

o yea when he flirts i get jealous but i dont act or say nothin about it..is he tryin to get me jealous?

probably

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I have this boyfriend, he's a great guy and everything but hes REALLY shy. He hasn't held my hand or anything. I know he likes me a lot and I also like him a lot. His shyness is hard to deal with because I am completely opposite. All of his friends have told him that he needs to be less shy and I told him there is no reason to be shy around me because I'm not going to get mad at him or anything but he is still shy! Its killing me!! What to do?! Thanks for the help!!! Have a nice day! :D

make him feel comfortable with you. One day you should say to him i have to tell you a quick secret and instead kiss him on the cheek. Flirt with him get his attention, maybe then he won't be as shy if you show your feelings out to him

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beginnin of last year me and this girl became very close. we are alot alike and we even look alike so when we hang out people ask if we are sisters or whatever. but recently shes been actin weird. im a grade higher than she is and a freshmen. whenever we are with my guy friends she changes and makes up lies to impress them. also we were together last weekend and the guy im currently interested in called. me n him talked for a while then she wanted to talk to him so i gladly agreed not knowin how it would turn out. she became extremly flirty and all "i love you i love you aww hahaha" and she knows i like him she even told him she drinks which she doesnt and that she is expiranced with guys... which she is not. this isnt the first time this has happened. first time it wasnt only the guy i liked. it was my current boyfriend please tell me what to do about this. thankssss =)

Ask her if she likes him, be aggressive, steal your bastard away from her. Shes probably just jealous of you. Flirt with the guy you like more

XOXO

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is there a way to block coments from certain ppl? some ppl say stupid or mean stuff and its not very nice. anyone reading this that does that ,also, could u stop? thanx

well some of the people who answered your question werent being very nice. UNFORTUANTLY i dont think you can block people

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okay well theres this boy.. hes 15 i think and im 13/f
hes the kinda guy who does drugs, drinks, does stuff with girls, everything like that..
hes really nice to me and he talks to me a lot. he says he likes me but idk if he really does cuz he might just be fooling around. he touches me in the halls n stuff but him and his gf of 6 or 7 months just broke up a few days ago because he made out with someone else and lied to his gf about it. well some of my friends are sayin i should ask him out but idk what he will say. what do u think? thanks! :) (sorry so long)

DONT DO IT!!!! hes hitting on you. HE JUST WANTS TO GET INSIDE YOUR PANTS (and you know the rest) HE WANTS YOU TO HAVE SEX WITH HIM. DONT DO IT!! and what if you get raped by him!

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ok one of my friends came over and she was like come with me and i went so we went too this kids house i met him be for but i didn't really no him and my ex-boyfriend was there that i went out with for 6½ months and he was going out with his new girlfriend for almost 5 months and so we were their and he was stoned and i started to get stoned and me and him started too do sexual things and we had sex..=/ and then the next morning he woke up with his hands down my pants and this kid we slept @ told his g/f !! and now everyone knows? what do I do!? - from my friend not me!!! =o)

theres nothing you can do about it now, but that was really wrong getting stoned and having sex!! was he even wearing a condom? STD! but that was even more wrong to do it at some kid's house you really don't know. Nothing you can do about it.

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I have always heard that if your wrapper of a Tootsie Roll Pop has the indian shooting a star you can send it in to get a free Tootsie Pop. Is this actually true, and if so who do you send it to?

thats what i have heard

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(turn up the volume to listen to the music while its playing)

the place looks so beutiful and peaceful

turn up the volume and listen to the music

members.cox.net/patio-ranch/haunted-car2.html

uhhhhhh okay w/e

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Ok, I'm 5'1 and 140 lbs!!! I'm a female, I don't look fat with my clothes on, I look like i'm like 120, i have kinda flat tummy, but when I see myself without my shirt on, I look really fat! I'm very dedicated to weight loss, but I don't want to diet and make it obvious, cuz I dun want my mom to know or anything, so do you guys have any methods, I don't want diet pills, I've stopped eatting sweats and soft drinks, I've been running daily (not to mention playing DDR2 :P). do you guys know any fast methods to loosing weight? getting a flat tummy? thanks a lot, I have a busy schedual, so hopfully the methods might not be too long? thanks, i give 5's!!!!!

my dad is an obese doctor do not take any of those diet pills they can form up to a heart attack on you, and sometimes you even die (sorry this sounds so painful) . YOU HAVE TO EXCERSISE TO GET YOUR WEIGHT DOWN.

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Im tall like not gigantic but im bout 5 6' and im 14 and im not even 100 pounds i dont have an eating disorder i just have always been really skinny cuz i have a good metabolism. How can I gain weight so people will stop making fun of me and i'll feel better about myself?

don't worry about it i have the same problem. DO NOT CONSIDER GAINING WEIGHT. MY DAD IS ONE OF THOSE TYPE OF DOCTORS people are just really jelous of you bc you have a perfect body and they don't. DO NOT GAIN WEIGHT that will be the biggest mistake in your life

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last night my cousin died in a car accident because someone cut her car breaks off. we dont know who but i am soo sad all i can do is cry, please someone help me to get over this horrible loss

im really sorry. that makes me wanna cry, boy i cant imagine how you feel. Ask your parents if they can get a therapist to talk to you.

tHeY mIgHt nOt bE tHeRE
bUt mEmOrIeS lAsT foReVer

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ok well i seem to get into major fights with my brother which then leads to my parents! and the fights are usually me ending up really hurt! today was one of them! i got beat in the head by my 18 eyar old brother and my parents said i deserved it. and i had major panic attack because i was hit so hard! so my mom says she cares about me.. but then says she hates me and that i need to go to hell and blah blah blah! and my brother gets away with everything! he was told to leave the truck keys here, and he didnt and didnt get in trouble. and he steals a lot of stuff from me and my parents, and continues to get what he wants! i have told my mom several times what is happening and she does not believe anything i say and does not think i am right! and it always ends up with me hit some way some how! i am only 15. and my brother is on probation, but drinks underage and smokes pot alot. i dont know how to handle this anymore, and if i try to leave i will get the cops called on me by my parents! i am ONLY 15, getting literally emotionally and physically abused by my family! i have called the cops on my family but it seems to do no good, b/c they do not help me! please, if anyone is out there that is a mother or a father or someone that could help me! please.. i need something to help me deal with this situation! =( please, help me

sue the bastards. But before you do you need to tell the cops again (have evidence from the abusing and show it to them) get an itturney and well there you are in court, also tape record some conversations with you and your brother and let him fess up that he smokes pot, and hide a video camera in his room somewhere but let the lenses show, and take it out the next day. You also need to tell your closest friends, and ask them what you should do about it. THEY WILL CARE ABOUT YOU!!

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I like my guy friend, but he has a girl friend. Well last night i went to my old private schools football game. I go to a public school now so i havent seen my old private school friends in over 5 months. Well i saw them last night, and my guy friend from the school (ryan), who ive been talkin on the phone with all summer, has a girl friend. Well last night went ok, ryan and i hugged and then his girl friend got jelous and didnt want him around me. Well i texted him last night telling him how hott he was. He told me that i was really hott to. We started talkin and i really do want to go back with him. What should I say to him, cause i dont know if he wants to still be friends or maybe be more.

tell him that you like him. DONT FLIRT WITH HIM IT WILL MAKE HIM FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE AND CONFUSED

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ok well my dog's eye is like leeking some yellow stuff and her eye is shut...when she opens her eye hey eye color is all blue like a blind color I just want to know is my dog going blind or does she have pink eye cause I'm really worried

hope you can help

he's probably going blind. VET ASAP NOW

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Im havin a couple friends over for Halloween and i want to rent some good scary movies. Does anyone have any ideas other than scream or the exorcist?

darkness falls, texas chainsaw masacre, twilight zone, starskky and hutch (i like that) gothika, etc

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My Boyfriend and me just had a little fight , well the head cheerleader heard about it and now she's al over my boyfriend and were not even broken up , well we made up and she still wants him , she like bends down in front of him with her cheerleader clothes on or she trys to sit with us and well she drives me crazy , but the thing is my boyfriend dosnt like her and he's the star Quarterback on the football team, and he tells her to back off , is he the good kind of boyfriend every gurl wants? plz help

I think thats everyones dream bf, on t he footbal team, probably hott, etc

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