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How do I tell them?


Question Posted Thursday March 17 2011, 12:16 pm

I'm 18 years old and I love my boyfriend with all my heart. We both want to have a baby and now I think I might be pregnant. I'm kind of happy because my family wants me to graduate high school and go to college. My family is very judgemental so how do I tell them that I'm going to have a baby. Has anyone been through this? How would you tell your family? My boyfriend is the type of guy that will be by your side no matter what.

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helperman27 answered Monday March 21 2011, 3:37 pm:
Do not listen to people who say "dont tell them" that is insane!!!! YOu should absolutley tell them as soon as you are sure. THey are your parents and think how they would feel if you waited until they just found out on their own! Good luck.

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Xui answered Thursday March 17 2011, 5:48 pm:
The responsible thing would be to tell them, There is no easy way to break the news.


You and your boyfriend are going to have to have a sit down together with your parents. Hiding the pregnancy is only going to make matters much worse for you late down the line. I'd rather be told and mad for a awhile to find out months later my kid is pregnant.

If you are worried they would make you adopt or abort it, They can't. You are legally an adult and whatever choice you make is yours. However, You got your self in this situation and you owe it too your parents to tell them.

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Teen2TeenHelp answered Thursday March 17 2011, 4:33 pm:
Well, if they like your boyfriend, just have a talk with them and say that this happened. I mean, hiding it might not be the best way to go because your parents might be dissapointed in you if they find out otherwise.

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someone24 answered Thursday March 17 2011, 3:37 pm:
dont tell them.. im 17 and 3 months pregnant and i let them find out on their own.. it was soo much easier than telling them

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