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hi im lauren. im 15 & ive had experience with lots of stuff.. so i can answer pretty much any kind of question =]

advice

how do you change your name on facebook to just your last initial instead of your last name?

click on account in the top right corner
then scroll down to change name
type in your name and your last initial =)

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15/f

so im going to be a freshman, this september or august or whatever, and im like nervous. does it suckk incredibly? like do they seriously make fun of you? how bad is it?

honestly it is like not bad at all. especially if youre a girl.. you shouldnt really worry about it. and the teachers cut you more slack because youre new to highschool & stuff.

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well theres this tottly hot guy that is in my class. i know he knowws who i am kuz he has my myspace cnad everything. but how do i get him to notice me as more than just some girl??

go up to him..
say hi whats up?
talk to him
flirt with him
talk to him on myspace

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is there any way to whiten your teeth without buying strips or whitening gel?

brush your teeth 2-3 times a day
& floss!
use whitening toothpaste
there are certain types of gums that help whiten your teeth (it says on the label i think one kind is trident)

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i have african american type hair kuz well im african american. i cnat do much with my hair kuz its short like downto my shoulders BARELY! what type of hair styles should i use instead of just a ponytail and down??



thnxx. : )

you could like cornrow it or put it in braids
you could also try straightening it
or maybe dying it a different color or putting in some highlights!

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Why do guys like sticking their fingers up people's vaginas? And why do girls like guys sticking fingers up there?

okay its simple.

guys are horny.
girls like the attention & it feels good.

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Well here is the story. Ok the other day My friend had sex for the first time and she said that when her boyfriend put his dick in her it hurt really bad. And I told her ( not knowing anything about this stuff beucase I am still a virgin.)that it was probley beucase it was her first time having sex! and she said that she was moaning just because it hurt her so bad..! she said she let her boyfriend do it for like 2 min's and had to stop him. So when girls moan is it beucase they hurt so bad or it fells good? idk?

Thanks In advance!
much lover XoXoXo

ok well usually girls moan because it feels good.. but she could have meant that it hurt really bad but she was faking a moan so her boyfriend wouldnt know that it hurt..

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I am gonna have sex with my boyfriend for the first time, where would be some romantic places for my first time to be at?

honestly, i want my first time to be in a bed and i know a lot of my friends agree with that. dont worry about making it really romantic, if you love him then it will be romantic. maybe you could like light some candles or play some music to like set the mood..

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Alight this is kinda hard to explain but ill try my best to make it as clear as possible.My girlfriend and I sleep together almost everynight depending on if she is at my house my parents allow this and yes we have sex. so anyway we would have sex before we go to sleep and everything would be fine but i would begin to dream about makingout with her or having sex with her or somethng sexual and when i finally like awake fromt he dream that is what i am doing.we would be making out or beginning to have sex and i dont want to sleep threw the whole thing and something bad happen or if i am sleeping near my parents to do it infront of them that would be bad so my question is why am i doing this and how can i make it so it doesnt happen even though it is kinda hot in a way. Thanks a Bunch sry for it being kinda long

well you should talk to your girlfriend. maybe shes the one who is making the first move. maybe youre just sleeping and she starts kissing you.. she could be doing it gently enough that you dont wake up but you dream about it.. maybe she doesnt realize that youre not waking up and just thinks your eyes are closed

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13/f and my friend is 13/f

My friend, alex, lost her virginity last week. I got really mad at her. I don't know what to do. She moved to Indiana too. I don't feel like being her friend anymore because she lost her virigity at 13. First, she started smoking, then she gave bjs, now she's lost her virginity. I feel so weird. All my other friends are virgins. I really don't like my friend anymore. She used to be nice, happy, and cool, but now shes... gross, rude and... Virginityless... Not a word, but ok. I wish my friend could've been smarter. What do I do?! Plz help!

you cant change the bad choices that your friend has already made. shes probably looking for attention and this might be when she needs you the most. shes looking for attention from these guys. maybe you should talk to her about it. theres no guarantee that youre gonna change her mind but tell her that shes throwing away her reputation and ruining her friends. tell her you liked the old person she used to be.
xoxo

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okay so about a week ago this guy fingered me, and afterwards he jacked off to himself.afterwards maybe a couple hours later he fingered me again. i don't think he washed his hands after he jacked off so could this mean that i may be pregnant?

yess it is possible.
but its really really really unlikely.
to be safer he should finger you first and then jack off. or he should wash his hands after..

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15/m ok i need to get over some girl i wet out with one year ago, going out with people dosent work alls it does it makes me forget for a while, any ideas

aww i know how you feel. sometimes it takes time to get over ppl. try hanging out with your friends more.. maybe stay single for awhile and appreciate how nice it is to be free and able to do whatever you want with whoever you want. i know that doesnt always work but try to keep her off your mind. if you find yourself thinking about her go watch tv.. call a friend.. talk to someone you trust about it. even telling her about it could work. who knows.. she might have the same feelings back.. and if not i know it does help to kinda get it out in the open that you do like her its like relieving i guess.
xoxo

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i have been dating this guy for over a year & i love him alot and don't want to be with any guy besides him. but, i look at other guys - i talk to them, flirt, etc... and i think it would be fun to kiss one of them, hook up with one of them.. but i don't want to be with them, i just want to be with my boyfriend. i want to be like, a slut for a day, but not a slut.. but i still want my boyfriend.

what should i do?

okay honestly this JUST happened to me. and i broke up with my boyfriend and now he refuses to talk to me until the end of the summer. dont do it.. its a bad idea. stay with your boyfriend you will be wayy happier
xoxo

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19 f

ive been going out with my boyfriend for six months now. and im just curious about something. is it a bad sign if the guy doesnt want to have sex as much like he still holds me and kisses me says i love and everything but for some reason i find myself always having to initate it and usually when i ask it feels like im asking for to much. ive asked if he thinks im still attractive and hes like yeah your beautiful. i dont know what to do. how can i get him more in the mood. maybe im just a horny girl haha. any advice would be appreciated thanks!

maybe hes just a little more shy about that kinda stuff than you are. he probably just needs a little push.. when he does do that stuff tell him how much you like it and maybe he will get the hint and start doing it ore often if it makes you happy.

xoxo hope i helped

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hii, uhm i have a problem. my friend is having a pool party towmorrow and i have my period. youd prob all say use a tampon, but i hate using them they hurt me so much. there are also going to be boys at this party who will try to push me in. what should i do?

1. you could try using a really skinny tampon.. make sure youre actually putting it in right.
2. wear a thin-ish pad with shorts
3. i wouldnt go in the pool with nothing b/c yess your period does somewhat stop when you get in the water.. but as soon as you get out it may start again and that could be embarrassing if it starts again while youre getting out of the pool and everyone sees

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I was just wondering why are girls so uptight bout admitting that they masterbate cause guys are open about it...thanks

its more acceptable for guys to do it..
most guys do it and they talk about it with eachother.. a lot of girls do it to but they dont really talk about it with eachother

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When me and my boyfriend fool around I don't say a word!!! Yeah I don't talk at all. He wishies I will but i'm kinda shy about that and don't know what to say? Any ideas on what can I say???

just tell him what you want him to do
and if hes doing something right then tell him that it feels good.. and if hes not doing something right then show him how you like it

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what does it mean when a guy cums? i know this sounds stupid but i am curios.
14/virgin

it means that sperm comes out of his dick

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hey guys or girls i would like to know how do u give a hand job?

um basically you just
wrap your hand around it
and move it up and down

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Ok. I really want a flat stomach so i look good in bikini this is what i look like now..

http://i161.photobucket.com/albums/t202/SRH6306/IM007276.jpg

and this is what i want to look like...

http://i161.photobucket.com/albums/t202/SRH6306/untitled.jpg


I wish i looked like that how can I make myself look like that?

Please help!

do a lot of sit ups. dont only do them straight up but do them to the sides too so you can work the side part of your stomach too. good luck!

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