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makeout help please
ok when i kiss my boyfriend. like i mean pecks. long pecks and sometimes short ones. he will just randomely stick his tongue in my mouth and im like what the hell! thats gross. then we laugh. we havent madeout though. and i asked him why he does that with his tongue. he said just to make me mad. but is this just his way of trying to makeout. or what? i need peoples opinions. im 16 female. and hes 17. weve been together for almost 6 months. i want to makeout with him. and i know he probably does to. but were both kinda shy when it comes to stuff like that. what are some things i can do to get our kisses and his tongue into a makeout. and what do i do with our bodies. or our hands and stuff. someone please help me. thanks in advance
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Well, if YOU want to make out, and he most definately does too, you're not exactly helping by going all "What the hell?!" on him, especially if you two are shy people.. So, be nice.. You want to make out with him as much as he does with you.. So the next time he sticks his tongue in your mouth, do the same, in his mouth.. Do whatever you feel like doing at that moment with your tongue, twirls etc. With the rest of your body, well, since your tongues are tied, both your bodies would be fairly close to each other, so just put your arms round his neck or waist, or mix it up. If the kissing gets intense, usually does, then a hand caressing the back of his head would work too. His arms would probably go round your waist. Just do whatever you feel like doing at that moment. Being in a relationship, you get to experiment too, and be comfortable with each other!
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if he sticks his tounge in your mouth, he is trying to make out with you. and you probably asked him about it, he got embarrassed, and said the excuse of "just trying to get you mad". lol yeah but when making out, you just like play around with you tounges. its not gross, trust me :)
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when you make out:
1. move your tongue nice and slowly around his tongue, keepin your mouth slightly open
2. try to keep your saliva to yourself;)
3. try to keep your teeth out of it
4. you can put your hands on his head, neck, butt, legs or his private area if you guys are really heated
5. press your body towards his a little, i dont mean full force but just get close with him
its fun to pass an ice cube back and forth, or gum and that will help you get the feel of makin out with eachother
any other questions ask me :)
x sweeethoney
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Well- maybe he does want to make out with you- that's probably why he's trying to stick his tongue in your mouth.
If you both want to do it- then go right ahead.
Here's some tips I have from a past question I've answered. I won't copy it all, because it's really long.
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From there:
I know this sounds really lame, and I'm sure it is ;]
But just go with the flow. I don't really have experience in how to "properly" kiss, nor do I have experience with kissing at all! Can you say prude? ;]
Anyway- if it's your boyfriend/girlfriend- just be honest with him/her. Tell them you're nervous and you don't really know what you're doing. Apparently the people who are less-experienced is a big turn-on to some people.
Do what you feel comfortable with. If something feels awkward or uncomfortable, don't do it. If it feels right, ask the person if they are okay with that, and if they are- then you'll be fine.
There really isn't a CORRECT way to do it. Everyone does what they are comfortable with.
From my weak experience- this is what I can tell you:
1. Don't come on strong- it's really awkward for the other person.
2. Don't slobber all over the other person.
3. Don't stick your tongue all the way down their throat.
My friend on here, Laura, answered a question similar to this, and she gave a great answer. I will copy her answer, but know that credit goes to her.
www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=542699
--Jack
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