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I'm 18 and about to enter my sophomore year of college. Feel free to ask me questions about anything- I'll try to help in the best way possible! :)

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i wanted to know if a guy cums and gets his cum on his finger and then fingers u can u get pregnant? and is it true when cum hits the air its dead? --- thankss

Yes, it is possible. & no sperm does NOT die when it hits the air.

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does eating a lot of sweedish fish have a laxative affect? like will it give you diarrhea? thanks!

Try reading the back of the bag. I know that some candies, like Sugar Free Russel Strover (sp?) have a laxative effect if you eat too many, it says it- And I know from experience ahah. Other than reading the small print on the back of the bag, I'm not sure.

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okay. i am almost in the 9th grade and my breasts haven't grown any since sixth grade. does this mean that my boobs will grow a lot in the next couple of years? and if so will it hurt a lot? because honetly i can't remember.

It depends. You aren't done growing until you're about 18. My friend was completely flat and she just hit her growth spurt and grew boobs during this past year (10th grade). It all depends on genetics and how far you are in puburty. Just wait a little while.

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I always ache the day after jogging.
What am I doing wrong? I am new at
this by the way.

It's because you're just starting to jog, and your body isn't used to it, and/or you're out of shape. After a few days or a week it will go away.

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ok so, i don't masturbate or anything, and i'm a virgin, i have no bf or anything like that, but when i TALK about sex, like on the internet or something, or when me and some of my guy friends are just joking around, i feel as if, IF i were a guy, i'd have an erection. what's this called? i', very uninformed about sex, because i plan to stay a virgin until i'm married, hopefully, and my family doesnt talk about masturbation or anything like that. so i'm just wondering what this is called when i feel as if i were a guy i'd have an erection?


14/f.

It means that you're getting aroused (turned on/horny). It's okay, and it's perfectly normal, EVERYBODY goes through it. It's your hormones, and of course talking about sex will make you feel that way. If you want to look it up more, check out urbandictionary.com. If you feel this way really strongly, some people masturbate. It's totally up to you.
Btw, you can masturbate & it wouldn't ruin your plans to stay a virgin until you're married -just letting you know. :)

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well im 15/f
and i've never had sex before
but i do use my vibrating shower head as a vibrator, just about every night.

are there any harmful affects of doing this?

and also what are some other things that i can do around the house to get the same pleasure?

thanks in advance

I think that it's pretty safe. If you want to check out more techniques, check out www. solotouch.com , &go to techniques. They have a ton of stuff. :)

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what does it mean when a guy cums? i know this sounds stupid but i am curios.
14/virgin

When ejaculation (cum) shoots out from the penis when he has an orgasm. If you want some more info, check out urbandictionary.com :)

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what if during sex you really have to pee? what do you say to your partner? how do you say it?
female

Hm, I'm still a virgin but I'll try to help you. I would actually try to hold it so I don't ruin the mood. But if you really really really can't wait, maybe you should tell him. Just be like, 'Oh my god, I'm so sorry, but this really is an emergancy. When I come back I promise I'll make it up to you'. Haha. Hope I helped.

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I have a REALLY important ballet thing coming up THIS MONDAY- and I recently gained 7 pounds, but 2 of them I just gained yesterday. I'm PMSing right now, but I need a way to lose these pounds (or at least 2-5 of them) by monday. Today I'm trying to not eat anything, but It's REALLY hard because i'm starving! If I succeed, how many pounds should that take off? (i weigh myself first thing in the morning)

How much green tea do you have to drink to effectively boost your metabolism? The brand I have is called "legends of china" if that helps.



any advice appreciated.

Since you're PMSing, that two/seven pounds is probably just water weight. Don't eat any salty foods, & don't starve yourself- because if you eat one tiny thing, your body will just gain everything back because it was starving. Don't stress, I'm sure that that weight is just because of your period. Try not to worry.

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are negative calories real? or are they simply a myth?

Well, basically negative calories are foods with zero calories, but it burns calories while you eat them, such as celery or watermelon. It's real. But it's not like you burn off the McDonalds you ate earlier after eating some neg cal foods. It's just you're burning while you're eating them. :)

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ok well i'm going to my brothers graduation today and i was wondering what you're supposed to wear to a high school graduation, any help would be appreciated and i kind of need it asap , thanks a ton

I wore a nice skirt and shirt to my sister's graduation. My friend wore a sundress to her boyfriends graduation. You can basically wear anything dressy, but you don't have to go over the top. Even khakis and a nice shirt would be fine.

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ok i want to re-do this question.. if thats ok with you.

I'm currently using Fructis sleek and shine shampoo and conditioner and I don't know why but I don't want to use it anymore. I want a change. Before, I asked you what brands you think are best. Well after reading some of the answers, i did research and changed my minds on some of them.

Pantene IS bad for your hair because they put chemicals in there, and after you use it awhile, your hair starts to turn bad.

Suave is NOT good because it dries out your hair and is cheap

Herbal Essences- Doesn't really do much except make your hair smell nice.


sooo that leaves me hanging by Dove and Sunsilk.

I NEED HELP! if you think that any of the information i've given is wrong, then please explain to me! I don't know why i've become so interested in shampoos but I really want to know what brand is healthy for you and what brands are not.

Any other brands that you want to tell me about that you think work great.

All i'm looking for is something that can make my hair less frizzy, smooth, shiney, soft and great smell.

my hair is straight but sometimes it can be a little wavy, it's allways frizzy.

Like the person below me said, I always mix up my shampoos. I love Dove and Sunsilk, so I recommend them. Dove makes my hair really smooth and soft, and I love the smell of it. Sunsilk has a lot of different products for whatever you're looking for, like if you want less frizzy hair, straighter hair, etc. They all smell good too. If you want something to use to help with your frizz/flatten out your poof a bit, I use Paul Mitchell Super Skinny Serum; you can get it at SuperCuts.



http://www.folica.com/Paul_Mitchell_S_r2155_1.html

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what is the difference between french kiss and like a makeout?

Same thing

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what are some songs about summer that ARENT rap or R&B?

Summertime - Kenny Chesney
Summertime - Sublime

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i need lyrics to swing swing by all american rejects.
please please
thanksomuch
lovekenzie

Days swiftly come and go
I'm dreaming of her
She's seeing other guys
Emotions they stir
The sun is gone
The nights are long
And I am left while the tears fall

Did you think that I would cry
On the phone?
Do you know what it feels like
Being alone?
I'll find someone new

Swing, swing, swing
From the tangles of
My heart is crushed By a former love
Can you help me find a way
To carry on again?

Dreams cast into the sky
I'm moving on
Sweet beginnings do arise
She knows I was wrong
The notes are old
They bend, they fold
And so do I to a new love

Did you think that I would cry
On the phone?
Do you know what it feels like
Being alone?
I'll find someone new

Swing, swing, swing
From the tangles of
My heart is crushed
By a former love
Can you help me find a way
To carry on again?

Bury me
(You thought your problems were gone)
Carry me
(Away, away, away)

Swing, swing, swing
From the tangles of
My heart is crushed
By a former love
Can you help me find a way
To carry on again?

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i want to get a piercing somewhere on my ear that is simple.

i like a certian spot, but im not sure if its pure carlige, or had bones or vessles

http://i52.photobucket.com/albums/g2/peta2piggy/DSCF1959.jpg

i circles the spot in red where i was wondering if thats all pure cartlage

PLEASE only amswer if you are 100% sure! =] thanx

Yes, it's pure cartilige. No bones.

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hey, me and my friend were just going through some of the tampon questions and it just confused me more. See I've had my period for about two years now (I'm thirteen) and I get them pretty heavy. I want to try tampons but I'm scared it will hurt, I'll do it wrong, or I'll gett TSS. I want to try it before my period so I don't like mess up but I've heard it hurts. Is that okay to try before and the first time I try is it going to hurt like crazy?

Never try using a tampon when you're not on your period, it'll hurt like CRAZY! It's not 'wet enough' down there to actually pull the tampon out and it'd kill. Wait until you're on your period. It shouldn't hurt if you do it right, and you won't do it right until you practice. Just be patient and relax when you're trying to do it. After you do it right, you can't even feel it going in!

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Does any know of any ways or methods my gf could use to make me orgasm in my pants? We know it'll be messy, but we're not ready for actual skin yet? thanks!

Since you don't want to touch skin on skin yet, how about she basically massages your through your pants?

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15 f (might be long jsut please bare with me, i will rate!)
ok so i broke up with my bf because i felt we didnt have communication anymore or trust. we were together for 9 months. i still really love him. i asked him for a break but he didnt want it. so now hes always online adn i have the urge to talk to him always, so i aimed him today and he was alwys liek being eman to me. so i told him why are you awlays mean to me like i did something horrible o you. and he said "omfg, the funny thing is that you ask me that! wtf, you know what you did" so he blocked me right after that. i know what i did and i feel horrible for brakign up with him but he had no trust. i still love him though. and i dont know what to do. i know hell unblock me, what should i do? any advice? comments? about us? anything? thanks

Let him cool off for a little bit. Try not to talk to him for a week or so more and then maybe after he unblocks you, that means that he's cooled off. He's just upset that you dumped him, and I know that any guy that gets dumped would be upset, no matter the situation. Once you start talking to him again, tell him that you really do still love him, but the relationship just wasn't working out. You felt like there was no trust and you'd both be happier if you weren't going out. You didn't do it to hurt his feelings or make him made, you just felt like it was the right thing to do. He should cool off eventually. He can't hate you forever. :) Good luck

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how do you exactly tease your hair?

Back-comb it. Instead of combing down, comb up.

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