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Dream cheater.....
Hi i'm 15 year old girl and i've been datin this guy for 3 months. i was his friend for a really long time before that and i really care about him but i cant really see him much since his parents are completely against our relationship due to different opinions in religion. anyway i ahve this friend, whos a guy, that i've been hangng out with a lot, and hes got roughly the same deal with his girlfriend, cant see her a lot. one night we were playing video games late and i laying down on the couch like directly behind him as he sat on the edge playin video games. we were touching and i kept thinking about how good he smelled. after he left i talked to my boyfriend a little bit and fell instantly asleep. Then i had this incredibly elaborate dream of me fooling around with my friend in my room. it was so sweet and tender and fun, and i remember waking up sure it wasnt a dream. and then suddenly the realization hit me that i hadnt been dreaming about the guy that i should have been dreaming about at all and i yelped and fell out of bed.i'm not very graceful....anyway....like i figured i might kinda like him but i dont know what i should do....i cant just break up with my boyfriend cause i do care about him, and even if i did my friend probably doesnt feel the same about me and he already has a girlfriend.
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If you have a good thing why bother to mess with it as long as this guy has another girlfriend? You get to hang out with him, you get to have a boyfriend too. You don't want to mess around with someone when they have a girlfriend (allthough it sucks becuase that's when they are the most sexy). There really are so many reasons. Plus, you have a boyfriend. If you want to break up with him, do so, but not because of how you feel about this one moment with this other kid. Let all those one little moments add up, keep this kid in your back pocket, and have fun hanging out with two guys. If you were to mess around with this other guy it will add guilt and all of that other BS in there.
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i have dreams with other guys too. usually you dream because of what youve been thinkin about and what happened to you that day. think about who you can see yourself with most. dont just stay with a guy because you care about him, stay with him because youre sure that hes a really good guy for you. but maybe the other guys meant for you, just do some soul searching and see what happens.
im not sure what you mean by 'touching', whether you mean just your hand was in constant contact with his back while he was sittin in front of you OR like rubbin, messin with eachothers hands...that sort of thing.
if its the second option i highly suggest not to do that. that can conjur up a lot of sexual/emotional feelins- believe it or not.
well, good luck and if you have anymore questions feel free to message me
x sweeethoney:)
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