Me and my boyfriend were having anal sex and it slipped into my vagina. Can u get an infection from that?
Yes you can. If he has an STD or an STI.
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Hey everyone! I have a beautiful black short haired cat who's turning 3 in two weeks. She's very happy, very healthy, very loved, and I brush her fur almost daily, and pet and scritch and cuddle her, like, constantly. She's kind of really spoiled...but it's just me and her here, so we're both okay with that. ^_^
Anyway.
As the subject says, she keeps getting these flakes of dry skin all over her back, like a human with dandruff. Her hair is slightly coarser there. The rest of her is, like, ridiculously soft (hence all the cuddling). I have eczema, so my brain automatically goes, "Is there some kind of cat-zema?"
...
Is there?
Has anyone else's cat has this problem? How did you treat/fix the flakiness?
Is your cat chubby? Because if she is, it's hard for her to naturally clean herself along her back. My fatty cat has the same problem too. If her weight is fairly obese, try putting her on a diet because the problem will go away once your cat will be able to clean herself there.
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so i have these ugly black spots all over my legs and i was told that it's because of shaving i can't wear skirts or shorts because it makes me feel well kind of "ugly" i was wondering if any of you knew what i could use to get rid of it i tried bio-oil and it doesn't work
thanks guys
Try waxing and a skin lighetner.
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My bf and I (both 18) decided to mutually split up after our five month relationship started going downhill. He is a sweet guy but sometimes he doesn't understand me and it was hard to make days to see eachother. We live an hr away. After we split up he didn't talk to me for four months (understandable) and we both havn't dated anyone else. We had a pretty good relationship up to that point. I poked him on facebook a week ago and then today he texts me and asks how Im doing. I say im alright and he says hes ok. The convo went pretty good. He is in college so he does get swamped with homework at times and studying. I am just wondering why he would text me out of the blue? Has he been thinking about me? Thoughts?
He probably still wants to check up on you but wasn't sure if you were willing to talk to him, therefore, your poke initiated that you didn't think he was a bad person. Maybe now that he just saw your name appear on his facebook he's like "hey, let me see how she's doing." It's not easy to tell if he has been thinking about you constantly, but I'm sure you crossed his mind from time to time.
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My boyfriend of four months broke up with me because his dad, who lives in California, doesn't approve of us going out. I was very upset. I told him all my thoughts. I told him I couldn't believe him. I freaked out. And an hour later, he said he loves me but now he knows I don't want to get back together. He never mentioned it being temporary. He is trying to put the blame on me. I know I most likely hurt him but he never specified. Now he thinks I hate him. I really do love him and I don't want to lose him. He said he'll never have me convinced that he won't hurt me. I love him so much though. I never meant anything I said.
We worked it out. He called me and we talked for a while. He was asking me what would happen if we didn't get back together. Being very emotional, it takes a long time for me to get over things. He kept asking what would happen, which makes me think he's not going to get back with me. He says he still loves me and he's sorry for everything. It's all so upsetting. He wants to get back together, but at the same time he is unsure. I want to wait, but not too long. I love him so much. We have the perfect chemistry and everything was great between us: perfect communication, full trust, and endless affection. I don't want to lose him. I have never felt the way I feel with him with anyone else. I don't want anyone else to love. What do I do?
I know you want to wait to make things sure, but you need to explain that you need to give it some time to fall back into that feeling again. The last thing you want is for him to say I give up on you. Trust me, I know how it feels, and it's not very nice or comforting either.
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How do you find info on dance subjects for a school project on a prezi.
whats a prezi?
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hi i am jealous of my friend because she haves a boyfriend and i don't and she hangs out with him more than me now. How can i stop being jealous of her hanging out with him more than me?
You can find yourself more friends to hang out with. Getting a boyfriend for the sake of passing time isn't recommended. You cant expect your friend to not hang with you all the time.
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I've been trying to look it up but I can't seem to find an exact answer. I. Am a femaile and live in north carolina and I want to get married but I don't want to change my last name. Is there a way I can LEGALLY keep my last name and still get married? Not just socially.
I dont think nor changing it is illegal. Changing your last name is by choice. It's usually a tradition and done to show that you're willing to adopt your partner's family name as you became part of that family. There are many married couples where the wife keeps her maiden name. :)
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my boyfriend and i have been together for almost a year and a half. we're known as the cool couple-we'd been good friends since high school, 50% of our relationship's been long distance, and we're never jealous of each other. and if one of us feels that s/he has found 'the one' and its not with each other, we're cool to let go.
and things have been good between us. and trust is definitely there. it's been pretty much supported by his personality since he's a philosophy&theology major, basically socially awkward, and if he starts talking with people he burns their brains. so i never get worried that he'll cheat on me (most girls stop talking to him the moment he mentions plato or aristotle or piper). He doesn't like physical affection stuff (his ex spent two months trying to tell him that she wanted to hold his hand) and well, I never find it a problem since i so enjoy our more-like-best-friends relationship. so it's been, for me, a very healthy relationship. One problem would be though, that I could tell that we both doubt whether this relationship should be something we go for seriously or just another fling. Even until now I do not know what I really want.
he lives in northern US and me in southern. we text everyday and call often. skype a lot as well. then last week I gave him surprise by flying over to michigan to see him and well, i spent a week there.
I don't know if it was because I didn't see him for seven months that i felt awkward or if he had changed. I could tell he was completely comfortable having me around and was very happy. He's been pulling me into embrace and holding me. and before I left, he hugged me so tight I got scared he'd break me!
I mean, what happened to him? I can so see that he's still the socially awkward guy that I'd known for years but then the way he treats me when I'm physically present is scaring me! and I feel kinda bad that I treated him like other dude and he was just being the sweetest guy ever.
I'd like to think that he really wants to make your relationship work. Honestly, you guys sound like a really good couple and you guys seemed to have mastered a lot of the fundamentals of a good relationship. You guys know about each other's pasts and you guys fully trust one another. Being socially awkward and having people walk away from you when you speak might be something your boyfriend is used to but at the same time, he might feel that you're the only one who understands him. Therefore, I think he would really want to make this work. Not wanting to hold hands might be something his ex didn't understand but you were fully aware of his reasons. Though I'm sure he understood that it might not be fair to his partner back then in showing that type of physical affection, I'm sure he realizes it's an important factor. I really feel he made this change to show you that he really wants you in his life and he's willing to go out of his comfort zone for you. I mean if you're happy with this change then the best thing to do is to embrace it. If it seems kind of fishy, then it's best to ask him. But judging by the way you described it then I dont think you have to worry.
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Just wanted to see if anyone knew of a way to clean silver earrings. Mine was pure white, but now it's like gray and I really want to clean it. Thanks.
I know there are some jewelry cleaners you can buy at the store, like Walmart and what not. But, to prevent that from even happening, when you buy your earrings, coat them with a layer of clear nailpolish. It would help stop the tarnishing because of the exposure to water.
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I've been a vegetarian for three years. I am fifteen. My parents aren't the most wealthiest people and my family's kind of poor. Without any meat, I feel fine. For a while I felt refreshed and great. But lately I have been feeling very run down and sleepy. I feel like I'm not getting enough protein. I drink expensive protein shakes I get every so often and I take vitamins too. But what else can I do to boost my protein?
Thanks!
Yeah, eat a lot of beans. I know there are some great tasting vegetarian kidney beans that you can eat. You can buy them from Walmart. It's in a green can. No cooking necessary. Protein shakes lack essential amino acids that you need in your system. Try looking up meat substitutes. You can also buy tofu. That's really healthy.
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I am a fifteen year old girl living in Hell. My parents fight constantly. Over the dumbest shit ever. I am smited and cursed at and beat because I can't do a lot of things the way my parents want because I have never learned. For instance, today, my stepdad strangled me because I walked away when he was telling me to go get something. My mom pulled me by my hair because I accidentally got the house wet with the hose when I was cleaning out the cat box. They treat me like shit. My mom tells me I'm ugly and she gets very angry because I am quiet and I am a little bit difficult at learning things. She complains that I can't do anything right. It makes me feel like I will never ever amount to anything at all. When I try to be what they want, I can't do it right. When I want to be who I am, they treat me like shit. They don't listen to what I have to say, they think I am a complete failure, and nothing I ever do is ever perfect for them. Somedays I just feel like killing myself, or running away, or even calling child services. My life is off and on happiness. I was happy and now I am getting depressed. They expect so much out of me when I don't know what they want. I need help. I don't know what to do anymore. They threaten me and my sister, and they abuse us when we don't say or do the right thing. We are sick of it. My sister is 9.
Anything will help us. I just need some guidance.
Your family needs counseling that's for sure. Standing up to your parents definitely won't help because they'll end up beating you. No parent should tell their child they're ugly or strangle them, or pull them by their hair. In fact, NO WOMAN should be pulled by their hair. Karma, keep that in mind. For now, try seeking someone to talk to that can probably aid you finding someone to help your family. Try going to advice to a counselor and maybe they can recommend someone.
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20f. Ryan 19. This is going to be long but I've been dealing with this so long I need guidance :(
I met Ryan at the end of summer through a mutual friend. He was so sweet, respectful..i could tell right away he wasn't like the other guys i talk to. Anyways Ryan ended up going to play hockey in South Dakota (3 hrs away from where I am) He still texted ME every day, I never once texted him first. That was a nice change. He went to South Dakota in September and didn't get to come home until Christmas break and it was only a week. So Christmas came and he only was home for a week. I wasn't going to bother him to hang out I figured he would want to be with his family and close friends since he didn't get very long. Surprisingly he asked me to come over. So I did. It was a good time, he was so sweet. Then a day before he was going to go back to South Dakota, he wanted to see me again. So I went over again and we hung out. Things were really good. He then went back to South Dakota. Well then we were talking and I was like me and my friend are thinking about taking a little road trip to come see you for the weekend in a couple weeks what do you think? And he was like do it!! KEEP IN MIND...he was still texting me every day and things were great. So January came and me and my friend drove 3 hours to go see him play hockey and hang out with him. It was thursday night and he invited us over to his billet parents house. so we went over there, met some of his teammates and just hung out. but i could tell another one of his teammates were hitting on me and flirting with me. Ryan noticed and was kind of joking around like "What do you think your doing talking to my girl...do you wanna fight? Lets go" I was like aww thats kind of cute that he was jealous. Then Friday came. He texted me before his game and then after his game. But never said anything about hanging out?? So Saturday came...he texted me before his game and also after again and once again never said anything about hanging out. He said he was just hanging out with the boys. I was a little irritated.. we came to a different state to see him and he only sees us ONE day? Well saturday night i get a text at midnight from his teammate that was hitting on me. he wanted to hang out (i could tell he wanted to hook up) and i was like ummm well dont you think Ryan would be mad since were like "talking"? He told me to ask him. So I asked Ryan how Nick got my number in the first place and Ryan said he must of took his phone in the locker room and got it that way and I was like okay so why is he asking me to hang out? And he was like i don't know but go for it. And i was like umm no i dont want to hang out with him and it bothers me a little bit that you dont even care that your teammate is trying to get with me? Then he goes on to say I can't do this anymore..i don't wanna talk to you blah blah blah. it came out of NO WHERE. just a minute ago things were fine and we were texting and then it all of a sudden changed and he said he didn't want to talk to me anymore. This went on for about two hours where he was saying things and then finally I tried calling him because i wanted to figure it out and he ignored me.
Me and my friend left that Sunday morning and I didn't hear from him that day or like 3 weeks later. Then he randomly texts me saying the dumbest things..something like: "Whats up slut..are you watching jersey shore? Hope your bangs have been clean recently!" I replied "Grow up" then we started arguing again and i said i didn't do anything to you why are you acting like this! and then i was like ok can we please just be civil and at least be friends and maybe hang out in the summer when you come home? He agreed.
THEN we didn't talk for a month, and I was on facebook and he ended up chatting me. He was like hey how have you been? And i said really good how about you and we started talking. But then i was like ok i'm not trying to start a fight with you but i just want to know why you were talking bad about me to your teammates after that weekend (i heard he was) and he was like nobody has said anything about you since that night. I was like ok well i mean so if i see you am i supposed to just ignore you or what i don't know what you want. And he said something like "idk i'm not really worried about you right now" and i said something else and he never responded. I haven't talked to him since, so it's been like a month.
I just don't understand. He texted me every day, he was the one asking me to hang out, etc I was never annoying or clingy. It came out of no where. The sad thing is i really miss him :( it's hard going from talking to someone every day to not at all. And he was really sweet ..all of his friends and teammates said he is the one who treats girls right. But he's so weird about it. I don't understand. What do you think I should do? I haven't said anything to him since that weekend we went there in January, he's the one who said something to me twice since then. I just miss talking to him a lot. I wanna see him when he gets home in the summer but i don't know if i should text him if i haven't heard from him since he's been home? He'll be home late April. I know he hasn't met any girls there ..he's playing Juniors he's not actually going to college so there playing hockey 24/7 and he even told me when we were talking (when we were on good terms) that there were no girls worth his time there and that he was only interested in me. and his teammates also said they don't hang out with girls cause they focus on hockey. So i don't get any of it ...any suggestions?!
Guys are the most confusing creatures ever. Isn't it weird how one minute they tell you they love you and the next minute, they want to break up? It's hard to know how a guy's mind work sometimes and it's really hard getting used to the feeling that they're not there anymore. To be honest, don't push for the relationship, if he's not willing to fight for it because you're just going to be wasting your time. I, too, am going through a breakup and it's only been about a month and I still haven't found closure. It takes time to heal, but I think it's best to put the past aside. It's weird how he got jealous and then called you a slut.
Maybe one of his friends told him you agreed to meet him and whatnot. The fact that he didn't even want to tell you what the problem was means he doesn't want to fix it. As unbelievable as that sounds, it's true. Just try your hardest to let go. I'm trying to do that as well, as difficult as it seems, but you will eventually get there.
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I love my boyfriend more than anything, and last month I realised that he lies. Quite a lot. But he only lies about the insignificant things? For example, what time he got up that morning (to avoid sounding lazy). We argued over the matter, and ever since I've been unsure as to whether or not he's changed. I haven't caught him out but that doesn't mean he isn't lying. Should I be worried?
Ending a relationship based on assumption isn't really something you want to do. Trust me, I've been in a relationship and I've made some pretty bad assumptions about my boyfriend which led to anger issues and trust issues I had with him. Why can't he just be honest with you about it because lying about that shouldn't be a big deal, but if it is a constant, then its kinda strange.
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I'm 18 years old and I love my boyfriend with all my heart. We both want to have a baby and now I think I might be pregnant. I'm kind of happy because my family wants me to graduate high school and go to college. My family is very judgemental so how do I tell them that I'm going to have a baby. Has anyone been through this? How would you tell your family? My boyfriend is the type of guy that will be by your side no matter what.
Well, if they like your boyfriend, just have a talk with them and say that this happened. I mean, hiding it might not be the best way to go because your parents might be dissapointed in you if they find out otherwise.
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Hey im 19/f and im 5'7 and weigh 160 pounds.. most of my weight i've gained within the past 3 months which im not too sure why. But I want to start doing some exercises that will help tone my legs and thighs. Also i feel like i retain a lot of water weight. I know theres diurex but i'm not sure if that'll help. Is there anything over the counter i can take to help with this? Also what type of foods should i stay away from.. salty food seems to be my weakness. So i know i need to work on that.. but yeah 2 main questions. what are some good exercises i can do and is there anything otc i can take for bloating/water weight. Thanks and i do rate :)
im not too sure about the water weight but, to begin with, eat portioned meals. You can have them more than three times a day. Try using an elliptical and doing lots of squats.
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i need sugestions on how to ask girls out. First to start i kind of want to point of view of 18 and under. Im actually re
ally bad with this and want to know how guys go about it.
Just be confident and make sure you find out she likes you first because sometimes, telling a girl you like her that's only a friend might ruin your friendship.
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How to act and show my boyfriend that I no more care for him
If you want to show him you don't care then just tell him how u feel. Ignoring him is kinda immature
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How do I stop my period for a hour
You can't really control it.
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so the title basically says it all i don't know how to flirt at all i really want a bf i want to end 8th with a guy whos sweet and nice but i don't know how to flirt whats slutty and what is appropiate
Confidence is key. You don't necessarily have to start off being flirty because that can come off as being desperate. Showing that you're interested in a guy in ways other than for a relationship reason can be a good thing. Just try talking to a guy about anything and develop a good friendship with them. That way you get to know who they are and you can decide whether or not you find them boyfriend-worthy for you.
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