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Last Update: August 12, 2005
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how do you grind with a guy. Please don't just tell me you go with the music like I want to know how your body is soposed to move and shit like that
ill rate you a 5 for a good answer
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you dance in such a way as to make him wish you two were nekkid. You're basically trying to make him so bloody horny that he's considering stripping you right there.
The actual dance is where he puts a leg forward between your legs and you start rubbing you vagina (through the clothes) on his leg.
"Bumpin' and Grindin'" is what I described first, where you'll be all up against him, make your breasts real visible, more your hips up against him the way you would if you were riding him (having sex where you are on top). Stuff like that.
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Hi..my boyfriend is coming back in town tonight..and i want to plan something fun for him..the thing is that there isnt much to do around here..we usually just go to parties and drink, and we wouldn't be able to do anything at my house b/c of my parents. Also going out to dinner wouldn't be that much fun. Does anybody have any good ideas? Anything fun & thrilling!! Or simply any ideas?? PLEASE RESPOND!! I would really appreciate the help. (link)
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I like the picnic idea, and the movie idea. If you wanna "mess around", there's always the possibility of driving to a remote location and doing things in the car. Or take blankets (3 at least, 2 below you, 1 on top) and have fun under the stars.
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Hey... Yesterday I woke up with a MAJOR hurt at three in the morning. It hurt so bad that I couldnt' sleep until nine, and I didn't go to soccer or cheerleading. I slept on and off all day and I barely moved because my right side hurt SO BAD. I figured it would go awake, but this morning it woke me again at six! I slept from about eight to eleven and I don't know why my side is hurting. It's like right below my rib cage to my hip and a lil' on my right side of my lower back. Anybody know what it may be or what I can do to help it. RATE HIGH (link)
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Possible reasons - over-use of muscles, bad sleeping position, illness. Now, the first two are temporary and easily remedied. The third may be such that if you wait it out, you'll be fine. But it may also not be.
Here's what you do - talk to your parents about it (assuming you live with them). If you don't, go see a doctor, just in case, or talk with a friend who is certified and currently works in an appropriate medical field. If you have health insurance, it should cover a visit like that (that's what it's for).
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Well my friend invited me to her party shes having, and I told her I could go but now I really don't want too. There like renting the Excercist and I REALLY REALLY do not wanna watch that. I told my parents and they said just tell her you don't want to watch it...well my friend Carina would make me watch it and everyone else wants to and her dad would make me watch it too. And I like hate the one girl she invited and the other one is okay and the girl who I'm actually friends with can't go. And if I tell her honestly why I don't want to go she'll get mad at me(yes stupid i know). I don't know what I should tell her sooo could someone please tell me what to say? (link)
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"I'm sorry, but I can't go. My parents won't let me watch that movie." Clear it with your parents first, but I know mine never minded if I used them as my excuse to not do something I didn't wanna do.
It's encouraging to see that you've already talked to your parents about it, tho. Restores a little more hope in humanity for me.
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I am a 13/f and never had a boyfriend and I think think this is my chance.There is this boy who has gone to mostly every school I have gone to(were in the same grade).But I think he likes me.Its like he has been drooping clues like he stares at me all the time with this serious look on his face,he saved me one time(if thats what you wanna call it)because I was walking and I wasn`t waching where I was going so I was about to bump into the wall then he said somthing to me then that made me look up,and his friend keeps on looking at me and once he was starring at me so I turend around to look and he quikly turend around.So how do I figure out if he likes me without talking to him and can you give me information on how to tell if a boy likes you.
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Well, I'm wondering why you don't want to talk to him. Sure, it might be embarassing, and you might get turned down, but there's a really big secret about what to do if you get turned down - accept it, and just be like "OK" and move on. OK, so it's not so muhc of a secret, but yeh.
Now, to tell if he likes you, you can never be 100% sure. "A truly wise person is a person who realizes that they know nothing except that they know nothing." If your observations tell you he likes you, then just know that it seems that he does. But you can never be sure unless you get it from him directly.
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Hey. I want to have sex with my boyfriend but I am afraid how much it will hurt. I can't wear a tampon, it hurts so much, does this mean that it will hurt when I first have sex? Should I wear a tampon to get used to this feeling? (link)
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There are cases when a woman has what's called a hard hymen. If this is the case with you, it would be best to have a doctor cut it and open it up.
In the interim, finger yourself. Seriously. Get a finger up there and work yourself. You'll eventually get yourself to the point that it doesn't really hurt, and when it does, it'll feel kinda good, hence the whole "hurts so good" thing.
Have fun. >^.~
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I got my hair dyed like in March professionally, and the hairdresser said to come back every 8 weeks and I can get my roots fixed up for half price. Well it's too late now, because it's 3 months later and my dyes faded, my hairs soo screwed up because i dyed it wayy to many times so it's like 5 different color shades. My mom got her hair dyed professionally, too in about May. She just told me today that she's going to get her hair dyed again, and I've been asking her for sooo long. her hair doesn't even need done, it's like her roots are showing slightly, and my hair looks stupid and she even said it! I help soo much around the house, I'm not really spoiled, I don't ask for much. What's something that I can say or do to my mom to try & get her to let me get my hair dyed NOW!! (link)
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Ask her if you can earn the money to pay for it. Sounds like she's tired of you wasting money on getting it dyed so many times.
Also, tell her you've already got a color you've picked out, and that even if it doesn't look good, you won't get it dyed again until it actually needs to be.
Lastly, ask for permanent dye this time so it won't fade.
She may only let you get your original hair color, but if you don't like what you have right now so much, that's still a step in the right direction.
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I'm 15 and not allowed to wear thongs!
I HATE MY MOTHER, help! (link)
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You're a spoiled brat. Shut up.
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what does it mean to be high matenince?..people tell me i am but i dont know what they mean!...some one tell me what it is and how you know if you are??..thanks so muchh!!! (link)
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It means they think you require too much attention, or that you surround yourself with too much drama. Unable to be pleased, "always" needing something.
Doesn't mean they're right, just means you're not perfect. And that you have things to work on still.
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i am just really hard on myself for not being exactly how i wanna be. i want to be more popular, and a beauty. everyone tells me i am beutiful and i know i am (not to be conceited) but i wish people at school could see it. (or atleast the popular people cuz geeks have crushes on me). just what are some tips to boost my confidence and be everything i wanna be! help! (link)
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Stop giving a shyt about what the popular kids think - they don't really even care about anybody except themselves anyway most of the time. Besides, geeks make better lovers, won't use you just for what they want, and will make more money. Find a guy who you think is attractive, or who you think could be attractive with less than surgery, and who has a good personality.
As far as for yourself, be yourself. The only people who want someone who is putting on an act are the people who just want to use you.
My biggest problem is self-image, too. What helped me was to, in spite of my self-consciousness, just go have fun, whatever that meant (keeping to my morals, of course). "Dance like nobody's watching," 'cause otherwise you'll only ever watch.
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I like two guys and they both like me. I just don't know which one to choose. One is quite good looking, sweet, and I know him really well. The other one isn't so cute, is really sweet, but I don't know him very well. I made out with the second one today and I think if I tell him I want to be friends, I'll break his heart. Which do I pick? The cute marine or the sweet musician? (link)
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Why choose one? Tell them both you want an open relationship, that way you can have them both and get rid of either, or both, later on. Of course, they may not go for that. If not, then pick the one you would rather spend years with. Or, if you want a fling, pick the one who'd be better in bed. It's you who has to decide, so it's all about what you want.
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okay so currently i am at camp, and i ride a bus to and from the camp. there is this really hott guy on the bus and hes really cool and we talk alot but i dont exactly know if he likes me. i have been daydreaming of going out with him and other stuff, but how do you know if a guy likes you? he is a year older than me so would he even be interested in me? also, what are some flirting tips? i really want to be more than friends and make him a summer love. tips? i rate high! ♥ (link)
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Tip: tell him you think he's hot and you wanna mess around with him, if that's the truth. Guys are easy. When you get to college age you'll realize that all you have to do is give a guy a time and place, and 90% of the time, he'll be there.
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Hey! Sorry if this turns up long! But, tomorrow is my boyfriend and I's six month anniversary! I don't have any money to get him anything, but I want it to be special. does anybody have any ideas on what I can make him or give him?! Or w/e... I really would like it! I rate high for good answers and if you want... I'll give feedback! Thanks... (link)
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Get him something that can be built upon and added to as time goes by. It's just a 6-month, though. Wait until the 1-yr for anything big.
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My husband cheated on me and left me for 4 weeks, now he has come back and I'm trying to get past this, but I feel so betrayed and cant stop thinking about them together. I think I still love him and want us to work out, he tells me he loves me and he made a mistake. I thought we were close. The sex has been great since he came back, but I just dont think I can move on. Any advice would be greatfully received. (link)
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Take time apart. Tell him you need time to think, and to decide. If he can't accept that, divorce him. Seriously. If he's going to be a mysogomist like that, he's not worth your time.
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i just need help (link)
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I did that once... looking in the mirror. It was funny. Then I banged my head against the wall. That helped. It hurt, too. But then I stopped. And it felt good. That's why it helped, you know. 'cause it feels good when you stop.
You're you. Get on with your life and enjoy being who you are.
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okay .. one of my really good guy friends is moving away. im 13/f and we just finished 8th grade.. well i want to have a moving party for hym and make it a suprise..
what kind of theme do we need ??
What Gift Should We Give Him??
i rate high bc thys kid is pretty much y best friend (link)
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Give him a cup with a thousand mile long string attached to another cup to call you on.
Ok, seriously, get him something to remember you (or all of you) by. Like a photobook blank unlined diary lookin' thing that everybody can put pictures or little drawings or whatever in. That's what we did for a buddy in high school when he went off to boot camp.
For a theme, whatever you can come up, or none at all. Get his parents to help - they'll be your best resource. A graduation theme might work well, though.
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OKay, well this might be quite odd, but you see I been with this guy for about 4 years, then we broke up b/c our parents starting talking and eventually dating, NOW their getting married. Both of our parents know we dated before, but they think its over, but...its been over, but we still "fool around" if you know what i mean once and a while. I mean, this is the guy that taught me like everything and what i know today is because of him.So anyway, he's coming up aoon for the wedding next week and he wants to ...you no before we are "offically" brother and sister..So should i do some things and have a bit of fun or would it be wrong? (link)
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The fact that he is/is going to be your step-brother doesn't make it wrong. If you two aren't together, why the heck are you fooling around still? Pick one or the other.
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Ok so yesterday i was raped =(....but see the thing is i dont know how to tell my parents....or anyone. I kind of feel embaresed that it happend and idk. But should i tell them and how should I tell them.
thank you soo much (link)
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Let me pose to you this question: Which would you prefer, he (or she) gets away with it and does it to someone else, or people know about what happened and justice takes its course and you move on with your life?
In light of that question, do you really think it matters how uncomfortable it may feel telling your parents about it? Just go one of them and say, "I have something serious I need to tell you," and once you have their attention, just say, "The other night, I was (there), and I was raped." Things will move forward from there.
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I'm 13/f && I'll admit it, I have a big nose. I know I'm too young for plastic surgery but I'm really self consious of it so is there any way I could minimize it? Like is there a way I could do my makeup to make it less noticeable?
xO* GiiRL iiN NEED (link)
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OK, you're 13 - you really don't need to worry about these things. That being said, I'll move on to more important things. Like the fact that women who don't wear makeup look 100 times better than those who try to change their appearance usinig makeup. Because, really people can tell when you do that.
About your nose, seriously, don't worry about it. It's part of who you are, and you are a unique person. Your beauty is what you make of yourself, not what you pay someone else to make of you.
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If you have more than one computer,what is the deal with the internet? can you use the same connection on both computeRs? does it double the pRice?
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That depends on your juju - if you have bad juju, you might have to pay more, if it's even possible at all. To find out if you have bad juju, please contact your Internet Service Provider. If they claim to not know of this juju of which you speak, tell them you want internet for more than one computer and ask what your options are. If you don't like any of the options, you have bad juju.
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