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Hi my name is Lee Ann. I am 29 years old and Graduated from Bethany college obtaining a bachelors of music. I am a happily married woman with two kids, ages3 and 2. I currently have six books out on the market, all of which can be found on amazon. The first is called The Leaf: One fallen heart and a burning desire, my second is called Avengement of Glory, my third is called Spiral of Enlightenment, fourth one is called Prodigy of the Immortal, fifth one is called Augment in the Realm of Darkness, and my sixth novel is called Bond in the Spiritual Heart. I started this advice column to see if I could give good advice. Turns out I am pretty good, better than I thought actually. I enjoy seeing people smile when I give them good advice and they use it. It makes me feel better as a person to help people. I want to make the world a better place and I think that starting an advice column is the right way to begin. Writing is a huge part of my life, without it, I wouldn't be able to function properly. After seven years, I think I have done pretty well as an advice columnist.

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ok so i am basically getting bored of the songs on my mp4 player and i cant find any other good ones so what are some good songs that i can listen to while walking my dog or walking home
thanks
btw i dont really like rap songs so preferably not them and my favourite types of songs are rock, metal and stuff like that
thanks again haha

(non screaming/screaming/ metal/ punk)Papa Roach, From first to Last, Avenged Sevenfold, blink 182, funeral for a friend, hawthorne heights, All american rejects, brand new, skylit drive (amazing band!), dragonforce (fury of a storm is crazy. the guitarists play so fast), abigail williams, lamb of god, devil wears prada (singing and a little screaming), all that remains. if you want to you can go to my myspace and look at my list of bands for more. www.myspace.com/darkesthourforme

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13/m and no offence but please dont say i'm too young for a girlfriend ha ha

ok so i've been going out with this girl for about a week now and i cant even hold her hand without being nervous so i havent like walked with her while holding hands i'm afraid it will ruin our relationship and shes a great girl so i dont want to lose her so does anyone have any tips
btw we went to the movies the other night and i stuck my arm around her but even that was crazy haha i dont know whether its like things that happened with one of my girlfriends last year cause her and me and a few other friends went to a movie(this is a different girl) and i tried to stick my arm around her but then she just pulled it off her arm it was funny and everyone kept sayin i got rejected but still, funny

and also shes my first girlfriend this year...sad i know

It is perfectly normal to want everything to be perfect. You seem like a person who wants to take their time and wants to do things just right. That is an excellant quality in a man, unfortunately most don't have it so feel very special :) I know your afraid of going to fast and losing her before the relationship even really began. Your so nervous because you really like her. The easiest transition into holding arms and stuff is by causally flirting with her. You are keeping her intersted and you are able to keep contact with her without worrying about going to fast. Example, teasing her, if you want her to see something; hurry up and grab her hand and pull her to the object so she can see it, if you want her to look at something behind her; put your hands on her shoulder and turn her around. These little things with ease your comfort zone and make you feel comfortable enough to go further. Unfortunately girls have a keen sense so if she senses that you are uncomfortable, she will be too.

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my big project this summer is completing my first animation/movie. i use windows movie maker, and MS paint. i cant afford anything better. -.-''

anyways, i'm just wondering if anyones done this before, where do i start? its going to be dramatic, and not a full-blown animation, frame by frame, more of just picture after picture with some music in the backround. and maybe frame by frame at certain more dramatic points. so yeah. any tips? thanks.

1. you want to write out the script or story line
2. draw frame by frame what their actions will be
3. add animations drawings to computer
4. try to add voicing and lines to match the pictures. It makes it easier if you have a friend mouthing the words so you know how to shape the mouth of the figure.
5. last add the background music

I had the pleasure of doing the same thing for my film class haha

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So I started hanging out with this chick becuse she seemed to always have ciggs. We became great freinds fast! I then started to hang with her family and freinds and we all became REALLY close I consider them my second fammily. I was hanging with just her friend and she told me that my smoke buddy really likes me. I really like her too I kno that she wont admit to it so I dedcided to get me and her drunk so that we could talk freely and if something goes wrong we could blame it on the booze. we got drunk and she said that she really likes me and me made out. So the nxt day she tells me that she dosent want to jeperdise our freind ship. I had a drug test the nxt day so I began to drink to get it out of my system and she drank too along with her freind. she started flirting with and I made out with her then i fingered her. Her freind then got on top of me and my smoke buddy said it was chill and that she thought it was hot. So I went with it and eat both them out. I went on vacation the nxt day and tonight when I texted her to ask her if we were chilin tommorrow she said not till later thz guy that she has bin hangin out with will be comming over (he only wants her for sex and she really isnt that kink of gurl) when she is home alone. She says that she really wants him. I dont kno if she dosnt want me anymore and if I should give up. I really like her but is she only doing shit becouse were drunk??
Or is she mad becouse I got down with her friend, she said it was cool (she is bi) I dont kno WTF to do can any one help

No, actually getting drunk does the opposite. A person who gets drunk show their true feelings. She is only talking about this other guy because she wants to get a rise out of you. It is kind of like playing hard to get. If you pretend like you don't care, she will think you are not interested but she gets a rise out of you, she will want you even more. Basically she is testing your limits. Don't text for maybe a day or two and I guarantee she will be coming after you. Girls like the mind games so it is really complicated to decipher when one is interested or not.

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I took the morning after pill about 10 days ago and I started my period two days ago. My period is extremely heavy now, heavier than ever before! That is only the beginning of the problem though. I have been so depressed in the past week (starting maybe 24 to 48 hours after I took the morning after pill) and yesterday I was furious with anyone who talked to me...about ANYTHING! Everything made me mad I was so moody.

So, after a big crying fit I had yesterday (that completely ruined my day and embarrassed me), I remembered that I took the morning after pill. I had heard it is sort-of like birth control pills only in a much higher dosage, but I'm not sure if that is true. Am I understanding correctly?

Is all of this (the heavy bleeding, sudden bursts of rage, and horrible depression) related to the morning after pill I took? Maybe I'm just too sensitive to the pill? Should I see a doctor? It really feels like my hormones are going crazy and I'm so depressed now (and I've never been like this; it's awful)! :(

Yes you should see a doctor because there is a good chance you may be having some serious sideaffects to the pills.

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My friend and I are both 13, soon to be 14, going into 8th grade. The summer of eighth or ninth grade we want to go on a trip with Travel for Teens. The trip is 4,000 though, so we need to figure out a way to make money. We were thinking we might be able to have a fundraiser because the trip includes building playgrounds and helping the people of poor villages in south africa. any ideas?

car washes, bake sales, even yard sales of old things for people to buy, talent show, art show, plays or musicals, where peopl buy tickets and win a prize, lolipop sale, carnival of arts festival such as eating contests, throwing pies, fortune teller, kissing booth, hitting things so people fall into the water, etc

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okay. i have been playing hockey for 7 years now, and im having a huge problem. i dont always play good and i dont know why. i dont like getting hurt, i can usually tell myself 'it doesnt matter just go out and play' , so then i go out and play aggressive, but i dont skate hard. my mom drives me crazy on hockey, i tell her but she wont listen, she wants me to quit hockey, but i dont want, i need to change on the ice and off the ice. how do i do this, or prepare for this? thanks in advance. if you need more details feel free to ask.

I know how hard it is to switch between modes. I played softball and after I got a line drive in the chest from pitching, I didn't play the same way. I wanted to play but I didn't want to get hurt either so I would hold back a little. The best way out of it is by practicing maybe every day on the ice. If you train yourself to be really good, you won't worry about getting hurt because you know your good enough not too. The reason you do good on some games and not others is because you afraid and have lack of confidence in your abilities. The reason you get aggressive is because of your frustration in the games. If you train yourself and begin to have confidence in yourself, the aggressiveness will go away. Don't add your mother into the mix because this about you and only you. It is really hard for parents to understand because they went through the situation in a different time period.

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How long does a Orgasm last. For Example, when my boyfriend eats me out, I get this exotic feeling, but only for about 10 seconds. Is that a orgasm ? Even after those 10 seconds , it feels good, but not AS good...

Thank you ! [:

Yes it would be considered one.

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I have dreams, like, every night, and ones that i quite like (or remember well) are sort of coming true. Like for example, a month or two ago, i had a dream that i saw this really fit guy from my school at the local swimming pool, and then about a week later i actually did see him in the pool.
Another example, that happened i dreamt last week, was that i was sat on my crush's (a different guy) lap. Just yesturday (Mon) i had the perfect opportunity to sit on his lap (although i didn't because it would just be too freaky - it was even the same chair!).
What could it mean? This isn't the only time this has happened, but i can't be bothered to list everything. These are just certain examples.
13/F, Thanks

Psychologists believe that our dreams are our unconious telling our concious selves what we want, desire, etc. They also believe that our dreams come true in some way for every person eventually, it is just a matter of time. It is not a coincidance but a part of every person, you are just experiencing it more quickly than others. This is why we have dejauvu because we recall a dream we once had that just happened in reality.

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Does anyone know if Miley Cyrus (aka Hannah Montana on the Disney Channel, and daughter of Billy Ray Cyrus) is planning on having a tour in 2009? It seems like I heard something on the radio about Miley Cyrus 2009 tour dates but I missed majority of the information.

If so, can someone please let me know what the tour dates are for Miley Cyrus this year?

this website should be helpful for you...
http://eventful.com/performers/hannah-montana-/P0-001-000040305-7

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I am about to go take a test to be certified as a paraprofessional (4/9)in the state of Georgia. I was just wondering if anybody had any tips on how to get a job as a parapro in any schools. Also if you or someone you know have taken the test, how hard/ easy is the test?
Thanks for any thoughts or recommendations you may have.

The test is not difficult at all. Praxis 1 and 2 contian mostly math, english, and reading questions but they don't go very high maybe tenth grade. Praxis three that is required for certification is mostly questions on education. Make sure you know about disabilities and how you would handle them in a classroom. Also discipline in a classroom is emphasized. Books on professional principles and excpetionalities and diversities are very helpful. Make sure that you have samples of your work from college or anything to show them. Interviewers love to see how you operate like if you are organized, professional, and dress in appropriate attire. Relax and answer their questions honestly. If they ask you have any questions have some. IF you do not, they will assume if there is a serious problem in a classroom, you won't be able to handle it.

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I have been really interested in OBE's or Out of Body Experiences. I really want to have one and have read information on it. Does anyone know a way to increase your chances or even possibly have an OBE? And If you have had/have an OBE what was or is the experience like in detail. Also could OBE's be dangerous?

Depending on the environment or the situation, it can be dangerous especially if you can't control it. Mine happen while I am sleeping especially when I am in a deep dream. It sometimes happens when I take pm's to help me sleep better at night. I will wake up but I feel faint, almost as if I am not even there. I have turned around a couple of times to see my ow body, laying stiff in my bed. When your scared, you can't really feel your heartbeat but you can definitely hear it, like it is a drum. You don't really pay attention to the atomsphere as much as your own thoughts. I had so many thoughts within those short moments, the out of body experience only lasted for a few minutes but it seemed like hours.

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i just got my hair cut a little past my shoulders and now im sorta regretting it. no one (except family) has really said anything nice about it or ANYTHING in that matter. i don't know if it looks bad? its not poofy or anything i just wanted to try something different. does short hair look bad on girls? im tan and normal height with wavy reddish brown hair.

Short hair is not a bad thing but if it is completely straight and even all the way around then it tends to look plain. The best thing to do is get black highlights with layers. That is really the best kind of hair for reddish.

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Me and My boyfriend have completly different lives .... I have everything I could possibly ask for and I am protected alot which don't get me wrong I understand why and I am glad of this....

BUT

My Boyfriend however lives on a rough estate and is one of them people when watching a film parents are like "Never bring a boy like that home" But as a person (not where he comes from or who he is friends with) he is lovely and respectfull .... But even though this may be the case .... I won't be aloud to see him. It's happened before when I got close with a boy off the same estate.

If anyone has any advice on what I should do I would very much appreciate it.

Female - 17 -

The best thing to do when bringing a boy home is not tell your parents where he comes from. If they get to know the person he is before they find out the details, they be more open-minded. You are going to be turning 18 so they can't tell you who you may date and who you may not. I know it may be tough but you need to prove to your parents that you are capable of being responsible and able to take care of yourself. Do little things around the house or even commit to an activity. It would make it easier if your bf got involved too like charity or starting a band etc. It shows that you can together, have a common interest, and also shows the great side of your boyfriend.

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my hair seems to always stop growing at my armpits my cousins hair is to her waist and its beautiful how can i get my hair long like that?

Wash your hair about every other day or three days. When you get a hair cut make sure they are cutting all the dead ends. Having dead ends will continue to break your hair off. It would seem as though your hair never grows but you probably have natutally dry hair. I would also suggest buying shampoo for dry hair.

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my friend is really stressed and sad she said handle whats going on with her life right now what can i do or any advice to help make it feel better?

The key to managing a good, healthy less stressful life is time management. I go work parttime, commute full-time to a college that is an hour away, sometimes I leave work to got to school and come back, I am a published author, in a band with my brother, taking care of my father who just had open heart surgery, and also taking care of my mother who keeps having pre-symptoms of a heart-attack. I schedule my life in order to meet the needs of everyone including myself. I try to schedule out my entire week in a date book, and follow that so I don't ever forget anything. Stress is really hard to overcome but if you add an activity that lets your stress go then you are able to handle the other stuff really well. The problem with your friend is that she is keeping all of the stress inside and not releaseing. Find an activity both of you could enjoy together to help with the stress. Even ask to help with some of the stuff just to lighten her load up.

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Lately I've been having a lot of dreams, and I want to know what they mean, I had this one dream last night that I fully remember, it was short because I kept waking up and going back to sleep, but here it goes...

I'm in a room with a gray floor, maybe cement? and the walls are wood-ish and theres a person on a beach chair with a blanket on it a couple feet away from me, reading a magazine with sunglasses on, and it was all gray and gloomy inside. I'm laying on my stomach on a dark pink blanket with my friend nicole lying next to me on her stomach on a navy blue blanket. I go on facebook, and see that this boy put me on his dating list and he has a girfriend. It says "[his name] likes you and wants you to be on his dating list." or it says "[his name] likes you and wants to be in a relationship with you." I get really happy because I've wanted these 2 people to break up, but then I realize that they are still in a relationship. So I look to my friend nicole and she shows me here nails. and says, "I just got a manicure but they only painted some nails, and they even messed up one of them!" then she laughs and I say, "nicole, that's not a manicure, go back and get a refund! did you pay for a manicure?" and she was like, "yeah. it's just that I'm so uncool if I can't put glue on a nail and stick it on, so I let her do whatever." then we just sit there and I walk over to the other side of her [her left side] and I'm like, [his name] wants me to be on his dating list, but he has a girlfriend, and she was like, "just forget about him." I say, "I don't know." then I get up and stand a little bit away from her..
and that's all I can remember. anyones inisght on this will be very helpful! Thank you so much in advance!

The person in the beach chair represents the other "woman" while the beach atomsphere respresents the guy you like. The gloominess coloring is how you feel. You feel gloomy, dissappointed, and agrravated because you really like this guy but the girlfriend is bringing you down. She is in the beach chair and prevents you from moving forward. You trust your friends advice and thats why you tell her everything. This is your cunoncious telling you that you have to make a choice. You have have to either move on from this boy or tell him that you like him. Your unconcious also senses that there are some problems between this couple and they will eventually break up. Give it time and they will.

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this question is for those of you who have seen the movie and are familiar with the type of music.

okay, in the movie Winnie's mom is playing the piano and the song she's playing, does anyone know what its called? and what type of music that is? your help and even efforts would be greatly appreciated!


elegy

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i need to get all 2000 of the songs on my ipod back onto my computer (for free) but any program i get to either only does 1000 songs or costs money... helpppppp

If you have the plud that connects from your ipod to your computer, you will be able to just transfer it onto the computer for free. Once you plug it in, the screen should pop up asking what you want to do.

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Hi, I want to paint, and I really want to challenge myself, but I need ideas. PLEASE HELP
My self assignment:
look up a famous painting (any subject except still life) and any time period. I will interpret the painting as a still life.
For example, a painting of doves by pablo picasso can be interpreted as hands maybe? I dont know, I just need a really good idea. Please help.

A painting by Edvard Munch is probably the most famous and easy to draw. Or do an interpretation of the famous "Campbell soup can" by andy warhol.

http://lancedrummondsmusic.files.wordpress.com/2009/03/scream-painting.jpg

http://trin.typepad.com/.a/6a00e5515a241a883401156e3bcdef970c-800wi

The drastic use of color has been used to depict the mood of the subject, with greens and intense reds contributing to a sense of chaos and disorder, which helps to reinforce the expression of the figure. The lone emaciated figure stands on a bridge clutching his ears, his eyes and mouth open in a wide scream of fear, anguish and confusion. The green hue of the character's face and his grey clothing is symbolic of sickness and death in regards to his psychotic mental state. The red sky creates a sense of alarm, and highlights the intensity of the character's experience.

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