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Is Itunes commpatible with Windows ME?
Please answer if you have itunes and/or Windows ME? (link)
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Yes. I have iTunes.
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I've been in a serious relationship with "Drake" for almost 3 years, 2 1/2 of which we've lived together. My problem is simple, I'm just afraid there's no simple answer. I'm not physically attracted to him anymore. I never thought I was a shallow person until now. I can't help it. I know as a relationship gets older, some of the passion dies and thats normal. I know once you have what you want you don't so much want it anymore and that thats human nature. But I mean, I won't let him touch me, much less have sex with me. He turns me off rather than on. Its been going on for months now. Its really very sad, because while he complains about not getting any, he doesn't know whats really going on. I've told him its more of a medical condition (which isn't a complete lie) to spare his feelings. Sometimes I think he's going to push the issue, and I get prepared to tell him the truth, but then he drops it, like he knows there's a problem and he wants to avoid it. I try to encourage him to lose weight or change other things that gross me out about his appearance and sometimes I piss him off. I try to be sensitive, I'm not perfect either, but we can't go on like this. He and I are sexual people, he thinks he's being deprived and so do I. He's a good man with a big heart and a great sense of humor and I feel safe and secure with him. I just can't get hot for him. Does that mean the love I had for him has changed into a different kind of love? Or does it mean I'm a superficial bitch? We've been through so much, I'm terrified of hurting him, of losing him. He'd be mortified if he knew I felt this way. How can I talk to him about this? I feel like our relationship is at stake... (link)
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Just have a seat with him say... tonight. If you can work up the courage by then.
Just sit him down and begin to tell him how you feel. You guys can come up with where to go afterward. Be it you stay with him, or leave the relationship.
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I've been friends with this girl since the beginning of 8th grade - we're in 9th now. She's friends with most of the same people as me and we're pretty close. Last year she did what she wanted to do and didn't really care what others thought. Now, she's started copying my sayings, my interests, all of my music, my books, absolutely EVERYTHING. And also, one of our other friends got her hair cut short a bit ago and the copying girl just went out and chopped all of her hair off too. This annoyed both me and the girl who got her hair chopped off first.
I've tried everything - ignoring it, not talking about my interests, asking people for advice - but nothing works. I need to make her realize that she needs her own identity - not mine and everyone else's. Is there a way to confront her non-threateningly? What should I do? (link)
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You two became friends because you like each other. Usually people like each other for something in common. Apparently she likes a lot of the same stuff you do.
There isn't much you can do about this problem...
You may confront her but it will only get ugly. You can't make a conversation about someone copying non- offensive.
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ok.. I'm 13/f and I'm in the 7th grade. I play JV ball for the highschool and there is this girl who is in the same grade and she got ask to play with us in the summer and now she is telling every body that she is a varisty player for the highschool.. her mother puts stuff in her head tellin her she is the best ball player ever and crap.. it really just pisses me off..It gets stuff in her head and crap.. We'll get to play them in aau and I'm going to show her out for she won't think she is the best ever..should I be mad or how should I think about this? (link)
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Don't be mad. Just show her a good game.
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Last monday my ex and I broke up and now he's telling everyone what we did in our relationship.He calms he " hit it and quit it" which means he was just with me for sex. So it all back fires on me.But instead of just sitting here and letting him say that.I started to tell people that I "hit it and quit it". Does that make me a slut or does it make me look stupid?i really dont have a choice. (link)
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To be honest... it makes you look like a slut. I would recommend you stop saying such things if your reputation at all matters to you.
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My best friend is a guy. We have no feelings for eachother & we're really close. The guy I'm dating, gets extremely jealous. He says that we secretly like eachother and it's hard for him to accept me being best friends with another guy. Also, they absolutely hate eachother. How do I work this out? I can't just sit them both down and talk, that will in no way workout. Is there a way I can atleast make them tolerate eachother for my sake? (link)
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Your friend sounds like he extremely understanding of you - considering you call him your best friend-
Just explain you would like for him to be more polite. Same thing should work with your boyfriend.
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Well my boyfriend && I have been off && on for 3-4 years now...we've been together this time for 8 months. There's time that I act "different" around hime. Like I don't want to be there next to him or whatever. Then there's time that I don't want to leave his side. He's like my best friend && more. How do I know that I'm still interested. How do I know that I still love him? He says that he's scared to lose me, && that to me it seems like he really want this relationship, but on the other hand, I sometimes feel like I don't...but then again I do...how can i stop doubting it? (link)
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Well, the fact you have had some realtion troubles with him shows you will in the future have the same troubles.
I don't advise sticking with this guy, it doesn't seem like it will all work out happily in the end.
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i think it might have been today when i have decided that i hate track. i hate almost everything about it except the fact i get to see my friends. i think whoever made the sport up should be thrown out a window.
ok so i just had a track meet today. we lost and i didnt do very well. on the ride home, i took some of the peoples advice and talked to my mom about it. yeah, we got in a HUGE arguement.
she said that i should put my heart into it and stay commited. i told her that its hard to put your heart into something that you have no interest in. she just doesnt get it! she thinks im some professional runner but i hate running for points or a grade. im not even good. im not even GETTING good.
she kept telling me that the only true reason i got a cell phone was for track. i dont think theres any way of talking her out of it. its like she doesnt care that its really blowing my week.
another thing: my brother.
he's basically the next albert einstein. he passed the SAT's in 7th grade (my grade). i dont even know if that is humanly. now, he's the genius in the family and im the runner up. he's only a year older than me and he's already 2 years ahead of me in school. the reason i have large expectations is because im supposed to follow in his foot steps. im already in algebra math but my parents want me to take a summer school to learn more for the private school i have to get into in 9th. my brother is also athletic.
im not sure if im capable of following his steps.. i think im already lost!
i need some help please =/ (link)
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I can understand why you think you need to follow in your brothers steps, but seriously, don't. It doesn't sound like you want to, it sounds like you're spending too much time doing something boring, and not enough time having fun.
Keep trying with your mother. Don't argue with her. Simply explain. Always keep a calm voice, even if she is screaming in your face. Control will help you win in an argument. Hopefully it doesn't happen like that though.
There really isn't much you can do here except speak with your parents on the matter. After all, they do have control over what you're doing and not doing.
Keep trying to talk to them. Don't nag them about it, but be persistent and drive your point through.
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aright,yesterday people were sayin in their away messages, 'out celebrating 4/20' and on wednesday, my dance teachers daughter said to her friend, haha, tomorrow is 4/20! and uhmm im totally confused could somebody fill me in? thanks (link)
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"Out Celebrating" meant they were out smoking pot.
420 is national pot day.
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My 2 best friends [who arent even that good of friends with each other] went out last night with a few guys and this girl who are considered cool. My friend invited me to go, but I didnt want to because i wasnt exactly invited by the others. So my best friend went and asked my other friend, and they went and had a BLAST. they then had a sleepover afterwards and couldnt stop repeating how FUN it was. It got me pretty pissed, and they left a message on my fone saying that they didnt think we could be friends anymore because we get in to many fights? Im not sure if they were kidding but I dont know what to do. My friend is really not that social, but over AIM last nite she basically told me that she was sooo cool becuase she is friends with them and im not. what do i do. i need advice. (link)
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You were invited and didn't go... I understand why you didnt.
If you friend isn't very social, obviously she is in shock from hanging out with people far cooler than she. She'll get over it. Just don't be rude to her, take it. Or, just hang out next time with them.
**EDIT** No. Not because they're 'cool'. Cool is merely the recognition of a status. Anyone can view their own way. I said to do that because it sounded like you might have wanted to.
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Hi! im a girl and i'm 17 ..well my sitiation its that my bf and i had a big fight and we broke up.. I LOVE HIM ..but he seems he he doesnt care.. y talked to him and he said we are just friends.. sohuld I quit talking to Him?..and i also dont want go out becauase im sad..i quit eating asnd all that stuff... what can i doo!? (link)
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If you two are just 'friends' now, if you cease hanging out with him, you wont be anything. Is that what you want?
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i like this boy. hes sooo cute and nice and just plain out perfect for me. we get along really well and we talk online like everyday. i like him so much. but i dont think he is interested. i think he just wants to be friends and i cant stand it. i flirt with him as much as i can without going overboard. i always invite him to hang out to, he always says maybe but then we never do. i dont know what to do. when i asked him if he liked anybody, he said "eh idk. kinda..but not really" ahhh what can i do? (link)
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You can tell him how you feel. If he accepts, good deal. If not, it wasn't meant to happen. Simple. You'll move on, as will he. You two will still talk and you'll move on to someone else.
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After writing an essay about something we liked were gunna have to speak in front of the class for a timed 5 minutes about it. And i'm scared out of my mind. Whenever we have to talk in front of the class i start talking fast (which doesnt help me reach 5 min easily) and like moving my legs back and forth. Its weird, cause usually i'm really up beat and talk real loud and stuff like that. But yeah i'm super nervous. And suggestions that would help me not be so scared? (link)
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Usually if someone is talking I never pay attention to them. I would say, at any given moment, only half the class is listening. Take comfort knowing it is probably the same for you, too.
Don't acutally look at the class. Just stare behind them. At a wall or something if you need to look up.
It's hard to be nonchalant while speaking in front of a class. Once you get up there most of your nervousness will disappear and it will be fine. It's just getting there that sucks.
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For my english class i have to watch a movie, and then "critize" the movie the best i can in like an essay. And then talk about why i like it, and why i dont. Well i'm not the smartest kid in the world, and i spend most of my english time sleeping or listening to my ipod. So if you could.. tell me what critizing is. And how i would do that for a movie i like. [she made us pick the movie first.. & write it down. And i picked one i like]
THANKS IN ADVANCE. puh-lease help! (link)
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Have you ever read a film reivew? Those are critics. Exactly what you're supposed to do!
www.rottentomoatoes.com
Go there, check out a movie you're interested in and just click a link to one of the reviews. Just follow the critique in a similar forumla they used.
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Hey everybody! I love exercising but my Cd's are all get old. I'm going to make a CD that willbe motivating and up beat to listen to. What are some really great work out songs? I'm hopeingtoputat least12songsonto the CD. But I'm not really into R&B and Rap so those are the only two types of music that I wouldn't want on there. Thank you to anyone who replys! (link)
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'Smack my bitch up' - Prodigy
'Name of the Game' - Crystal Method
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ok there is a guy i like a whole lot who i flirt with but i dont know if he really likes me back or is just havin fun i want to tell him i like him and find out how he feels but i dont want us to have to act totally different just because i told him i like him.i always end up falling for guys to hard and to fast and i always get hurt when i fall for friends and everything always changes but i dont want to happen this time. im really worried if i say the wrong thing everything will change but if he feels the same i want him to know how i feel?!?! im so confused right now!! someone please help!! i rate well! (link)
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If you want him to know how you feel, tell him! If you tell him and he doesn't like the idea, it wasn't meant to be. Simple.
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For Literature I have to write an essay comparing a scene from Apocalypse Now with the book Heart of Darkness, by Joseph Conrad. We are to focus on the extract from Apocalypse Now, but we can talk about the book as a whole. The teacher hasn't given us much assistance on how to write this, because we're rushed for time at the moment. I'm just wondering if anyone can tell me the right structure for writing an essay like this, what kind of things I should mention, whether to compare it, etc. I'm not sure whether to talk about the extract and compare how its changed to a similar scene in the book, or whether to talk about how the themes have been adapted. I'm completely lost basically. lol.
Any help will be appreciated. I'll rate no matter what. Thank you! (link)
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The length of the essay would be a nice addition in helping me give you advice.
Anyway, first paragraph. Outline what you're going to say. Be it you talking about the themes, or something else.
Second para - tell them what you said above, just go into detail. Usually, just describe the book or the movie alone in this paragraph. Last sentence or two should lead into you comparing the book to movie, or movie to book.
Third para - you're comparing this scene or theme to the one stated above.
Fourth para - conclusion. Sum up what you said above. State again why they are the similar and sum it all up with a nice ending.
If the essay is supposed to be longer, repeat the formula in the second and third paragraphs above, just spruce it up a bit. Compare a few things to one another, and span it out across a few paragraphs instead of just two.
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is there anyone on aim i can rtalk to and get advice of school relationships need to talk to someont soon thanx
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shootthefat1
In other words, me.
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Would you give somebody a rating like a 1 if for an example you wrote something to try to help the questioner person but somebody below told them the say thing but in different words? (link)
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No. I doubt that many of the time advice givers even look at the other advice given. I for one don't. I just answer it best I can.
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how to a transfer my songs on my cd to my ipod? thanks (link)
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Put your CD in the computer and pull up iTunes. You'll notice on the left side of the screen your disk will show up and the name of the disk will be there. Click it.
You'll see all the songs listed with checks in the boxes. Uncheck any songs you don't want. Then, on the top right of the screen click 'burn' and just wait for them to burn over and tada! You have your disk in iTunes.
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