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This guy at school would look at me in the hallways so i was like ooh hes really cute. and my best friend is friends with one of his friends so she told her friend to tell the guy that i thought he was hott. its been a few weeks now and he hasnt made a move! so im guessing hes just not interested BUT he still looks at me ALL THE TIME. what does that mean?! i dont understand. and now im feeling really down because at lunch, the table that he sits at always stares at me(which he rarely sits at cause he usually goes out for lunch) and its really awkward and embarassing and it must be for a bad reason.idk how it could be though because all i said was that he was hott! they probably think that i dont have a shot which i probably dont. ugh i cant even explain how frustrated i am. because i want something to happen but i know i have no shot and obviously hes not making a move anytime soon so i figure to just forget about it.idk what do you think? WHY DO YOU THINK HE KEEPS LOOKING AT ME and WHAT IS UP WITH HIS FRIENDS? also, he has to either think im cute or not cute, right? but if i were not cute in his opinion, then why is he still staring? and if i am, then why isnt he doing anything about it? two of his friends are in two classes of mine and i dont really talk a lot in those classes, im just kind of shy and they must think its a bad thing like they probably say like "oh ive never heard her talk, shes so quiet" so he is probably reconsidering talking to me. anything would help, thank you so much, i really appreciate it (link)
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This is a brilliant confusing/complicated story which i would be more than happy to help you with.
Well you can try couple of things I'm going to mention right now
He doesn't take his eyes of you , well that always means one thing HE IS ALL OVER YOU
He know you like him but doesn't make a move, that could be all SHY scene or SCARED scene
That's some positive possiblities
Let's try negative
His friends told him you hate him
He doesn't beileve his friends and he is scared to ask you out
He made some kind of bet to storm you out i n the middle of school and laugh at you
But how will you find out?? very easy and clear
He is staring at you , smile at him
and then turn your smile to a smirk and walk up to him
If a sign of being nervous shows on his face , That's it ! he likes you but If you didn't notice any then just keep on going to him
keep on smirking "Hi, my name is ______, you might know my name i have the feeling , now i would love to think a cute guy like you isnt a freak , but your eyes have been staring at me for weeks now, would you mind explaining why?" say really coldly
P.S Report back with details
Good luck
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is it ok to have sex with more then 3 poeole at the same time? (link)
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Dude. It's up to you. No problem have sex with 100 of guys
But It's all up to you, If you're fine with some people around talking. Then you're free to do it
If you're okay to face god when your life is over. Then go ahead and don't It no problem
It's all up to you, I mean I'm not the one who is going to get fucked from three different people right?
So go on and do It BUT don't you didn't later on and use protection carefully
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There's this girl I was friends with in highschool and then after highschool she moved in with her grandparents in another town so she could go to the college there and ever since she moved our friendship had been different. It's like we are not best friends anymore. I've noticed that every time she calls me all she wants to talk about is drugs,drinking,parting,and sex and we get into arguments over the phone everytime she calls becouse I don't want to talk about that kind of stuff and when she lived here we never got into any kind of fight ever and lately that's all we do is fight and argue. Then about 3 weeks ago she called and said she was coming over to hang out for a few hours but I kept having to call her to see if she was coming and she said she was hanging out with somebody that use to be one of my friends to but she said if she came over that friend of hers that I don't like had to come over so I said she can't come over becouse I didn't get along with that other girl and then she was going to bring her over to my house even after I told her to. Then last night she came over just to talk and didn't even let me know before she came and when she came over she looked like she was high on something. what should I do? (link)
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Look people change all the time, you might change later and become another version of her life , and you guys might get along again
But you have to know one thing she is not the same person she was when you guys were close
If you're asking what should you do about your friendship with her or about her bad behavior that is been happening , well i don't know exactly what you mean so i'm going to answer both
1. About your friendship it's clear that it's over because she is becoming someone else, she is changing, you can else accept her the way she is or end your friendship before the story gets bigger and more complicated
2. If your talking about helping you friend, well you can't do anything but talk to her, If she doesnt listen to you , you have to tell who is responsible about her which i dont advice you to do that at all even though it sounds like the right thing to do but i think you should let her go , she might come around later on.
Good Luck
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I do not want this earth anymore, i want to go, i do not belong here, I do not like pain, so i have to do it painless. (link)
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Sorry to tell you there is no painless suicide.
But i can help you alittle
You only get life once, I DONT CARE WHAT'S GOING ON WITH YOUR LIFE but snap out of it
If your mother is an alcoholic , your dad is an asshole, your pregnant, your inlove w ith someone that doesnt share the same feelings, you feel you dont have friends (ignored), you need a boyfriend, you feel fat and ugly or whatever
Everyone has this problems
but dont you fuckin get it , you only get life once, your meant to experince this shit so c'mon do it , go wild forget your problems and wtf? kill yourself dude whats the worst problem FUCK.
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Okay so i've been talking to this guy, and everyone is telling me he is a jerk. So i dont judge someone before i get to know them and i've been talking to him for a while now. He is really sweet to me over texting and IMing and stuff like that, but in school he totally ignores me!
The other day i looked at him and smiled, and he looked the other way. When we were hanging out after school he didn't say one word to me.
He texted me then next day and said he was sorry and that his friends were distracting him.
I'm texting him now and he's being really sweet again. But i just don't know, cuz if i go out with this guy i dont want it to be just a texting relationship.
I'm not even sure if he likes me that way, It just made me wonder.
Help? (link)
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Wait a minute.
So he ignored you and made you look like CRAP front of IDK WHO WAS LOOKING
And when he said sorry YOU FORGAVE HIM, at least if he is a manwhore play hard WOMEN
I agree you shouldn't judge people , but i think you know the guy now and he is a jerk, this is not a movie playing something like "Awalk to remember" NO! It's reality
Good Luck
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15/f
A couple months ago, I was at a party, this guy in my year (a popular, gorgeous, complete manwhore, let's call him C) would ask me a question or smile or say hi or stare whenever he saw me.
So, a few weeks back, my best guy mate, M, who's very good friends with C, mentioned things that C had said about me, for example C had mentioned things he'd read on my bebo profile. A couple days later, M told me that C had said he thought I was really hot and wanted to get with me at a party we were all going to that weekend.
I'd always kind of liked C, I mean, not properly, but the kind where you want to catch their attention. I wasn't taking it too seriously, but I thought I could have a bit of fun with him. That night, he added me on msn and talked to me a lot. At school, the day before the party, I noticed him staring at me. As I was walking into my class, I looked up and he was standing there and he just looked at me, smiled, and said hey, I quickly said hey and then went into my class. He looked a bit confused, as if he thought I should have stayed and talked to him, but then he left. Later that day, as I was walking past him in our english class, he smiled and said hey again, I done the same as before. That lesson he talked to me quite a bit, and was watching me a lot. Then he spoke to me on msn a lot that night, flirting a bit.
At the party, we did end up getting with each other throughout the night, although obviously we were both drunk. All his friends kept coming up to me and saying that C wanted to get with me. Me and my friend texted him on M's phone that night, and he replied telling me I was beautiful (bare in mind that he was still drunk to a certain extent). The next day his friends said that C had spent the night saying he loved me (obviously he doesn't actually love me, but you get the idea..).
Throughout the next week, we talked on msn a lot and he'd try to help me out with coursework and he did seem to care. He also would say things like, "I love your...", not anything sexual, just things about my personality. I didn't take it too seriously, because let's face it, he's a notorious manwhore.
But then he went on holiday over christmas so I hadn't spoken to him much, and when he got back he started talking to me on msn again. That was about a week ago, I havn't spoken to him since then. A few days ago M (and C's other friend J) were saying that C had told them he actually likes me, and it wasn't just a one night thing. They seemed pretty serious when they were saying it, although they continued to make jokes about me and C throughout the day. M kept suddenly going serious, warning me and saying, 'Don't do it okay, please, don't do it. You're too good for him, you just shouldn't. You know what he's like, he might try and rape you." Ever since then I've started to like C a whole lot more.
Then just now I asked M what C actually said about me, and he said that him and J were just joking and that C doesn't actually like me. This has really confused me because they seemed pretty serious about it before. Most girls just fall for C and won't leave him alone after they just makeout with him on one night or whatever. I know that drives him away, because, like a typical manwhore, he can get whoever he wants.
So, he'll definitely be drawn to someone who's more of a challenge.
What I want to ask is,
Does it sound like C fancies me?
Do you think that M was just saying C doesn't like me to stop me from getting involved with C? Or were him and J just joking?
How do I get C to like me by playing hard to get, but not so hard that he just goes off me? It's hard to get the right balance, because we hang out with completely different groups of people (apart from M and J) and I don't see him that often. Also I'm quite shy.
Thanks, x (link)
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Ok. The person who is bothering me in the situation is M and i think he has a little crush on you.
As you can see he has been staring at YOU. That's something i like.
Well play hard, i mean the way your talking about C i know what kind of guy he is, and you have to ask yourself questions LIKE Even if C would you date a manwhore?? Even if you date C who i s a manwhoree, would you think you're going to last? or is he going to be faithful??
I THINK YOU JUST ANSWERED THE QUESTION IN YOUR HEAD
So.. how about you play around and maybe get him in bed but not giving him some??
You might be confused of what i'm trying to tell you so i'll explain
PLAY HARD, i like what your doing (For explain be bi-polar to him) LIKE on the msn stay for hours until you answer him
but next day you see him in school and he says "hey" , wink at him and say "hey C" name is something you can use after the hey
next day you speak to h im on the msn and you answer him after 1 second and then when you see him at school and he says "hey" smile abit , a bored smile and nodd that's all
KEEP ON GOING LIKE THAT
UNTIL ..
you get him to bed, give him the idea that your going to actually sleep with him, kiss and touch BUT when you feel he is getting excited pull away smirk at him and say "I'l see you around" keep the smirk on your face and wink him, be so bi-polar and hard to understand to a level where he can't even ask questions
Good Luck
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Okay well I'm in grade 10 and there's this high school near our house that I could have gone to but instead it took me forever to convince my dad to let me go to this other high school I wanted (which he finally agreed and I've been there since grade 9).
But my little sister is going to enter high school next year and things are getting a bit complicated. She wants to go the original high school that we were supposed to go to. But now, my dad's convinced that my school is the best one in the province (always in newspapers about things).
He told one of her friend's parents that he's taking her to my high school, so now that parent is making their child go to my school too. (Which she didn't want her to). Now all her friend's parents are making them go to my high school and I don't know what to do! I feel like it's my fault.
Well first of all, I go to a catholic high school, so uniforms are not going so well with her (she has so much clothes so that would be such a waste NOT to wear them every day!). The school I was intended to go to is a public school.
My sister just told me that one of her friends was bawling because suddenly her parents told her that she's also being forced to go to my school (catholic). Like it's such a sensitive topic and I feel that it's my fault because I convinced my dad about sending me there in the first place so now he just won't stop spreading it around.
Another thing, I wanted to go to the school that I am in now because I wouldn't be with my family and my sister's annoying friends won't be there to bug me and embarrass me. My brother also wants to go to a different high school when it's time. So I had it all planned; 3 siblings, three different schools, good.
But now we're all going to the same school and it's bothering so much! Yes, I may sound like a bad sibling right now but really, it's in their best interest; I don't really like them and it’s almost tolerable but if I see them even more during the day now, I think I may start to hate them, which I don't want to happen.
And my conscience is killing me about my sister's classmates. Almost 1/4 of them are getting forced by their parents to go to my high school now when they were all (including my sister) going to go to that public high school.
I'm thinking of going to the house of that friend who was bawling and have a talk with her parents (they said that my school was better and that the public school has a bad drug reputation, but a lot of people in my school does drugs too), but
I'm really shy outside the house and I'm not sure...do you think I should? Or would that make it worse? And what should I do about all this pent up anger on my dad? It's taking up all my energy to keep it all inside right now because I just want to shout THIS IS ALL YOUR FAULT in his face for creating havoc among my sister's friends in their last year of school together and mine. And what do you think I should do about y sister? Brother? I was talking it over with my friend and she said, "Well it's not your parents' choice of which school you go to, it's your life." And my sister doesn’t know anyone so she's already depressed and miserable. (link)
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Ok. This is a complicated story.
I totally disagree with you. You shouldn't let your father control your life. It's yours not his.
If you have something to say to your father and express your feelings to him I SAY DO IT, because you might not get another shot and look back "OH i regred not standing for myself"
And trust me the problem isn't that the situation is exactly your fault NO it's about you feeling bad, It's all about your father's non-sens actions and getting people to do that
You should give your father a call and stop him
If it didn't work , call your sister's friend's parents and explain
If you try with alittle of effort , YOU'LL GET WHAT YOU WANT TRUST ME
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14/f
Ok so me and this guy have been going out since December. I'm like completely clueless here. I know valentines day is like a month away but do girls get the guy something for valentines day or is it usually just guys? I know it was kinda a dumb question but thanks anyways! (link)
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Well. I don't think It's a dumb question AT ALL.
Why?
Because the right thing is the man getting a gift to his lady
But my advice is It won't hurt If you get him a gift too, It'll save a embaressement If he gives you yours and then from excitement he would say something like "Oh! I'm so excited to know what you got me" and you wouldn't have anything to give him
And If he doesn't expect you to get him a gift then you can surprise him ;)
Good Luck.
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My best friend is trying to set me up with her cousin, but i don't know him . she gave him my number and he texts me everyday but I'm not sure what to talk to him about. We don't even go to the same school. (link)
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Well. Let me see.
If you never done something like that before, you might get awkward at first but when you start talking your going to relaxe.
How to start talking?
1. If he is super-hot don't panic and act normal
2. Greet him with a friendly smile and shake his hand while saying "HI, you must be ____"
3. Ask about his fav, band
4. MOVIE
5. Girls experiment
SCHOOL , life , family
Trust me, you won't do all the talking he'll pitch in,
P.S even if he says something that's not intersting to you act as if it's intersting because he might get uncomfortable
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I love my boyfriend to death, but there's just a few problems... He's completely disrespecful. He takes me out to eat and doesn't even say thank you to the waiter for bringing us our food and drinks. And it's not just that. He works at the local grocery store and my parents went in there to get something and they asked him to help them look for something. He was just like "Duh it's right behind you." He may have been trying to be funny but it's not and it offended my parents very much. I don't want to dump him because I've never had feelings like this for any guy I've ever dated. I've spoken about it with him a million times. I don't know what else to do. I feel like that's my only option. Please Help me! (link)
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Ok. Well If you love your boyfriend to death like you've said then you accept him for who he is, you don't love someone to change him, you love someone for who he is ..!
I'll give you several advices
1. Ask him nicely to not do that. If you notice he ignores you then give him his own medicine , HOW? If he brings you something? Gets you a gift? anything be rude and If he didn't notice tell him you did that, he might listen to you
2. You can tell his bestfriend to talk to him , if it gets serouise to you
3. Accept for who he is, dont assume you love him and that's all NO! you would feel in love and that way you would be in love for who he serouisly is
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well to start out my mom is an alcoholic...she benge drinks..meaning she'll go on a month spurt of where all she does is lay in bed and drink. this has hasppened for my whole life..i can't remember a time when it wasnt going on. She is also bipolar..drinking is a symptom of this disease but they diagnosed her seperatly. well my whole also she has kind of isolated me from the world..wanting me to spend all my time with her. I didnt all the time but she made me spend mosto f my childhood with her. i am now 16. she still does this. we have been fighting so hard and i cant even tell her when i have a bf. no matter anyway if i did because she wouldnt let me see him. I have no life partly because of her. We have sat down and had numerous talks and deicusions but ir always goes back to normal. i told her that whe needs to get friends but all she says is that i am her everything and thats how she wants it. I DONT want to be all she has for many reasons. 1. im going to leave and move FAR away...so where is that ging to leave her? and 2.i need a life. I stay in my room most of the time because all she does is yell and scream and call me names...yet she wants me to spend time with her nearly 24/7. I awm so low all the time because of everytning she says to me. I ahve told her awnd talked to her about that 2. she apologizes and its ok for a few days and then it goes right back to it. She takes away all my things whenever i dont do something she asks...or even if i bring home nething lower than a b+ (yes that means ANYTHING lower) im not exagerating one bit. this is what i live with everyday and im so tired of it. i want a normal life. my point is Talking does nothing we have sat down and tried...its like it goes in one ear and out the other with her. i need a way out but i dont know what to do (link)
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Oh! I'm very sorry to hear that. I don't know where you live because I would like to know the laws at your country and your rights as an underage child which lives with an alcoholic adult which is classified as her mother.
I can give you several advices
1. Since you tried talking and It didn't work. Then you only have one thing left to do and It's action, If your mother is drinking grab the drink , and drink it. My point is give your mother her own medicin.
2. If you don't care about your mother's feeling at all, then yo can do something LIKE. Push your mother, be violent with her until she loose it and then tell the police
3. You took your mother's shit for 16 years didn't you?? so you can wait for another year.
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