hello! ive lived a lot of life in the small amount of years ive been around. I mean it when I say ive been through it all, so feel free to shoot me a question or even just to spill your guts. my ears are wide open :)
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Location: south florida
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Age: 17
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what if when he sticks his tongue in my mouth he kinda pulls his head away? do i just hold it there? (link)
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when he pulls away lightly follow and flick your tongue in his mouth just like he did. between times when you stick your tongue in and out you guys can just peck and stuff.
it takes a while to learn how a person makes out and how to react. if it doesnt work out then just ask him what he likes, and tell him what you like.
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ok when i kiss my boyfriend. like i mean pecks. long pecks and sometimes short ones. he will just randomely stick his tongue in my mouth and im like what the hell! thats gross. then we laugh. we havent madeout though. and i asked him why he does that with his tongue. he said just to make me mad. but is this just his way of trying to makeout. or what? i need peoples opinions. im 16 female. and hes 17. weve been together for almost 6 months. i want to makeout with him. and i know he probably does to. but were both kinda shy when it comes to stuff like that. what are some things i can do to get our kisses and his tongue into a makeout. and what do i do with our bodies. or our hands and stuff. someone please help me. thanks in advance (link)
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when you make out:
1. move your tongue nice and slowly around his tongue, keepin your mouth slightly open
2. try to keep your saliva to yourself;)
3. try to keep your teeth out of it
4. you can put your hands on his head, neck, butt, legs or his private area if you guys are really heated
5. press your body towards his a little, i dont mean full force but just get close with him
its fun to pass an ice cube back and forth, or gum and that will help you get the feel of makin out with eachother
any other questions ask me :)
x sweeethoney
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the other night my boyfriend and i were talking about what turns us on, he said when im sexy and playful and when i askd him what he meant like that all he said was anything. I still have no idea how to be sexy or playful or what he even really means by it. Any help will be great ! Thank youu ! (link)
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play with his hair, bite your lip, smile (like a lil cute one not cheesin), touch his lips with your finger, whisper in his ear, touch his chest, dress in a sexy outfit, nibble on his ear, kiss his neck, laugh and talk to him but in a quiet voice, mess up your hair a little bit, good eye contact, wrestle with him
do only a few of these at once, you might overwhelm him if you do them all together. ahaha. same some for different times, dependin on the occasion. good luck with everythin, and if you have anymore questions just ask!
x sweeethoney
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im not a poet, and i honestly dont even know if this is considered poetry. im not sure if it makes sense to anyone but me, but theres not much of a point of writing it if im not getting any feedback, so here it is. comments greatly appreciated, thanks!
silence.
silence to fight against the words pushing at her lips
trying to get out
trying to fix what she’s stuck in
this dirty rut of past memories and a love gone rotten.
colder than ice, the those sharp words freeze her
freeze her mouth shut
and those echoing words are locked inside her head to spoil
until she cries
but her tears turn to ice
so whats the point?
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i like it a lot. you're really good at showin emotion and usin your words to express how you feel. poetry doesnt have to rhyme or fit into any conformity. if its what you feel, then its good.
x sweeethoney
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I got my bellybutton pierced about 2 1/2 months ago and now like where the bar is under my skin its all red above and looks like it is turning into a scab. What does this mean? and how can I fix it?
Thank you! (link)
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i had that before. just put some bactine on it, just on the top not IN the hole, on the bottom and top. when you go in the shower just wash it with regular soap and water. DONT play with it with your fingers, because the oil from your skin will get into it and it makes it get infected more easily. just dont touch it and clean it, and if it persists just message me for more
x sweeethoney
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i want like cute pictures of us but idk who would take them...we're going by ourselves so do you think itd be weird to ask a random person? (link)
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haha dont worry i do that all the time and people ask me when i go ! its not weird, just look for someone nice lookin
(i asked these girls to take a picture of me and my friends and we ended up takin pictures together and makin pyramids and addin eachother on myspace lol ;))
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I really dont know where to start, i guess i'll start telling you that me and my boyfriend have been together for about three months now. He really is a good person, and he is everything i've wished of having in my life. But one day while i was on facebook, i noticed he was setting his statuses like "____ is gonna smoke 4 grahams later." and stuff like that. He never told me he was smoking pot, but he chooses to tell the whole world?
So i approached him about it, and i'm uncomfortable as it is with him smoking it but i decided i'd be cool about it. So he told me that he only does it about once every 3 months, and told me that nobodys ever died from it, you cant get addicted to it, and its a natural plant and stuff.
So everything was cool for a while, until he started hanging out with the group of kids who arte major pot heads. He's getting high more and more, and i really hate it, but as long as it didn't affect or interfere with our relationship, i wont be comfortable with it, but i wont be a nosey girlfriend and complain to him. So i left it alone
Do you get me so far?
Plus, if i tell him i dont like it, him hanging out with those kids will continue to have him smoke it. It's not like i can control his social life.
Am i making any sense.
So this is the part where the problems start forming...
I had to go away for 3 days because my cousin was getting married, so on the night of the rehearsal dinner i get a text from him.
"Hey i'm REALLY F***** up right now. Wanna send me some naked pics? I'm so horny."
I felt like crying because i knew that i probably wasn't the only one he texted.
I also knew that he had been getting high and/or drinking... or i even considered that maybe it wasn't him.
So i texted him the next day asking him about it and he told me he didnt remember saying that... and that he had smoked 4 grahams and drank a half bottle of vodka with these people i didnt even know. A little upset, but relieved i finally knew what happened, we talked normally.
When i got home, i checked my facebook and noticed i was tagged in a note and the first thing was "10 things i'd say to 10 people" and he put
"I really dont wanna hook up with you, i didnt know what i was saying. i have a girlfriend."
That's when i started crying.... and found out that i was right. I hadn't been the only one he sent a dirty text to.
I know he didnt mean to do it, but the fact he knew anything could happen when he got high and drunk made me feel like he doesnt care about me. When i know he does. So i get on the bus this morning and i go to sit next to him because were on the same bus and he said "I want to sleep."
...I dont know. I feel like these kids are changing who he is and its definatley interefering with our relationship which brings me into the picture.
What do i do?
I care about him too much to break it off, and i dont know if hes gonna break up with me first but i really need some help. (link)
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weed, drinkin, and relationships really dont mix. i had the same problem with my boyfriend because we'd drink and smoke and do other stuff not together, and that always leaves a big question on what happened. now if we smoke, we smoke together. drink, drink together...
basically you should tell him that you dont like doin the things he does because it makes him act different towards other girls and towards you. it hurts you and if he really respects you he'll understand it.
if he doesnt then hes not the guy you need to be with. and sadly even though you cannot get physically addicted to weed like other drugs, your brain can be addicted to it.
hope everythin goes okay!
x sweeethoney
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I honestly dont know how to move on, cause i still dream about her and i cant stop thinking about her, what am i supposed to do? (link)
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1. keep yourself busy. play sports, hang out with friends, try art or writin
2. delete or get rid of pictures, notes, messages, anythin that has to do with her. out of sight, out of mind
3. try to focus on other things that are more important than your ex. whats goin on with your family? talk to them because they know you better than everyone on the website.
4. start talkin (i mean just normally) to other girls, just as friends or more. thatll get your mind off of your ex
hope i helped, message me if ya need anythin else.
x sweeethoney
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do people who used to smoke pot and stopped still have the same "stoner attitude" as before? like being passive/lazy-ish (link)
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umm well unlike the other two that answered, i used to be a major stoner as in smokin everyday all day gettin BLAZED ! and ive stopped, and im still pretty lazy (but i still work and go to school and do activities) and i talk way slower and im a lot more nicer lol.
basically, what you smoke changes the chemicals that go in your brain. for example, cigarettes keep your brain addicted to them even after you stop and the physical addiction is gone. so with weed, the effects it had on you while you were smokin can last with you even up to a year or two just because thats the chemicals in your brain.
i went to a huge seminar on it.
so for some people it wears off after, and for some people it sticks. i was a lucky one where it stuck lol :|
hope i helped!
x sweeethoney
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hi guyz
im really confused w/ this guy. we are both 16. basically i told him i liked him and he told me he liked me too (more than friends we made that clear) we have kissed and i have known him for a couple of months now.
&&basically i sent him a text and he just didnt reply. and hasnt yet. i wont text him again b/c he obv doesnt want to speak to me, but why would he do this? his friend says he does this to people sometimes but why would he do it to me if he likes me? (link)
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guys can be jerks. he probably either
1. wants to play hard to get and make you wonder
2. is with his friends and theyre givin him shit about talkin to a girl
3. his phone could be dead, or off, or he doesnt have it with him
i know its easy to worry about it but you really shouldnt. if he told you he likes you then just wait for him to text back, and if he doesnt by tomorrow send him a text in a jokin way like 'ohh i see how it is you dont wanna talk to me' or somethin like that.
good luck mama :)
x sweeethoney
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I'd like to discover new music, and I was wondering if anybody knew any artists or bands similar to Taylor Swift? Or does anybody know any songs or artists that make songs similar to the songs that Taylor Swift makes? I really like Taylor Swift's songs because I can relate so much to them, and they have so much meaning! The lyrics make you think too. Thanks! :) (link)
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i dont know about a lot of country, but i have two ideas.
jolene by mindy smith is a really good song, and her voice is amazin!
and go to pandora.com and if you type in taylor swift theyll give you songs to listen to, and if you dont like em you press a button so they wont play songs like that anymore. if you do like it youll press the thumbs up and theyll give you more music like that
x sweeethoney
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15/f
My soon to be boyfriend and I NEVER talk. All we've ever done is text, IM, and say hi every once and a while when bumpping into each other at school. Well, I've heard from him and many others that he likes me. He's really outgoing and an awesome guy. But whenever I call him or do anything in contact with him, he acts like he doesn't want to talk to me and gives me one word answers and seems completely disinterested. We've kissed a couple of times (literally one second pecks) and every time afterwards when I look at his face he looks disgusted. I really REALLY like this guy and know for a fact that he's crazy about me. And that's why I'm confused as to why, if he likes me so much, acts like I'm an annoyance or just avoids me when we spend time together. I really like him and want to go out with him but, honestly, I see no point whatsoever in going out with him if he's going to continue acting this way. It irks me like crazy to talk to him now even though I'm crazy about him too. I'm unsure as to wether dating him would just be wasted time and am puzzled as to why he chooses to act like an angry five year old around me. Please, I really need some advice! :) (link)
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guys at a young age act very shy around girls they like because they want to hide their feelins and not be vonerable. the best thing you can do is either leave it alone and move on, or ask him upfront about his feelins. ask him to hang out, that way when you do you can see what hes like alone with no pressure and outside of school. if it doesnt work out, then it doesnt work out. just see how he acts with you alone. and if he acts oddly, then ask him why! youll never find out by just observin.
any more questions im a click away! :)
x sweeethoney
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15/f.
Alright, so I've asked both of my parents numerous times about piercings. My mother is more considerate, but when talked about with my father the question brings up termoil and anger, and usually ends in some type of yelling. I've been heavily thinking about getting my nose, and/or belly button pierced, against my fathers wishes. If I do, does anyone know a good way to hide the fact I have them?
(Our family has a boat, and we go out on it frequently, so please don't suggest that I wear a shirt to cover my naval around him) (link)
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it took me a long time to convince my parents to let me pierce my body (i have 9 now). honestly, i dont think that you should go behind their back because thats really hard to hide, especially somethin thats on your face or a belly ring when youre frequently in a bathing suit. try a more mature approach and ask for reasons why your dad doesnt want you to get it done, and give him reasons why you want to get it done. dont nag though, thats an automatic no.
ask your ma to help you out if shes the one thats more open about it.
and if you're still gonna get it done, they have clear belly and nose rings called retainers, and some are visible and some are not. you can get em at hot topic and some kiosks in the mall where they sell body jewelry. but after you get it pierced its prolly not a good idea to change it, nose or belly- so youd probably have to find a way to hide it.
x sweeethoney
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hey i have minnior acne and i am 13 and im so afraid that i am never gonna get a boyfriend and i want my first kiss and i keeo reading thease first kiss stories and listening to thease love songs WHAT SHOULD I DO ? (link)
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dont stress it. you're 13, and im not sayin that to look down on you but you have a long way to go for boyfriends and love and stuff. dont stress it now, i was a late bloomer didnt get my first kiss until i was 14 but now i have a boyfriend i really love. so just wait, dont look for love and let it find you. *personality shines the most by the way*
but just start makin friends with guys and be honest and friendly with them. make jokes, laugh with them, be down to play football or basketball with them. just be relatable with out bein one of the guys!
any more questions just ask :)
x sweeethoney
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Yeah, I'm working on a playlist of confident songs? Such as shutup and drive by rihanna and 'like this' by kelly rowland. i'm not focused on the genre, but those are the only two i have haha. thanks (: (link)
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there is no alternative - tina sugandh
one-girl revolution - supergirl
get up, stand up - bob marley
you'll see - madonna
those are a few that i know, but you can also probably google it to find some more :)
x sweeethoney
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ok im a 13 year old persian guy with sometimes strict parents. my dad is okay with me sleeping over at peoples houses that we know, but my mom says its the " family rule " that we cant sleep over anywhere until i move out. I need help on how to convince my mom to let me go places. its like she cant accept the fact that im old enough to be staying at other friends houses overnight. I also have this good friend of mine who iv known for like 5 years and my mom wont let me sleepover there becuase she thinks his mom goes to sleep at 8 pm just becuase one time i was over there she did becuase she didnt go to sleep last night and went to work and was super tired. my mom also judges people before she meets them so thats another bad thing. i really need help!!
Thanks ,
Ashkon (link)
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as you get older you slowly should be allowed to do more things out from under your parents wing. ask her to give you valid reasons why you can't sleep over there. do some chores before you ask. make sort of a presentation as to why you think you should be allowed to sleep at someones house. let your ma know that she can meet your friend parents, and she can share opinions about it with them and vice versa. you should ask your friend to sleep over your house first, and then try to sleep over his.
tell your ma that it hurts that she judges your friends and their parents so harshly because they mean alot to you.
i hope i helped!
x sweeethoney
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Hi i'm 15 year old girl and i've been datin this guy for 3 months. i was his friend for a really long time before that and i really care about him but i cant really see him much since his parents are completely against our relationship due to different opinions in religion. anyway i ahve this friend, whos a guy, that i've been hangng out with a lot, and hes got roughly the same deal with his girlfriend, cant see her a lot. one night we were playing video games late and i laying down on the couch like directly behind him as he sat on the edge playin video games. we were touching and i kept thinking about how good he smelled. after he left i talked to my boyfriend a little bit and fell instantly asleep. Then i had this incredibly elaborate dream of me fooling around with my friend in my room. it was so sweet and tender and fun, and i remember waking up sure it wasnt a dream. and then suddenly the realization hit me that i hadnt been dreaming about the guy that i should have been dreaming about at all and i yelped and fell out of bed.i'm not very graceful....anyway....like i figured i might kinda like him but i dont know what i should do....i cant just break up with my boyfriend cause i do care about him, and even if i did my friend probably doesnt feel the same about me and he already has a girlfriend. (link)
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i have dreams with other guys too. usually you dream because of what youve been thinkin about and what happened to you that day. think about who you can see yourself with most. dont just stay with a guy because you care about him, stay with him because youre sure that hes a really good guy for you. but maybe the other guys meant for you, just do some soul searching and see what happens.
im not sure what you mean by 'touching', whether you mean just your hand was in constant contact with his back while he was sittin in front of you OR like rubbin, messin with eachothers hands...that sort of thing.
if its the second option i highly suggest not to do that. that can conjur up a lot of sexual/emotional feelins- believe it or not.
well, good luck and if you have anymore questions feel free to message me
x sweeethoney:)
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so i got gel tips about 3 weeks ago for prom, now that graduation is around the corner i want to get them filled and i have a lot of expenses so i'm trying to spend as little as possible. i want to know exactly how much i'll be spending before i go to the salon.
i want to get my nails filled but i don't know the difference between pink and white fillings and pink fillings. please help! (link)
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fills usually are usually around $20, and theyll fix anythin you broke. and if the part of your nail thats not white on your gels is pink, then just ask for a fill for that. and if they're nude, which is skin colored, then theyll do that for you. the nail people know what youre doing so they wont try to fuck you over. just ask them what you think would look best. if you want it to look less natural then youd prolly get pink, and if you want it more natural then get nude.
hope i helped, here for anythin !
x sweeethoney :)
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So my boyfriend is about three years older than me.
And through the time we've been dating I've met about all of his friends,
And now I can easily say they're my friends too.
But one of them doesn't seem to like me too much.
He believe that because I'm so much younger than him,
That I'm annoying.
When in reality, I'm not.
He tells me that I purposely try to be 'cute'.
Reallu, I don't think I am.
I guess I'm just viewed that way.
So, anywayy,
I was on the phone with my boyfriend a few minutes ago,
And he's with all his buddies,
And I overhear his friend
Call me an annoying little bitch.
While he's aware I'm on the phone.
I'm not sure if I can get him to change his view on me,
But I'd really like to.
Because it's just kinda weird to me,
That we have all the same friends,
And we ocassionally hang out together,
(Usually with a big group of people when we're getting high)
And he still disrespects me.
But I'm not sure if it's possible anyway,
Because aparently he thinks a girl just a couple months younger than him,
Is a child.
And he's seventeen.
So any advice would really nice.
Thankss,,
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i know how you feel girl. sometimes i feel like my boyfriends friends dont like me, and yeah theyre a couple of years older. its just because they think its fun to be an asshole, guys like to do that. especially when they can find a thing to but their friends about, age is a major one.
dont take it personally, just ask your boyfriend to stick up with you more and that you dont think its right for his friend to disrespect you. hes probably just a jealous prick, dont take it to personally.
when youre around him just be yourself, and if HE doesnt like you but everyone else gets along with you then obviously hes just a loser ;)
anymore questions let me know :)
x sweeethoney
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Am 19 female and his a year older
So like there is this 1 guy that we call apples & I have know him for 7 years & a week ago he call one of our friends phone and was like hey have her give me a call back & so I did and he was like want to go for a walk tonight when you get back. & before I went me and her had a talk about him and am so use to the type of guy that wants his girlfriend to look a current way and he don’t care how she gets like that as long as she does and she was like he don’t care about how you look and I think he would be good for you so you could get your life on track. So I did go on a walk but I had a friend go with me. I think it made him a little mad but I didn’t know what to about it then the next day I went to go and say good-bye to him. And we were in his room when he was packing and he was just looking at me and then he said that I have waiting for this since eight grade. & it scares me cause when he looks at me he is like looking at me like through me if that makes any sense it like he is looking at me for me and not what I can give him. So we spent sometime together and what I hate is that I can see me and him together and he was always like what’s wrong and every time I say nothing he knows sometime is buggin me he can read me like a book and I always push people away. He moved to a different state and now his coming back to get his stuff and I won’t see him. A friend of ours always says that he don’t stay away for long. I just don’t know if I should have told him on how he makes me feel. Or if I did the right things by letting him walk away.
Am just so confused cause I just got done with a fling well it was more he just used me for sex this other guy, and know apples likes me for me and every time am around him I get nerves and I just don’t know wht 2 do about any of it. Next time should I talk to him about how I feel bout him or just let it go & pretend that the make-out we did was nothin and let him bring it up.
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if you really like this guy, you should tell him because when he moves, youll regret that you didnt say anythin. obviously he likes you because he wants to talk to you alone and said that thing about '8th grade', and he looks at you a certain way. he deserves to know and you deserve him.
and even if he doesnt accept it, then hes moving anyways. so you really have nothin to lose.
get it out of your system, off your back, and even if he rejects it, then just move on and youll feel better because you have closure. you wont have to be wondering about him.
if you need anymore advice hollla :)
x sweeethoney
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