im always here to help im really good at giving advice mostly about teenage problems not like my computer software crap! look im not supa smart, ask me questions that i'll know. but other than that im great! that doesnt mean i wont have questions of my own im still learning too so if i dont answer a question of yours than dont get mad b.c i havnt been through it. im very honost to people so if u ask i will certainly tell thats my motto! Just one more thing people if you dont like the way i type then get over it. thats how i am and its not like im typing to some important person. well you are but not that important!
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Basically, I'm one of those people that rarely straighten their hair (only on special occasions) so I decided to come here for help.
Anyway, in 2 weeks I'm going to party. I was wondering should I straighten my hair on the day of the party, or do it the night before?
My hair is really annoying because it gets greasy real fast, obviously overnight isn't enough to make it completely greasy but sometimes it'll lose shine and volume.
Obviously I'm leaning towards to doing it on the day, but what do you think I should do? (link)
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um like wash hair dry and straiten all in the same day give ur self like three hours before the party in case someting goes wrong!
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There's this boy who I've been talking to for over a year now, flirting back and forth. This boy has a girlfriend who found out that we've been flirting with eachother. A couple months later, were still talking. I know he likes me because he gets jealous and mad when i talk about guys. I've tried so hard to get them to breakup =/, and I've talked to him about it, what should I do?
Age: 15 Gender: Female (link)
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ok sweetie im going to have to say that what you are doing is not a nice thing to do. look if you were his girlfriend and he was flirting with another girl and she was trying to break you guys up then how would you feel. he ovbiously really likes this girl otherwise he would have broken up with her. if i was you dont try breaking them up no one is ever going to like your for what you did. instead talk to him tell him you like him and that if he likes you enough that he would consider going out with you otherwise stop flirting see so there he has a decision to make and most likely hell choose you.
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One day my sister had a bunch of friends over for a sleepover and they decided to play a prank on me. THEY CUT MY HAIR OFF! Now its this short ugly little thing, I use to have long, really pretty hair but now its so ugly! I want my hair back. How can I make my hair grow long really fast, i was growing that hair since i was about 6. I hate it, i hate it, i hate it! please some one help me get my hair long again. Im tired of going places with everyone thinking im a freak cause im practicaly bald. some one help me, and i need real help not just "oh sorry there is no way to grow your hair fast". PLEASE HELP!! (link)
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OMG is all i have to say thats the worst thing i ever heard make your sister buy you hair extensions there are pills out there to help grow your hair but it mite not work i would go with hiar extentions for now
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Hi, I'm Brittany, im 13 and I'm a girl so, yah....my question is about my boyfriend and his mom. His mother doesn't like me very much and he told her that I don;t like her either....he said that I should meet her but I'm kind of affraid to, if you know what I mean.....but anyways....I don't know what to do, what do you think? Should I meat her or not? (link)
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ya meet her by not meeting her is showing your a coward and its this relataionship will not work out if your not going to be strong and face your fears she shouldnt be scarys because one she cant touch you two if she yells at you for a stupid reason she isnt your parent so fuck them is what i say show you arnt scared and they will respect you. she doesnt like you most likely because you dating her son its weird some people are like that but w.e hope i helped
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I'm 13.. but there is this 16 year old which i knew. when i was depressed, i told her about my problems. but i really like her. she's really beautiful here is a picture: http://www.femaleemohaircuts.com/images/female-emo-hairstyle.jpg
but when i really like some one i start lying because i think they don't like me because I'm bisexual. but my parents (who hate emo's) told her i lied for attention. now she doesn't talk to me anymore. i want to tell her what i feel and that i didn't lie for attention.. i lied to get in her heart. i know she's 3 years older then me but.. I'm bisexual so just like i think different sexes are just difference in appearance, i think age is just a difference in experience in live. i want to tell her what i feel for her and even if she doesn't love me.. i just want to be friends again. but what do i tell her? (link)
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just tell her then what do u have to loose just say you didnt like and you want to be friends
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16
female
5'7"
120lbs
i feel sick after just about every meal i eat. i dont eat to much or to little it doesnt start hurting till about 5 to 10 minutes after im done eating. The pain lasts only 30 minutes but i shouldnt have to have the feeling everytime i eat.
im not overweight either if that helps.
help! (link)
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omg thats so weird i feel sick everytime i eat too its weird i have no idea why i just like stop eating cuz its so annoying and i dont eat any thing before i get in the car because ill get really bad car sick and be on the verge of throwing up im not overweight either i have no clue why this is maybe its just because we eare growing and our body's are changing im 15/f if this keeps up for another two weeks i plan telling my parents or something i would drink water for now it seems to help i hope i helped and your not the only one so thats a good thing i guess haha IM me if you want slearnaro92
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how do you know when you love someone? (link)
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this is a tough question not many people can really tell you your the only one who can tell if your happy with them if there the only thing that does make you happy when your misserable when you cant stop thinking about them but usually on a random day it just clicks you'll just know
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16/f
Would tanning help hide my horrible stretchmarks? I have stretch marks on my arms and its really embarrasing =( I use to be really big and I've lost a lot of weight but the stretch marks kicked in ...is there any treatment ? Has anyone ever tried anything and sucessfully removed there stretch marks? (link)
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im not sure if this would work but try the stretch mark stuff that pregnancy women use maybe that would help
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i'm with a guy, i didnt go to school with him, hes 18, im 15. so um we always text, but sometimes we get to the point where we have no idea what to talk about. and i have no idea like what subject to bring up.
any ideas to keep a convo going?
and how do you get him to call you?
thnx (link)
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sometimes theres no connection when you cant find something to talk about so maybe you should find this as a hint that hes not rite for you. but if you still feel that he is the one then some convos to bring up is family how many sisters sports that he or you are playing maybe the lame thing your mother or dad did and how he can relate partying experiments you have done w.e the case something random doesnt matter if its out of the blue at least its something to talk about. and for him to call you ask when one day you guys are texting be like o sorry i have to go do u mind calling me in like an hour. then mite or the other way around like i g2g ill call you in an hour.
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sorry i didnt know under what category to put this.
so i bought nair today. and when i apply the way and pull it off with the strip the hair still doesnt come out!!?
what am i doing wrong?
i pull it off right away. should i wait or smth???
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um on the bottle it usually tells you weather how long you should wait the one i have is pretty old and ya i should like throw it out ahaha but it says to wait ten minutes before removing the cream thing so i would read the back if it doesnt say anything which im sure it doesnt cuz your asking this question but wait like a minute or an extra minute before smoothing it.
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Ok so ive never been to the gyno..... im scared idk what to do or to expect..... I havent had a period in over a year and well i just dont know what to do... mine is a guy and I DONT TRUST GUYS so any advice...
Thnx Military45 (link)
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i would say change doctors first and then ask one of the nurses to expect.
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Hello, I am dealing with a woman who is crazy!! She is my Kid's stepmom. The kids are 2 girls 9 and 11 and one boy age 8.
Problem is she is way overly sexual toward my kids verbally. And now sexually. I found out from my daughter today that the stepmom and her father went on a camping trip with their combined 7 kids all in one tent. They had loud motion filled sex in front of the kids while they were supposed to be sleeping!!! My two daughters described it all to my horror. Is this illegal? They have sex with their bedroom door open. Her rules are always open doors, because bad things happen when doors are closed. She told my daughter all animals go to hell when they die.She told them a man may rape you and rape is when they have sex with you , and are sick of raping you and kill you when they are done with you. She talks about their sex life while driving in the car. Her oldest daughter talks openly about blow jobs and oral sex on women and she is 12. They go down the road having open sex talks!!! What happened to singing or talking about the disney channel?The list goes on and on. The woman is a 2 time convicted felon for child endangering and robbery and a 3 time misdemeanor for shoplifting. Their father is now brainwashed by her and hasnt seen his kids in 2 months. I live in a nice home with a wonderful fiance and a perfect home life filled with love. I am afraid that a judge is going to make me send the kids to him eventually . I have custody, he has visitation. Any legal advice? Any pschological input on crazy?? Thanks!! (link)
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well my parents are divorced too and idk if this will help you in any way but this would be seen to the judge im sure as an unstable home to stay in saying that the parents were having open sex for the world to see. i would take it to court that you dont want your children around that women because of how she is tell them what your daughters have told you and go from there
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so one of my friends decided to hook me up with this guy she used to go to school with and that she used to have a crush on him blah blah blah..anyways he messaged me on myspace tellin me this too. when i told him i had to get off he texted me and he was pretty cool..i thought. we had a lot of stuff in common and he seemed okay but when i saw him he wasnt attractive and i dont like him so how should i tell him that without sounding rude. or like make something up lol (link)
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be polite of course be like im not really feeling a connection towards us and i feel like we are more friends then anything else so i hope you dont mind that we just be friends or if that doesnt work tell him that you hate being in relationships and guys make you sick haha or tell him that your parents dont approve of you of going out with guys unless you like 17 then haha idk what else.
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15/F
okay so normally i dont really care about these things.
But its happened so often i think its time i do something about this.
Beofore i even get to explaining it i want you to know that breaking up is NOT an option for me.
Whenever im on the phone with my boyfriend and he has his friend or cousins over.
He NEVER talks to me, he just talks to the people hes in the rooom with, and leaves me holding the phone to my ear and looksing stupid.
yesterday, i hung up because it was getting really annoying, and it took him ten minutes to realize i hung up, and only THEN did he call me backk.
Then he just does the same thing over again.
Every now and then he would say
"sorry"
or
"uhh ... hang in a second" and then goof around or talk to the other people in the room for like twenty minutes!
While I, again, am STILL on the line.
Or whenever i would try and get him talking, he would be like "......sorry what?" over and over again.
If your going to call me, TALK TO ME.
I dont know any way else to put it.
It really makes me mad, i think hes trying to impress me with the face that he has an awesome life of laughter and friends.
And i really think thats good, but when my boyfriend calls me, i want to talk to him.
He can goof around later.
Now, i love him very much and hes really sensitive to what i say ...
but this has just got to stop.
He also is different in front of his friends in front of me.
He'll goof around with them, and call me when i even HEAR hes having a good time:
then later on he'll be like
"Ugh (so and so) is so annoying i hate him, i only hang out with his cuz i feel bad"
or something like that
Please give me any solutions? (link)
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tell him when he calls you the next time with friends or cousins in the room with him tell him babe im sorry but i see your being occupied at the moment do you think you could call me back later when i have your full attention because its a little annoying to have to wait for to get to talk to you. You have to tell him what your feeling thats good he has a life but he doesn't have to like brag about it.
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Heres the scoop. I have a boyfriend. We have been dating for about a month. My rents are "old school" and seem to think that if you have a boyfriend, you cant have boy friends. So, i have to choose between my boyfriend (which means losing all my guy friends) or my guy friends (which means losing my boyfriend). I dont know what to do. What should i do (link)
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um have both i dont think thats fair at all just seem like your just with your boyfriend but your really hanging out with all your guy firends still if your not into like sneaking around or lying to your parents then dont do it talk to them about it that you dont think its fair that you have to choose that its wrong and shouldnt have to be that way.
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my bf and i have been together for almost 6 months
and recently i asked him if i could see his penis
and when i ask he gets nervous about it and eventually its small i told him not to worry about it but hes still shy about it what else can i do to reassure him? (link)
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tell him that size doesnt matter to you that you love him the way he is and that no matter what the circumstance you are with him for him and not his penis and tell him something that your insacure about be like ill tell you if you show me or tell him that i want you to feel good about your self around me and i also want you to feel something "GOOD" if you know what i mean what guy can not resist you know what im saying. i hope i helped and good luck!
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i know i posted something like this ealier
and everyones advice was good.
but all this stuff with my boyfriend is making me so sad. and its driving me crazy.
i dont have like any girls that are friends cause me and girls just dont get along
and every guy that i talk to tell me to just break up with him and of course a guy would tell me that cause they wanna get with me
but i know their serious casue they see how sad i am.
but i just cant break up with him. im too inlove with him and ill be ever sadder
but my boyfriend and me live in different states
so the only thing our relationship really relies on is talking and trust and communicating and all that. but we dont even do that.
hes the only person i can talk to for hours on the phone and hes the only person i perfer talking on the phone rather then texting
but somedays ill get a text saying i love you or what are you doing baby. and some days ill get a phone call which is normally at like 1 in the morning. when i should be sleeping..
ive confronted him before about how i felt about not talking and he changed that for a couple days this week. but today it just went downhill after i saw him comment that girl telling her shes cute and shes commented him back saying f*ucking hot.
and that bothers me soo much because ive told him how i felt about that and obviously he doesnt care. and today i commented him saying babbby and he commented me back saying hey booo text me.
so i did and then after like 2 texts he stopped texing me and then i texted him back saying i hate when you tell girls their cute you know how i feel but whatever bye. and of course i never got anything back.
i really dont know what he could be doing behind my back. he could be messing with other girls and its soo easy for him to do it too cause we live in different states.
hes suppose to come down on the 13th and im wondering if thats actually gonna happen because he cant even call me back when he says and keep simple promises so how can i count on him even coming up here?
things were never like this. he has changed so much.
im really sorry this is long. but i honeslty have no one to talk to. and i just need peoples advice.
im thinking about just not texting him or calling him and just gonna do my thing until he decides to talk to me. and i know he wont talk to me for awhile and ill end up texting him and he will just tell me like every excuse that hes busy with work or stuff.
someone help me. im confused and dont know what to do :[ (link)
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alright he lives in a whole different state i think you need to get over this guy i mean he probally wont be coming up and he wont talk to you so i say break up with him hes making you sad and angry and i know you know you need to break up with him so just do it already its the right thing to do at this point and it seems like he doesnt care so do yourself a favor and get out of this relationship
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folicure pills?
ive heard they promote hair growth is this true?
because i bought them && ive been taking them for about 3 days only but they have a real nasty taste to them & i dont want to keep taking them if they dont work....
thx! (link)
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no its supposed to help your hair growth to either thiken it or make it grow longer!
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Ok me and my boyfriend have been having sex hes 17. my mom found naked pictures of me in my camera that i took of myself that no one else has seen but me, and now my moms putting me out to be this big slut. And shes treatening to take me to the doctor and if they see im not a virgin then shes gonna have my boyfriend Aressted. me and him have been together for 2 years. I love him sooo much annd idk what i would do without him PLEASE HELP!! (link)
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um im pretty sure that they cant tell that your not a virgin or not people are always woried that they can but they cant so dont worry and just be like those pictures were for my eyes only i just wanted to see what i look like or something like that your trying to see everyday that you do crunches if its making a differecne so you take pictures of your self. he cant go to jail he would have to be 18 for that to happen
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Ok, I'm 15/f.
I have my helix pierced, and then two on each lobe.
I'm 16 soon and my parents said I can get any piercing for my birthday.
Now I'm stuck between.
Something on my ear(tragus, industrial, conch, anti-tragus, forward helix,rook or snug?)
Tongue
Side lip
Navel
Eyebrow
I'm not 100% girly. But I'm not a tomboy either.
So like casual girl :P
Thank you!
Oh, I don't want anyone to be like err what the fuck is a ?
:P (link)
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ahh omg your lucky ok so if i was you i would either do that tragus or ur navel its hott i would love to have both ! so either one of those!
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