Well me and my boyfriend have been dating for a little over six months , we fell in love fast . Well things got a little , well plan out rocky between us . As every relationshoip goes through the hard times . Well , I ain't the most easiest person to deal with , but when I love someone ... I give them my all . Well he is a great guy and always means well , but the other night .. he dropped the biggest bomb on me that hurt me worst than he's ever hurt me . We were having a " heart 2 heart " conversation & I could just tell he loved his ex still ... so I said " I want the honest to god truth , are you still in love with " L " [ we'll just call her that , which is his ex ] & he looked down , then said " yeah , I think I am " ... Broke my little heart , next morning , he ain't in love with me anymore . But I love him so much , I want it to work ; He never meant to hurt me , I know that much , i'm atleast glad he was honest. He told me he still wants to be with me .. I did alot of things to put distance bwtween us , he told me but I did'nt listen .
I'm in love . Am I stupid to still be with him ... what should I do ?
- Thanks , Ray .
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? iloveyoubby100 answered Monday June 1 2009, 6:05 pm: Okay, He probably didn't mean to hurt you at all. But, if he says he's still in love with his ex, then what are you? i mean sure he wants to be with you, but if he had the chance would he drop you and go to his ex again? personally you're not stupid to be with him. I mean YOU love HIM. but HE doesn't love you. Can you handle that? can you handle the fact that he loves his ex? if you can your a heck of a lot stronger then me. If i were you i would let it go and try super hard to move on.
livelaughlove96 answered Monday June 1 2009, 11:13 am: He probably didnt mean to hurt you, NORMALLY thats not what guys aims are. But he said it, he's still in love with his ex. and even if he says he wants to be with you, what does that make you? even if you love him i think the best thing to do is let it go and find someone who loves you as much as you love him.
i think that your relationship wont last because hes in love with his ex. and it would be pointless for you to know that and still be with him. he might love you as well as his ex, its just the fact that he still loves his ex.
i know your not going to want to break up with him because (like every girl seems to think) itll work out. but i honestly think its the best thing you can do. (and dont go back to him) im sure you can find someone else, even though it doesnt seem that way now!!!
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