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Hey babez I am Julia!
NickNames:Jdawg,JDubb,J,Juls,Julz
Loc-:I'm all over the place baby.. haha AZ ;)
Gender: Gracing the world as a female!
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advice

ok first off, im kind of pale and white and i have ALOT of freckles....is their anyway to like make them go away? or tan fast? bc when i tan i dont really tan i burn n peal and its nasty and all my friends are like wow you need to get a tan..or dang you are so white!! what do i say when they say this and how can i tan to make my freckles like blend in??

It's so weird..people who have freckles hate them and people who don't love them. Even if your friends make fun of that fact that you have freckles, be proud of them!! You can use a self tanner or get a spray on tan, that get's yiour face pretty good. Or use concealer and powder to blend it in and blush!

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Hey Alicia, ok I'm really stuck & I need help. This guy named Josh has lived 2 doors down from me for about 5 years, but I just recently met him & we started hanging out. I thought he was cool & everything & I had fun hanging out with him, but slowly he started hinting that he wanted to fool around..By the way, he has a girlfriend..Well we would make out & stuff even tho I knew I shouldn't & he kept wanting to have sex, even tho he knew I was a virgin. Well one night, we were laying on his couch & we started messing around & one thing kinda led to another & we had sex. It wasn't in for very long at all, but I bled, so I knew that I had lost my virginity. He would keep inviting me down to his house & then would want to do it again, so it happened 2 more times, even tho I didn't even really wanna do it, but he kept asking & asking, so I gave in. If it wasn't bad enough that he has a gf, my 'first time' wasn't special or anything. I miss the Josh that I first met. But that was obviously a fake & it kinda disappointes me. Of course I have feelings for him cuz he's the furthest that I've gotten with anyone & I lost my virginity to him, but he's using me. We barely talk anymore, & the very few times he does IM me online, it's just to see if I want to "cum over." How can I get over & forget about him & try to move on? It's not fair that I have feelings for him & all he wants to do is use me because he doesn't get it from his gf or whatever. Please help me.

Ya no one should be used, that's an awful feeling, but your better than that. If he asks you to "cum over" tell him anything BUT yes becuase you are going to hurt sooner or later. Guys change alot, people change, but you are just going to have to get past the fact that he isn't interested in you for 1.) he has a gf which he isn't faithful to, and 2.) he only wants sex. You deserve a guy who will be loyal and like you for you. Good luck!

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my names kayla im a 13 female..i like this kid Blake and so does my frend heather. ive been hearing peopl saying that heather and blake go out. i Really like him but im to afraid to telL him just in case heather and him go out. what should i do?

Well that's a pretty common thing that happens between friends and one boy, but you have got to be the bigger person and talk to him and tell him your feelings, who knows, maybe he likes you. He won't know how you feel until you tell him.

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Well, me and this guy blaine have been best friends since the seventh grade. I mean best friends, i know everything about him, and he knows everything about me. I also have this best friend named Tanisha and she was the first person i told when i started having feelings for blaine. I never said anything to blaine, but in the eighth grade Tanisha told me she liked blaine. Blaine said that he only likes her for her body, and now they're together. I still like him, but i feel like neither of them cares about me any more. Everyone keeps saying just find sum1 else but its not that easy. What should i do?

I think you should talk to each of them about how you feel. Because best friends shouldn't do that to each other. I had the same problem and I did find someone else, but just talk to them each so they know how you feel.

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How do you know if a guy is seriously right for you? Like, how do you know if they're not playing you and they're for real?

Well, honesty between you guys is key. You should be able to trust him and he should feel like he should be able to trust you.

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i'm a junior.. i met this guy who was really sweet, and we ended up hooking up and evetually dating. even though i changed schools we would still see each other, it didnt last very long but we broke up. well, even after that we started hooking up. I dont like him as a boyfriend but i always have fun when i'm with him. Should i still be hooking up with him?

Well you should ask yourself this. If you have fun with him like hanging out keep doing so, but if you don't want to be with him don't. As far as hooking up with him goes..whatever you feel like haha!

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well this is my prob see im goin into highschool and im like the only one of my friends not scared cause my sis is gonna be a sinior and i know like all her friends and then i have friends that are sophmors and jouniors too and everyone is sitting there telling me i needto introduce them but i dont wanna get them annoyed so i tell them no and so there scared and they want ot go to a diffrent high school that a privte school there all scared that me and my other friend are gonna ditch them cause we know more people then them and the ones comin from other schools whats there deal???

It sounds like your friends are a ltitle scared you will leave them and they just want to fit in too. I would introduce them because if you don't they make take that like you don't want them hanging out with you and your upperclass friends. So I would introduce them.

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this is kristi.. i wrote about ricky awhile ago... well i wrote him a letter and gave it to him on the last day of skool.. i know kinda lame but hey at least i gave it to him. well it said that i liked him and that we should hang out this summer then i put my number at the bottom... well he called me THAT NIGHT. we talked bout everything BUT the letter, but we found out that were going to hawaii... same island and everything at the same time so we r gonna meet up there to hang out.. how perfect huh? well does that mean anything that he called me that nite when i said call me this SUMMER?
luv kristi

Yeah that's good! It shows he has some interest in you! You have some guts for giving the letter to him haha! Good luck meeting up with him and have fun!

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i babysit this child whom is eleven. She is a very impresionable child, she goes on to the internet to meet boyfriends and cuts herself.what should i do?

Talk to the parents. Call them up asap. When you babysit her, she is under YOUR care do something about it.

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ive been going out with this guy for a couple of weeks and i really have fallen in love with him. weve kissed before, but i really want to take our relationship to the next level. i dont htink hell say no or anything, but im just really nervous. were going to the movies tomorrow, do i kiss him or even MAKE OUT with him??????

Oh I know just hot you feel. You'll feel nervous but just remember, he is probbaly just as nervous as you are. Don't push anything, whatever happens will happen for a reason so just let it take its course and go with the flow! Have Fun!

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Well I love me girlfriend to death she is the best and we have fun all the time but I am like running out of things to do we usually do the same old things all the time so I think its time for something new so can you help me think of some ways or place or things to do with my girlfriend that will just make her melt.....you know nice romantic stuff like that.....lol any help will be greatly appreciated thanks much.

Ohh this one is hard. You sound like you like her alot and want the best for her, so I would say don't do anything to fancy or to make you look bad, you can invite her over and cook her dinner,thats kinda different. Good luck!

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i like this girl who is at my school. But she is more popular than i am. what do i do to get her to notice me iv'e tried everything

Just be yourself for one thing, no one likes a peron who is trying to impress someone to much. If you can ask around to get her sn and talk to her online if you run out of options. Or don't let popularity stop you from talking to her, get some guts and talk to her, you'll feel good after you do!

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my cat snores....is that normal??!?! lol
(btw she has asthma)

Yeah haha 2 of my cats kinda do the same thing. it's totally normal lol.

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my friend is suicidal and i have tried everything i can to help her and i just dont know what to do anymore! HELP PLEASE!

I suggest you call someone, not like a doctor to help you when your sick, but who helps you with your mind. If you don't know what to do, ask someone who has helped people like this before. Good luck and act fast!

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I live in cali and i like this guy. school is going to be out in a couple of days, but i really like this guy. he is moving at the end of the school year. and i am very sad. he says he lkes me. i want to keep in touch but i'm really sad and on't know what to do!! i am in love with this guy!! pleazz help

I am sure you alredy know this, but ask if he has an email address or sn, and give him your # incase be doesn't know what his new # will be.

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this guy... we still hook up even though we broke up. idk if theyr'e are any feelings. i dont think i feel anything for him since really now i've jsut started thinking of him more of a friend than a boyfriend. some of my friends think i might be leading him on. i realyl have fun with him. and he's realyl sweet, but he could also be an ass. he's asking me if i've hooked up with anyone.(y would he care?) i liked it when we went out but now its like it's doesn't matter.. he's sually looking at me. and now i really odnt know hwat to do..?

It sounds like he still likes you, but it sounds like he doesn't want to make the commitment to go back out with you again. If you don't have the same feelings for him that you had before, don't go for him because you won't be happy. Just go with how you are acting now, maybe you'll stay friends and realize that you DO like him.. but for now I would just be friends!

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16--f
i was dating a guy and flames for ex came back blah blah blah long story...and i told my friend Brandy, adn after i said somethign, she just changed the subject and didnt offer me any words of wisdom, adn everytime i mentioned it, she went crazy and changed the subject. it is kind of frustrating becuase i want t otalk to her out it but she doesnt want to hear it...i do happen to knwo that she really doesnt like my ex, she never approved of us to begin with...but, what can i do...??? to at least get her to be able to help me through my problems? is there anything i CAN do? HELP!!!

It sounds like she doesn't wanna to talk about it because of some issues that were never solved.You can try asking her why she never liked your ex. Start by that.

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do u noe anything on baby sitting

Ya I love babysitting! It's so much, but it's also a lot of responsibilty. You need to make sure you are ready to be able to be alone with a child and be able to take care of it if anything goes wrong. But it's alot of fun. There are also classes to learn more about babysitting and they show you different things to do in different situations!

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There is this guy I really like. Today I found out that he cuts himself. The only thing is, he doesn't know that I know. How can I bring it up and tell him to stop without sounding all maternal?

I know, if I found out something about a guy I liked that would bug me too. But don't sit him down and give him an explanation, ask him questions like," I know some kids have tried it, have you?" Don't come right out and ask him, kind of hint about it.

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my ex moved away awhil a go... and i was mad him... so iv been mad at him all this time.... but he came and visited me this past weekend... and all my past feelings came back! his name is nick stevens... and i REALLY love him!... but i dont know what to do or say... but i called directoy and have called him... yet i still dont know what to do.... what do i do? ( im a 14 grl)

Well, do what you feel is best, because no one likes him like you do. But, if I were you, I would call him up and plan a day to meet him to talk about everything and get everything worked out so you both are on the same level!

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