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hey guys! my name is cait♥ and i adore giving people advice. my obsession is 8th&ocean. i even have the theme song as my ringtone ; ] hehe. anyways im a cheerleader and i love every minute of it. well dont be afraid to ask me certain questions because im always here for you = ]. thanks for coming here and reading this. so you like my advice? add me!! = ]]. cait♥

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is there any way i can get a song on my cd to become my myspace song? if so, how?

hey, you cant do that. but try www.urbnmix.net or www.musicfeet.com to see if your songs on there. cait♥

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ok i'm 13 and i got a question. whats the white stuff that comes from your body...girls you hopefully know what i mean. is it bad, or good?

hey, its called discharge. every girl gets it. so its fine. cait♥

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im sorry if this is in the wrong category but..

14/f
im going to get a physical soon ..and i shave down there so would it be awkward if he notices it, like would he say anything?

hey, its your body. he cant tell you not too or anything. so dont worry. cait♥

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What is that song called,

Song 1.it goes "dont go chasing waterfalls,please stick to the rivers and the lakes that your used to,i know that you guna have it youur way or nothing at all,but i think your moving to fast." featuring left eye? much help is appreciated!!

Song 2 : it goes "what would you do if your son was at home,crying all alone on the bedroom floor cuz hes hungry,and the only way to feed him was to sleep with a man 4 a little bit of money and his daddys gone...."

im sorry,if im asking for too much,you dont have to name both of them,but thankyou!!

hey, the 1st one is by tlc and its called waterfalls. i know the 2nd is by city high but i dotn know the name. cait♥

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i got jergans natural glow a few months ago, and i used it every night for about a week on my legs but i saw absolutly no results. i was just wondering if anyone else had this problem. should i try using it again? thanks xo

hey, i used this. the same thing happened to me. im tan everywhere else except my legs. because every part of your skin is not the same color differntt parts have different results. keep applying. cait♥

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After writing an essay about something we liked were gunna have to speak in front of the class for a timed 5 minutes about it. And i'm scared out of my mind. Whenever we have to talk in front of the class i start talking fast (which doesnt help me reach 5 min easily) and like moving my legs back and forth. Its weird, cause usually i'm really up beat and talk real loud and stuff like that. But yeah i'm super nervous. And suggestions that would help me not be so scared?

hey, i had to do the same thing except for 6 minutes. what i did is made by speech extra long, so that it would be up to 5 minutes with how fast i talk. i timed it on my microwave to know if i made it long enough. i also practiced before to. i made my family listen to it. cait♥

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Okay so i have a boyfriend. And i dont know how much i really like him, like sometimes i really do but other times it seems like he's just there. The farthest we've gone is like kiss, and we never hang out outside of school. So i almost just consider us as good friends .. considering before we started going out i would kiss my good guy friends all the time, like on the cheek. So me and his relationship is just like one step farther.. and i almost think its dumb. Two of my good girl friends are a year older then me and they both loved that went out before but think that i should break up w/ him now. i said i think i should too.. because i do. but i know that he'll be pissed, and not talk to me for like who knows how long. And i really wanna continue to be friends w/ him. Both of my friends think i'm gunna chicken out, and i am just scared. And dont know how i should deal w/ this.. i am really close to alot of guys in my grade, and can be sort of a flirt. me and my boyfriend barly talk & it really doesnt even seem like were going out. But i dont know, i dont wanna him to like hate me if we do break up. And my ex best guy friend, is really good friends w/ him now. And thinks that i'm like a horrible girlfriend to him, and that i treat him bad because i sort of deny him sometimes cause i think its awkward. But i dont know how to tell w/ that either. its like if i do break up w/ him that my ex guy friends gunna hate me even more. And were almost becoming friends again.. i dont know. Please help me ...

hey, if your questioning wheter to go out with him or not chances are its not meant to be. break-up with him. tell him that you think the relationship is going nowhere fast. if he doesnt talk to you tahts very imature and his loss. cait♥

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My friend is in the middle of situation between 3 girls he likes. All 3 of the girls like him too. I tried helping him last night and had nothing to tell him because i don't know what to do. One is his ex-girlfriend, and they broke up because she had to go out of state for college, and the other 2, i'm not too sure how he met them. But maybe one of you can help me help him. He's confused and i want to help him out.

thanks in advance. :]

hey, you really didnt provide much info. so ill just try to help. if his ex-girlfriend is interested in him and he is also interested in her and they broke up for a reason that isnt bad then i dotn see why he shouldnt like her. judge the other two girls by persoanlities and qualities. but honestly if he needs help deciding and his heart doesnt tell him then i dotn think he likes any of them. cait♥

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Hi. I'm not sure if this question should go under this topic or not. But anyways, I'm 13/f and never been kissed. (yeah, I know yall are laughing) I heard that usually on your first kiss that you end up kissing the guys nose/face/ect. anyone have any tips so that won't happen to me? Cause that would be really embarresing. (sorry its such a dumb question)

hey, make sure the guy knows that your going to kiss him. because if he doesnt he may be looking a certain way which would cause you to miss his lips. cait♥

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okay i have a friend who cuts herself and i know its my fault cuz she never would have done it if i never moved. And I haven't talked to her in a while becuase its too painful, i feeel so bad and i feel like i should make it right since i caused her to do it. Do you think i should call her (i haven't talked to her in lik 3 months cuz i was scared.) We were best friends since we were 5 years old we were inceprable but when i moved she didn't know what to do so she turned goth(which i have no problem with) but then she started cutting. How can i help her? and do you think i should call her

hey, first of all its not your fault that shes cutting herself. you may have moved and caused her to but dont balme it all on you. honestly you werent going to live near her forever. yes, i think you should call her. she prob. misses you to death! give her the idea of making new friends and tell her that you will contact her daily(if the first call goes well). tell her that its going to be okay an d that youll even come visit soemtimes. comfort her and be there for her. cait♥

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Hey everybody! I love exercising but my Cd's are all get old. I'm going to make a CD that willbe motivating and up beat to listen to. What are some really great work out songs? I'm hopeingtoputat least12songsonto the CD. But I'm not really into R&B and Rap so those are the only two types of music that I wouldn't want on there. Thank you to anyone who replys!

hey, um "hips dont lie" by shakira is a great up-beat latin song. cait♥

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I dont know how many of you are catholic, but this year i am getting confirmed. Actually in like a week or so. And its suppose to be like dressed up nice, and like no jeans. Either nice pants, skirts, or dresses for the girls. well i wanted to wear a dress so i went to like Windsor, and DEB and stuff. And i found 3 dresses i really liked. Well one of them is kind of too dressy, so i'm gunna save it for Graduation. And one of them my sister hated so i just dont like it anymore either. And the last one could be perfect, but its kind of big in the chest area. And i would have to wear something over it cause it's spagetthi strapped and since its in church were not allowed to wear anything like that.. but i almost think i'm dressing up to much. 3 of my friends that i talked to are just wearing skirts. But i really like my dress. Its like a salmon color and its short, and just real cute. but i dont know. i'm scared i'll be the only one in a dress & i'll look stupid.. plus after i put something over it i dont know how its gunna look & like what jewelry i should wear and yeah ...what do you think i should do?

hey, first off salmon is a gorgeous color! gold jewlery would work awesome with it. wearing a dress isnt too dressy. the girls who wear skirts are "under-dressing". if this oen is teh spaggeti strap dress try to find another salmon dress because when you havea cute dress and wear something over it you ruin it. if this is the one that is too big in the chest get it tailored aka fixed. good luck! cait♥

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I think I'm going gothic and I'm terrified of what's becoming of me. I dress like it now and I listen to the music. I LOVE the music and I HATE the rap. The only thing is I'm scared. I don't want to be one of those suicidal people that everyone is scared of but I can't go back to being a prep because then I wouldn't be myself. What do I do!?

hey, when your gothic you dont have to be suicidal. dont label yourself. stay true to yourself and do whats best for you. cait♥

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my makeup comes off alot before the end of the day. does anyone have some tips on helping my eyeliner, mascara, eyeshadow, && perfume stay on longer? thanks! ill rate!

hey, cheap brands of makeup usually end up falling off by the end of the day. buy good brands. also use waterproff mascara and eyeliner. cait♥

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okay, i need help now. like it's 2:30 a.m. were i live rigt now and i can NOT fall asleep, what are some good ways to try and fall asleep?

i rate 5's!

hey, just shut off the lights. close your eyes. relax. and get off this computer! cait♥

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my wife is 41 year old recently she met younger man and they started loveing each other she love me also but she can not leave him also i am unable to understand what to do

hey, she is cheating on you! you need to get out of the situation if she doesnt want to leave him. talk it out with her first tho. tell her that you need to be the ONLY man in her life and that if shes unwilling to accept that then your going ot have to leave her. cait♥

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wow i love your advice and heres another question
how do you play hard to get

hey, thanks = ]. what i usually do is act interested and uninterested at the same time. example- if your talking to him on AIM and he i/ms you wait 10 seconds before you i/m him. during classes make EYE CONTACT ALOT. make sure your flirt with OTHER guys throughout the day also. but once your with him,(if you ever hang out alone) keep ALL of your attention on him. need any more help? http://www.links2love.com cait♥

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i was 132 august this summer i am 160. ive never been this big ever and i feel so disgusting and have been crying the last 2 weeks. ive never had roles, ive never felt so unhappy. i know if gaiend this from not being energetic and being depressed but i need to lose weight fast. like alot i dont care if its not so healthy but i need to lose at least 20 by june, ive been trying hydroxycut but seriously i cant feel anything. help me, its a must i lose 20 by then

please help, i really dont know what to do with myself=(

hey, 132 is a normal weight. but 160 is just a tad too much. here are some ideas. I AM NOT TELLING YOU TO DO EACH THING EVERDAY! join a gym, if you have a treadmill use it, do crunches, run around the block. split them up for the days in the week. as for eating habits this is what i would do. try skipping breakfast for a day. if it works out continue skipping it. but if you feel sick skipping it then stick to eating it. for lunch have any drink you want with a small amount of food. such as instead of having 2 slices of pizza have one. do the same for dinner. if you really want to be in the dieting mode then drink diet soda or water. also in the morning have a drink. as long as you stay commited you should see results within a month or so. cait♥

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15/f. my best guy friend recently admitted to me that he has a major crush on me. however, i see him as a brother (and he has remarked that he still sees me as somebody that he can talk to). he and i have talked about how we're always going to stay friends, even if we have feelings for one another because we have a really good friendship. he also asked me if i'd like to go with him to a banquet next year as friends, and i said yes. my only concern is that now things are going to be awkward between us. how can i let him know that it's perfectly fine with me if he likes me, and how would you feel if you were in his position?

hey, dotn be bothered by worrying about it. its fine as long as you dont have feeligns for him. if you do tell him. you may get a great relationship out of it, if not stay friends. jsut tell him that its okay to like you, but you dont feel that way about him. cait♥

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theres this boy and i like him and i want to talk to him but dont know what to talk about what should i talk about to him???? I rate 5's

hey, tlak about things he likes. such as sports. guys find it attractive when you try to interest them. if he has a big game coming up or soemthing chat about that. cait♥

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